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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

waste so much time on fab instead of going to a club and actually getting laid?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I can safely say cos I fucking like being a single guy who gets shags, groups sex etc etc...how dare u anyway..

there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought you were going to sing

'suddenly appear, every time, you are near?'

In answer to your question, possibly because they don't like swinging clubs, or aren't willing to pay £50 per visit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yawn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oops..I thought u meant vanilla clubs lol

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

....suddenly appear...every time you are near....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I can safely say cos I fucking like being a single guy who gets shags, groups sex etc etc...how dare u anyway..

there "

Lol.... I'm bored in case you hadn't guessed..... thawt I'd stir things up.

Trying to think of something really controversial next!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Some guys have great results on here without going to clubs. Some not so much, I do think those that really struggle sometimes might have more luck trying a club but I can totally understand the reasons why they wouldn't want to, cost, nerves, distance, etc x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I can safely say cos I fucking like being a single guy who gets shags, groups sex etc etc...how dare u anyway..

there

Lol.... I'm bored in case you hadn't guessed..... thawt I'd stir things up.

Trying to think of something really controversial next! "

didnt really stir me up , I just thought "heres another couple acting like twats"..but after reading of course I realised u meant going to swing clubs..which I agree with...but only for the guys(or couples) moaning that the sites full of fakes n timewasters...when I know its simply not the case..as thousands of others do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

bored cos my wife's at work. Watching die hard 4.... again.

Same ol threads keep popping up; why can't I get laid, rate me, yah de yah....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bored cos my wife's at work. Watching die hard 4.... again.

Same ol threads keep popping up; why can't I get laid, rate me, yah de yah...."

I'm bored too..fancy having a mutual wank about ur wife?...nothing gay, just some caressing touches and spunky lips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha sorry we don't do couples ,so don't you worry yourself we good we single and having fun (: after all it's fabswingers not coupleswingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guy like me don't drive so going to clubs is hard so it's easier on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some guy like me don't drive so going to clubs is hard so it's easier on here "

thats a bit of a rubbish excuse..if I can make it to clubs down south a few months apart..surely someone localish to a few can lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But do you drive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But do you drive? "

been going to clubs,socials,parties for almost six years...some very far away as I pointed out and...

I dont drive

I can book a bus from glasgow to london and back for £40, hotels are pretty cheap etc etc etc...

there is no excuse for anyoine saying they cant get to clubs, unless they are living in extremely remote areas, have no friends..or just simply hate the idea of meeting in a club

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I love single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not the money or the traveling it's having someone to go with. You feel a bit of a sad twat going on your own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I you must be in a good job lol I'm not so money quite tight so a little harder for me don't like to say but I have too now part time work that all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who says we dont

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not the money or the traveling it's having someone to go with. You feel a bit of a sad twat going on your own. "

Oh please don't feel like that; we love the single guys in the clubs. It's great fun with couples. Even more when it's several couples but single guys should never feel like 'sad twats' in a club. We NEED you to play with!

You don't need to be Bi to catch our eye. Just smile and be friendly. We love to play as does everyone else in the clubs. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not the money or the traveling it's having someone to go with. You feel a bit of a sad twat going on your own.

Oh please don't feel like that; we love the single guys in the clubs. It's great fun with couples. Even more when it's several couples but single guys should never feel like 'sad twats' in a club. We NEED you to play with!

You don't need to be Bi to catch our eye. Just smile and be friendly. We love to play as does everyone else in the clubs. xxx"

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By *iggamanMan
over a year ago

London


"waste so much time on fab instead of going to a club and actually getting laid?"

I'm really getting fed up with these bash the singe guy threads there popping up daily now i think it's ridiculous the amount times we get singled out (wrongly)

and to answer your question the same various reasons some single ladies or couples don't go to clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"bored cos my wife's at work. Watching die hard 4.... again.

Same ol threads keep popping up; why can't I get laid, rate me, yah de yah....

I'm bored too..fancy having a mutual wank about ur wife?...nothing gay, just some caressing touches and spunky lips "

Lol; you can wank as you look at her in those pics... She'd love to know you were. I'll save my cum for when she gets home tho. Nothing gay; just good hard straight sex tonight!

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By *iggamanMan
over a year ago

London


"It's not the money or the traveling it's having someone to go with. You feel a bit of a sad twat going on your own. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"waste so much time on fab instead of going to a club and actually getting laid?

I'm really getting fed up with these bash the singe guy threads there popping up daily now i think it's ridiculous the amount times we get singled out (wrongly) well said dude , nothing wrong with being single , in a relationship married this and that .We in fab to get laid the whole lot!

and to answer your question the same various reasons some single ladies or couples don't go to clubs "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"waste so much time on fab instead of going to a club and actually getting laid?

I'm really getting fed up with these bash the singe guy threads there popping up daily now i think it's ridiculous the amount times we get singled out (wrongly)

and to answer your question the same various reasons some single ladies or couples don't go to clubs "

spot on! Oh and I like single men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"waste so much time on fab instead of going to a club and actually getting laid?"

I don't waste time. I get meets ...but ta.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"waste so much time on fab instead of going to a club and actually getting laid?"

You offering to go to a club with me then

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"I love single guys "

And you're prepared to admit it in the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people seem to worry far too much about what other people are up too on here instead of enjoying themselves

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"waste so much time on fab instead of going to a club and actually getting laid?"
What exactly has it got to do with you? Just askin.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do couple or women alwais slate single men here lol.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Why do couple or women alwais slate single men here lol."
We don't ALL slate single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do couple or women alwais slate single men here lol.We don't ALL slate single guys. "

lol ur right there, I gues its their loss lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bored cos my wife's at work. Watching die hard 4.... again.

Same ol threads keep popping up; why can't I get laid, rate me, yah de yah....

I'm bored too..fancy having a mutual wank about ur wife?...nothing gay, just some caressing touches and spunky lips "

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"But do you drive?

been going to clubs,socials,parties for almost six years...some very far away as I pointed out and...

I dont drive

I can book a bus from glasgow to london and back for £40, hotels are pretty cheap etc etc etc...

there is no excuse for anyoine saying they cant get to clubs, unless they are living in extremely remote areas, have no friends..or just simply hate the idea of meeting in a club"

I confirm that Paddy is the king of long distance bus trips!!! and other things too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do couple or women alwais slate single men here lol.We don't ALL slate single guys. "

No but most do! We're like the runt if the litter ok when desperate but otherwise keep away

(again saying not all just most)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"waste so much time on fab instead of going to a club and actually getting laid?"
come on more

Stop having a go at us singles guys

I don't go to clubs cause its expensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

£50 per visit wow now i know why alot of guys dont or wont go did think about going to see what they were like but heard some are abit close knit so at that sort of money would put alot off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Derrrrr......... because i don't want to go to one !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw it as an observation taken from other threads where guys have been moaning about not getting meet. Going to clubs is merely a suggestion and a good one. It might not suit everyone but it might be the answer to others.

I didn't see this as "single guy bashing" at all and I'm getting bored of a lot of seeing perfectly reasonable threads being turned into accusations from some single guys moaning and making these accusations.

There's some gorgeous great single guys on fab, looks like OP has met a few. We have too. But we prefer the non moany positive types everytime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....suddenly appear...every time you are near...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But do you drive?

been going to clubs,socials,parties for almost six years...some very far away as I pointed out and...

I dont drive

I can book a bus from glasgow to london and back for £40, hotels are pretty cheap etc etc etc...

there is no excuse for anyoine saying they cant get to clubs, unless they are living in extremely remote areas, have no friends..or just simply hate the idea of meeting in a club"

No offense but you could potentially spend nearly £100 on both of those, unless you book in advance; money you lose if you have to cancel. Then entry to the club, the cost goes on, not everyone can afford that kind of money. I certainly couldn't attend the vicars and tarts party this evening at Chameleons without my friend paying for the hotel and entrance fee so kind of works both ways as I would love to go to a club on my own but couldn't afford to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always though, maybe one night I'll give it a go, go to a club, to say I've done it, but paying £30 to £50 to get in????? Really???? Is that how much it is for one night. Fucking hell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"waste so much time on fab instead of going to a club and actually getting laid?come on more

Stop having a go at us singles guys

I don't go to clubs cause its expensive. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....suddenly appear...every time you are near....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I saw it as an observation taken from other threads where guys have been moaning about not getting meet. Going to clubs is merely a suggestion and a good one. It might not suit everyone but it might be the answer to others.

I didn't see this as "single guy bashing" at all and I'm getting bored of a lot of seeing perfectly reasonable threads being turned into accusations from some single guys moaning and making these accusations.

There's some gorgeous great single guys on fab, looks like OP has met a few. We have too. But we prefer the non moany positive types everytime. "

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I have always though, maybe one night I'll give it a go, go to a club, to say I've done it, but paying £30 to £50 to get in????? Really???? Is that how much it is for one night. Fucking hell!

"

Depends how you look at it tho. A decent night club is £10 plus to get in then charges extortionate money for drinks. Some clubs maybe expensive to get in but you barely spend anything once your inside especially if you don't drink. Couple of quid for soft drinks. Or take your own. Just need to find the clubs that don't have expensive joining fees etc xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have always though, maybe one night I'll give it a go, go to a club, to say I've done it, but paying £30 to £50 to get in????? Really???? Is that how much it is for one night. Fucking hell!

Depends how you look at it tho. A decent night club is £10 plus to get in then charges extortionate money for drinks. Some clubs maybe expensive to get in but you barely spend anything once your inside especially if you don't drink. Couple of quid for soft drinks. Or take your own. Just need to find the clubs that don't have expensive joining fees etc xx "

Don't go to night clubs either. But I get your point, I think. X

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands


"It's not the money or the traveling it's having someone to go with. You feel a bit of a sad twat going on your own.

"

Im an adult & go on my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I genuinely like swinging and I would rather find someone I can go to Clubs/parties with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...who said Fabswingers is a waste of time???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But do you drive?

been going to clubs,socials,parties for almost six years...some very far away as I pointed out and...

I dont drive

I can book a bus from glasgow to london and back for £40, hotels are pretty cheap etc etc etc...

there is no excuse for anyoine saying they cant get to clubs, unless they are living in extremely remote areas, have no friends..or just simply hate the idea of meeting in a club

No offense but you could potentially spend nearly £100 on both of those, unless you book in advance; money you lose if you have to cancel. Then entry to the club, the cost goes on, not everyone can afford that kind of money. I certainly couldn't attend the vicars and tarts party this evening at Chameleons without my friend paying for the hotel and entrance fee so kind of works both ways as I would love to go to a club on my own but couldn't afford to "

booking in advance is what I meant...and for orgynized meetups its unlikely they will be canceled..and very unlikely I would cancel unless something popped up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is going to a club a guarantee of sex for a single man then?

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"is going to a club a guarantee of sex for a single man then?"

Was just going to say this. Single men get bashed over the head enough being told that going to a club (and paying to get in) is no guarantee of a shag, and to adjust their expectation accordingly.

Now we have the OP with misguided advice....

Sounds like a normal day on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"waste so much time on fab instead of going to a club and actually getting laid?"

But then, we'd be letting down all those couples where the guy wants us to fuck his missus senseless!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried getting to end of massive thread lol cause a lot of us Guys WORK!!!!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is going to a club a guarantee of sex for a single man then?"

theres more of a chance to have some play, theres more of a chance to see people playing via open rooms...

guarantee?-thats not part of any meet I know of that doesnt include prostitution

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I have explored the Clubs as a single guy and met with varied experiences.

But on the whole a single guy is often ignored by most couples and single ladies even if he does try to be polite and friendly as most people have their own little groups they enjoy playing with.

This isn't wrong but it dosnt really encourage a single guy much unless its a greedy girl night.

Also there is price which ranges from £35 right up to £100 with no guarantee that your going to get any fun.

Plus I have had some rather nasty comments from people there moaning about there being too many single guys Bothering them or walking around all true.Ok this isn't a gripe just what I have seen at clubs.

this isn't a moan just a statement of fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not the money or the traveling it's having someone to go with. You feel a bit of a sad twat going on your own.

Im an adult & go on my own "

Another lady here happy to go alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah But face it how many lone females have you ever seen at a swingers club?

Now I only go to a club if I am going with someone or I am meeting a single girl or couple.

Its a waste of time for me otherwise. And these days being what they are I cant afford to pay for the entry fee let alone the travelling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"waste so much time on fab instead of going to a club and actually getting laid?"

they might not like clubs perhaps ??? Just a wild guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't fancy going to a club alone, and certainly don't fancy the idea of paying £50 - £70 just on the off chance that I MAY get to play. I prefer the more intimate play scenes ie MF, MMF, MMMF, not had a chance of MFF yet, but I'm sure I would enjoy that too

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By *uckyman1992Man
over a year ago

Old Street

IF you're a single woman on this site then you have no place to complain. Most of the single women are fat/ugly and the only reason they use this site if because they're desperate.

^

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"IF you're a single woman on this site then you have no place to complain. Most of the single women are fat/ugly and the only reason they use this site if because they're desperate.

^"

Well you're honest about your feelings which is good. But that attitude wont help you with meets at all.

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By *uckyman1992Man
over a year ago

Old Street

Maybe not, but lets be honest. Not sure this thread will damage my chances on this site.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"It's not the money or the traveling it's having someone to go with. You feel a bit of a sad twat going on your own.

Im an adult & go on my own

Another lady here happy to go alone "

And me, although I find its getting difficult to catch a nice mans eye these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"IF you're a single woman on this site then you have no place to complain. Most of the single women are fat/ugly and the only reason they use this site if because they're desperate.

^"

you forgot old. ......

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By *uckyman1992Man
over a year ago

Old Street

Not a problem with an older woman. Love them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think because it's easier on here than in a club.. Like shooting fish in a barrel

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

Its more fun on here lots of great ppl x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

And me, although I find its getting difficult to catch a nice mans eye these days."

Think you're just not noticing guys noticing you..... You look great xxx

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"IF you're a single woman on this site then you have no place to complain. Most of the single women are fat/ugly and the only reason they use this site if because they're desperate.

^

Well you're honest about your feelings which is good. But that attitude wont help you with meets at all. "

I keep seeing the stat saying only 1% of members use the forums so I think he's pretty safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep seeing the stat saying only 1% of members use the forums so I think he's pretty safe"

I don't know if its THAT low (though I've no idea of the actual percentage), but it certainly would be much easier for guys to get meets if more people actually posted.

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By *uckyman1992Man
over a year ago

Old Street

I think the statement "like shooting a fish in a barrel" in relationship to men getting meets on here is a bit deluded too.

Nice to know I'm not the only one thinking this way.

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By *atinaBabeCouple
over a year ago

casa caliente

Why they not just go on the red lights streets and pay for 10 min shag haha Instead being here wasting ppls time messing around tks god I hv my playmates lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"IF you're a single woman on this site then you have no place to complain. Most of the single women are fat/ugly and the only reason they use this site if because they're desperate.

^"

What a charmer

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By *uckyman1992Man
over a year ago

Old Street

Least my sentences make coherent sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep seeing the stat saying only 1% of members use the forums so I think he's pretty safe

I don't know if its THAT low (though I've no idea of the actual percentage), but it certainly would be much easier for guys to get meets if more people actually posted."

it IS very low, though people do look... however what the poster said also doesnt really sound good to the members who use the forums.Possibly he;s forgetting there are some lovely women who attend the social events posted in the forums for meets at socials or clubs.Now...I dont think he is filling them with confidence that he is nothing but immature and selfish.Perhaps the possible meet period is an indication of why there appears not to be many meets...

just my opinion

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"I keep seeing the stat saying only 1% of members use the forums so I think he's pretty safe

I don't know if its THAT low (though I've no idea of the actual percentage), but it certainly would be much easier for guys to get meets if more people actually posted."

Ha. Didn't recognise you without your truncheon in your hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"waste so much time on fab instead of going to a club and actually getting laid?"
Because there would be no way at 52 I would meet 30 odd lovely ladies in 7 months if I just went to clubs xx

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By *uckyman1992Man
over a year ago

Old Street

There are some lovely people on here. I agree and I've met more than I show. That's why I still use the site. But I do feel that the amount of abuse the single men meet on here is wrong. Lets is done about single men taking abuse from couples and single women than vice versa

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"IF you're a single woman on this site then you have no place to complain. Most of the single women are fat/ugly and the only reason they use this site if because they're desperate.

^"

REALLY????

Well, I am not fat, ugly or desperate!

In fact I am actually a fussy biatch , I just love threads like these to show who definitely to avoid!

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By *uckyman1992Man
over a year ago

Old Street

You get more choice.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"You get more choice."

No I don't! I just never lower my standards! There's a big difference!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"IF you're a single woman on this site then you have no place to complain. Most of the single women are fat/ugly and the only reason they use this site if because they're desperate.

^

REALLY????

Well, I am not fat, ugly or desperate!

In fact I am actually a fussy biatch , I just love threads like these to show who definitely to avoid! "

can I still shag u..I apologize for saying ur tattoo was in any way fake.It is also very beautiful...like yourself xxxxxx muaaahhh xxxx muaaahhh xxxxx muaaahhh xxxx

(yes I'm an arse kisser!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep seeing the stat saying only 1% of members use the forums so I think he's pretty safe

I don't know if its THAT low (though I've no idea of the actual percentage), but it certainly would be much easier for guys to get meets if more people actually posted.

Ha. Didn't recognise you without your truncheon in your hand "

Hey I can make somewhat intelligent forum contributions too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"IF you're a single woman on this site then you have no place to complain. Most of the single women are fat/ugly and the only reason they use this site if because they're desperate.

^

Well you're honest about your feelings which is good. But that attitude wont help you with meets at all.

I keep seeing the stat saying only 1% of members use the forums so I think he's pretty safe"

Is the 1% those that are just posting? There are a lot more people who read and never post so the audience could be higher than this. But we all portray ourselves how we like. People will then make their own assumptions on maturity levels after reading the comments like above. Awful attitude.

Thank goodness other young guys are able to conduct themselves in a more respectful fashion. If I was a single woman new on here and read the above I would probably be "user no longer on site" in a flash.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"IF you're a single woman on this site then you have no place to complain. Most of the single women are fat/ugly and the only reason they use this site if because they're desperate.

^

REALLY????

Well, I am not fat, ugly or desperate!

In fact I am actually a fussy biatch , I just love threads like these to show who definitely to avoid!

can I still shag u..I apologize for saying ur tattoo was in any way fake.It is also very beautiful...like yourself xxxxxx muaaahhh xxxx muaaahhh xxxxx muaaahhh xxxx

(yes I'm an arse kisser!) "

Behave yourself Paddy! We all know what you are

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By *uckyman1992Man
over a year ago

Old Street

I don't see as many men saying that statement is too far away from the truth. End of the day women can afford to have higher standards, a lot of single males just suffer abuse

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"I keep seeing the stat saying only 1% of members use the forums so I think he's pretty safe

I don't know if its THAT low (though I've no idea of the actual percentage), but it certainly would be much easier for guys to get meets if more people actually posted.

Ha. Didn't recognise you without your truncheon in your hand

Hey I can make somewhat intelligent forum contributions too!"

Only sayin'

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I don't see as many men saying that statement is too far away from the truth. End of the day women can afford to have higher standards, a lot of single males just suffer abuse "

Nobody should lower their standards that is the point I am making! If you lower yours then then you only have yourself to blame!

As for abuse? I only respond to it, never give it, so what are you saying to warrant it? Genuine interest to hear it

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By *uckyman1992Man
over a year ago

Old Street

I don't feel I am suffering abuse on this thread. Not would I ever personally direct a comment at anyone.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I don't feel I am suffering abuse on this thread. Not would I ever personally direct a comment at anyone. "

I didn't mean on this thread, you said you receive abusive messages from women, I was only asking why do you think that is?

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By *uckyman1992Man
over a year ago

Old Street

I don't suffer too much, I avoid it where possible. I don't have time for that in my daily routine. I'm more sick of being let down.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I don't suffer too much, I avoid it where possible. I don't have time for that in my daily routine. I'm more sick of being let down."

Maybe your selection process needs to be adjusted!

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By *uckyman1992Man
over a year ago

Old Street

Perhaps it does. But it's not to say I'm not picky, it's luck of the draw sometimes.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Perhaps it does. But it's not to say I'm not picky, it's luck of the draw sometimes."

But comments you made further up this thread do not plaint you as a pretty picture do they?

So, luck does not come into it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"waste so much time on fab instead of going to a club and actually getting laid?"

There is enough cpls on here tht do the same too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not into the club scene sorry

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"IF you're a single woman on this site then you have no place to complain. Most of the single women are fat/ugly and the only reason they use this site if because they're desperate.

^"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"waste so much time on fab instead of going to a club and actually getting laid?"

For the same reason there are songle women on here. It suits there purpose and just maybe they enjoy it.

Its more the 18 - 25 year olds that might have more success on a night out in the clubs but that is because their age range is low on here.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"waste so much time on fab instead of going to a club and actually getting laid?"

Maybe they just don't like clubs, they are not for everyone.

We don't like them and very very rarely go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"IF you're a single woman on this site then you have no place to complain. Most of the single women are fat/ugly and the only reason they use this site if because they're desperate.

^"

Pheewww im ok then as im part of a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure if i went up to someone and told them all the usual things that's in the back of my head that they'd still be standing there...

...even i shock myself with the ideas i come up with. I use this site purely to explore my kinky sides and try new things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"IF you're a single woman on this site then you have no place to complain. Most of the single women are fat/ugly and the only reason they use this site if because they're desperate.

^

What a charmer "

I was thinking the same. Ah well us far ugly women will no doubt survive and have more meets than him!

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By *on1Man
over a year ago

spain

I come on here for a few reasons. One to socialis. Two cause im nosey hehe. Three build up. Firth ink turns me on. Fifth guess I love writing in ink and you no how and what that does hehe so yes I can live without this site eh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"waste so much time on fab instead of going to a club and actually getting laid?"

So guys are guaranteed a shag in clubs?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"waste so much time on fab instead of going to a club and actually getting laid?

So guys are guaranteed a shag in clubs? "

Pretty much if they go on a bi night and Rich is there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's cheaper.

It's fantasy, ( good for a wank)

It's private.

It's easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"waste so much time on fab instead of going to a club and actually getting laid?

So guys are guaranteed a shag in clubs? "

If they are I'm going

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's cheaper.

It's fantasy, ( good for a wank)

It's private.

It's easier."

It's boring!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pmsl is this still going!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proberly cost 50 to chat a girl up in a nightclub, depending how high matainance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Proberly cost 50 to chat a girl up in a nightclub, depending how high matainance"

What is this nightclub you speak of ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pmsl is this still going!! "

lol yeah.... I kinda popped it back onto the pile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Proberly cost 50 to chat a girl up in a nightclub, depending how high matainance

What is this nightclub you speak of ? "

It's a big fuck off block of wood that you use to knock a lass unconsious when darkness falls!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A regular nightclub.. 10 pound entry a few drinks a little charm lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some guys have great results on here without going to clubs. Some not so much, I do think those that really struggle sometimes might have more luck trying a club but I can totally understand the reasons why they wouldn't want to, cost, nerves, distance, etc x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 27/11/13 00:07:12]"

Er no I didn't

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"waste so much time on fab instead of going to a club and actually getting laid?"

But nobody guarantees that you will actually get laid in a swingers' club. And the reason some of us (I am speaking about myself actually, I don't know about others) are trying to get meets directly from websites like this is because this is what this web site was made for (in an ideal world LOL). I, for one, cannot always afford to go to a swingers' club even though I'd love to so I keep trying to meet couples and women directly from here; not because I am a weirdo who loathes the presence of other people and I certainly don't grow fangs and snout when the moon is out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am fairly new, already have 2 regular guys visit, and one because of his vehicle I have to visit at services! and if I wanted a quick shag, could have 3 a day. So much easier than going to a club, most people I do meet are married, work and have children, so fab is easier all around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy I think you need to mix it up - be online , go to clubs and socials .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We mostly meet at home. We do NOT guarantee that a shag is in order if you meet us either.

Are you guys saying by arranging more personal meets you expect to fuck 100% guaranteed ? If I don't want to fuck you will you invoice us for charges of time and fuel

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"We mostly meet at home. We do NOT guarantee that a shag is in order if you meet us either.

Are you guys saying by arranging more personal meets you expect to fuck 100% guaranteed ? If I don't want to fuck you will you invoice us for charges of time and fuel "

no i wouldn't but a cuppa would be nice

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"waste so much time on fab instead of going to a club and actually getting laid?"

cause not all single guys like clubs or the atmosphere

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