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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had a vanilla night out last night with my non swinger friends and realised why I don't go out anymore with vanilla people, saw some strippers which in all honesty bored me as couldn't do anything with them so a bit pointless.

My supposed best friend who knows my lifestyle choice got d*unk and decided to shout out in a full pub about me swinging as justification for her cheating on her husband

She then stole my phone which is thankfully password protected to be nosey as she noticed me texting a FB of mine and my partner.

The night ended with her grabbing my tit under my top and her pulling a chunk of my hair out when I tried to leave before I did something I'd regret.

Give me a night out at a swingers club with normal people any day, anyone agree that normal nights out are no longer fun now you know what is out there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why I moved out of havehill lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why I moved out of havehill lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol so you know exactly what I mean then

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No I don't agree. Nights out are fun or not depending on venue and company not depending on whether you swing or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

doesn't sound like a fun night for you, what a "friend" i hope she's suitably apologetic this morning.

I still enjoy regular nights out but definitely enjoy the company of like minded people.

Ruby x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a swinger makes you realise how sexually immature and narrow-minded some vanilla people really are.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Being a swinger makes you realise how sexually immature and narrow-minded some vanilla people really are."

I have to say that reading these forums sometimes makes me realise the same thing about swingers. Present company excepted of course.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Being a swinger makes you realise how sexually immature and narrow-minded some vanilla people really are.

I have to say that reading these forums sometimes makes me realise the same thing about swingers. Present company excepted of course."

Couldn't agree more.

Sounds like the OP needs a new "friend", one that values discretion.

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"Being a swinger makes you realise how sexually immature and narrow-minded some vanilla people really are.

I have to say that reading these forums sometimes makes me realise the same thing about swingers. Present company excepted of course."

Yep some immature people in all walks of life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being a swinger makes you realise how sexually immature and narrow-minded some vanilla people really are.

I have to say that reading these forums sometimes makes me realise the same thing about swingers. Present company excepted of course."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it was due to your friend not swinging it is due to that fact that she, like many others simply can't handle her drink

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think it was due to your friend not swinging it is due to that fact that she, like many others simply can't handle her drink "

She certainly can't, but I think its more at least with like minded people I don't have to worry about my private life being shouted about.

Certainly learned a valuable lesson in who I can trust.

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester


"Had a vanilla night out last night with my non swinger friends and realised why I don't go out anymore with vanilla people, saw some strippers which in all honesty bored me as couldn't do anything with them so a bit pointless.

My supposed best friend who knows my lifestyle choice got d*unk and decided to shout out in a full pub about me swinging as justification for her cheating on her husband

She then stole my phone which is thankfully password protected to be nosey as she noticed me texting a FB of mine and my partner.

The night ended with her grabbing my tit under my top and her pulling a chunk of my hair out when I tried to leave before I did something I'd regret.

Give me a night out at a swingers club with normal people any day, anyone agree that normal nights out are no longer fun now you know what is out there?"
couldnt agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being a swinger doesnt make much difference tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also had a vanilla night out with 2 mates....it bored the hell out of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also had a vanilla night out with 2 mates....it bored the hell out of me "

why? no pussy on a plate? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also had a vanilla night out with 2 mates....it bored the hell out of me

why? no pussy on a plate? lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With friends like those who needs enemies.

We often think more people would try this if they only had the nerve and a strong enough relationship.

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

True mixing with like minded folks can make you feel more relaxed/comfotable but good company is good company, players or straight at the end of the day.

But If you choose to play with hand grenades at some point they are going to go off!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find myself on nights out, looking at other people and wondering if any of them are swingers, is this just me ?

From the OP's tale, seems the friend was somehow trying to justify her cheating by highlighting OP swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find myself on nights out, looking at other people and wondering if any of them are swingers, is this just me ?

From the OP's tale, seems the friend was somehow trying to justify her cheating by highlighting OP swinging"

I think you hit the nail on the head there, I believe she was looking for me to condone her behaviour because of my lifestyle unfortunately for her she also knows I believe theres a huge difference between the two.

I don't know give me a night out where I can get laid rather than being teased by strippers any day, that said the cheeky one did offer to take me home but he wasn't my type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being a swinger makes you realise how sexually immature and narrow-minded some vanilla people really are.

I have to say that reading these forums sometimes makes me realise the same thing about swingers. Present company excepted of course.

Couldn't agree more.

Sounds like the OP needs a new "friend", one that values discretion."

A perfect example of why I will never tell anyone about my personal life.

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By *awkeye and HotlipsCouple
over a year ago

Takeley

Usually it's the people who haven't the bottle to or have issues in their own relationships that react like this. In life, in our experience it's normally born out of ignorance or jealousy that you are secure, happy, with good things happening in your life that brings out the worst in people.....they want what you have or are striking out at their life as in this case. I suspect a biiig apology from a very contrite friend. She needs good friends now, more than ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nights with 'nilla or swing couples are what you make it.

you should choose your friends more carefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it was due to your friend not swinging it is due to that fact that she, like many others simply can't handle her drink

She certainly can't, but I think its more at least with like minded people I don't have to worry about my private life being shouted about.

Certainly learned a valuable lesson in who I can trust."

And that's exactly the reason why I don't tell anyone what I get up to in my private life. You tell one very good close trusted friend and then in a moment of d*unken madness, she tells someone else [or others in this case] and before you know it your private life is no longer private.

I hope she hasn't made things difficult for you and that you were able to shrug it off as her d*unken behavior

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By *rMrsAdriaCouple
over a year ago

Gosport


"With friends like those who needs enemies.

We often think more people would try this if they only had the nerve and a strong enough relationship."

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