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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You're playing with your partner, perhaps with others, perhaps in a club, all is well, you're horny, you're turned on watching your partner with another, and then you cum, but she's still going, as some women do.

And now you're no longer turned on. You might even want to go. But some other man is still playing with her.

How do you handle that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd go and have a beer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Women may of course also have a point of view on this, despite your enviable lack of refractory time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Then you are cooler man than i. I would find that time, well, tricky... Though i recover fast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Comes with the territory really doesn't it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's my concern

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Let her have fun, and watch, you will soon be back in the fray !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And you never have that moment, albeit brief, of thinking: get your fucking hands off her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the best reason ever for being a woman....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There have been occasions when we've been playing with a guy and I've just left them to it once I've done my bit

I'm not the jealous type, I'm not a watcher and I'm not bi so I don't see any point in hanging around like a fart in a lift.

As I said earlier, I'll go and have a beer

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By *esperatewifeWoman
over a year ago

Spalding

A nice cup of tea until she's ready to leave?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just let Mrs N carry on, however it's not arisen very often as being an old fart like me, I often last for ages and ages.


"You're playing with your partner, perhaps with others, perhaps in a club, all is well, you're horny, you're turned on watching your partner with another, and then you cum, but she's still going, as some women do.

And now you're no longer turned on. You might even want to go. But some other man is still playing with her.

How do you handle that?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For me, who has never swung, it wouldn't be jealousy. In a nutshell, comfortable when horny, uncomfortable when not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I suspect i would delay my moment of release to the bitter end, or till when we got home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its only sex have her call when they have finished enjoy a few beers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Says another ice cool man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You ask the question bud

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Correct, the weakness is all mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're playing with your partner, perhaps with others, perhaps in a club, all is well, you're horny, you're turned on watching your partner with another, and then you cum, but she's still going, as some women do.

And now you're no longer turned on. You might even want to go. But some other man is still playing with her.

How do you handle that?"

I'd give it 5 mins and go and play with someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like jealousy to me why swing then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lie back and watch as watching her go to work is the best bit for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't. Just curious as to the mindset, which i may not have. Hats off to you though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

From a womans point of view I would feel uncomfortable if I knew that as soon as it was over for my man his mindset changed like that and I wouldn't want to play at all. If one of us isn't happy we don't repeat the experience it could cause resentment.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

in my humble opinion, I don't think swinging is for you, at least not yet anyway. Fantasies are sometimes kept as that. I would suggest that if you have any doubt about how you would feel about seeing your girl enjoying other partners then don't do it.

Maybe takes things slowly and gently push your boundaries. Maybe just watching and being watched first, then move on to soft swing. The main thing to do is talk to each other after the sessions and work out what you like and what you didn't.

Communication is most definitely the key...

good luck and have fun. And just remeber .. ther is no rush!

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By *ovelybumCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells


"in my humble opinion, I don't think swinging is for you, at least not yet anyway. Fantasies are sometimes kept as that. I would suggest that if you have any doubt about how you would feel about seeing your girl enjoying other partners then don't do it.

Maybe takes things slowly and gently push your boundaries. Maybe just watching and being watched first, then move on to soft swing. The main thing to do is talk to each other after the sessions and work out what you like and what you didn't.

Communication is most definitely the key...

good luck and have fun. And just remeber .. ther is no rush!"

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