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don't have much luck on here

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By *eeds toy boy OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Hi all im a single guy who has been on here a few month now and havent had any meets at all im photo verified but people seem to delete the messages i send im always polite and well spoken and i even send face pics with each message can anyone help me out please ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you put as much effort into your messages as you have your profile then there may lie your answer.

crystal

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"Hi all im a single guy who has been on here a few month now and havent had any meets at all im photo verified but people seem to delete the messages i send im always polite and well spoken and i even send face pics with each message can anyone help me out please ? "

cum to mama lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Maybe you could consider the spelling, grammar and punctuation in your profile and tell potential sex meets a bit more about yourself. People need information before they make a decision and if the information is not there, they won't ask, they will move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my understanding these woe is me topics can also be a black mark

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By *eeds toy boy OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Thanks very much

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By *eeds toy boy OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Im free when you are lol

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By *eeds toy boy OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Thanks alot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe you could consider the spelling, grammar and punctuation in your profile and tell potential sex meets a bit more about yourself. People need information before they make a decision and if the information is not there, they won't ask, they will move on. "

And please don't have the mistaken expectation that this is instashag (ie the girls on here aren't all willing to drop their knickers just because a cock wants a hole).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair your pics need sorting.

if you are athletic like your profile states.show pics that show your muscles,as the ones you have don't help.

try looking for gangnangs.ive seen one advertised in north manc tonight

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

more info on your profile, chat to people on the forum, not just about asking for advice, look for socials near you or try a club?

Just some thoughts

Ruby x

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By *heekyFiferMan
over a year ago

Lochgelly

Im no expert on here either as im a single fella, however I also realise that the blokes far outnumber the ladies on here and that they get inundated with messages very quickly...so im assuming some will have no choice but to do a mass delete to keep on top of their inbox.

I helped a friend create her profile on here yesterday and she had 98 views and 35 messages within the first hour alone...this is without a picture being visible too....she woke up to 350 messages this morning....just to give you an idea.

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By *eeds toy boy OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe you could consider the spelling, grammar and punctuation in your profile and tell potential sex meets a bit more about yourself. People need information before they make a decision and if the information is not there, they won't ask, they will move on.

And please don't have the mistaken expectation that this is instashag (ie the girls on here aren't all willing to drop their knickers just because a cock wants a hole)."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"try looking for gangnangs.ive seen one advertised in north manc tonight "

Gangnang style!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im no expert on here either as im a single fella, however I also realise that the blokes far outnumber the ladies on here and that they get inundated with messages very quickly...so im assuming some will have no choice but to do a mass delete to keep on top of their inbox.

I helped a friend create her profile on here yesterday and she had 98 views and 35 messages within the first hour alone...this is without a picture being visible too....she woke up to 350 messages this morning....just to give you an idea."

So when you were helping her you never thought to tell her about filters...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im no expert on here either as im a single fella, however I also realise that the blokes far outnumber the ladies on here and that they get inundated with messages very quickly...so im assuming some will have no choice but to do a mass delete to keep on top of their inbox.

I helped a friend create her profile on here yesterday and she had 98 views and 35 messages within the first hour alone...this is without a picture being visible too....she woke up to 350 messages this morning....just to give you an idea.

So when you were helping her you never thought to tell her about filters..."

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd remove anything that anyone could view as negative from your profile. Increase the info about yourself, what you're like, what you love and what you're offering. Many recipients don't read message first, they skip straight to the profile, so that has to attract enough attention and staying power. They'll then go to read the message and reply, if all looks good.

Get to meet others, even if just for friendship, people to accompany you to places or introduce you etc. There are some fantastic people on fab, it just needs some attention to find them. Rather than only using your efforts to mail for meets, using indirect methods, such as being friendly, can potentially lead indirect to meets too.

As the oft repeated advice goes, get to socials and clubs too. Good luck and always feel free to ask for help anytime. Beware the negative trap, as others often dislike it.

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By *eeds toy boy OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Thanks very much for the advice i best get to work on my profile then

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