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What is the fascination of your partner getting fucked in front of you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll ask him later but I suspect it's so he doesn't have to bother himself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because its a lot less awkward that them doing it behind you.

you keep having to turn round

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Somebody has to hold the camera

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somebody has to hold the camera"

THIS

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm always the guy who does the fucking but I like being watched.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get it, but each to their own. I'd hate to see the person I hold most dear in the world being fucked by someone else.

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By *lentyoffun40Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire


"I don't get it, but each to their own. I'd hate to see the person I hold most dear in the world being fucked by someone else. "

Then wtf are you doing on a swingers site

Join e harmony or something !

Ffs !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get it, but each to their own. I'd hate to see the person I hold most dear in the world being fucked by someone else.

Then wtf are you doing on a swingers site

Join e harmony or something !

Ffs !!! "

QUALITY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on here to meet people for sex! I have no partner, so the scenario wouldn't arise for me. I appreciate some people like seeing their partners with others, I wouldn't. It's okay to have different opinions.

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By *andm288Couple
over a year ago

oxford


"I don't get it, but each to their own. I'd hate to see the person I hold most dear in the world being fucked by someone else.

Then wtf are you doing on a swingers site

Join e harmony or something !

Ffs !!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a fascination or obsession for us, but we are open minded, hence why we are on here searching for the right people yo meet, we are openly minded to where we want to spice things up and have other people play with us and watch. I guess ud rather watch than not and be wondering what happened. I like the thought of seeing mrs get fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lentyoffun40Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire


"I don't get it, but each to their own. I'd hate to see the person I hold most dear in the world being fucked by someone else. "

I love seeing my other half being pleasured

It's a fantastic site for one and 2 the relationship is stronger and the trust you have is amazing

The sex we have after is totally different and amazing !

The sex with others is a reaction to a physical need !

We are one of the lucky ones who can separate sex from other feelings !

Just out of curiosity would you fuck someone else's wife or gf ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get it, but each to their own. I'd hate to see the person I hold most dear in the world being fucked by someone else.

Then wtf are you doing on a swingers site

Join e harmony or something !

Ffs !!! "

well, you are open to meeting single guys, so how would you do that without the poster you attacked?

they are here for a reason.

when he gets someone he wants to spend his life with, he probably wont be on here (until the itch needs scratching then will probably open his profile again, but thats another matter)

if people meet singles, then they cant moan about swingles being on here, whether they would want to share their own partner or not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I did couple if times

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I don't think anyone's moaning about singles being on here. It's singles that don't get what swinging is about that are the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get it, but each to their own. I'd hate to see the person I hold most dear in the world being fucked by someone else. "

This "What's yours is mine but what's mine's my own!" attitude is another reason why we never met single guys.

And then people ask why couple's don't see singles as swingers!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first time I watched my then fiancee getting fucked , I didn't know for sure how I would feel . There was a part of me that thought I would be insanely jealous , but even so I felt so turned on at the thought of it I wanted to experience it .

Well , when it happened the jealousy was overtaken by sheer voyeuristic lust !

Oh my .... I knew I had found my nirvana here on earth !

And the sex we had with other when we got home was mindblowing .

So hopefully that may help others understand it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

........Because its really good fun.

What puzzles me more is why anyone would want to watch men play Cricket!

Its what you like that does it for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll ask him later but I suspect it's so he doesn't have to bother himself "

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By *lentyoffun40Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire


"I don't get it, but each to their own. I'd hate to see the person I hold most dear in the world being fucked by someone else.

Then wtf are you doing on a swingers site

Join e harmony or something !

Ffs !!!

well, you are open to meeting single guys, so how would you do that without the poster you attacked?

they are here for a reason.

when he gets someone he wants to spend his life with, he probably wont be on here (until the itch needs scratching then will probably open his profile again, but thats another matter)

if people meet singles, then they cant moan about swingles being on here, whether they would want to share their own partner or not"

Attacked ? Really .

Well ill spell it out

We so meet the odd single guy . But these are chosen very carefully . Mainly single guys we meet at a social event or in clubs . Those that are respectful and understand what swinging is all about .

The reason I so called attacked this post. Is simple . He just doesn't get swinging . There are numerous other sites on the web that cater for his needs . It's clear to me that swinging isn't what he's after , merely fucking other singles

IMO .... This isn't swinging and correct me if I'm wrong ... We are on a swinging site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somebody has to hold the camera"

This and OP because it is enjoyable, a shared fantasy and boundaries set in place, a deep connection and trust is required and without that is when problems arise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll ask him later but I suspect it's so he doesn't have to bother himself "

How lazy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Somebody has to hold the camera

This and OP because it is enjoyable, a shared fantasy and boundaries set in place, a deep connection and trust is required and without that is when problems arise!

"

I love to do that as I have to hold the camera by myself all the time whilst fucking but when ever I said the word swinging to a partner they ran mile away lol

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.


"I'm on here to meet people for sex! I have no partner, so the scenario wouldn't arise for me. I appreciate some people like seeing their partners with others, I wouldn't. It's okay to have different opinions. "

So when you do find a partner you'll immediately give up swinging ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"........Because its really good fun.

What puzzles me more is why anyone would want to watch men play Cricket!

Its what you like that does it for you."

Oh that made me smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get it, but each to their own. I'd hate to see the person I hold most dear in the world being fucked by someone else.

Then wtf are you doing on a swingers site

Join e harmony or something !

Ffs !!!

well, you are open to meeting single guys, so how would you do that without the poster you attacked?

they are here for a reason.

when he gets someone he wants to spend his life with, he probably wont be on here (until the itch needs scratching then will probably open his profile again, but thats another matter)

if people meet singles, then they cant moan about swingles being on here, whether they would want to share their own partner or not

Attacked ? Really .

Well ill spell it out

We so meet the odd single guy . But these are chosen very carefully . Mainly single guys we meet at a social event or in clubs . Those that are respectful and understand what swinging is all about .

The reason I so called attacked this post. Is simple . He just doesn't get swinging . There are numerous other sites on the web that cater for his needs . It's clear to me that swinging isn't what he's after , merely fucking other singles

IMO .... This isn't swinging and correct me if I'm wrong ... We are on a swinging site"

i have no problem knowing the difference between single people and the age old description of what a swinger, or swingers, is supposed to be.

you meet single men from clubs? how do you know they are any more single there than the guys on here?

swinging means many different things to different people, and yes it is supposed to be about sharing yourselves with others, but faced with your good selves asking if they want to play, and being asked what they think swinging is about, im certain people lie through their teeth for the chance to join you in a bit of fun too.

at least this bloke is up front about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll ask him later but I suspect it's so he doesn't have to bother himself "

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I don't get it, but each to their own. I'd hate to see the person I hold most dear in the world being fucked by someone else.

Then wtf are you doing on a swingers site

"

It has a great forum/messageboard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get it, but each to their own. I'd hate to see the person I hold most dear in the world being fucked by someone else.

Then wtf are you doing on a swingers site

Join e harmony or something !

Ffs !!! "

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

You get a different viewpoint - when it's just the two of you, you're too close to see some things, such as how her body flushes as she gets close to cumming.

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By *umbriaman1962Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith


"........Because its really good fun.

What puzzles me more is why anyone would want to watch men play Cricket!

Its what you like that does it for you."

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By *lentyoffun40Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire


"I don't get it, but each to their own. I'd hate to see the person I hold most dear in the world being fucked by someone else.

Then wtf are you doing on a swingers site

Join e harmony or something !

Ffs !!!

well, you are open to meeting single guys, so how would you do that without the poster you attacked?

they are here for a reason.

when he gets someone he wants to spend his life with, he probably wont be on here (until the itch needs scratching then will probably open his profile again, but thats another matter)

if people meet singles, then they cant moan about swingles being on here, whether they would want to share their own partner or not

Attacked ? Really .

Well ill spell it out

We so meet the odd single guy . But these are chosen very carefully . Mainly single guys we meet at a social event or in clubs . Those that are respectful and understand what swinging is all about .

The reason I so called attacked this post. Is simple . He just doesn't get swinging . There are numerous other sites on the web that cater for his needs . It's clear to me that swinging isn't what he's after , merely fucking other singles

IMO .... This isn't swinging and correct me if I'm wrong ... We are on a swinging site

i have no problem knowing the difference between single people and the age old description of what a swinger, or swingers, is supposed to be.

you meet single men from clubs? how do you know they are any more single there than the guys on here?

swinging means many different things to different people, and yes it is supposed to be about sharing yourselves with others, but faced with your good selves asking if they want to play, and being asked what they think swinging is about, im certain people lie through their teeth for the chance to join you in a bit of fun too.

at least this bloke is up front about it"

He may be upfront but we just don't get how he is prepared to fuck someone else's wife or gf but then would hate to see his own gf being fucked by someone else

What are his thoughts about that woman he is fucking? That somehow she isn't worthy or doing something disgusting or wrong ? There must be something that he thinks is wrong or he would have no objections

Screams insecurity to me I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He may be upfront but we just don't get how he is prepared to fuck someone else's wife or gf but then would hate to see his own gf being fucked by someone else

What are his thoughts about that woman he is fucking? That somehow she isn't worthy or doing something disgusting or wrong ? There must be something that he thinks is wrong or he would have no objections

Screams insecurity to me I'm afraid "

dont think im being a littel strange, but how long have you guys used the forums?

there have been a few posts about this kind of thing around, and there are suprisingly a good amount of single people that wouldnt swing with someone they loved.

suppose its up to us, as couples, to decide whether we want them as part of our playtime or not, but i really dont think you would get rid of single people from swinging, as they are still very much in demend, whether they see it as something they would share or jsut shagging someone elses spouse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get it, but each to their own. I'd hate to see the person I hold most dear in the world being fucked by someone else.

Then wtf are you doing on a swingers site

Join e harmony or something !

Ffs !!! "

Bit harsh, you can meet other people besides couples on this site you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll ask him later but I suspect it's so he doesn't have to bother himself "

Especially Shen the footy is on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get it, but each to their own. I'd hate to see the person I hold most dear in the world being fucked by someone else.

Then wtf are you doing on a swingers site

Join e harmony or something !

Ffs !!!

Bit harsh, you can meet other people besides couples on this site you know"

but not in the vein of the question in hand though

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By *hynottsCouple
over a year ago

nottingham


"I'm on here to meet people for sex! I have no partner, so the scenario wouldn't arise for me. I appreciate some people like seeing their partners with others, I wouldn't. It's okay to have different opinions. "

But you want to meet mf cpls so how can you say that when you want to fuck some guys wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on here to meet people for sex! I have no partner, so the scenario wouldn't arise for me. I appreciate some people like seeing their partners with others, I wouldn't. It's okay to have different opinions.

But you want to meet mf cpls so how can you say that when you want to fuck some guys wife "

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By *lentyoffun40Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire


"He may be upfront but we just don't get how he is prepared to fuck someone else's wife or gf but then would hate to see his own gf being fucked by someone else

What are his thoughts about that woman he is fucking? That somehow she isn't worthy or doing something disgusting or wrong ? There must be something that he thinks is wrong or he would have no objections

Screams insecurity to me I'm afraid

dont think im being a littel strange, but how long have you guys used the forums?

there have been a few posts about this kind of thing around, and there are suprisingly a good amount of single people that wouldnt swing with someone they loved.

suppose its up to us, as couples, to decide whether we want them as part of our playtime or not, but i really dont think you would get rid of single people from swinging, as they are still very much in demend, whether they see it as something they would share or jsut shagging someone elses spouse"

I'm not saying they should be banned or we don't want them

We fully appreciate that single blokes are on fab .. We meet them occasionally !

What I'm saying is if he has an issue with the morality of swinging or cannot see how sharing your partner with someone else can be a wonderful thing .. Then why join a swinging site ?

Surely your as well going around town and going on the pull ... Gets a shag . And may just meet the girl of his dreams ... Because I think the likelihood of him meeting a swinging lady who would want to give up swinging when in a relationship is less likely than if he met a non swinging girl

Yes some females would want to give up and very well may do .. Question is would he trust them ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Juicy asked me to answer this one so here goes.

To watch her being dirty with another guy or guys just does it for me. I have never been much of a 'doer' and have always had a voyeuristic nature. I especially love to see her sucking cock (which she does so well)and getting a nice mouthful of cum, or to see her getting it all over her face and tits.

(Plus I'm rubbish at sex so why should she suffer for it!!)

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By *andS4funCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

It's a turn on. Nice to see them enjoy themselves but also see you watching them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Juicy asked me to answer this one so here goes.

To watch her being dirty with another guy or guys just does it for me. I have never been much of a 'doer' and have always had a voyeuristic nature. I especially love to see her sucking cock (which she does so well)and getting a nice mouthful of cum, or to see her getting it all over her face and tits.

(Plus I'm rubbish at sex so why should she suffer for it!!)"

I play with a couple just like this . They absolutely love it , and I like to see people enjoying themselves , so where's the harm .

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"I'll ask him later but I suspect it's so he doesn't have to bother himself "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll ask him later but I suspect it's so he doesn't have to bother himself "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get it, but each to their own. I'd hate to see the person I hold most dear in the world being fucked by someone else.

Then wtf are you doing on a swingers site

Join e harmony or something !

Ffs !!! "

Lol

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