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By *enderbycouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

derbyshire or localish

Don't you just love it , after a fantastic meet and your wife telling you all the details , then the reclaim sex,, totally mind blowing,, and that's why we simply love swinging x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what is reclaim sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is reclaim sex?"

Sounds a bit too " ownie"

But I am guessing the wife plays seperately then comes back and tells the hubby, he then reclaims her via having sex with her!!

I could be very wrong though

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By *enderbycouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

derbyshire or localish


"what is reclaim sex?

Sounds a bit too " ownie"

But I am guessing the wife plays seperately then comes back and tells the hubby, he then reclaims her via having sex with her!!

I could be very wrong though "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is reclaim sex?

Sounds a bit too " ownie"

But I am guessing the wife plays seperately then comes back and tells the hubby, he then reclaims her via having sex with her!!

I could be very wrong though

"

so is it that then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is reclaim sex?"

You take her to the tip and have her up against the compostables skip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is reclaim sex?

You take her to the tip and have her up against the compostables skip."

No, it's when you pick a partner off of a conveyer belt, like baggage reclaim at the airport ... It's also know as Yo! Sushi sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get what op means and it's mmmm ... To have them reassert themselves over you.. mmmm

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

First word that came to my mind was 'recycled' - glad its no longer in my mind now.

Can kind of imagine how 'loving' this must be, if thats the right word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well if so, it seems a little yuk.

must be a full swap thing as i have never felt i need to stick my dick in V's mouth better than the last bloke, or suck her pussy better to prove a point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well if so, it seems a little yuk.

must be a full swap thing as i have never felt i need to stick my dick in V's mouth better than the last bloke, or suck her pussy better to prove a point."

It's not about doing it better... As to be honest I can't see how anyone would better what a couple share together

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands


"Don't you just love it , after a fantastic meet and your wife telling you all the details , then the reclaim sex,, totally mind blowing,, and that's why we simply love swinging x"

We get you.

Its one of the best parts for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't stand the word reclaim......we are equal

Well im in charge he just has trouble understanding that sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

then im happy to completely miss the point.

have never had 'reclaim' anything after a meet.

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By *enderbycouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

derbyshire or localish

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By *enderbycouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

derbyshire or localish


"well if so, it seems a little yuk.

must be a full swap thing as i have never felt i need to stick my dick in V's mouth better than the last bloke, or suck her pussy better to prove a point.

It's not about doing it better... As to be honest I can't see how anyone would better what a couple share together "
exactly

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By *enderbycouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

derbyshire or localish


"Don't you just love it , after a fantastic meet and your wife telling you all the details , then the reclaim sex,, totally mind blowing,, and that's why we simply love swinging x

We get you.

Its one of the best parts for us. "

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"what is reclaim sex?"

it's when the hubby/mrs stamps their mark on their spouse - post meet, I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well if so, it seems a little yuk.

must be a full swap thing as i have never felt i need to stick my dick in V's mouth better than the last bloke, or suck her pussy better to prove a point.

It's not about doing it better... As to be honest I can't see how anyone would better what a couple share together exactly"

ok, this doesnt make it any clearer lol.

im not being purposely argumentative.

i jsut dont get it.

its not about doing something better

nothing gets close to what a couple has, which i agree with, btw

so what makes it reclaim sex?

surely its just horny sex basking in the light of what has been a good evening, either singularly or as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is reclaim sex?

it's when the hubby/mrs stamps their mark on their spouse - post meet, I think"

dude, i got it wrong all on my own lol.

i dont need you to be here getting it wrong with me

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"what is reclaim sex?

it's when the hubby/mrs stamps their mark on their spouse - post meet, I think"

O think it's more a Dom/sub thing maybe. The Dom has leant his sub to someone else for fun and sex the he 'reclaims' her as his.

That's my take on it anyway

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"what is reclaim sex?

it's when the hubby/mrs stamps their mark on their spouse - post meet, I think

dude, i got it wrong all on my own lol.

i dont need you to be here getting it wrong with me "

ok, read the "exactly" response and yeaaaah.. I'll go catch the bus and sit, trying to look cool .. knowing that, I am on a bus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe reclaim is not the best term but I also get what the OP means by it.

We played with other couples on Saturday night and the Sunday morning hotel sex was unreal! We discussed all the naughty details and what we enjoyed about the swinging. That to me is reclaim sex and doesn't have to be a dom sub thing.

Seems pretty normal for most couples

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By *enderbycouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

derbyshire or localish


"Maybe reclaim is not the best term but I also get what the OP means by it.

We played with other couples on Saturday night and the Sunday morning hotel sex was unreal! We discussed all the naughty details and what we enjoyed about the swinging. That to me is reclaim sex and doesn't have to be a dom sub thing.

Seems pretty normal for most couples "

Exactly

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Maybe reclaim is not the best term but I also get what the OP means by it.

We played with other couples on Saturday night and the Sunday morning hotel sex was unreal! We discussed all the naughty details and what we enjoyed about the swinging. That to me is reclaim sex and doesn't have to be a dom sub thing.

Seems pretty normal for most couples

Exactly "

you definitely do not want to meet me then. Pmfsl

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

had a fella want me to meet another bloke and then him come back and fuck me no way for one he was asking me to do unsafe sex and disrespectful to treat me or my meet that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is reclaim sex?"

Its when you go up to someone and get sex they owe to you

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By *econdhand RoseWoman
over a year ago

Nr Dumfries

We call it reclaiming and we both love it. It's our special time together, reaffirming our love, our togetherness and the fact that we are confident enough as a couple to play separately. It works whether its after an independent meet or playing as a couple with others. It's a time of tenderness and love for us and it's always a very special time.

Vixen xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We call it reclaiming and we both love it. It's our special time together, reaffirming our love, our togetherness and the fact that we are confident enough as a couple to play separately. It works whether its after an independent meet or playing as a couple with others. It's a time of tenderness and love for us and it's always a very special time.

Vixen xx

"

Can I reclaim some off you

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands


"We call it reclaiming and we both love it. It's our special time together, reaffirming our love, our togetherness and the fact that we are confident enough as a couple to play separately. It works whether its after an independent meet or playing as a couple with others. It's a time of tenderness and love for us and it's always a very special time.

Vixen xx

Well said.

To us, its getting each other back. Its extremely passionate. Very very special indeed...xx

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Could always just urinate on her to reclaim your turf

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By *enderbycouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

derbyshire or localish


"Could always just urinate on her to reclaim your turf"

What a pathetic thing to say

Nob head!!!!!!!

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By *uthLessKnickersCouple
over a year ago

Cornwall/Devon

We really enjoy lending each other out to fuck others then 'reclaiming' each other after the meet for some fantastic reaffirming love making.

It makes us incredibly close to each other. In our eyes is the greatest expression of trust, allowing a partner to 'stray' knowing he/she is coming back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy reacquainting ourselves with each other after a meet...memories of what happened enhance that as does open conversation about how we felt during it...no need to "reclaim" as nobody else has claimed any part of what we share...it's an important distinction to us...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could always just urinate on her to reclaim your turf"

*snort*

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By *uthLessKnickersCouple
over a year ago

Cornwall/Devon


"We enjoy reacquainting ourselves with each other after a meet...memories of what happened enhance that as does open conversation about how we felt during it...no need to "reclaim" as nobody else has claimed any part of what we share...it's an important distinction to us..."

We think you are saying pretty much the same as us in different words. In our eyes even with a meet outside our relationship there is a level of emotion involved. It is not just cold sex that we grant to others. Good sex with whomever needs a connection, and we guess that what we are saying is that we reclaim that emotion. If that makes sense.

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over a year ago

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

I get it...but then I'm a single bloke who plays with couples. I think people may read too much into the word re-claim. I've often met ladies from cples where after an intial meet the wife/ g/f may fly solo. We have fun, but I know the "important" sex is what happens when they get back together afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We enjoy reacquainting ourselves with each other after a meet...memories of what happened enhance that as does open conversation about how we felt during it...no need to "reclaim" as nobody else has claimed any part of what we share...it's an important distinction to us...

We think you are saying pretty much the same as us in different words. In our eyes even with a meet outside our relationship there is a level of emotion involved. It is not just cold sex that we grant to others. Good sex with whomever needs a connection, and we guess that what we are saying is that we reclaim that emotion. If that makes sense."

It does make sense but is not really similar..while we don't have cold sex, it doesn't touch our emotions at all so we have no need to reclaim anything because nothing has been exchanged emotionally...

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"We call it reclaiming and we both love it. It's our special time together, reaffirming our love, our togetherness and the fact that we are confident enough as a couple to play separately. It works whether its after an independent meet or playing as a couple with others. It's a time of tenderness and love for us and it's always a very special time.

Vixen xx

"

We've never called it 're-claiming' and can see why the word has different connotations for some.

Love those moments of intimacy with my boy after we've played, love discussing the details, talking about what we enjoyed and found horny and feeling the strength of the connection between us.

Agree with Cali too - it's not about being "better"

Ruby x

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By *cott katieCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury Shropshire

I get want the OP means x after meet sex with your partner is hot & horny xx

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Don't you just love it , after a fantastic meet and your wife telling you all the details , then the reclaim sex,, totally mind blowing,, and that's why we simply love swinging x"

I don't know why people are struggling, I totally get what you mean despite not being a real swinger! When I was young I had a passionate lover for two years and we split for a month at my instigation and then got back together. The first time after was one of the most memorable of my life, the vibe from him was so intense!

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Could always just urinate on her to reclaim your turf

What a pathetic thing to say

Nob head!!!!!!! "

Thank you

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