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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Morning,

It's been almost 2 days since there was a thread where people go around the houses with their opinions on what Cuckolding is. So I thought I would start another one.

What is cuckolding?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Diff meaning to diff people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Morning,

It's been almost 2 days since there was a thread where people go around the houses with their opinions on what Cuckolding is. So I thought I would start another one.

What is cuckolding?

"

So what is yours?

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By *ohnny4playMan
over a year ago

Kinross

Anyone who calls themselves a cuckold is most probably a wittol.

Discuss.

(I had to reach for a good dictionary too!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good definition on Wikipedia.

Being a str8 cuckold I do sometimes get fed up with the belief in some quarters on FAB that being a cuck makes you bi. For some it does, but for others , including myself, it certainly doesn't.

The golden rule I guess is that everyone must be happy with what they are doing.

I was going to say comfortable, but then thought no, that's no strictly true. I for one often get a kick out of being uncomfortable, ie will I get to see?, will i be kicked out of the room? will he want to met her on his own or her him? and so forth. Works for me and suspect it may for other fellow cucks.

Being a cuck, the head fuck as we as a couple call it is very important. The mental side of being a cuck, that heady mix of pain and pleasure is where the pleasure often comes from. A contradictory statment that's true, but I find being a happy cuckold often means having several contradictions going on at the sametime to make it work. That may only make sense to a fellow cuckold.

Anyway my two pennies worth and just a few thoughts I thought I'd share.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone who calls themselves a cuckold is most probably a wittol.

Discuss.

(I had to reach for a good dictionary too!)"

Wittol is a new definition I've not heard until now. I don't see the difference between that being a cuckold. Unless Cuckolding is the Adjective and the Wittol the Noun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's more a case of usage change. In modern dialect then cuckold is widely accepted as being the same.

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By *ohnny4playMan
over a year ago

Kinross


"Anyone who calls themselves a cuckold is most probably a wittol.

Discuss.

(I had to reach for a good dictionary too!)

Wittol is a new definition I've not heard until now. I don't see the difference between that being a cuckold. Unless Cuckolding is the Adjective and the Wittol the Noun."

The difference is the cuckold is unknowing of the fact his partner is having sex with someone else, whereas a wittol knows.

So a cuckold will become a wittol once he finds out, unless you are there at the time, in which case you become a wittol without being a cuckold.

When I was married and shared her, I was a wittol, she then subsequently played without my knowledge so at that point I was being cuckold too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good definition on Wikipedia.

Being a str8 cuckold I do sometimes get fed up with the belief in some quarters on FAB that being a cuck makes you bi. For some it does, but for others , including myself, it certainly doesn't.

The golden rule I guess is that everyone must be happy with what they are doing.

I was going to say comfortable, but then thought no, that's no strictly true. I for one often get a kick out of being uncomfortable, ie will I get to see?, will i be kicked out of the room? will he want to met her on his own or her him? and so forth. Works for me and suspect it may for other fellow cucks.

Being a cuck, the head fuck as we as a couple call it is very important. The mental side of being a cuck, that heady mix of pain and pleasure is where the pleasure often comes from. A contradictory statment that's true, but I find being a happy cuckold often means having several contradictions going on at the sametime to make it work. That may only make sense to a fellow cuckold.

Anyway my two pennies worth and just a few thoughts I thought I'd share.

"

A lovely paradoxical description here. How can you be "happy" if your wife or girlfriend is being pleasured by another man. But yes you are happy and yet unhappy at the same time. As you say " It's a head fuck". I battle with it all the time. Do I organise a couple meet this weekend which she prefers or should I get that hot bloke in we met last time. Oh the glorious dilemma's of being in a swinging relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good definition on Wikipedia.

Being a str8 cuckold I do sometimes get fed up with the belief in some quarters on FAB that being a cuck makes you bi. For some it does, but for others , including myself, it certainly doesn't.

The golden rule I guess is that everyone must be happy with what they are doing.

I was going to say comfortable, but then thought no, that's no strictly true. I for one often get a kick out of being uncomfortable, ie will I get to see?, will i be kicked out of the room? will he want to met her on his own or her him? and so forth. Works for me and suspect it may for other fellow cucks.

Being a cuck, the head fuck as we as a couple call it is very important. The mental side of being a cuck, that heady mix of pain and pleasure is where the pleasure often comes from. A contradictory statment that's true, but I find being a happy cuckold often means having several contradictions going on at the sametime to make it work. That may only make sense to a fellow cuckold.

Anyway my two pennies worth and just a few thoughts I thought I'd share.

A lovely paradoxical description here. How can you be "happy" if your wife or girlfriend is being pleasured by another man. But yes you are happy and yet unhappy at the same time. As you say " It's a head fuck". I battle with it all the time. Do I organise a couple meet this weekend which she prefers or should I get that hot bloke in we met last time. Oh the glorious dilemma's of being in a swinging relationship."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You go on at some length how it's a big favourite for you in your profile and yet you don't know what it's about?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You go on at some length how it's a big favourite for you in your profile and yet you don't know what it's about?"

This was a joke, there are lots of threads on here with people constantly discussing their opinions on what Cuckolding is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may be a bit naive but I generally have no idea what this cuckolding is. Am I the only one who has never come across this term before? In fact there are a few terms on here I have never come across before, and I thought I was quite knowledgeable in the sex scene, lol. A simple definition in lehmans terms please?

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

There are lots of different versions of cuckolding.

It's a broad church. Put quite simply it can go from something as simple as wife watching all the way to, what some would call feminisation.(spelling)

Probably the simplest way to think of it is a power play where the ball is more or less in the ladies court.

ie Swinging, we both go together and we both swing

Cuckolding, we may go together, but the lady does what she likes the man watches, or maybe the man does not go at all.

Anyway it's a broad church and hard to pin down an exact meaning.

Higher up there is the definition which you would probably get in a dictionary of a cuckold, but by that definition, no one can call themselves a cuck as they would not know.

Most cuckolding tends to have an element of consent about it. The dictionary definition would probably just be described as cheating or having an affair.

But that's my thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Morning,

It's been almost 2 days since there was a thread where people go around the houses with their opinions on what Cuckolding is. So I thought I would start another one.

What is cuckolding?

I have a feeling of deja vu.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are lots of different versions of cuckolding.

It's a broad church. Put quite simply it can go from something as simple as wife watching all the way to, what some would call feminisation.(spelling)

Probably the simplest way to think of it is a power play where the ball is more or less in the ladies court.

ie Swinging, we both go together and we both swing

Cuckolding, we may go together, but the lady does what she likes the man watches, or maybe the man does not go at all.

Anyway it's a broad church and hard to pin down an exact meaning.

Higher up there is the definition which you would probably get in a dictionary of a cuckold, but by that definition, no one can call themselves a cuck as they would not know.

Most cuckolding tends to have an element of consent about it. The dictionary definition would probably just be described as cheating or having an affair.

But that's my thoughts."

Fantastic well balanced definition. Well done, got across in a few lines what I'd have to write a few pages to convey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't believe the complexity some people go into to justify the pleasure at seeing someone shag your wife/partner. It's pretty basic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on why a couple seek it - For example, I was recently asked as it was just to turn the male partner on. Another time it was to achieve something else.

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Is it not a place where people grow their own produce in a self sufficient way?

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