FabSwingers.com forum: unprecedented level of bitchyness on this site

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A lot of bitchyness and conflict on this site but it is to be expected when humans come into contact with eachother

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I take it you too dont like the government either .. how am I supposed to put this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definately there are a variety of people on here so not all get on x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It's not that bad,

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

What confuses me most is that people seem to think that signing up to a swinger site makes you a different human being somehow and even worse are consistently surprised at people oddly enough still being people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't find it like that at all,but then I keep myself to myself,only worry about those im interested in and don't get involved with other peoples dramas

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

What did I miss?

(Again)

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"I don't find it like that at all,but then I keep myself to myself,only worry about those im interested in and don't get involved with other peoples dramas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What confuses me most is that people seem to think that signing up to a swinger site makes you a different human being somehow and even worse are consistently surprised at people oddly enough still being people on here.

I think, they think because we all want fun we must therefore all have the same personalities and views. Varity makes the world go round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we're all swingers so we must all think the same and ignore personal morals!!

OP...there is some bitchyness, but you'll never get rid of that in any walk of life so you've even less chance when people can hide behind the keyboard. I don't think it's that bad though...don't think I could take part in the forums if it was because I can't be arsed with it!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I don't find it like that at all,but then I keep myself to myself,only worry about those im interested in and don't get involved with other peoples dramas

I'm inclined to agree but I do sometimes get involved if I think someone is being treated a but unfairly. I tend to plough my own furrow anyway much like you, it doesn't make for popularity though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of bitchyness and conflict on this site but it is to be expected when humans come into contact with eachother "

yes there is.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"A lot of bitchyness and conflict on this site but it is to be expected when humans come into contact with eachother "

but then... arent you now guilty of the same thing...

this is basically a "firebomb" thread... it serves nothing but to enflame a situation....

if swinging is a snapsnot of the general population, then of course not everyone is going to get on.. its called life... but what positive purpose does highlighting that fact do???

you may all some of it conflict, when some of it is disagreement...

you may call it bitchyness, others may call it debating an opinion.....

we are not all going to see something the same way... and if we did, it would be a bloody boring site...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't find it like that at all,but then I keep myself to myself,only worry about those im interested in and don't get involved with other peoples dramas

Too right we keep ourselves to ourselves its the best way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't find it like that at all,but then I keep myself to myself,only worry about those im interested in and don't get involved with other peoples dramas

I'm inclined to agree but I do sometimes get involved if I think someone is being treated a but unfairly. I tend to plough my own furrow anyway much like you, it doesn't make for popularity though

Ah I was speaking more generally about swinging life and not the forums

But yes I agree with you,having a strong or individual opinion is'nt always appreciated on the forums ....hey ho!

saves me writing loads of christmas cards

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By *rencherMan
over a year ago

Derby

If people want to bitch and whine let em!!

I won't be loosing any sleep over it...

Here for fun...not fall outs

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

found it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If people want to bitch and whine let em!!

I won't be loosing any sleep over it...

Here for fun...not fall outs

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of bitchyness and conflict on this site but it is to be expected when humans come into contact with eachother "
..You got that right on there.xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I don't find it like that at all,but then I keep myself to myself,only worry about those im interested in and don't get involved with other peoples dramas

I'm inclined to agree but I do sometimes get involved if I think someone is being treated a but unfairly. I tend to plough my own furrow anyway much like you, it doesn't make for popularity though

Ah I was speaking more generally about swinging life and not the forums

But yes I agree with you,having a strong or individual opinion is'nt always appreciated on the forums ....hey ho!

saves me writing loads of christmas cards

I see, I misunderstood. Lol about Christmas cards

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I like to read other peoples opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't find it bitchy on here, it's the clubs that can be bitchy.

Some women give me the evils when I'm walking around the club, standing around talking to people.

As the saying goes " smile it confuses people"

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes it feels like there is an 'in crowd' and I'm in the 'out lane'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What have I done now

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Yeah it can be, although most bitchy comments are dressed up as a joke by putting "lol" or a smiley on the end.

A fair bit of it is mistaken for bitchyness but is banter.

Sometimes it is hard to keep up with as you never know who has fell out with who so if you report the posts Admin can check them out.

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By *iccardaTV/TS
over a year ago

Wallasey

there are worse sites than this for bitching should start a chart just hear Casey Kasem doing the count down now lol

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