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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'd like to know and hear your stories as to how you approached the subject of swinging or camming etc with your wife, husband, girlfriend etc.

How did is first pop up in conversation or how did you raise the subject?

Cheers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a swinger before I met Andy and he really wasn't interested in joining me for around 18mths.

After 18mths of monogamy I had enough told him firmly that he has no idea what its like if he has never tried it and I dragged him to a club, saying if he still hated the idea afterwards I'd never mention it again... he has been hooked ever since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just straight out asked if she'd be interested in it, turns out she's not but said I could play if I wanted to though.

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By *ingerbicky69Woman
over a year ago

EXETER

Hummm just having this problem now... keeps on changing his mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mentioned it to mine during a very nice sex session and get a resounding - no way - but she said, you go ahead providing I know nothing about it

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By *adyH and GrissomCouple
over a year ago

Llantarnum

I played as that elusive single Bi female before I met him and told him all about my adventures. He was very keen to see me play with another woman so we set up a couples profile and haven't looked back

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By *exydude69Man
over a year ago

Lothian

I have watched programmes on TV about swinging with my wife. I have asked her about trying it, but she isn't sure. Apart from that she is a sexy and open minded lady. Will see if things change in the future.

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

funny how there is answers from folk that partners not do it but they are on here

it was so long ago for me i cant really remember it was my hubby's idea , to enhance our boring lives as we had boring jobs back then , tried to give it up he always wanted to go back to it .

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By *uthLessKnickersCouple
over a year ago

Cornwall/Devon

We have been together for 20 months. Prior to that Ruth was a swinging virgin. But I had had my past moments.

Early on in our relationship we were confessing fantasies as you do. Ruth said that hers was to have two guys at the same time. "I can make that happen" was my quick reply.

The rest is history now and the phrase "like a duck to water" comes to mind. We are having a fantastic time now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This doesn't strictly apply to me at the moment as I'm single but I used to have a lady friend where we both benefitted from mutual fun times. (Yes a fuck buddy). The more we met the more out fantasies expanded until swinging was just the next natural step. Good times ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to know and hear your stories as to how you approached the subject of swinging or camming etc with your wife, husband, girlfriend etc.

How did is first pop up in conversation or how did you raise the subject?

Cheers. "

We were having an honest conversation one night (after a few drinks) about our ultimate fantasies - we both admitted we'd love another woman to join us, and the rest as they say is history!! Best conversation we ever had

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the replies. Keep them coming!

Sounds on a lot of occasions the subject was raised during sex or after a few drinks!

It's always baffled me how a couple would first know the other half would be interested.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Watching a porn DVD filmed in La Chambre together at bedtime, and he asked her if she'd like to try it. She said yes so we went the next Saturday night and we've been swinging ever since - that was 10 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think that the blokes saying their partners don't want to but say carry on regardless are talking bollocks.

They are just hoping the excuse will make them feel better on the fact that they want to cheat! If my husband cheated I'd chop his knob off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mentioned it to mine during a very nice sex session and get a resounding - no way - but she said, you go ahead providing I know nothing about it "

I got exactly the same reply from an ex . She did end up knowing about it and that was that

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