FabSwingers.com forum: How did your first ever couples meet go.....

By *heekyFifer OP Man
over a year ago

Lochgelly

Hi folks, im curious to see how other peoples first couples encounter went....did it got plan, did it go all pear shaped, was it a horrible experience etc???

Im a single fella but have a female friend who is also on here (helped her create her account yesterday as it happens) and we want to venture into the fun of involving more people....neither of us have had threesomes or that before so will be taking it very slowly and would like any tips to make things go smoothly as possible for when anything eventually happens.

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

Went very all v nervous but still had lots of fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must have gone okay because we are still doing it!

Mind it is a while ago now and I am getting a bit bewildered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a single only had threesomes as mff, a little drink and then someone needs to take the plunge, the first kisses, then you're away.. close with couples, virtual, but yet to explore.. it's all good though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazing!!

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Our first couple (foursome) meet was fantastic, nerves all round at first is perfectly normal but a social drink, good chat had us all relaxed quickly and we had a great time.

Happy swinging

Master x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours was time was after we dipped our feet into the party thing It was great Last minute decision to try and it worked out perfectly. They guy of the couple became a bit stalkerish afterwards then flounced off in a huff when we told him to back off a bit but that didnt put us off it. Just seems hard to find a good small get together these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Travelled all the way to Norwich but got stranded in hotel by myself so it was crap

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By *andyblokeMan
over a year ago

birmingham

it went fine. i was nervous of course to begin with, but we all sat down on the settee together and chatted. She put her hand on my leg, hubbie put his hand up her skirt and as they say the fun began!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

first couple I met was when I was married and was about 13 years ago, web cams and chat rooms wasn't readily available as they are now days and we had to rely on pics, lets just say the women half of the couple didn't look anything like her pic at all, she was about 5 stone heavier but we had driven over an hour and felt rude turning straight round and walking off so we stayed for a drink then drove home, they wasn't impressed at all with us leaving and got a bit arsy with us as they had paid for a sitter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it was awesome.

and nothing has lived up to it since, but we live in hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours was brilliant. A fantastic chilled couple who let us lead the way with just a little prodding in the right direction. Was an awesome night and we try to recreate that feeling for all people we now meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only got soft-bi-MMF experience. Wonderful. Relaxed. I knew both, and they trusted me. Everything went so smooth. No nerves at all.

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

it was that long ago i cant remember

met two lots of cpls from contact mags in those days , one cpl lived in chester arrea same place paul burrell lives.went for a meal ,then back to their place but cant really recall what happened , the guy not get very hard so not do much x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was just AMAZING. I met a really experienced couple and they certainly knew their stuff (they still do actually). I was very nervous but it was great. What a night that was!!

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

It went really well for most of it. We got on great, had a few drinks then went up to the lovely Hotel suite they had booked. Me and the Mrs quickly got down to fucking but all Mr did was film and photograph. Unfortunately Mrs had d*unk more wine than I realised and while I was rereshing myself in the bathroom she threw up in the bedroom. We called a halt after that as she was obviously embarrassed.

If you are on here you promised to show me the film and photos!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It went really well for most of it. We got on great, had a few drinks then went up to the lovely Hotel suite they had booked. Me and the Mrs quickly got down to fucking but all Mr did was film and photograph. Unfortunately Mrs had d*unk more wine than I realised and while I was rereshing myself in the bathroom she threw up in the bedroom. We called a halt after that as she was obviously embarrassed.

If you are on here you promised to show me the film and photos! "

Don't understand people who indulge to vomiting extent when meeting others.

Not a nice conclusion to what seems to have been a nice occasion?

As for pictures/films: how can you guarantee to receive your copy? Is it all a matter of trust, or is there something technically clever that can be done there and then?

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

" Don't understand people who indulge to vomiting extent when meeting others.

Not a nice conclusion to what seems to have been a nice occasion?

As for pictures/films: how can you guarantee to receive your copy? Is it all a matter of trust, or is there something technically clever that can be done there and then?

I was really shocked as she didn't appear d*unk as such. It seemed to hit her realy suddenly, maybe nerves too. Shame really as they were both nice and great company.

The agreeent was we would get together afterwards to view it all. I wasn't keen to have it filmed and photo'd but they had obviously spent a lot on the Hotel so I felt obliged. When they didn't reply to my messages aftrwards I was a bit annoyed. I just hope they destroyed it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was really shocked as she didn't appear d*unk as such. It seemed to hit her realy suddenly, maybe nerves too. Shame really as they were both nice and great company.

Don't count on it. Interesting point, though. How do others set about this?

How do you keep track of those images? Or is it a given that you have no saying at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was nervous but put at ease straight away within 15 minutes i was naked but I'm a naturist lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was really shocked as she didn't appear d*unk as such. It seemed to hit her realy suddenly, maybe nerves too. Shame really as they were both nice and great company.

Don't count on it. Interesting point, though. How do others set about this?

How do you keep track of those images? Or is it a given that you have no saying at all?"

we took pics from our last meet, and it was agreed with the other couple i would send them on AFTER i had edited our faces out.

then, once i had sent all over, i edited their faces out too.

dont need to see who they are to remember what we did, and without our faces in them, we dont care what they now do with them.

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By *heekyFifer OP Man
over a year ago

Lochgelly

Thanks for the info folks, seems like a mixed bag of results....seems like a little booze to take the edge off and just be as natural as possible to make for a good time.

One thing we wont have the luxury of is a hotel....not that well of, so it will need to be at one of our own houses....would this put people off???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We soft swapped was really fun tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmf first time, he met me at hotel door naked, she was laying on the bed blindfolded. she wanked and sucked him as I played her lack of visual awareness and then teased her pussy and clit with my tongue then cock before fucking into a twitching mess, dressing and leaving (as pre-agreed) all without her knowing who it was ..

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Absolutely awful. They discussed in great detail infront of me and my male friend if they were both happy to play and was damn uncomfy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't remember which one it was! But they've all been good so far.

Only bad experiences we've had have been bad nights at a club but that's just luck of the draw.

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By *eterpotedMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Fantastic last night . He just watched and his wife and I had the most amazing sex on the sofa . She tasted so sweet too .... Thanks again guys if you read this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was awful.. And nearly put me off forever

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By *asandmeCouple
over a year ago

camden town

ours went so so well. made some really good friends from it

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

We got nervous drank our cup of tea made excuses and done a runner lol!

We have met the couple again over the years and have had great fun with them...

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By *corpi0stingMan
over a year ago

london

Personally, I am boring and don't leave much to 'chance', but it paid off on this occasion.

I have had one threesome with a girl I'd met from here and another guy. Last year I met this girl a handful of times and we'd spoken about threesomes and how we'd both like to try it.. I have an old friend I've known for over 10 years, and I told him about this website as I felt he'd be into it. I don't talk to anyone about this stuff but I've known him a long time and he's quite uninhibited.. Very different character to me.. which is partly why I used to think it'd be a bad idea to try anything with him as I am laid back and he is more hyperactive etc.. but then one day it occurred to me that this might actually work AND I'd feel more comfortable with someone I know than some random other guy, though before I'd thought there's no way I can do this with any guy I know.. but I evaluated it in my head and figured my relationship with him will most probably always be the same and something like this wouldn't affect it.. So, I'd spoken to her and to him about it at different times, was difficult to 'plan' as people are busy at different times, he was living in Oxford, etc.. etc.. so we kind of left it.. well, it was nice that we hadn't planned it too much. I can imagine if we had, and just counting the days and waiting would build on the nervousness more.. So was cool she texted me in the morning saying she was free all day, not knowing if he would be available, I sent him a text, went to my meeting, came out and saw his response, then there were only a few hours until meeting.. I met her first.. ok, well, I think I had an advantage in all of this considering I know them both and they've never met. It really made me quite comfortable, and I had a feeling they'd get on ok too. I wouldn't have gone ahead with it if I felt it wouldn't work.. So I met with her, it was good to meet her for 30 mins before he turned up.. had a catch up. Then he turned up, we had a couple of drinks. Chatted.. Conversation flowed quite easily and aside from her being a bit nervous to begin with and me telling her there is no pressure of course and I told her that though she was nervous also because she'd never met the other guy, I had a different reason to be nervous, not having been naked with another guy before like this! So we went back to mine and went up to my room, I looked for some music to put on and they started kissing, I turned around and it was beginning to happen. It actually didn't fee weird at all, strangely. It felt strangely natural. I really enjoyed it, and I quite liked watching people have sex in front of me. I was curious about that. It's pretty hot. So, we did our thing for about an hour and a half, then sat downstairs for about an hour.. He needed to go he said.. She asked if she could stay and I said it's fine.. so we ended up having sex again of course.. :P It was really nice after he left actually, to relax and then have a second round, more relaxed and sensual. The threesome thing is quite a novelty. A very different kind of sex. She told me that she'd packed a toothbrush earlier and that when she packed it, she knew she'd go through with this all even then. I know she really wanted to do it and that I am a good person to do it with as she knows me well enough to trust me etc...

So, I think if you are confident that the people involved will get along, it's pretty full proof.. For me a bit of pre-meet prep pays off in regards to who and in what context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet a couple and he had a no kissing the misues rule.... didn't work well for me.... not so good just sticking your cock in...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It hasn't yet, but i live in hope !

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

So far I've only met and played with couples in clubs and the experience was mind blowing because of the eceptional kink in their personalities. I am still to meet a couple outside of clubs but I'm working on it. I know I will be very nervous!

OP Enjoy the experience. More some is incredibly erotic x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

our first 3sum was great, since then weve had quite a few, some good some not so good.

Nothing has ever matched the excitement of that first time though.

We do meet quite a few shy guys but Mrs p has a knack of starting things off. Maybe the wine helps lol

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By *appyfuckerMan
over a year ago

in a happy place north wales coast

it was amazin met in hotel and had loads of fun never looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost a year ago, and it was awesome. I was a little nervous but the coffee meet turned into some unexpected naughty fun with a great couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first meet with a couple was brilliant!

Felt like we had known them for ages!

We laughed, we chatted and we flirted! Unfortunately we didn't get to play as we had to move down south!!

But it was still a brilliant meet!

Our next meet with a couple wasn't so good, and did put us slightly off meeting couples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

omg i was so nervous but it all went right. i was shivering in excitement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first mmff was fantastic but it was soft swing. Instantly made my mind up that full swop was what we wanted/needed. Have never looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Our first meet with a couple was brilliant!

Felt like we had known them for ages!

We laughed, we chatted and we flirted! Unfortunately we didn't get to play as we had to move down south!!

But it was still a brilliant meet!

Our next meet with a couple wasn't so good, and did put us slightly off meeting couples! "

sorry about that.

have asked for a chance to rectify it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All very nervous everyone, just had couple of drinks to calm us down. After I put my hand on her leg and then lol it was arms and legs all over lol. We all loved it and saw each other a few times after that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found that the couples we met were all lovely people who were great fun but ive never really been comfortable playing with another womans man,im always very aware of her feelings and possibly doing something that may upset her so we now just stick with what we originally started out looking for and thats single men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the info folks, seems like a mixed bag of results....seems like a little booze to take the edge off and just be as natural as possible to make for a good time.

One thing we wont have the luxury of is a hotel....not that well of, so it will need to be at one of our own houses....would this put people off???"

My first ffm meet was with a couple in their home. It was good, they were very patient with me.

I am more cautious now, even though that went well. I don't like, as a single fem, to go to someone's house. Not unless I have done the social thing first - you just never know x

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