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Always send a pic of both of us though if im interested in meeting up with someone | |||
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"If you hav'nt seen this asked a million times before then im shocked to my core bigbad!! We don't cos we're not looking for couples
Always send a pic of both of us though if im interested in meeting up with someone"I have seen lots who do but i often wonder why some dont. I would have a hell of a shock if i turned up to a meet and there is the beauty ready for action and this huuuuuuge geezer thingy was breathing down mi neck. Well i am very delicate you know  | |||
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"Not have a male half picture up? Not complaining just wondering why some don’t? " Bet most peeps have different reasons...ours is we dont currently have one of Mr..that doesn't show his face...happy to show full face picks to friends and by pm..no probs...when we take one of his bum...its going on the profile...but it is nice to get a flavour of both the couple and have a pic of both... | |||
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"The majority of couples who have contacted me have no pics of hubby on their profile, not even in private gallery. This is really annoying and is greeted with various responses when a request is made for a pic of both. "Now i just think that's plain weird as its a doddle to take a pic these days even a not so good one in the mirror jobbie.  | |||
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"Not have a male half picture up? Not complaining just wondering why some don’t? " we dont have a male pic up because we are not trying to attract other females,just guys,n straight ones at that,so why would a straight guy one to see the male half of this partnership? | |||
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"The majority of couples who have contacted me have no pics of hubby on their profile, not even in private gallery. This is really annoying and is greeted with various responses when a request is made for a pic of both. "Why would anyone imagine thats ok if they play as a couple ..at least private pics of them both ....how very odd..and does this tactic get them any meets...would be interesting to here..???  | |||
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"Not have a male half picture up? Not complaining just wondering why some don’t? we dont have a male pic up because we are not trying to attract other females,just guys,n straight ones at that,so why would a straight guy one to see the male half of this partnership?" cos even if he is not playing with him it might be nice to know what he looks like maybe???? | |||
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"The majority of couples who have contacted me have no pics of hubby on their profile, not even in private gallery. This is really annoying and is greeted with various responses when a request is made for a pic of both. "What I find even more annoying is when they attach photos to their message and they are all close up flange photos and a face pic of the wife | |||
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"Not have a male half picture up? Not complaining just wondering why some don’t? we dont have a male pic up because we are not trying to attract other females,just guys,n straight ones at that,so why would a straight guy one to see the male half of this partnership? cos even if he is not playing with him it might be nice to know what he looks like maybe????" why? | |||
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"Not have a male half picture up? Not complaining just wondering why some don’t? we dont have a male pic up because we are not trying to attract other females,just guys,n straight ones at that,so why would a straight guy one to see the male half of this partnership? cos even if he is not playing with him it might be nice to know what he looks like maybe???? why?" Its not a necessity but it might be your boss or work college or maybe someone who looks a little intimidating to some and thus the guy not performing? | |||
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"Not have a male half picture up? Not complaining just wondering why some don’t? we dont have a male pic up because we are not trying to attract other females,just guys,n straight ones at that,so why would a straight guy one to see the male half of this partnership? cos even if he is not playing with him it might be nice to know what he looks like maybe???? why?" It could be her brother, uncle, father, grandad, husband and why not ??? | |||
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"Work profession shy lots of reasons. " I can understand that but I'm not suggesting they be available for all to view but they can be hidden in private gallery and attached to messages once a rapport has been built up. | |||
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"Not have a male half picture up? Not complaining just wondering why some don’t? we dont have a male pic up because we are not trying to attract other females,just guys,n straight ones at that,so why would a straight guy one to see the male half of this partnership? cos even if he is not playing with him it might be nice to know what he looks like maybe????" We only meet men together I play hubby doesnt he only watches hence the name lol but I still put a pic or 2 up of him. Why?? Cos if you are coming into my home to meet with us and play with me you may feel uncomfortable not knowing what my husband looks like. We always meet for a non commital coffee first so anyone I wish to meet will see hubby at the same time as me but if you are prepared to travel to me to meet for that coffee I still think I should be honest and say hubby looks like this. I also know I am the worlds worst person for taking pics of anyone even the cat looks nothing like she really does when I take a pic of her, but a body shot of hubby is still there for all to see 
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"Not have a male half picture up? Not complaining just wondering why some don’t? we dont have a male pic up because we are not trying to attract other females,just guys,n straight ones at that,so why would a straight guy one to see the male half of this partnership? cos even if he is not playing with him it might be nice to know what he looks like maybe???? why? Its not a necessity but it might be your boss or work college or maybe someone who looks a little intimidating to some and thus the guy not performing? " I should have waited cos you posted what I was trying to say 
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"Not have a male half picture up? Not complaining just wondering why some don’t? we dont have a male pic up because we are not trying to attract other females,just guys,n straight ones at that,so why would a straight guy one to see the male half of this partnership? cos even if he is not playing with him it might be nice to know what he looks like maybe???? why? It could be her brother, uncle, father, grandad, husband and why not ??? " would never happen,we always exchange face pics before deciding to meet anyone,just dont feel the need to have the males pic on profile,as i said we are trying to attract males for the lady not to have guys attracted to the guy,and if a guy doesnt like our profile he is under no obligation to reply to it | |||
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"why not just let people do what they want to do. Seems just narky to raise it. We don't meet people who don't send us an ordinary 'facebook' picture beforehand but we don't care if you have 1 pic 100 pics or a picture of the tellytubbies on their profile. Profiles are there to 'advertise' YOU so if they think 0 pics works thats their business. If they think a picture of the female works thats their business. " well said | |||
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"Before I rant I should reiterate the point I can understand using only female photos if it is a couple looking for single guys. OK so statistically it is more likely the hubby has the better paid job and thus may be a little more protective of privacy… but why then have the missus plastered all over the profile, face included and sprawled about over their very recognisable living room furniture with a dildo up her? Great, the guy from another couple can see if he’s ok with the hole he’ll be poking but what do the women have to go on? A wing and a prayer that she hopefully had good taste and didn’t marry Herman Munster! I know it is wrong to assume, but it always leads me to believe the man is using the woman as bait and it is men leading the pursuit. Yes I know there will be plenty of exceptions who say this is not the case… I am saying how I perceive it. It’s not rocket science to crop off a head or blur a face on the public profile pics… at least give us a hint of what type of guy he is physically…. Or risk people thinking you think women shouldn’t give a toss or have a say in who they fuck. Ahhhhh that feels better "Well said as always hun | |||
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"why not just let people do what they want to do. Seems just narky to raise it. We don't meet people who don't send us an ordinary 'facebook' picture beforehand but we don't care if you have 1 pic 100 pics or a picture of the tellytubbies on their profile. Profiles are there to 'advertise' YOU so if they think 0 pics works thats their business. If they think a picture of the female works thats their business. " Why narky just a genuine question that's all. Yes it is a choice thing but if your advertising a product then you promote all of it and your profile is basically an advertising tool. I get the people only looking for males and not couples bit but not if your looking for full both way swap. | |||
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"It funny that this is the first post we see today, as in our 'looked at me' list is a couple who's comment goes on about needing to see a picture of the male half in a profile, yet when you open their profile, guess what?" I bet as a couple you scratched your head over that one. | |||
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"It funny that this is the first post we see today, as in our 'looked at me' list is a couple who's comment goes on about needing to see a picture of the male half in a profile, yet when you open their profile, guess what? I bet as a couple you scratched your head over that one. "Yep, in fact we scratched each others' heads and turned it into a sexual moment... We are kinky like that. | |||
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"why not just let people do what they want to do. Seems just narky to raise it. We don't meet people who don't send us an ordinary 'facebook' picture beforehand but we don't care if you have 1 pic 100 pics or a picture of the tellytubbies on their profile. Profiles are there to 'advertise' YOU so if they think 0 pics works thats their business. If they think a picture of the female works thats their business. Why narky just a genuine question that's all. Yes it is a choice thing but if your advertising a product then you promote all of it and your profile is basically an advertising tool. I get the people only looking for males and not couples bit but not if your looking for full both way swap. " Funny you should write this but in another thread you tell a single male 'its your profile you should do what you want with it' We don't think of ourselves as 'product' tah.. why that would lead to all sorts of unfavourable remarks about singles being 'only half a product'. | |||
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"why not just let people do what they want to do. Seems just narky to raise it. We don't meet people who don't send us an ordinary 'facebook' picture beforehand but we don't care if you have 1 pic 100 pics or a picture of the tellytubbies on their profile. Profiles are there to 'advertise' YOU so if they think 0 pics works thats their business. If they think a picture of the female works thats their business. Why narky just a genuine question that's all. Yes it is a choice thing but if your advertising a product then you promote all of it and your profile is basically an advertising tool. I get the people only looking for males and not couples bit but not if your looking for full both way swap. Funny you should write this but in another thread you tell a single male 'its your profile you should do what you want with it' We don't think of ourselves as 'product' tah.. why that would lead to all sorts of unfavourable remarks about singles being 'only half a product'." Naa your taking things out of context. Essentially a profile is an advertisement or why would you put what your looking for. Not exactly a product but your looking to attract attention. I am not saying you should do this or that if you care to look or criticise i am inquisitive on why people do what they do couple wise. If you had a holiday home with a pool you wouldn't have pictures with no pool as the peeps looking for a pool would want pictures of a pool! *grins cheekily at analogy*. As for single guy, well its his profile details not his pictures he was on about as i remember so a little different but i do take your point somewhat. | |||
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"They could be fakes, single women pretending to be couples, just to get emails, chat or even meets "They should be ashamed!!!
Giving us singletons a bad name with their antics!! lol | |||
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"personaly we think all cpls profiles should have pics of both as for jobs shy or wotever reason dont think thats a reason because if your boss or anyone else sees them then thay have seen them here and if thay have then thay are here for the same reason" It's free to sign up here with no real identity check. Do you really believe that there are no non swingers who sign up just to have a mooch about? If a non swinger sees a picture of you and recognises you then an anonymous posting of a screenshot of the picture and page to your employer might just land you in the shite. If you are happy for that to be a possibility, good luck, but why should everyone else have to accept your level of risk. We have never found the need to put pictures on the internet and seem to stumble along quite happily without. We are an equal opportunities profile though, and have the same number of photos of mr as there are of mrs. | |||
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"We could start hundreds of threads on why do people do or don't this, that or the other. Choice if the answer for so many questions like this. Plenty of answers too..... simply overlooked, not many pics of the guy due to it being him that takes the pics, because they believe it's the female that clinches the deal, because it's the guy that uploads the pics and so automatically chooses the ones that appeal to him, or because it's the female that uploads the pics and so she chooses the ones she is most pleased with, because it's often the female half that catches the eye, and so on." Typo, I meant 'choice IS the answer', not choice if the answer, lol | |||
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I'm deffo no oil painting but have a couple of pics on,its only fair,even if it does cost us some meets! R
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"i have to say i think its ridiculous the amount of couples profiles iv seen recently whos usernames are female..whats all that about? "When we first joined, we selected my name as our username,not sure what would and wouldn't be open to general members, when the option became available to change username, we did. | |||
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"personaly we think all cpls profiles should have pics of both as for jobs shy or wotever reason dont think thats a reason because if your boss or anyone else sees them then thay have seen them here and if thay have then thay are here for the same reason" Some people have more to lose than others, hence they don't always post face pics | |||
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"personaly we think all cpls profiles should have pics of both as for jobs shy or wotever reason dont think thats a reason because if your boss or anyone else sees them then thay have seen them here and if thay have then thay are here for the same reason" That's not true at all. Example,we received a message from a guy convinced he knew Ms Rooney, explained where from and her 'real name', even though we explained he was wrong he was adamant he knew her, he then said he would show his mates and they would confirm it. Point is, anyone could be on here, see someone they think they recognise and tell someone else, someone more relevant to that person, not everyone is so discrete about their 'lifestyle'. I also know a nurse that was in trouble for appearing on such sites. | |||
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"because 90% of people on here only direct thier attention to couples for the female half." maybe thats because of the female only photos ???? | |||
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"maybe thats because of the female only photos ???? "we have photos of both lol, cheeky x | |||
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"maybe thats because of the female only photos ????
we have photos of both lol, cheeky x"lol | |||
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"Not have a male half picture up? Not complaining just wondering why some don’t? " Its quite simple. If you have something that isn’t very palatable you don’t advertise it. Couples with only female pictures have a high chance of the male half being no oil painting. It is pointless though as at some point you have to meet so the ugly will get out at some point. The hiders hope that at this stage the personality and interaction to this point will help cover the fact that good looks are not present. | |||
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"Not have a male half picture up? Not complaining just wondering why some don’t? Its quite simple. If you have something that isn’t very palatable you don’t advertise it. Couples with only female pictures have a high chance of the male half being no oil painting. It is pointless though as at some point you have to meet so the ugly will get out at some point. The hiders hope that at this stage the personality and interaction to this point will help cover the fact that good looks are not present." Does it really matter if say a couple is seeking a straight single man? Or would an ugly munter put a single bloke off shagging his gorgeous wife? | |||
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"Not have a male half picture up? Not complaining just wondering why some don’t? Its quite simple. If you have something that isn’t very palatable you don’t advertise it. Couples with only female pictures have a high chance of the male half being no oil painting. It is pointless though as at some point you have to meet so the ugly will get out at some point. The hiders hope that at this stage the personality and interaction to this point will help cover the fact that good looks are not present. Does it really matter if say a couple is seeking a straight single man? Or would an ugly munter put a single bloke off shagging his gorgeous wife? "He would me if he was breathing down my neck or eyeing my buttocks lol | |||
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"we just send face pics when we start talking to people dont have face pics up cos we are paranoid - seemples really " Naaa no need for face pic’s in public if you choose not to. It’s the body bait thing being female body parts only. I just wonder how you attract a strait femme in a couple if there is nothing to go on man wise. | |||
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"Not have a male half picture up? Not complaining just wondering why some don’t? Its quite simple. If you have something that isn’t very palatable you don’t advertise it. Couples with only female pictures have a high chance of the male half being no oil painting. It is pointless though as at some point you have to meet so the ugly will get out at some point. The hiders hope that at this stage the personality and interaction to this point will help cover the fact that good looks are not present. Does it really matter if say a couple is seeking a straight single man? Or would an ugly munter put a single bloke off shagging his gorgeous wife? "Not at all as long as he stopped in the kitchen. I was once put off by a guy eating jam on toast while his mrs entertained me. But an ugly munter watching me certainly wouldn't help. | |||
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"most of the cpls on our private list have a few pics of her on the public profile and then some pics of him on the private gallery. 'Leading' a profile with female pics is a standard practice on all swinging websites and most cpls 'get it'. Are you genuinely worried about it or just posing a fatuous question to have a dig at cpls?" A female friend of mine is part of a couple and they both get contacted by couples.. a lot. Sadly most of these couples: 1) Have a bi female (my friend is straight) 2) Don't display pictures of the male. Hence it doesn't help if she can't see the guy they hope she plays with, when they ask for pictures of the male they get some "standard practise" Reply "pictures of the female should be enough" - very wrong. | |||
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"I guess the female is the carrot dangling before you. You see a drop dead gorgeous female and think wow. Women can do a lot with photo,s to make themselves look better nice lingerie lots of make up ect. Men cant really do all that. But im sure noone in their right mind would meet a couple where they have only seen the female" You hadn't seen Zoe before though lol | |||
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"They could be fakes, single women pretending to be couples, just to get emails, chat or even meets
OOOhh...shite...you have sussed me out..Busted..!! "Sussed ya ages ago missy! xxx | |||
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"They could be fakes, single women pretending to be couples, just to get emails, chat or even meets
OOOhh...shite...you have sussed me out..Busted..!!
Sussed ya ages ago missy! xxx"He is a figment Of my imagination...my swinging life is like something out of "A beautiful mind" or "shutter Island"... I'm sure I did have a man...but I seem to have lost him..??? Should be back..when I pay the ransom money...
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"Not have a male half picture up? Not complaining just wondering why some don’t? Its quite simple. If you have something that isn’t very palatable you don’t advertise it. Couples with only female pictures have a high chance of the male half being no oil painting. It is pointless though as at some point you have to meet so the ugly will get out at some point. The hiders hope that at this stage the personality and interaction to this point will help cover the fact that good looks are not present. Does it really matter if say a couple is seeking a straight single man? Or would an ugly munter put a single bloke off shagging his gorgeous wife?
Not at all as long as he stopped in the kitchen. I was once put off by a guy eating jam on toast while his mrs entertained me.
But an ugly munter watching me certainly wouldn't help."Come on now BB don't you have a snack when you're watching porn?!! | |||
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"lol reading this is funny..... there is only one word for it and i cant think of the right word or spelling dammmm... baaaaaaaa" Eclectic..?? Tangential..?? | |||
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"most of the cpls on our private list have a few pics of her on the public profile and then some pics of him on the private gallery. 'Leading' a profile with female pics is a standard practice on all swinging websites and most cpls 'get it'. Are you genuinely worried about it or just posing a fatuous question to have a dig at cpls? A female friend of mine is part of a couple and they both get contacted by couples.. a lot. Sadly most of these couples: 1) Have a bi female (my friend is straight) 2) Don't display pictures of the male. Hence it doesn't help if she can't see the guy they hope she plays with, when they ask for pictures of the male they get some "standard practise" Reply "pictures of the female should be enough" - very wrong." I have the same issues. Its a couple, they want you to play with both but only seem to have a dozen female pictures and none of him. not even private ones in some cases. | |||
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"Not have a male half picture up? Not complaining just wondering why some don’t? Its quite simple. If you have something that isn’t very palatable you don’t advertise it. Couples with only female pictures have a high chance of the male half being no oil painting. It is pointless though as at some point you have to meet so the ugly will get out at some point. The hiders hope that at this stage the personality and interaction to this point will help cover the fact that good looks are not present. Does it really matter if say a couple is seeking a straight single man? Or would an ugly munter put a single bloke off shagging his gorgeous wife?
Not at all as long as he stopped in the kitchen. I was once put off by a guy eating jam on toast while his mrs entertained me.
But an ugly munter watching me certainly wouldn't help.
Come on now BB don't you have a snack when you're watching porn?!! "Not since the cheesy wotsit incident i don't! | |||
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"Not have a male half picture up? Not complaining just wondering why some don’t? Its quite simple. If you have something that isn’t very palatable you don’t advertise it. Couples with only female pictures have a high chance of the male half being no oil painting. It is pointless though as at some point you have to meet so the ugly will get out at some point. The hiders hope that at this stage the personality and interaction to this point will help cover the fact that good looks are not present. Does it really matter if say a couple is seeking a straight single man? Or would an ugly munter put a single bloke off shagging his gorgeous wife? "If I was a single man and meeting a couple and not seen a ic of the man and he turned out to be a loaf of a man,tall and aggressive looking it would certainly make me feel uncomfy if I felt intimidated and thought he seemed to be agressive kind of person or maybe any kind of man but seemingly he makes all the decisions about who his wife fucks.... the possibilities are endless. It seems sill to not want to see a pic of the man too. | |||
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"cos they're too ugly? Z" ...guess I'm not ugly then lol
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Personally we do have pics of both of us and are not the slightest bit interested in anyone who contacts us if they don't have a picture of both the people we are being requested to meet. We just delete such mails/winks.
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"We've got pics of both of us on public display and if our face pics scare ya, it's yer own fault for lookin' "Some are better than others, so I cover one eye. Got the wrong eye the other night, that was a passion killer... | |||
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"we have body pics of male half on but not really looking for fems but single males but would go on cam for the fem if was meeting a couple that is both of us wouled go on together which have done in the past in the chat rooms" Everyone has to do what they feel comfortable with but for us - no body pic (clothed is fine) of both the people we are going to meet - Delete button, I don't want to log in to the chatroom to see them on cam, we don't have MSN, strangers are not getting our e-mail address to send pics, it's all just wasting our time, "just in case we like the look of them when we eventually get to see them both", ok we miss out on some nice couples, "ce la vie" I really don't see why people can't have clothed body pics in thier profile, face blacked out or facing the other way, face pics can be held in private galleries and sent with the mail when you contact someone. But as I said you have to make your own choice, we choose to lose out on some potential meets - those that don't have pics or pics of only one person or just body parts have made the same choice and are no doubt as happy as us that they miss out on some good meets but still get enough interested people to satisfy thier reason for being on the site. | |||
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"We've got pics of both of us on public display and if our face pics scare ya, it's yer own fault for lookin'
Some are better than others, so I cover one eye.
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"We've got pics of both of us on public display and if our face pics scare ya, it's yer own fault for lookin'
Some are better than others, so I cover one eye.
Got the wrong eye the other night, that was a passion killer...
I can ask Kate to wear a mask if you like " Why didn't I see that coming! | |||
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"Not have a male half picture up? Not complaining just wondering why some don’t? " because swinging is a womans world and they think so long as they have a good looking women it dont matter what they loook like people will meet them anyway | |||
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"Not have a male half picture up? Not complaining just wondering why some don’t? because swinging is a womans world and they think so long as they have a good looking women it dont matter what they loook like people will meet them anyway " Just realised that could be where we're going wrong, we've got pictures of both including face pictures on our private gallery and as she's stunning it must be me putting everyone off | |||
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" Just realised that could be where we're going wrong, we've got pictures of both including face pictures on our private gallery and as she's stunning it must be me putting everyone off "Do ya want to borrow me balaclava? | |||
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" Do ya want to borrow me balaclava? "It could well be the answer
How big is it and would it stretch to cover my body too | |||
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" Do ya want to borrow me balaclava?
It could well be the answer
How big is it and would it stretch to cover my body too " how big d'ya think me 'ed is?
Never seen a hat with sleeves | |||
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"Well one of those old femidoms (do they still make them btw) could well have done it they where bloody huge "Of course they're huge, have you seen the fookin hole they gotta block?
So it's either a big piece of latex or a fookin manhole cover | |||
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"Not have a male half picture up? Not complaining just wondering why some don’t? " Yes, it is very frustrating.. Dave may think "Corr" from looking at her pics, but nothing un suggest un Sarah from the profile as un whether the guy "floats her boat" Then when you mail then and ask to see at least a face pic of him you only get back a cock or body shot.. Are people so naive to think that others will agree to meet up on the basis of such pics? .. .. or do they?? | |||
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"We have face pics on so that people can make a decision without us knowing. It must be a bit of a downer for those couples who are contacted on the strength of her pics, only to be rejected when they send pics of him!
XXXX"Have to admit I find it strange that couples pics mostly show the woman. I think you're right, seeing both parties other couples can make their minds up without you knowing. It can't bother those that only flaunt the female if they're rejected when the male is revealed or they'd change their strategy, surely! | |||
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"We have face pics on so that people can make a decision without us knowing. It must be a bit of a downer for those couples who are contacted on the strength of her pics, only to be rejected when they send pics of him!
XXXX"have to agree with you guys. We rarely send prospecting emails. Anyone who wants to contact us can see us upfront, and they decide if they want to meet us or not. It doesn't make it any easier, but it is flattering to think that another couple find us attractive enough to write too | |||
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" It doesn't make it any easier, but it is flattering to think that another couple find us attractive enough to write too " nail/head comes to mind ... saves the agony of swapping messages then when a face pic arrives for it to be replied to with a Thanks, but no thanks | |||
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