FabSwingers.com forum: Single women profiles who are note single

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just seems daft and fraudulent that Ladies who are married or part of a couple can hijack the single women status.

Surely you can advertise for a meet as a couple to get whoever you want to target

Everyone complains about time wasters We think this is just as bad especially if we looking for a single women and then there is a partner involved

It's just a throw away convo we have just had so no abuse please lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its an age old question, my only answer is...och cant be bothered, so will perv the OPs pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, f*cks me right off seeing "single" women who just happen to have a hubby/bf/male fb lurking in the background. False advertising in my books and should be banned. You are either single, or you you're not, simples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well its same for women on here married guys in back honesty is the best policy we are all supposed to be adults on here

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By *iss_BehavingWoman
over a year ago

manchester

have to say, ive been approached by wayyyy too many single girls, who then happen to suddenly have a fella who's love to watch,join in !!... ffs !!... pisses me right off !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol but could it a guy too many fakes on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, f*cks me right off seeing "single" women who just happen to have a hubby/bf/male fb lurking in the background. False advertising in my books and should be banned. You are either single, or you you're not, simples!"

Why?

If they are playing solo then a couples profile would be false advertising and for all you know they may have a couples profile too you are not aware of. Also there a lot of single women who are cautious of meeting guys who could turn angry and like a guy around for safety. It strikes me you really don't understand the female point of view on this whats wrong with people living life their way if you don't like leave them to it.

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By *exyLancs2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Yes, it's bugbear of ours too.

If you have a boyfriend or husband that 'just watches' or won't join in unless 'invited' then you're NOT a single woman. Probably 50% of the single female profiles on here might fall into that category.

Admin should be robust with them and either forcibly alter the status of the profile, suspend the profile or, if warnings are not heeded just ban it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us do play alone!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

IF they are involving their OH's in play..

Report them....

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By *ate_night_massageMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

But most couples aren't exactly short on offers, so I'd prefer to give them the benefit of the doubt, and assume that there is some reason.

Sometimes people change what they're looking for, and it's a pain to have to start a new profile each time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This Is my singles profile because I am a single girl. Not meeting via it but I make that clear.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Marital/relationship status has nothing to do with it.

Generally if someone meets alone its a single profile.

If someone else will be there to watch/take pics/keep an eye on things/join in then its a couples profile.

If you think someone has the wrong sort of profile then report it to Admin and they will review it and change it if necessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of us do play alone! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say this the amount of single men who offer meets and then say i have a female fb who can join

so the same goes for men too if you really want to start this discussion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of us do play alone!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"OK

I have to say this the amount of single men who offer meets and then say i have a female fb who can join

so the same goes for men too if you really want to start this discussion "

Its exactly the same for men and women.

'I have a friend that can join in...' is different to 'I have a friend that will be there...'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'I have a friend that will be there...'"

never had this hence why my 1st meet is a social

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Dont think this is about "Single" women playing alone....

Its about "Single" women that state on profile or in a message that their OH will be there....watching or joining in...

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"Some of us do play alone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easier for me to have a singles profile as I meet alone. If I want to meet with my husband I'll use our couples profile. It's easier for us that way as our couples profile was getting bogged down by guys wanting to meet me by myself. And that is equally as annoying!

I really don't see what the problem is with that. I'm clear on my profile I'm part of a couple too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If in post single and ur not I think you need to either be with a partner husband wife who agrees.. or change ur profile

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

I have said over and over admin should have 'single'

'couples' & 'attached playing solo' (or some such wording)

Just report those 'singles' not actually playing single.

Although then they get advised to change their profile wording to make it seem they play single. But that's a different thread

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Some of us do play alone!

But you are not what the OP is talking about....

There are some 'single' profiles where the lady never meets alone.

I imagine alot do it because a single profile especially a bi female is likely to get more views and attention.

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By *tupidityDictatesWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

I have both a single profile and a couples profile.. why? Because we were playing together so had the couples profile then for a few months I was playing alone and didn't think we would play together again so I created the single profile, now we are playing together again I have edited my single profile to mention it as I started getting the 'you're a fake' 'why pretend to be single when you're not' 'why pretend to be in a couple when you're not' etc..

So now it's mentioned in both profiles just so everyone knows where they stand. Only I use my single profile and it's purely for meeting solo, if someone were to be interested in meeting as a couple then both me and the male half would message them from the couples profile.

Can't seem to win around here.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

if i see a single profile and all talk about only meeting with their partner.. I report it....simple as

so any "single" women in the north eastwho's profile has suddenly changed into a couples one... thats probably my fault....

tough!!!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"if i see a single profile and all talk about only meeting with their partner.. I report it....simple as

so any "single" women in the north eastwho's profile has suddenly changed into a couples one... thats probably my fault....

tough!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married, but meet as a single and as part of a couple, but I do have that on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if i see a single profile and all talk about only meeting with their partner.. I report it....simple as

so any "single" women in the north eastwho's profile has suddenly changed into a couples one... thats probably my fault....

tough!!!"

Why? They are honest about their situation I take it you have reported all the forum users who are part of a couple but still have a single profile??

If not why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single, though, have a male I play with but only to fulfil our sub/Dom fantasies with other women and therefore have a couples profile but it states that we're both single. We're not in a relationship nor fuck buddies, as we only get together for said fantasy and inform people of that beforehand, surely no false advertisement either way.... just a great way to aid in sexual development and extremely fun experiences

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

"if i see a single profile and all talk about only meeting with their partner.. I report it....simple as

so any "single" women in the north eastwho's profile has suddenly changed into a couples one... thats probably my fault....

tough!!!

Why? They are honest about their situation I take it you have reported all the forum users who are part of a couple but still have a single profile??

If not why not?"

I think the clue is in the first bit you quoted.

If you don't play as a single. Don't have a singles profile.

If you try & con people into thinking you're single expect to be reported.

I've reported a few fair. From the profile & from pm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if i see a single profile and all talk about only meeting with their partner.. I report it....simple as

so any "single" women in the north eastwho's profile has suddenly changed into a couples one... thats probably my fault....

tough!!!

Why? They are honest about their situation I take it you have reported all the forum users who are part of a couple but still have a single profile??

If not why not?

I think the clue is in the first bit you quoted.

If you don't play as a single. Don't have a singles profile.

If you try & con people into thinking you're single expect to be reported.

I've reported a few fair. From the profile & from pm

The majority of singles forum users who are part of a couple don't play alone it says on their profile so by that are you in agreement they shouldn't have a singles profile on here unless they play alone?

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Yes i report any 'single' profile that clearly states they don't play alone. And admin change the status of those profiles to couples ones.

Even admin & the mods (see above) state that incorrect profiles should be reported.

I even report those messages i get from 'singles' that actually don't meet as a single..... Because they're not single. And reporting from their message shows admin or the mods that they themselves said they don't play as singles.

If you're single or play as single have a single profile.

Couples.... Have a couples profile.

Clues in the names of the profiles.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Please dont refer to specific profiles.

Ive already said up there ^^^ what Admins view is on the matter.

And again, if you think someone has the wrong category of profile then report it, Admin will review and they will change it if they think necessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im on a singles profile because i meet as a single, i also have a couples profile which we meet together on. I state it on my profile, that its for me meeting alone on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please dont refer to specific profiles.

Ive already said up there ^^^ what Admins view is on the matter.

And again, if you think someone has the wrong category of profile then report it, Admin will review and they will change it if they think necessary."

I get your point it was an example and there are a god dozen regular forum users who DON'T meet alone it states on their profile are you saying admin would wish us to report this if it states it on their profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes i report any 'single' profile that clearly states they don't play alone. And admin change the status of those profiles to couples ones.

Even admin & the mods (see above) state that incorrect profiles should be reported.

If you're single or play as single have a single profile.

Couples.... Have a couples profile.

Clues in the names of the profiles."

Well as we aren't allowed to give examples go through all the forum users who clearly state they don't meet singles and report them start y checking your verifications as you say you do.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Please dont refer to specific profiles.

Ive already said up there ^^^ what Admins view is on the matter.

And again, if you think someone has the wrong category of profile then report it, Admin will review and they will change it if they think necessary.

Yep and they will review it.

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

I agree it is fraudulent if a woman presents herself as single and then turns up with her 'partner' in tow. Put simply, she has lied and cheated you into meeting.

It's even worse if her partner is female ... if she had warned me I'd have done a little training for the event!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"I agree it is fraudulent if a woman presents herself as single and then turns up with her 'partner' in tow. Put simply, she has lied and cheated you into meeting.

It's even worse if her partner is female ... if she had warned me I'd have done a little training for the event!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please dont refer to specific profiles.

Ive already said up there ^^^ what Admins view is on the matter.

And again, if you think someone has the wrong category of profile then report it, Admin will review and they will change it if they think necessary.

Yep and they will review it."

Right I hope all who have said they report will follow their convictions on this then as it would be incredibly 2 faced to fail to report people who they know have only meeting as part of a couple on their profile but still using a singles profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet alone but have had a cpls profile in the past, my partner liked to be in the house or watch so to all intends and purposes I was playing alone and people specifically looking for a single woman would not even look on a couples profile. I found the majority of the time people didn't care as long as you told them straight away and didn't try to surprise them on the night!! Ive also had a single profile where I chose for a short time to only meet with a fb...admin changed my account to a couples profile even tho it wasnt a permanent thing and I had to fight to restore it to a single. As long as you discuss it in the first message I don't see the problem....why does everyone wanna block and ban people on this site...just relax and have fun!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It annoys me too! I don't want to be watched or have a man join in, I have a bf who knows I am on here but I swing alone if I wanted to swing with him, I would get a couple profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a single fem profile for when I meet women alone. My couple profile is for meeting with my fb and a third/fourth party. If people read the profiles this is all stated - the trouble is people don't and when they get the knock back the 'you don't meet alone' BS comes out. I do meet alone. Just not with you. If you read profiles you may not be so disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a single fem profile for when I meet women alone. My couple profile is for meeting with my fb and a third/fourth party. If people read the profiles this is all stated - the trouble is people don't and when they get the knock back the 'you don't meet alone' BS comes out. I do meet alone. Just not with you. If you read profiles you may not be so disappointed."

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I often wonder...can people read or do they just skip and translate stuff to...I'm here come and f**k me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depending on how they are playing, I'd report them. Marital status doesn't come into it, just whether the OH will be attending a meet. If they play alone (which many do) then all good, if they only play with a chaperon they are a couple and I report. I wouldn't want to arrange to meet a single and turn up to more people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, it's bugbear of ours too.

Admin should be robust with them and either forcibly alter the status of the profile, suspend the profile or, if warnings are not heeded just ban it."

Admin do change the status of profiles if they are reported and they are clearly not as claimed.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

"Yes i report any 'single' profile that clearly states they don't play alone. And admin change the status of those profiles to couples ones.

Even admin & the mods (see above) state that incorrect profiles should be reported.

If you're single or play as single have a single profile.

Couples.... Have a couples profile.

Clues in the names of the profiles.

Well as we aren't allowed to give examples go through all the forum users who clearly state they don't meet singles and report them start y checking your verifications as you say you do. "

If you're referring to my veris & the few that state with friend.... Then had you bothered to check properly you would have seen the 'friends' mentioned are always other single females on here. This is because i have single female friends on here & we meet in clubs. And also because i did some ladies chams jacuzzi invasions; to allow nervous singles to know some ladies would be in & they'd have someone to talk too. It wasn't in reference to a male person i play with as a couple because Im actually single.

But my veris arnt in question here & are frankly no one else's business.

I don't pm people from an incorrect account to get round filters. And the number of 'single women' that pm me their couples account name or say they only meet with hubby/bf/other label is really high. Not bad considering i have couples filtered.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

way to many ,, just takes the piss ,, waisting our time puts u of bothering x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of us do play alone! "

thank you x so do i

other cant play now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a completer load of twaddle all this is !

Report them ?

Absolute nonsense .... Their profile , their choice to play how they like, and with whoever they want to.

Get on with sorting yourselves out instead of having a go at others .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in a new relationship. I meet alone (when I AM meeting) but would like to try an mmf with my guy (as mentioned on my profile) Is that fraudulent?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What a completer load of twaddle all this is !

Report them ?

Absolute nonsense .... Their profile , their choice to play how they like, and with whoever they want to.

Get on with sorting yourselves out instead of having a go at others .

Totally agree.....to many people on here that are uptight. I just want a laugh and have fun. I like mmf, mff, mmff and any other combination depending on my mood, why can't I state I want somebody to join us if that's what I fancy that week. The sender can agree or disagree, simple x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What a completer load of twaddle all this is !

Report them ?

Absolute nonsense .... Their profile , their choice to play how they like, and with whoever they want to.

Get on with sorting yourselves out instead of having a go at others .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's still allowed and in my opinion okay to have a singles profile even if you only meet as a couple and have a seperate couples profile.

If you want to come on the forum on your singles profile and it's clear & honest not seeing the issue here.

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