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Cannot Accommodate, Cannot Travel

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seen a lot of profiles with 'Cannot Accommodate, Cannot Travel'.

Meaning no offence to anyone, are they (or maybe you) expecting a pickup and drop off service or something else?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I cannot accom as my son is here. I can't travel as I don't drive. So local meets are necessary. I wouldn't expect someone to pick me up and drop me off.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Or maybe it means they can only meet in their local area in a hotel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or maybe it means they can only meet in their local area in a hotel?"

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Something else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I cannot accom as my son is here. I can't travel as I don't drive. So local meets are necessary. I wouldn't expect someone to pick me up and drop me off. "

I appreciate you feedback and fully understand your situation. A lot of profiles miss out this vital information which would helps both parties. Thanks.

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By *atelotmanMan
over a year ago

Chatham

I can understand why lots of ladies don't accom,would you invite a stranger into your home just because you have spoken on here ,I don't think so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could it be to put people off messaging them, when they get to know someone better then they might mention about either travelling or accomodating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

replace dont travel, with don't drive would make it more relevant in my case.

Don't accom just means I dont do wam bams.

I dont see why I should spend 3 hours cleaning the house for a 30 minute shag, which is what has happened in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can understand why lots of ladies don't accom,would you invite a stranger into your home just because you have spoken on here ,I don't think so."

It works both ways women are still strangers and could be dodgy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they just meet in clubs ?

Would be better if they say how they meet in profile text ?

But then again does anyone read it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they just meet in clubs ?

Would be better if they say how they meet in profile text ?

But then again does anyone read it "

What's "profile text"?

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Maybe they just meet in clubs ?

Would be better if they say how they meet in profile text ?

But then again does anyone read it

What's "profile text"?

"

Indeed what is this reading profile activity you refer to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seen a lot of profiles with 'Cannot Accommodate, Cannot Travel'.

Meaning no offence to anyone, are they (or maybe you) expecting a pickup and drop off service or something else? "

Not at all, I'm perfectly capable of making my way to and from a meet! I won't ever accommodate for security reasons, and I'm not prepared to travel very far. I make this perfectly clear on my profile and have never had any issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"replace dont travel, with don't drive would make it more relevant in my case.

Don't accom just means I dont do wam bams.

I dont see why I should spend 3 hours cleaning the house for a 30 minute shag, which is what has happenednin the past

"
Wow 3 hours must of been one hell of a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"replace dont travel, with don't drive would make it more relevant in my case.

Don't accom just means I dont do wam bams.

I dont see why I should spend 3 hours cleaning the house for a 30 minute shag, which is what has happenednin the past

Wow 3 hours must of been one hell of a shag "

3 hrs beforehand!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accommodate as I have kids and I don't drive so any meets have to be local, there are a couple of clubs within 3 miles from me and there are 3 hotels within 15 mins walking time, so I tend to use them, I do only meet local guys though, I've had a guy I've been talking to for months wanting to meet me but he lives in Swansea so I just wont meet him as its to far, he keeps asking thought lol I don't expect anyone to travel a long way to meet me, so I tend to meet local guys locally, so though I wouldn't say I don't travel I just don't travel far

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"replace dont travel, with don't drive would make it more relevant in my case.

Don't accom just means I dont do wam bams.

I dont see why I should spend 3 hours cleaning the house for a 30 minute shag, which is what has happenednin the past

Wow 3 hours must of been one hell of a shag

3 hrs beforehand!"

Just imagine, a meet where you actually get the guest(s) to clean your house with them wearing your choice of dress code. Only once the house is spotless, you then offer them a little treat. Win Win in my book. Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"replace dont travel, with don't drive would make it more relevant in my case.

Don't accom just means I dont do wam bams.

I dont see why I should spend 3 hours cleaning the house for a 30 minute shag, which is what has happenednin the past

Wow 3 hours must of been one hell of a shag

3 hrs beforehand!

Just imagine, a meet where you actually get the guest(s) to clean your house with them wearing your choice of dress code. Only once the house is spotless, you then offer them a little treat. Win Win in my book. Lol x"

I've had quite a few guys on here offer me naked cleaning services its quite common

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw one profile where the woman wanted picked up, taken to a hotel, and then left home afterward.

At least she was honest about it, I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accom through choice - it was because I had children at home, its now a security thing. If I have met them before, and I trust them - that's different.

But will always remain MY choice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I saw one profile where the woman wanted picked up, taken to a hotel, and then left home afterward.

At least she was honest about it, I suppose "

and there's loads of guys out there willing to do it

I get many offers from guys to come pick me up and take me places, for some guys if it comes to picking you up or not getting a meet they will pick you up

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

I don't mind picking someone up if they haven't a car and I have, I don't think that's unreasonable, unless they live in Aberdeen obviously

I have had people asking me to pay their 'travelling expenses', and I'm assuming they were travelling by gold plated limo looking at what they were asking as well

Sadly I declined their kind offer!

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By *ames blackMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I see no problem on picking someone up, whether in a social meet or whatever (depending on distance)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was with my ex we used to give people lifts regular to socials, clubs etc if they was local and we was going anyway, its when its expected that you kind of think...piss off

if someone had mailed us saying they couldn't make it as they don't drive we would offer, if they mailed us saying you will have to give us a life if you want to meet us we would look elsewhere

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"When I was with my ex we used to give people lifts regular to socials, clubs etc if they was local and we was going anyway, its when its expected that you kind of think...piss off

if someone had mailed us saying they couldn't make it as they don't drive we would offer, if they mailed us saying you will have to give us a life if you want to meet us we would look elsewhere"

Snap. It's a bit grim when someone sees that you are going to a club and sends you a message saying, 'I see you'll be driving by my doorstep....'

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