FabSwingers.com forum: Bi fems

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just asking for opinions but im starting to think some single girls only say their bi curious to attract men? I may be completely wrong and maybe they just don't want to meet me : (

What are your experiences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmm ... well the fact they are bi does indicate they like cock too . Often more so .

Many are attached too , and only meer with their partner .

Then there are the bi playful who only play with other girls as part of the meet .

Frustrating I guess but I guess it makes a change for a single bi female to struggle to find a meet

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I'm bi but don't like to meet fems one on one.

I have in the past but nah.. I still want a male there..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm bi but don't like to meet fems one on one.

I have in the past but nah.. I still want a male there..

I always offer a man in the mix either theirs or my choice but still so hard ti meet. Couples are much easier to meet and of course men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a single bi fem profile at one point just to meet women, but it was a complete waste of time. I was only contacted by couples, offering he can just sit and watch

and I think I had maybe one reply from a bi fem that led to nothing.

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By *hocksandmissusCouple
over a year ago

Chester-ish

I am also a bi fem do so love another woman to play with but I am also married and we do like to do every thing together. If is a single bi fem you are after good luck with that as most of them come attached in one way or another even if it doesn't say so on there profile xxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm bi but don't like to meet fems one on one.

I have in the past but nah.. I still want a male there..

I always offer a man in the mix either theirs or my choice but still so hard ti meet. Couples are much easier to meet and of course men"

so, if they were being bi to attract a man, that would be right up their street surely?

cant see why a woman would say she likes women to attract men, is just doesnt make sense.

attracting couples then yes, but not blokes.

what advantage would a bloke get from getting it on with a bi female?

that said, yes, the vast majority of bi women on here are bi simply in a meet/sex sense and wouldnt be interested in having a long term relationship with another woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm bi but don't like to meet fems one on one.

I have in the past but nah.. I still want a male there..

I always offer a man in the mix either theirs or my choice but still so hard ti meet. Couples are much easier to meet and of course men

so, if they were being bi to attract a man, that would be right up their street surely?

cant see why a woman would say she likes women to attract men, is just doesnt make sense.

attracting couples then yes, but not blokes.

what advantage would a bloke get from getting it on with a bi female?

that said, yes, the vast majority of bi women on here are bi simply in a meet/sex sense and wouldnt be interested in having a long term relationship with another woman."

I think that's the same for most bi guys too. Your last sentence describes me and Mr Notts to a tee.

we are bi-meetable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm bi but don't like to meet fems one on one.

I have in the past but nah.. I still want a male there..

I always offer a man in the mix either theirs or my choice but still so hard ti meet. Couples are much easier to meet and of course men

so, if they were being bi to attract a man, that would be right up their street surely?

cant see why a woman would say she likes women to attract men, is just doesnt make sense.

attracting couples then yes, but not blokes.

what advantage would a bloke get from getting it on with a bi female?

that said, yes, the vast majority of bi women on here are bi simply in a meet/sex sense and wouldnt be interested in having a long term relationship with another woman.

I think that's the same for most bi guys too. Your last sentence describes me and Mr Notts to a tee.

we are bi-meetable

we would love to describe V as bi-playful, but there is no option.

she has no interest in women 'in that way' outside of the play arena, as it were, so strictly speaking isnt bu

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

"I am also a bi fem do so love another woman to play with but I am also married and we do like to do every thing together. If is a single bi fem you are after good luck with that as most of them come attached in one way or another even if it doesn't say so on there profile xxxxxxxxxxx"

Really?? Ok someone tell me where my 'attached' is please

Those 'single women' that arn't single women are infact dishonest couples or not?

Some single women meet other single women, some dont. Simply genuine single women are in the smallest percentage, so it takes time to find them. Personally I have found though that once women become friends, they stay friends

And I get messages from other single women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know how it could be a problem to be honest. And I am genuinely single and not hiding anything

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

'What advantage would a male have by meeting a single female?'

Simply the higher chance of the illusive ffm.

If your bi female friend has bi female friends .... where as if your straight female friend has female friends; where would you place your odds for a ffm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we would love to describe V as bi-playful, but there is no option.

she has no interest in women 'in that way' outside of the play arena, as it were, so strictly speaking isnt bu"

I would also prefer bi playful option xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really?? Ok someone tell me where my 'attached' is please

Those 'single women' that arn't single women are infact dishonest couples or not?

And I get messages from other single women

I agree...I am part of a couple, but meet single ladies on my own(through my profile) I love it!.....and yes you can become great friends

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I am bi without a doubt. I adore get to get saucy with another lady but onky meet and play with very few other single bi fems. I adore playing with a couple with another bi fem.

I play for me and make my own choices. I do agree that there are some ladies only doing it to please the hubby. But then there will be some men doing it to please their wives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am bi and single and my last bi meet was with a couple.Was not the best of meets plus it was not until we kissed that I discovered she was a smoker..Ewwww not nice, so just meet men now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I'm bisexual but I had to remove that I was looking for single women because there were too many fakes (and some were clever fakes) messaging me.

I don't think that women pretend to be bi online to get guys. Think of the ratio of guys to girls. I do think some girls use the bi label to attract guys in clubs, but that is usually about titilation. Can't see how they can work that in on the net.

It seems that most of the fake women online are listed as bi or sometimes lesbian.

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By *r riverMan
over a year ago

Stamford

Is there any hotels or clubs/ pubs in Suffolk that my wife and I go to slowly get into swining?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi and unattached and find it impossible to meet other single girls.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

I'm bi but I do get a little confused. I used to think bi, means bi, but then there was bi curious??

I don't know if that means you like tits but not pussy, or just that you can put up with it for the sake of the meeting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've put straight just because I want cock....in fact im bi but very picky... I get fed up in being inboxed from couple's. .. if I want a couple I'll inbox them. .if I get knocked back that's fine

Not everyone fancies every one ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just asking for opinions but im starting to think some single girls only say their bi curious to attract men? I may be completely wrong and maybe they just don't want to meet me : (

What are your experiences?

Single gay/bi hard to come by. That you find attractive even harder to come by. Single gay/bi, attractive and that doesn't throw in a 'partner to watch' rarer still. But there is the odd one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just asking for opinions but im starting to think some single girls only say their bi curious to attract men? I may be completely wrong and maybe they just don't want to meet me : (

What are your experiences?

When you seek out female profile do you put in 'Female looking for Female'? Must admit I've never looked myself, but surely this will bring up single bi women in your area? Narrow the filters to verified only and you should be more likely to find genuine single bi women? Or do you wait to be contacted by women who may not be entirely what you're looking for?

I have put bi-curious on my profile because that's the closest to what I am (Bi-Playful), but I haven't put that I'm looking for women and wouldn't contact a single woman so wouldn't come up in a search by a single female and so wouldn't waste anyone's time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just asking for opinions but im starting to think some single girls only say their bi curious to attract men? I may be completely wrong and maybe they just don't want to meet me : (

What are your experiences?

I would meet you if I fitted in with all your criteria, unfortunately I don't accommodate very often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm bi but I do get a little confused. I used to think bi, means bi, but then there was bi curious??

I don't know if that means you like tits but not pussy, or just that you can put up with it for the sake of the meeting?

Think a lot of people use bicurious as they only play during couple meets.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"I'm bi but don't like to meet fems one on one.

I have in the past but nah.. I still want a male there..

I always offer a man in the mix either theirs or my choice but still so hard ti meet. Couples are much easier to meet and of course men

so, if they were being bi to attract a man, that would be right up their street surely?

cant see why a woman would say she likes women to attract men, is just doesnt make sense.

attracting couples then yes, but not blokes.

what advantage would a bloke get from getting it on with a bi female?

that said, yes, the vast majority of bi women on here are bi simply in a meet/sex sense and wouldnt be interested in having a long term relationship with another woman."
... Think thats also true of men as well? Lets face it a bi male or fem were looking for a long term relationship wouldn't that make either fully gay? My own experiences since swinging, is there are lots who are bi playful, yet only in receiving! , i am aftaid thats not for me either. We as a couple put 100% into all we do.. Yet as a couple also realize all playing have to be happy to explore all.. I have been Bi for a good few years now. But wont play with a bi woman who is obviosly not really bi!! I aint no performing seal lol

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"I'm bi but I do get a little confused. I used to think bi, means bi, but then there was bi curious??

I don't know if that means you like tits but not pussy, or just that you can put up with it for the sake of the meeting?

Think a lot of people use bicurious as they only play during couple meets."

Hmmm now you have put me in a quandry. Does that mean I am only bi-curious. We only play as a couple. I've never been without my fella and I would not ever really as it's something we share. But I do like the ladies. Hmmm

I will have to think about my profile more.

It's more complicated than I thought.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I will have to think about my profile more.

It's more complicated than I thought."

Bi-Playful

You are Bi....

But make it clear in your profile that only when playing as a couple

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

I will have to think about my profile more.

It's more complicated than I thought.

Bi-Playful

You are Bi....

But make it clear in your profile that only when playing as a couple

Maybe I should just say I'm monogamous except when swinging?

If I classified myself, I would say I am bi, but I am not in an open relationship, but an open minded committed relationship with fringe benefits.

I'm going to need committing soon!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say you like good sex.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

I will have to think about my profile more.

It's more complicated than I thought.

Bi-Playful

You are Bi....

But make it clear in your profile that only when playing as a couple

Maybe I should just say I'm monogamous except when swinging?

If I classified myself, I would say I am bi, but I am not in an open relationship, but an open minded committed relationship with fringe benefits.

I'm going to need committing soon!!!"
lol you and me both! Hear they do a nice shade of pink straight jacket! Lol

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I'm going to need committing soon!!!"

Hopefully they will let you out on weekends

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"Just say you like good sex."

I know, but 20% of the time I like it bad....

Sorry I think this classifies as derailing.

I'm going to take my confused and committed bi-sexual - playful - monogamous ass to bed.

Night all

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