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By *uimlicker OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

We always try to be nice but some take this as an invite to be pushy any one else have this problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. On this profile or the couples one - pushy gets nowhere but a delete and a block !

Not worth stressing over !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh - and couples are just as often as guilty of being pushy too!

An arse is an arse - whether there's just the one, or two of them!

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By *efreeMan
over a year ago

North Staffs


"Oh - and couples are just as often as guilty of being pushy too!

An arse is an arse - whether there's just the one, or two of them! "

I agree there!

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

No but i guess were quite laid back.

We've certainly had pushy people though and if im honest its a bit of a turn off especially when it comes to single guys being pushy. Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh - and couples are just as often as guilty of being pushy too!

An arse is an arse - whether there's just the one, or two of them! "

exactly this.

wanting more than whats available

pushing the boundaries when together

saying exactly how they expect a meet to go.

ridiculous really

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I have experienced both pushy people, and others where it is like trying to get blood from a stone, even when they have made first contact.

I am quite laid back so can quite easily say no thanks and move on if someone is pushy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a problem with pushy people,i just ignore them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get pushy men but once I've said Sorry, no thanks, any messages that come back starting with the dreaded 'but' get deleted. If they persist, I block!

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By *y93Man
over a year ago

London


"Oh - and couples are just as often as guilty of being pushy too!

An arse is an arse - whether there's just the one, or two of them! "

That is so true! But people often generalise and Single Men gets a bad name. Statistically single men on here probably out weights couples and single fem by at least 4 times. So the bad-eggs from Single Men in numbers will seem like loads but I bet you in percentage terms, they are no different to couples.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

We've all got our own priorities and needs, and if others start breaking my boundaries, or disrespecting me, I just use it as a sign of compatibility mismatch. Sometimes noone is wrong, merely wrong for each other. But I do get a sense with some a very strong pushiness. So I walk on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we get any "gut" feelings or see "signals" that spell possible MoodHoover/Weirdo/Freak then we block, keeps this fun.

Just wish I could Block people in real life... may start a new thread on blocking in real life now!!

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

The only 'pushy' experiences I've had of late have been couples. I don't know if the m or f was typing.

I had a clingy insecure single bloke recently but nothing worrying.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Oh - and couples are just as often as guilty of being pushy too!

An arse is an arse - whether there's just the one, or two of them! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its pretty easy to ignore and block. half of these so-called pushy folk wouldnt say boo to a goose in person

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By *uimlicker OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Its sad and off putting most singles are fine just now and again. Thanks you for your time guys xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we get any "gut" feelings or see "signals" that spell possible MoodHoover/Weirdo/Freak then we block, keeps this fun.

Just wish I could Block people in real life... may start a new thread on blocking in real life now!!"

would like to know which we are on that list lol

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"If we get any "gut" feelings or see "signals" that spell possible MoodHoover/Weirdo/Freak then we block, keeps this fun.

Just wish I could Block people in real life... may start a new thread on blocking in real life now!!

would like to know which we are on that list lol"

You're on the funny buy a pint list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always try to be nice but some take this as an invite to be pushy any one else have this problem? "

Sometimes you really do have to tell people to fuck off to make your point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find when I tell them (usually single males)that this will not be going any further. I have to spell it out to them and say "respect my wishes or get blocked"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find when I tell them (usually single males)that this will not be going any further. I have to spell it out to them and say "respect my wishes or get blocked""

Trouble is, some people are so thick that even sarcasm and basic instruction is wasted on them.

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