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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would like to meet bi couples for a mfm, I'm listed as straight on profile but I have got thoughts of some scenarios that I would deem acceptable,

Should I know list bi curious?

I'm very much top and all about the femal I love give female oral and playing I would be ok with guy sucking off but my focus would be the female.

I would get off on the fact that the couple are loving both enjoying me more so than the partner sucking me off.....

Long winded I know but I think you know what I'm trying to get at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to meet bi couples for a mfm, I'm listed as straight on profile but I have got thoughts of some scenarios that I would deem acceptable,

Should I know list bi curious?

I'm very much top and all about the femal I love give female oral and playing I would be ok with guy sucking off but my focus would be the female.

I would get off on the fact that the couple are loving both enjoying me more so than the partner sucking me off.....

Long winded I know but I think you know what I'm trying to get at"

Are you bi curious in a way you would suck a guys cock.. we have met guys who say they are into it... but we know that not the case when we get down to it... we dont force it.. just wont re meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Within the right environment And the right people I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Havnt got bi curious on mine .... Totally bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being told to suck a bloke by a women is a fantasy of mine, it has yet to happen, but you never know.

Then I want to be told to suck a lovely t girl, while others watch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Within the right environment And the right people I would "

My suspicion on reading this is that 99.9% of the time you'd only be interested in the female. You don't sound bi curious, just willing if it came to it to take one for the team and put a dick in your mouth for a few seconds if it really meant you'd get to fuck a lady afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Within the right environment And the right people I would

My suspicion on reading this is that 99.9% of the time you'd only be interested in the female. You don't sound bi curious, just willing if it came to it to take one for the team and put a dick in your mouth for a few seconds if it really meant you'd get to fuck a lady afterwards. "

Best way to sort that out is to say the guys play first while the female just watches. It's amazing how many 'bi' guys suddenly disappear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a bi guy whos also dom and top, i find its true alot of guys when it comes to it are ok being sucked or touched by another guy, including all the so called 100% straight ones

Its actually sucking another guy off that is the line to cross that if thats what you want to, then do find a couple open to that and take your time.

It does sound like your heading down the road of exploring your sexuality and all i will say is its the best thing ive ever done being bi.

have met some wonderfully open and liberated people with less hang ups.

No straight sex mmf meets have come close to the bi mmf's ive had over the years!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

god jonessteve I would suck that beauty any day.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Maybe we should get L plate licensing for bi curious? There's boot camp running at mine - you're thrown in to the test room, and dont leave till youve gained a minimum no of points from sucking, fucking, rimming and kissing other guys. Your bi curious license will be stamped with the categories of bicuriousness that you have demonstrated under test conditions to a sufficiently high standard of satisfaction for all parties, including me, the examiner.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Put bi curious and see what happens. Explain what you want in your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe we should get L plate licensing for bi curious? There's boot camp running at mine - you're thrown in to the test room, and dont leave till youve gained a minimum no of points from sucking, fucking, rimming and kissing other guys. Your bi curious license will be stamped with the categories of bicuriousness that you have demonstrated under test conditions to a sufficiently high standard of satisfaction for all parties, including me, the examiner. "

Sounds like you're creating a new category of bi-certified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to meet bi couples for a mfm, I'm listed as straight on profile but I have got thoughts of some scenarios that I would deem acceptable,

Should I know list bi curious?

I'm very much top and all about the femal I love give female oral and playing I would be ok with guy sucking off but my focus would be the female.

I would get off on the fact that the couple are loving both enjoying me more so than the partner sucking me off.....

Long winded I know but I think you know what I'm trying to get at"

I guess i am in same situation.

I like to look and play for guys and ladies on cam and would really love to find a non pushy couple who would explore my curiosities with me in a gentle non rushed atmosphere.

would i suck a guy straight off - no.

go one on one with a guy - not yet but in a mmf situation with a bi/bi curious guy i would have little hesitation in getting my hands on both female and male partners.

when the time feels right with them, who knows about the oral.

i have put bi curious on mine and said 99.9% straight!!

dunno if thats the right thing to do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it!

"Taste like chicken"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go for it!

"Taste like chicken"

Lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put bi curious and see what happens. Explain what you want in your profile. "

Yep would say the same...

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By *A5-1975Man
over a year ago

warrington


"I would like to meet bi couples for a mfm, I'm listed as straight on profile but I have got thoughts of some scenarios that I would deem acceptable,

Should I know list bi curious?

I'm very much top and all about the femal I love give female oral and playing I would be ok with guy sucking off but my focus would be the female.

I would get off on the fact that the couple are loving both enjoying me more so than the partner sucking me off.....

Long winded I know but I think you know what I'm trying to get at"

I recently have had similar thoughts. Not done anything with a guy or even 3way with mf, but curious. Doubt I would want to touch the guy, think I'd be ok with mutual (self) sank, and him and her playing with me.

Does that mean I am bi ? bi curious ? curious ?

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

Its a hell of a horny experience playing with a couple if the guy is bi. Sharing his cock with the lady is gorgeous... Sorry getting horny here..

Just go for it, if you enjoy it, great, do it again. If you don't, just put it to experience.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Ref the labels, theyre largely of benefit to help others quickly and easily to grasp where our sexual interest lies. The reality of human sexual orientation is vastly diverse, including romantic as well as sexual physical contact interests. Such tight squeezing of massively different people into 3 or 4 narrow definitions can male some people naturally uncomfortable. I was largely tongue in cheek in my post above, and I feel compassion for others who struggle to come to terms with such issues. In the ideal world, if we were just animals, we'd show some sexual interest to potential mates, and then go for it and enjoy or not. As humans, we instil doubt and social conformity onto people, which puts barriers against free minded expression of ourselves. Think less, express yourself as well as enjoy life more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ref the labels, theyre largely of benefit to help others quickly and easily to grasp where our sexual interest lies. The reality of human sexual orientation is vastly diverse, including romantic as well as sexual physical contact interests. Such tight squeezing of massively different people into 3 or 4 narrow definitions can male some people naturally uncomfortable. I was largely tongue in cheek in my post above, and I feel compassion for others who struggle to come to terms with such issues. In the ideal world, if we were just animals, we'd show some sexual interest to potential mates, and then go for it and enjoy or not. As humans, we instil doubt and social conformity onto people, which puts barriers against free minded expression of ourselves. Think less, express yourself as well as enjoy life more "
if a guy wants to suck cock he aint straight.....label or no label

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By *ingerbicky69Woman
over a year ago

EXETER

If thats your thing go for it! But be honest to yourself and others. I had a few meets with a fella who was very confused about him self. Hes going through women like nobody's business trying to prove hes not gay,has his way then treats the poor lass like shit because he cant deal with him self. Really sad and disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So why did you meet him more than once?

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By *ingerbicky69Woman
over a year ago

EXETER

Ah because he hid it very well even hid it from him self.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MilfHunter12 If you are bi curious say so in the tick box, THEN extend that narrow selection on your profile to assist you in taking the journey at your own pace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah because he hid it very well even hid it from him self."

I meant if he treated you like shit afterwards?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if people are curious thats fine, no problem with that. You know if you're curious, as I did, and took it to the point of meeting a guy 1-on-1 and trying it.

What I have a problem with is guys like the OP, who say they MIGHT try it with a guy but ONLY if a woman is present and they get to play with her too. That just sounds like taking one for the team if it increases your chances of getting some pussy.

If you're properly bi-curious you'd want to try it with someone alone surely?

When you were looking to lose your straight viginity did you insist on a member of the opposite sex being there too?

Of course not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if people are curious thats fine, no problem with that. You know if you're curious, as I did, and took it to the point of meeting a guy 1-on-1 and trying it.

What I have a problem with is guys like the OP, who say they MIGHT try it with a guy but ONLY if a woman is present and they get to play with her too. That just sounds like taking one for the team if it increases your chances of getting some pussy.

If you're properly bi-curious you'd want to try it with someone alone surely?

When you were looking to lose your straight viginity did you insist on a member of the opposite sex being there too?

Of course not. "

On the last paragraph I meant SAME sex, before the wisecracks start!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if people are curious thats fine, no problem with that. You know if you're curious, as I did, and took it to the point of meeting a guy 1-on-1 and trying it.

What I have a problem with is guys like the OP, who say they MIGHT try it with a guy but ONLY if a woman is present and they get to play with her too. That just sounds like taking one for the team if it increases your chances of getting some pussy.

If you're properly bi-curious you'd want to try it with someone alone surely?

When you were looking to lose your straight viginity did you insist on a member of the opposite sex being there too?

Of course not. "

Not necessarily!

My first orally bi experience was with a couple - and i haven't looked back since!

No interest in meeting guys 1-2-1 at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just give it a go what's the worst that could happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it something that happened in the heat of the moment or was it planned Obi?

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By *ingerbicky69Woman
over a year ago

EXETER

Well said jodie.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was it something that happened in the heat of the moment or was it planned Obi?"

Heat of the moment. They asked if I'd mind - i said no. We played, i enjoyed it - and I've done it again with other couples as well as MMF and MMMF fun with Fox. But no interest in 1-2-1's with guys and I've certainly never used it as a means to getting a bunk up with the female half of a couple - its often been purely soft swing threeway oral meets.

And having 'curious' on my profile and an explanation in the text has never impacted on my interactions on here. Honesty is always the best policy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was it something that happened in the heat of the moment or was it planned Obi?

Heat of the moment. They asked if I'd mind - i said no. We played, i enjoyed it - and I've done it again with other couples as well as MMF and MMMF fun with Fox. But no interest in 1-2-1's with guys and I've certainly never used it as a means to getting a bunk up with the female half of a couple - its often been purely soft swing threeway oral meets.

And having 'curious' on my profile and an explanation in the text has never impacted on my interactions on here. Honesty is always the best policy! "

I saw that. "Bi-playful" I know that bisexuality is a big spectrum with straight at one end and gay at the other, but that's proper teetering on the chasm between straight and "ever ever so slightly Bisexual on a good day!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was it something that happened in the heat of the moment or was it planned Obi?

Heat of the moment. They asked if I'd mind - i said no. We played, i enjoyed it - and I've done it again with other couples as well as MMF and MMMF fun with Fox. But no interest in 1-2-1's with guys and I've certainly never used it as a means to getting a bunk up with the female half of a couple - its often been purely soft swing threeway oral meets.

And having 'curious' on my profile and an explanation in the text has never impacted on my interactions on here. Honesty is always the best policy!

I saw that. "Bi-playful" I know that bisexuality is a big spectrum with straight at one end and gay at the other, but that's proper teetering on the chasm between straight and "ever ever so slightly Bisexual on a good day!""

Labels - shmabels!!

If its fun and all parties are happy - all good.

If its used as a substitute for what you really want or as a means of getting a result - not what I'd class as fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, if you kind of try it in the heat of the moment and are happy to do it again, or like I did seek someone out to do it with.

But not only wanting to do it if theres a woman there too. A person who wants that isn't curious.

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By *awfleshMan
over a year ago

Brixton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe we should get L plate licensing for bi curious? There's boot camp running at mine - you're thrown in to the test room, and dont leave till youve gained a minimum no of points from sucking, fucking, rimming and kissing other guys. Your bi curious license will be stamped with the categories of bicuriousness that you have demonstrated under test conditions to a sufficiently high standard of satisfaction for all parties, including me, the examiner. "

Hahaha brilliant.. I'm in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what feels right to you, you will alienate some women and couples, and attract more men, depends how comfortable you are with your sexuality.

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester


"Maybe we should get L plate licensing for bi curious? There's boot camp running at mine - you're thrown in to the test room, and dont leave till youve gained a minimum no of points from sucking, fucking, rimming and kissing other guys. Your bi curious license will be stamped with the categories of bicuriousness that you have demonstrated under test conditions to a sufficiently high standard of satisfaction for all parties, including me, the examiner.

Hahaha brilliant.. I'm in! "

me too lol

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By *ingerbicky69Woman
over a year ago

EXETER

I really have found that it is a journey of the soul. Top tip.try and meet good like minded people who you can be yourself with, whatever that maybe. People that matter dont care about what box you want to put yourself in.and those people that do care dont matter in your life.xxx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I do think some bicurious guys would have more luck in the long term, if they did a 1to1 meet with a guy, so theyve got something under their belt, so to speak, experience wise. Mf bi couples would be much more likely to meet someone who has at least made an effort to confirm their interest, as well as develop their talents. Whilst the same guy may later only meet for 3 ways etc, it will help prove he's not just using the label as a tool to ensnare couples, who may end up being unsatisfied with a non-bi male at a meet. Most decent fit guys could get some bi experience within hours, if they put their minds to it. Where a profile keeps bicurious on it for months, without activity, it hints that there is minimal or no interest.

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By *1ckeyMan
over a year ago

Camberley


"god jonessteve I would suck that beauty any day."

I know what you mean, shame he's so far away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've taken the leap of faith so let's see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think to be able to join a couple where the male is bi and for everybody to FULLY enjoy it you have to have some experience of playing with men. Just imagine you have spoken about it imagines a what your gonna do then you turn up get down to it and decide you don't like it, that could get awkward and quick thus ruining it for all. I did quite a few 1-2-1 meets with men before we decided to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My guy is straight but we have both sucked a guy off together lol x

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester


"My guy is straight but we have both sucked a guy off together lol x"
nom nom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know your top if only ever had thoughts

I have lost count the time so called straight guys on this site email saying there bi but down as straight.

Just man up!

All you guys love it when a women puts down bi!

Wots the big deal about you putting down...dont need to panic,your not gay your just greedy hehehe

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