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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, been here a month, and I was looking for fun...and no I don't want to go to clubs, go dogging, or wait for "months" before I get a meet, I just wanted some nsa sexy fun with people. I had pics, was friendly, and willing to cam, but imho I think this site isn't a place for the majority of single guys.

The general aggression I have encountered has also surprised me, even when asking simple questions about sexual health..which seems to be a topic quite a few people don't want to address..

So shall I get my coat?

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Given the lack of effort on your profile you're probably right this site isnt a "sign up and get shags day and night" site by any means.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I had a full profile, which I have just removed.. but just thought I'd get a few thoughts from the forum before finally deciding..and I didn't expect instant meets, just something more than a month of wasted time chatting to people who seem unlikely to meet..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crap boring profile. This is not instashag. If ur not willing to put effort in, then yes, go. Too many single men thinking this is the place for an easy lay. Couples and single women, hav a lot of choice, you dnt stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just based on your OP comments. Probably not for you by the sound of it. It doesn't suit everyone. Live and let live.

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By *aughty-PeepsCouple
over a year ago

teesside

lol what questions did you ask and get agressive answers on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a full profile, which I have just removed.. but just thought I'd get a few thoughts from the forum before finally deciding..and I didn't expect instant meets, just something more than a month of wasted time chatting to people who seem unlikely to meet.."

You said in your OP you used to have a profile. There's your proof... people don't read!

Depends on what you want. It's harder for single guys on here. There are some really uptight people which makes it even harder. If you don't fancy clubs etc, maybe try a different site not aimed at swingers?

Up to you really. If it's making you miserable it's not worth it. Good luck. x

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

Bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bye"

Nice objective comment there

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

There are quite a few single guys on here that 'get' what swinging is about.

They do quite well.

The others not so well.

From your OP I'd doubt you will do well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Steel,so do you have any suggestions for any other decent sites which may cater for nsa fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site takes patience and an understanding that just because you have a profile on a swinging site, it doesn't mean that your guaranteed a shag!!

We can't make your mind up for you,

So if you want to go........ Go

If you want to stay....... Put some effort in and stay!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It's up to you, hun. Posting a should I stay or go thread is probably going to be counter-productive, though. Try looking at other people's profiles and work out what gives them the success that eludes you then work on your profile. There is someone for everyone and there is also a site that suits everyone and this may not be yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, been here a month, and I was looking for fun...and no I don't want to go to clubs, go dogging, or wait for "months" before I get a meet, I just wanted some nsa sexy fun with people. I had pics, was friendly, and willing to cam, but imho I think this site isn't a place for the majority of single guys.

The general aggression I have encountered has also surprised me, even when asking simple questions about sexual health..which seems to be a topic quite a few people don't want to address..

So shall I get my coat?"

We messaged 6 couples recently asking if they wish to meet included face pics etc.

We got no responses back.

So we just move on and meet people at clubs etc.

Get out there and meet people, dont waste your time behind a screen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There seems to be some kind of misconception that many people suffer from on this site. They seem to think it operates in similar lines to a pizza delivery business.

In other words every time they have an itch needing scratched they seem to expect to log on & place an order & obtain instant gratification.

Sorry but it simply doesnt work like that.

Put it enough effort, be friendly, remain flexible with people & be patient. Sooner or later your luck will change.

If that sounds like too much effort then go ahead & leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, been here a month, and I was looking for fun...and no I don't want to go to clubs, go dogging, or wait for "months" before I get a meet, I just wanted some nsa sexy fun with people. I had pics, was friendly, and willing to cam, but imho I think this site isn't a place for the majority of single guys.

The general aggression I have encountered has also surprised me, even when asking simple questions about sexual health..which seems to be a topic quite a few people don't want to address..

So shall I get my coat?

We messaged 6 couples recently asking if they wish to meet included face pics etc.

We got no responses back.

So we just move on and meet people at clubs etc.

Get out there and meet people, dont waste your time behind a screen.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only on 4 weeks and disgruntled already is not a good sign.

You claim to be bi-curious but only seeking females and couples. You can't accommodate either these are things that immediately put you at a disadvantage.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies, it's more than the zero response I got from an introduction thread, so I hope all you genuine people have fun. I have now left the building, goodbye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bizarre - if I want to send a PM to OP, the (meagre) profile belongs to a couple in Ohio, US. Hm.... the thot plickens...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh ??

So long farewell auf weidersehn goodbye tra la da da la la de la de da da ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, don't go, its a great place to spend some time and chat to like minded people,

I joined to see what is about, and have been so surprised at the interest people have had in me, and have met some great people, some just for a chat, some for sex.

The only way you can feel let down, or it isn't working, is if you do have expectations.#

Remember your profile is an advert, it is for selling yourself, tell people how you can enrich their lives, make their lives better, for a few hours, or a few hours every week!

It takes 10 seconds to walk past a shop, the shopkeeper has to make you stop, look and come in.

A swinging site is not the place for a quick shag, there are much easier places for random sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, don't go, its a great place to spend some time and chat to like minded people,

I joined to see what is about, and have been so surprised at the interest people have had in me, and have met some great people, some just for a chat, some for sex.

The only way you can feel let down, or it isn't working, is if you do have expectations.#

Remember your profile is an advert, it is for selling yourself, tell people how you can enrich their lives, make their lives better, for a few hours, or a few hours every week!

It takes 10 seconds to walk past a shop, the shopkeeper has to make you stop, look and come in.

A swinging site is not the place for a quick shag, there are much easier places for random sex. "

Too late

Full balls = empty head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure the females on here can attest to the barrage of messages they get from single guys so it really is a case of trying to stand out.

Getting 'into' fab is the hardest part but by no means impossible it just takes a bit of patience and understanding of how things work. Once you've had some success and got verified and got few pics on, people will start to see you're serious.

A lot of people will be put off by the fact you're new as well, which admittedly doesn't help, as there are so many fakes and timewasters on here.

Take a 'long game' approach, be friendly, join in some of the forums threads, try to get a bit of banter going and that'll probably help you immeasurably.

Good luck!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"I'm sure the females on here can attest to the barrage of messages they get from single guys so it really is a case of trying to stand out.

Getting 'into' fab is the hardest part but by no means impossible it just takes a bit of patience and understanding of how things work. Once you've had some success and got verified and got few pics on, people will start to see you're serious.

A lot of people will be put off by the fact you're new as well, which admittedly doesn't help, as there are so many fakes and timewasters on here.

Take a 'long game' approach, be friendly, join in some of the forums threads, try to get a bit of banter going and that'll probably help you immeasurably.

Good luck!

"

Good advice, but horse bolted, stable door,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure the females on here can attest to the barrage of messages they get from single guys so it really is a case of trying to stand out.

Getting 'into' fab is the hardest part but by no means impossible it just takes a bit of patience and understanding of how things work. Once you've had some success and got verified and got few pics on, people will start to see you're serious.

A lot of people will be put off by the fact you're new as well, which admittedly doesn't help, as there are so many fakes and timewasters on here.

Take a 'long game' approach, be friendly, join in some of the forums threads, try to get a bit of banter going and that'll probably help you immeasurably.

Good luck!

Good advice, but horse bolted, stable door, "

The bugger was still on here when I sent that about 10 mins ago!

It wasn't me was it?

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

I'm going to give you the secret now to get women falling over themselves to meet you. It's really easy.

What you do is........oh, he's gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well he did warn you but you didn't listen!!

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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago

The Dungeon

He's gone, which is a shame as with his attitude he would have been the new stud of the site...... Oh well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another one bites the dust!

One less single male to compete with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another one bites the dust!

One less single male to compete with "

Do you have a cunning plan to get more out ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to give you the secret now to get women falling over themselves to meet you. It's really easy.

What you do is........oh, he's gone "

Oh, do tell your secret. Lol

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