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By *oodles696969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Hi guys,

I'm pretty new to this site but wondered what the usual after meet etiquette is?

I had a meet last week and I thought it went well and we both had fun. I sent the guy a message the next day just saying hi last night was fun hope to do it again. I'd not heard anything back from him which I was a bit disappointed about but hey. Then tonight I got a message from him saying are you gonna verify me then?

To me that's pretty rude or is it fairly normal to meet then that be the end of it? Or did I just meet an idiot? Lol

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

who knows .... plenty more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes that is rude, I always send a thank you had a good time etc.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Well you did the right thing ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just met an idiot....I've had one or two like that, block him and move on. ..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell them, if you fancy any more sex, you got my number lol x.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If the meet went well I ask the guy if he wants to be verified (some don't) then I verify him. And if I'm lucky he might verify me.

As for other stuff, I usually text saying that I had a good night, but as I rarely re-meet I don't usually say anything about meeting again.

I would say that the guy wasn't very diplomatic about the way he requested a verification, but it's probably the case he doesn't want to meet again.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I'm usually grinning like a bastard with my heart pounding as I'm driving back. I alays have to send a text just to make sure they havent fainted and passed out I'm usually eating a mcdonnalds at this point though

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

ive had blokes asked me to verify them I have also met them again so time will tell I hope you asked him to give you a glowing very too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually send a thank you text next day , followed by a verification x I think it's only polite too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think thats rude ...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It is quite abrupt but this isn't dating and most people see it as nsa. Of course this doesn't mean that you can be rude but some people might interpret it in a way that means they don't need to observe social niceties. You are under no obligation to verify him, did he verify you?

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

after a meet they usually text with a thanku

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes its a meet and thats the end of that

I would be stubborn and not verify him,he was'nt polite enough to respond to your message of thanks .....but thats just me, if hes already verified and shows them you could give him a verification he would never forget but would'nt want to show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes that is very rude, I don't want to be blunt but perhaps he didn't think it went as well... As you had thought...

But he's not really bothered so long as he gets a verification... Time to message for a veri... Then certainly time to veri and say thankyou... I certainly wouldn't be veryfying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys,

I'm pretty new to this site but wondered what the usual after meet etiquette is?

I had a meet last week and I thought it went well and we both had fun. I sent the guy a message the next day just saying hi last night was fun hope to do it again. I'd not heard anything back from him which I was a bit disappointed about but hey. Then tonight I got a message from him saying are you gonna verify me then?

To me that's pretty rude or is it fairly normal to meet then that be the end of it? Or did I just meet an idiot? Lol"

Say to him that you'll be happy to reciprocate a verification. The onus is then all his.

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"Hi guys,

I'm pretty new to this site but wondered what the usual after meet etiquette is?

I had a meet last week and I thought it went well and we both had fun. I sent the guy a message the next day just saying hi last night was fun hope to do it again. I'd not heard anything back from him which I was a bit disappointed about but hey. Then tonight I got a message from him saying are you gonna verify me then?

To me that's pretty rude or is it fairly normal to meet then that be the end of it? Or did I just meet an idiot? Lol"

He sounds very rude. Did he verify you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send one saying " good with his hands " - code for hopeless with his cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the majority view. Even though this isn't a dating site it's only manners to respond to your message and not just wait to see if you'll verify him.

To be honest, it doesn't sound like he deserves one!

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

After meet messages can vary from person to person. Some people you will meet again some you wont even if your meet was great. Wouldn't be disheartened or put off by it though his attitude from what you've described does stink

If you wish to leave a veri then fine as you have met him. If you don't want to then that's cool too but i don't think you should be forced or pressured in to a veri by someone regardless of meeting them

Welcome to the world of fabs

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By *oodles696969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Thanks guys

He hasn't verified me but he won't be able to as he isn't verified

It was just the abruptness of his request for the verification and a week down the line. I was a bit wtf!

I can't stand rude people and get that it's nsa but well there's no need to be rude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always message to say thank you. I think he's a bit rude if he's ignored your message and asks for a verification a week later! Id be stubborn and not write one

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By *allen MadonnaWoman
over a year ago

In my own little world

ah so i'm not the only one who gets such messages.

i also get blanked in chatrooms afterwards.

grrr!

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"Thanks guys

He hasn't verified me but he won't be able to as he isn't verified

It was just the abruptness of his request for the verification and a week down the line. I was a bit wtf!

I can't stand rude people and get that it's nsa but well there's no need to be rude! "

Oh I didn't realise you met two people last week

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

maybe he just wants to notch up as many women as he can you should do what you think best but remember you don't have to give them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

courtesy costs nothing, whether it's some positive feedback or it's indicating there won't be a repeat performance - at least that's my view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm usually grinning like a bastard with my heart pounding as I'm driving back. I alays have to send a text just to make sure they havent fainted and passed out I'm usually eating a mcdonnalds at this point though "

ha ha I always seem to head to Mcdonalds after a meet.....and then I can send a nice text/veri whilst getting my breath back!

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Ok this may be an NSA sex site but we don't see that as an excuse to chuck manners out of the window.

We always text after a meet to say thanks, we always would unless something went very wrong on the meet. Every time our meets have text us we have replied in kinda.

As for Veri's we have never asked for one and never would. If a meet wanted to that's great. But it's not taken for granted and obviously if they don't offer a veri they didn't think much of the meet...

To not reply to your text and then ask for a veri in such a way just takes the piss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys

He hasn't verified me but he won't be able to as he isn't verified

It was just the abruptness of his request for the verification and a week down the line. I was a bit wtf!

I can't stand rude people and get that it's nsa but well there's no need to be rude!

Oh I didn't realise you met two people last week"

what difference does that make??

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By *oodles696969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"Thanks guys

He hasn't verified me but he won't be able to as he isn't verified

It was just the abruptness of his request for the verification and a week down the line. I was a bit wtf!

I can't stand rude people and get that it's nsa but well there's no need to be rude!

Oh I didn't realise you met two people last week

what difference does that make??"

You took words out of my mouth!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

If you want to verify him... do so.

If you don't then don't

It's not compulsary...

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

One side of the story and all that.....

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Thanks guys

He hasn't verified me but he won't be able to as he isn't verified

It was just the abruptness of his request for the verification and a week down the line. I was a bit wtf!

I can't stand rude people and get that it's nsa but well there's no need to be rude! "

erm.... i'm really sorry cause i know the question i'm about to ask can and may get taken the wrong way but....

..do you think by any chance he only met you to get verified

I don't mean that in a nasty way cause you are a lovely looking lass but some people will meet someone they don't necessarily like just to get their first veri sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys

He hasn't verified me but he won't be able to as he isn't verified

It was just the abruptness of his request for the verification and a week down the line. I was a bit wtf!

I can't stand rude people and get that it's nsa but well there's no need to be rude! "

Ok, then tell him you'll verify after the second meet

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"One side of the story and all that....."

+1

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"Thanks guys

He hasn't verified me but he won't be able to as he isn't verified

It was just the abruptness of his request for the verification and a week down the line. I was a bit wtf!

I can't stand rude people and get that it's nsa but well there's no need to be rude!

Oh I didn't realise you met two people last week

what difference does that make??

You took words out of my mouth! "

because I thought it was the same guy that asked for a veri back.......

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

always a thank you next day, then maybe get another meet with them , as iv done on few occassions

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By *oodles696969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"Thanks guys

He hasn't verified me but he won't be able to as he isn't verified

It was just the abruptness of his request for the verification and a week down the line. I was a bit wtf!

I can't stand rude people and get that it's nsa but well there's no need to be rude!

erm.... i'm really sorry cause i know the question i'm about to ask can and may get taken the wrong way but....

..do you think by any chance he only met you to get verified

I don't mean that in a nasty way cause you are a lovely looking lass but some people will meet someone they don't necessarily like just to get their first veri sorted "

No offence taken! I was thinking the same! I thought my idiot filter was pretty good but this one slipped through! Ah well onwards and upwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't usually have that situation,ignoring ur thanku message,then asking week later for veri in that way is very rude

I am polite like u send a thanku message,I do a veri automatically if a first meet within a few days.generally I get a reply of similar,,also i accept there friends request,I don't always get a veri so I write in there private notes date and where met because I'm scatty,some guys are a one off and some are nice enough to meet again,after care is important when it comes to remeets,I like to chat accasionally but not in eachothers pocket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One side of the story and all that....."

Stop with the rationality... I can't be as it's the wrong time of the month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys

He hasn't verified me but he won't be able to as he isn't verified

It was just the abruptness of his request for the verification and a week down the line. I was a bit wtf!

I can't stand rude people and get that it's nsa but well there's no need to be rude!

erm.... i'm really sorry cause i know the question i'm about to ask can and may get taken the wrong way but....

..do you think by any chance he only met you to get verified

I don't mean that in a nasty way cause you are a lovely looking lass but some people will meet someone they don't necessarily like just to get their first veri sorted

No offence taken! I was thinking the same! I thought my idiot filter was pretty good but this one slipped through! Ah well onwards and upwards "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

should have just pretended u couldnt remember the meet..problem solved

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"I'm usually grinning like a bastard with my heart pounding as I'm driving back. I alays have to send a text just to make sure they havent fainted and passed out I'm usually eating a mcdonnalds at this point though

ha ha I always seem to head to Mcdonalds after a meet.....and then I can send a nice text/veri whilst getting my breath back!"

pmsl, this should be the real meaning of post meet etiquitte!

smile like a dick at the drive through, challenge tomato sauce to get on ya chips and send a random 'great, stonking shag' text as you sit there throbbing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys

He hasn't verified me but he won't be able to as he isn't verified

It was just the abruptness of his request for the verification and a week down the line. I was a bit wtf!

I can't stand rude people and get that it's nsa but well there's no need to be rude!

erm.... i'm really sorry cause i know the question i'm about to ask can and may get taken the wrong way but....

..do you think by any chance he only met you to get verified

I don't mean that in a nasty way cause you are a lovely looking lass but some people will meet someone they don't necessarily like just to get their first veri sorted

No offence taken! I was thinking the same! I thought my idiot filter was pretty good but this one slipped through! Ah well onwards and upwards "

All he had to do is give that reply (aftercare) then he would have got the veri if asked politely,put it down to experience and don't worry about it.he mite learn something too from this

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By *oodles696969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"should have just pretended u couldnt remember the meet..problem solved "

Why didn't I think of this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"should have just pretended u couldnt remember the meet..problem solved

Why didn't I think of this? "

I dunno...but meet me, I'll text u after the meet to say ur gorgeous and i had a great time, look out for ur astoundingly tasty verify and hope to meet again

x

I'm smooth, if vomit inducingly sweet

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Sounds rude to me !!! Rude is rude wether your on a swingers site or in church on sunday !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"should have just pretended u couldnt remember the meet..problem solved

Why didn't I think of this?

I dunno...but meet me, I'll text u after the meet to say ur gorgeous and i had a great time, look out for ur astoundingly tasty verify and hope to meet again

x

I'm smooth, if vomit inducingly sweet "

Loon! Love it

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"One side of the story and all that.....

Stop with the rationality... I can't be as it's the wrong time of the month. "

Hehehe

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By *oodles696969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"should have just pretended u couldnt remember the meet..problem solved

Why didn't I think of this?

I dunno...but meet me, I'll text u after the meet to say ur gorgeous and i had a great time, look out for ur astoundingly tasty verify and hope to meet again

x

I'm smooth, if vomit inducingly sweet "

Someone pass the bucket!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"should have just pretended u couldnt remember the meet..problem solved

Why didn't I think of this?

I dunno...but meet me, I'll text u after the meet to say ur gorgeous and i had a great time, look out for ur astoundingly tasty verify and hope to meet again

x

I'm smooth, if vomit inducingly sweet

Loon! Love it "

winkwink its all true x

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Thanks guys

He hasn't verified me but he won't be able to as he isn't verified

It was just the abruptness of his request for the verification and a week down the line. I was a bit wtf!

I can't stand rude people and get that it's nsa but well there's no need to be rude!

erm.... i'm really sorry cause i know the question i'm about to ask can and may get taken the wrong way but....

..do you think by any chance he only met you to get verified

I don't mean that in a nasty way cause you are a lovely looking lass but some people will meet someone they don't necessarily like just to get their first veri sorted

No offence taken! I was thinking the same! I thought my idiot filter was pretty good but this one slipped through! Ah well onwards and upwards "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"should have just pretended u couldnt remember the meet..problem solved

Why didn't I think of this?

I dunno...but meet me, I'll text u after the meet to say ur gorgeous and i had a great time, look out for ur astoundingly tasty verify and hope to meet again

x

I'm smooth, if vomit inducingly sweet

Someone pass the bucket I've gushed all over the floor and it keeps coming, who is this guy..I gotta meet him WoW...soaked x mmmmm x! "

well thats nice...when can we meet?xxx

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By *oodles696969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"should have just pretended u couldnt remember the meet..problem solved

Why didn't I think of this?

I dunno...but meet me, I'll text u after the meet to say ur gorgeous and i had a great time, look out for ur astoundingly tasty verify and hope to meet again

x

I'm smooth, if vomit inducingly sweet

Someone pass the bucket I've gushed all over the floor and it keeps coming, who is this guy..I gotta meet him WoW...soaked x mmmmm x!

well thats nice...when can we meet?xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This subject reminded me of when with my wife, we used to meet guys for threesomes. Most times it was either a my god we've got to meet again, or that was great - thanks ! But once as we were leaving a house in islington, I said cheers or something inane and I looked back and saw my wife shaking the guys hand !!! I thought ten minutes ago he was shoving his cock up you're arse and your shaking his hand ! Bless her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This subject reminded me of when with my wife, we used to meet guys for threesomes. Most times it was either a my god we've got to meet again, or that was great - thanks ! But once as we were leaving a house in islington, I said cheers or something inane and I looked back and saw my wife shaking the guys hand !!! I thought ten minutes ago he was shoving his cock up you're arse and your shaking his hand ! Bless her. "

maybe she was slipping him a fiver...

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Bradford


"Thanks guys

He hasn't verified me but he won't be able to as he isn't verified

It was just the abruptness of his request for the verification and a week down the line. I was a bit wtf!

I can't stand rude people and get that it's nsa but well there's no need to be rude! "

We had a similar with a guy we'd previously met but then he left and re-joined later. He approached us asking if we'd re-verify him and he'd do likewise with us. We didn't verify him straight away and the next message was almost a demand we verified him NOW. Needless to say we didn't and when we challenged his rudeness, he waffled that it was because he was using his mobile. We didn't re-verify and Nor did he us.

We're quite genuine but have learnt the hard way that there are few 'friends' in swinging although you will meet some nice people, we're all in it for our own ends.

We don't think you've done anything wrong and broken no etiquette by not verifying him. Enjoy yourself and see who else there is out there! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He sounds a bit rude, I'd not be leaving a veri. Most of my meets have wanted tk meet again but even with the one or two that haven't they have sent a message to say thanks for a nice time etc, some ask for a veri but do do politely.

Some do just meet anyone to get verified, I know a guy who admits his first meet was just to get the green tick, he never displayed hers.

I'd be giving him a lesson in manners and ignoring him.

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By *zanyCouple
over a year ago

truro

Guys a bedroom notch counter best move on. What a wally !! After all to get intermit is a great compliment no matter how it went and should be treated with respect which is clearly lacking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My inbuilt sense of manners means I'd say thank you etc in a message and verify.

IMO it's discourteous as a first après sex contact to demand a veri, so I'd probably not bother and block him.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


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I read it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send a thank u text x he just sounds bloody rude x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I send a message when I get back home thanking them for it. It's only polite.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We will usually send a text or a message once we are home or failing that the following morning. Most people reply....

We will usually send a verification even if we don't want to meet again (as long as they match their profile) We actually find it very rude for someone to ask for one.

Different things work for different people. Some of our friends we keep in regular contact with and others we don't really speak to, other than when arranging a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a little bit of both.

have your verified him?

if not then verify to reflect how he was.

the meet was good, however was a little ignorant or distant afterwards, then leave it to him to decide to display it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys,

I'm pretty new to this site but wondered what the usual after meet etiquette is?

I had a meet last week and I thought it went well and we both had fun. I sent the guy a message the next day just saying hi last night was fun hope to do it again. I'd not heard anything back from him which I was a bit disappointed about but hey. Then tonight I got a message from him saying are you gonna verify me then?

To me that's pretty rude or is it fairly normal to meet then that be the end of it? Or did I just meet an idiot?

Lol"

So funny as you look so pretty and who wouldn't want to meet you again? There are some stupid guys so don't take it personally and atleast you learnt a lesson from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would find it unthinkable not to get in touch to say thank you and arrange to meet again if we got on well enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes its a meet and thats the end of that

I would be stubborn and not verify him,he was'nt polite enough to respond to your message of thanks .....but thats just me, if hes already verified and shows them you could give him a verification he would never forget but would'nt want to show "

Just ignore him, dont leave a verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After meet etiquette.

Scratch balls,

bath in weak bleach solution.

good fry up or take away.

look for next meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys,

I'm pretty new to this site but wondered what the usual after meet etiquette is?

I had a meet last week and I thought it went well and we both had fun. I sent the guy a message the next day just saying hi last night was fun hope to do it again. I'd not heard anything back from him which I was a bit disappointed about but hey. Then tonight I got a message from him saying are you gonna verify me then?

To me that's pretty rude or is it fairly normal to meet then that be the end of it? Or did I just meet an idiot? Lol"

Maybe you should have asked the guy himself rather than put this up. One thing for sure he will be thinking if he reads this is you lack any discretion. After all without asking you don't know if he is distracted due to a family achievement, a job loss, an accident or if its ignorance. All you will get asking here is bitter people making assumptions and jumping in with 2 feet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its nice to text, and to receive a text x

nicer to receive a repeat invite tho!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"should have just pretended u couldnt remember the meet..problem solved "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys,

I'm pretty new to this site but wondered what the usual after meet etiquette is?

I had a meet last week and I thought it went well and we both had fun. I sent the guy a message the next day just saying hi last night was fun hope to do it again. I'd not heard anything back from him which I was a bit disappointed about but hey. Then tonight I got a message from him saying are you gonna verify me then?

To me that's pretty rude or is it fairly normal to meet then that be the end of it? Or did I just meet an idiot? Lol

Maybe you should have asked the guy himself rather than put this up. One thing for sure he will be thinking if he reads this is you lack any discretion. After all without asking you don't know if he is distracted due to a family achievement, a job loss, an accident or if its ignorance. All you will get asking here is bitter people making assumptions and jumping in with 2 feet. "

On the face of it, it is rude, but as the above poster says , something might have cropped up. Ask him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys,

I'm pretty new to this site but wondered what the usual after meet etiquette is?

I had a meet last week and I thought it went well and we both had fun. I sent the guy a message the next day just saying hi last night was fun hope to do it again. I'd not heard anything back from him which I was a bit disappointed about but hey. Then tonight I got a message from him saying are you gonna verify me then?

To me that's pretty rude or is it fairly normal to meet then that be the end of it? Or did I just meet an idiot? Lol

Maybe you should have asked the guy himself rather than put this up. One thing for sure he will be thinking if he reads this is you lack any discretion. After all without asking you don't know if he is distracted due to a family achievement, a job loss, an accident or if its ignorance. All you will get asking here is bitter people making assumptions and jumping in with 2 feet. "

If he had been distracted by a family tragedy or job loss then he would have mentioned it when he sent text asking for verification though.

Not that difficult to send a quick text message is it?

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I'd probably say something like 'Oh, hello. Seeing as you didn't bother replying to my text I assumed you didn't want to hear anything more from me so didn't do a veri.'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He sounds rude! A quick thank you that was fun message costs nothing. Don't veri, block and move on hun x

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

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"Hi guys,

I'm pretty new to this site but wondered what the usual after meet etiquette is?

I had a meet last week and I thought it went well and we both had fun. I sent the guy a message the next day just saying hi last night was fun hope to do it again. I'd not heard anything back from him which I was a bit disappointed about but hey. Then tonight I got a message from him saying are you gonna verify me then?

To me that's pretty rude or is it fairly normal to meet then that be the end of it? Or did I just meet an idiot? Lol"

Were you his first meet, as this may explain why he asked for the veri (I agree that if he asked like that it is a rude way of asking).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it was rude. I verify and message to say thank you, its polite.

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I'd have asked him which one he was as I couldn't remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think he is being really rude, if not unpleasant. Stikes of fuck and run, had his way, wants the verification so he can try another. Horrid.

I always thank a lady for the lovely time, ask if she wants a verification and hope we can meet again soon for more fun. I even do that with socials, surely its treat people as you would want to be treated yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did he wipe his cock on the curtains?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd have asked him which one he was as I couldn't remember "

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By *uper_gMan
over a year ago

london

Normally end it with a.......

"same time tomorrow night!!!"

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