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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

how hard is it to get anyone to talk to you in chat.

you say hi.....no one answers

you try talking......no one answers

its like hitting your head against a brick wall sometimes

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Just keep at it or try joining in .... Can sometimes take a while but it's worth it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

it can get a bit soul destroying tho.

its like im talking to myself.

i could do that with out the aid of a keyboard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know exactly what you are talking about. Number of times we feel as if we are invisible when we try and get involved in the chat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

think they should add a few new rooms.

a newbie room

and deffo a yorkshire room

cos yorkshire aint midlands or northern!!!

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By *organ and rob zombieCouple
over a year ago

bradford


"it can get a bit soul destroying tho.

its like im talking to myself.

i could do that with out the aid of a keyboard "

It is very clicky, a lot of people have been in the chat rooms for a long time, so trying to muscle ya way in is hard, humour usually works and patience

Good luck Hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have tried a few times - don't like chat on this site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ive found the clicky thing

and ive tried the humour approach as well

got the odd lol.

but thats about it.

its a shame like cos its a good way to get to know people.

if they let you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

okay here's a plan then.

We set a date and time and raid the place we only talk to each other

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sounds like a very good plan.

pick a day any day.

but tell me. im no magician

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"how hard is it to get anyone to talk to you in chat.

you say hi.....no one answers

you try talking......no one answers

its like hitting your head against a brick wall sometimes "

No one will talk to you in chat....no one will answer your messages (see other thread).....but here in da hood of da forum....people will.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"ive found the clicky thing

and ive tried the humour approach as well

got the odd lol.

but thats about it.

its a shame like cos its a good way to get to know people.

if they let you "

You have to be patient. You can't expect instant results. If you do, you will be disappointed and post your frustrations on here....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

be patient. 3 hours of trying the other night!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's pointless

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By *organ and rob zombieCouple
over a year ago

bradford


"how hard is it to get anyone to talk to you in chat.

you say hi.....no one answers

you try talking......no one answers

its like hitting your head against a brick wall sometimes

No one will talk to you in chat....no one will answer your messages (see other thread).....but here in da hood of da forum....people will. "

This is true

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"be patient. 3 hours of trying the other night!!

"

There must be someone local you can talk to! Can't be that hard to flirt with someone near you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

if i see any of you in the chat room i will say hi.

hope you say hi back lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"if i see any of you in the chat room i will say hi.

hope you say hi back lol "

May I ask a question?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

shoot.........will reply in a bit.

got two lil boys to take home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat rooms are scary

Too whizzy for me,I don't cam so prefer the calm sedate and civilised forums

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"shoot.........will reply in a bit.

got two lil boys to take home"

Do you think toilets are sexy?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Chat rooms are scary

Too whizzy for me,I don't cam so prefer the calm sedate and civilised forums "

Calm, sedate and civilised. I'll remember that! I only chat when we go to Canada

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chat rooms are scary

Too whizzy for me,I don't cam so prefer the calm sedate and civilised forums

Calm, sedate and civilised. I'll remember that! I only chat when we go to Canada "

Ive never been in there,was invited into Scotland once,lasted about 30 seconds

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Chat rooms are scary

Too whizzy for me,I don't cam so prefer the calm sedate and civilised forums

Calm, sedate and civilised. I'll remember that! I only chat when we go to Canada

Ive never been in there,was invited into

Scotland once,lasted about 30 seconds

"

Same as me when I got sent a bum photo yesterday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"okay here's a plan then.

We set a date and time and raid the place we only talk to each other "

Can I be part of that raid? Cos I gave up after 12 months of being totally ignored by the closed shops in chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"okay here's a plan then.

We set a date and time and raid the place we only talk to each other

Can I be part of that raid? Cos I gave up after 12 months of being totally ignored by the closed shops in chat"

Yea lets recruit - the more the merrier - a feel a big baddy ha haha panto style laugh coming on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"shoot.........will reply in a bit.

got two lil boys to take home

Do you think toilets are sexy? "

no. but its the only mirror i have in the flat!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"okay here's a plan then.

We set a date and time and raid the place we only talk to each other

Can I be part of that raid? Cos I gave up after 12 months of being totally ignored by the closed shops in chat

Yea lets recruit - the more the merrier - a feel a big baddy ha haha panto style laugh coming on "

hes behind you

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

London

How is Yorkshire not Northern?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"okay here's a plan then.

We set a date and time and raid the place we only talk to each other

Can I be part of that raid? Cos I gave up after 12 months of being totally ignored by the closed shops in chat

Yea lets recruit - the more the merrier - a feel a big baddy ha haha panto style laugh coming on

hes behind you "

Oh no he isn't!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so is newcastle.

theres a big distance between the two.

there is mids which my part of yorkshire comes under (which might i add also includes norwich!!) then you have york which i belive comes under northern.

combined we are a big county

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

oohh yes he is. i can see this going on a bit boys and girls

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over a year ago

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I find chat too quick, therefore I only go into Canada when there's an invasion or when Brightonsteve offers to flash his winky at me prior to his nightly wank - oops I mean shower

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Welcome to the forums by the way OP

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By *iss tenaciousWoman
over a year ago

manchester

Only just stopped lurking in the forums

Don't think im ready for chat yet

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