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What puts you off Bi guys?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Purely a question for those that avoid them... I know it's a preference but I'm just intrigued as to what actually makes you actively avoid??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 28/11/13 21:48:42]"

Sorry to hear your story.

Glad you realise that many so called straight guys on here are not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a regular blood donor and going with bi guys prevents me from doing this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard their scent attracts bears?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I've heard their scent attracts bears?"

....it attracts bare women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a regular blood donor and going with bi guys prevents me from doing this "

And as an ex blood donor and a bi couple i fully appreciate this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've heard their scent attracts bears?

....it attracts bare women "

Lol if that were true I'd still be in the game! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a regular blood donor and going with bi guys prevents me from doing this "
well thats abit of a silly thing to do as half the 'straight' lads on this site a bi anyway so chances are youve been with bi guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've heard their scent attracts bears?"

Made me laff

Not keen on bears tho; I like my men smooth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've heard their scent attracts bears?"

Nah, them is gummy bears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a regular blood donor and going with bi guys prevents me from doing this well thats abit of a silly thing to do as half the 'straight' lads on this site a bi anyway so chances are youve been with bi guys"

So in fact the Blood Service should extend their rules to exclude swingers too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am a regular blood donor and going with bi guys prevents me from doing this well thats abit of a silly thing to do as half the 'straight' lads on this site a bi anyway so chances are youve been with bi guys

So in fact the Blood Service should extend their rules to exclude swingers too. "

They should extend their rules to exclude promiscuous non swingers too...

And anyone who may have inadvertantly played with any of the above.

Or just improve the testing of blood? Can they do that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we avoid bi guys as mr p is straight so we dont see the point in meeting any bi guys if there is plenty of supposedly straight guys to choose from.

mr p says he may not feel comfortable with a bi guy incase he over steps the mark. we know the chance of it is low but why take the chance when we are in this for our enjoyment as a couple.

its nothing to do with being homophobic as we have been accused of in messages. we both have friends that are bi/ gay and straight but in a sexual scenario it is different so we use as a filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a regular blood donor and going with bi guys prevents me from doing this well thats abit of a silly thing to do as half the 'straight' lads on this site a bi anyway so chances are youve been with bi guys

So in fact the Blood Service should extend their rules to exclude swingers too.

They should extend their rules to exclude promiscuous non swingers too...

And anyone who may have inadvertantly played with any of the above.

Or just improve the testing of blood? Can they do that?"

Can't agree more with the promiscuous non swingers comment. What about half the local population who get plastered at the weekend and can't remember who they shagged? The Blood Service is happy for them to donate. At least most of us swingers apply a bit of common sense when choosing sexual partners in that we wake up in the morning and can remember who we had sex with the night before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

before i knew the merits of bi guys, way way back, my reason for not wanting to meet them was that i was a bit disgusted at the thought of them having fucked another guys ass...it just made me feel queezy! thankfully my views have now changed having dated a bi guy, and although i dont wish to see men fuck each other, i certainly get the horn watching them performing oral (and assisting hehe)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so long ago there was a similar post to this and 1 female half of a couple stated they wouldn't play with bi guys because they didn't have much self respect and would obviously shag anything - yet she was bi herself , massive hypocrisy and double standards I think .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not so long ago there was a similar post to this and 1 female half of a couple stated they wouldn't play with bi guys because they didn't have much self respect and would obviously shag anything - yet she was bi herself , massive hypocrisy and double standards I think . "

I suppose technically, bi guys increase their chances of getting laid by 50 percent so straight people are probably the mugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a regular blood donor and going with bi guys prevents me from doing this "

Why!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a regular blood donor and going with bi guys prevents me from doing this

Why!"

Cos they ask if you've been with high risk groups such as bi men, people from certain Continents where aids is rife, and people who you can't remember shagging cos you were polluted at the weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone said earlier, it doubles the odds of a shag, especially in view of the lack of genuine women here. Also some of the TVs pictures look really hot !!

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"we avoid bi guys as mr p is straight so we dont see the point in meeting any bi guys if there is plenty of supposedly straight guys to choose from.

mr p says he may not feel comfortable with a bi guy incase he over steps the mark. we know the chance of it is low but why take the chance when we are in this for our enjoyment as a couple.

its nothing to do with being homophobic as we have been accused of in messages. we both have friends that are bi/ gay and straight but in a sexual scenario it is different so we use as a filter.

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I can understand that, in the heat of action I can get carried away, I was chatting up a couple outside a night club recently and grabbed the guys crotch, Vinnie Jones style! He wasn't happy and accused me of chasing his woman around which I wasn't happy about either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we avoid bi guys as mr p is straight so we dont see the point in meeting any bi guys if there is plenty of supposedly straight guys to choose from.

mr p says he may not feel comfortable with a bi guy incase he over steps the mark. we know the chance of it is low but why take the chance when we are in this for our enjoyment as a couple.

its nothing to do with being homophobic as we have been accused of in messages. we both have friends that are bi/ gay and straight but in a sexual scenario it is different so we use as a filter.

I can understand that, in the heat of action I can get carried away, I was chatting up a couple outside a night club recently and grabbed the guys crotch, Vinnie Jones style! He wasn't happy and accused me of chasing his woman around which I wasn't happy about either!"

im glad someone understands. we don this for us to have fun together and if another man tried to touch me i would stop play and be pissed off as we would make it clear from the start that it wasnt going to happen. we dont want to spoil the fun that we have together because someone got carried away.

i am totally comfortable around gay or bi men as we often have bi and gay friends over for drinks were we all end up sitting about naked drinking but wouldnt want to invite one in to our sex lives

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By *ornybugger78Man
over a year ago

Crawley

This confuses me, couples and single women will not touch a single straight guy on his own, but yet they invite a gay/ bi guy into there domain and expect nothing to happen, of course it's gonna happen! If you don't want it to happen then don't invite them and invite the straight guy.... Problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This confuses me, couples and single women will not touch a single straight guy on his own, but yet they invite a gay/ bi guy into there domain and expect nothing to happen, of course it's gonna happen! If you don't want it to happen then don't invite them and invite the straight guy.... Problem solved"

who said they invite bi guys instead of straight?

no one.

and who says if you ask a bi guy to join you, he will do anything with the male half of a couple anyway?

just because someone is bi or gay doesnt mean they want to jump on anyone they can get near.

not like most straight guys that will happily jump on any woman they can get near, purely for a fuck!

we dont actively avoid, but dont seek out bi men either, but this is purely because we believe everyone should be free to enjoy themselves within our soft play boundaries, and if a bi guy is attracted to the male half of a couple (not myself, bi guys have standards too lol) then its unfair to not allow them to play properly. much rather meet straight men as its all for V's attention anyway

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm bi and can play straight amd have done so on many an occasion. Two guy pleasuring the woman, not each other. Not difficult!

You'd never know I was bi if I hadn't said so on my profile and a lot of other men who describe themselves as straight on their profiles are not, which makes decisions made purely on sexuality a little questionable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually the smell !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm bi and can play straight amd have done so on many an occasion. Two guy pleasuring the woman, not each other. Not difficult!

You'd never know I was bi if I hadn't said so on my profile and a lot of other men who describe themselves as straight on their profiles are not, which makes decisions made purely on sexuality a little questionable. "

It makes informed decisions on the subject nigh on impossible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we avoid bi guys as mr p is straight so we dont see the point in meeting any bi guys if there is plenty of supposedly straight guys to choose from.

mr p says he may not feel comfortable with a bi guy incase he over steps the mark. we know the chance of it is low but why take the chance when we are in this for our enjoyment as a couple.

its nothing to do with being homophobic as we have been accused of in messages. we both have friends that are bi/ gay and straight but in a sexual scenario it is different so we use as a filter.

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People should respect your choices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 28/11/13 21:48:42]

Sorry to hear your story.

Glad you realise that many so called straight guys on here are not. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 28/11/13 21:48:42]

Sorry to hear your story.

Glad you realise that many so called straight guys on here are not. "

I agree

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

I like people - not labels.

Judge everyone on the merits and be respectful and aware of their needs.

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By *icence_2_Thrill_006.9Man
over a year ago

Sex Bi The Sea

I'm a Bi guy I will not pounce on the man of a couple it's normally the other way around I've found a 'Straight' guy in a couple will end up sucking me as in my experience a lot of women find this a turn on. I have loads of 'Straight' guys wink me fab my pics contact me as well I think they hope I will invite them along to one of my meets and might get 'Lucky' I've found if people are Bi friendly the play is so much more relaxed and sensual and not run a mile when swords cross.

I take people as I find them and like to get on with everyone. I'm sure the 'Straight' guys are just chancing it anyway and if typical are swinging you not only owe it to yourself but more importantly to others to play safe and get regular tests.

Happy swinging everyone

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