FabSwingers.com forum: Things people say

By *onchichi1 OP Man
over a year ago

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you can only wonder and laugh when fems are willing to suck your cock, do anal, do alot of dirty wilde things but then tell you they dont kiss strangers. Just her partner. Some help me understand this mentality please

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Kissing is sometimes seen as being more intimate than the physical act of fucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stark raving bonkers kissing a stranger is very very nice (F)

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By *onchichi1 OP Man
over a year ago

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really Tina. So if you have a long time partner its ok for them to go out and do all sorts of sexual stuff as long as they dont kiss the person. Really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intimacy. That is all. Fucking is fucking. Doesn't mean anything to us but a way if having fun, but kissing is very personal. And why does people having their own preferences make you laugh?? Every single person on here has them??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Intimacy. That is all. Fucking is fucking. Doesn't mean anything to us but a way if having fun, but kissing is very personal. And why does people having their own preferences make you laugh?? Every single person on here has them?? "

Exactly.

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By *onchichi1 OP Man
over a year ago

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Thats true Nat1000, we all have our preference which must be respected. Like i said i needed people to help me understand. maybe because i like kissing as it tells alot about what is about to happen.

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By *onchichi1 OP Man
over a year ago

Reading

ok ladies i hear you. I learn everyday lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you're learning.... Now go write 'respect peoples preferences' 100 times on the board!!

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By *ovelybumCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

" Fucking is fucking. Doesn't mean anything to us but a way if having fun, but kissing is very personal. "

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By *ovelybumCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Sexual act without kissing is just incomplete for both of us.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I just cant play without kissing. I find it an ice breaker, a good kisser also really turns me on.

However many of us are here for different reasons and different things and if they dont want to include kissing thats their choice. Mrs x

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By *onchichi1 OP Man
over a year ago

Reading

_ovelybum. _lackcherry thanks ladies for getting what im saying. but kissing is our preference and not for teacher Nat1000 lol

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By *ittall2020Man
over a year ago

Norwich

For some reason I thought that kissing wasn't the done thing when swinging, I guess I should have checked that out with the couple I did get together with.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

[Removed by poster at 22/11/13 20:30:13]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sexual act without kissing is just incomplete for both of us."

If I may quote something from another thread:

"So many people do not know how to kiss. For me it is the precursor to good sex and in my experience those that can't kiss cannot perform good oral, two things which are fundamental to a good meet for me. It should melt the mind and the body and take you to the edge. It should take your breath away and make you moan and pant. A kiss should make you NEED to fuck."

Especially that last short sentence. So true.

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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago

The Dungeon

"Sexual act without kissing is just incomplete for both of us."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"really Tina. So if you have a long time partner its ok for them to go out and do all sorts of sexual stuff as long as they dont kiss the person. Really"

The lack of respect in this post is shocking. It's people's preferences. If they don't match yours then pass them by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like kissing but can understand why some couples won't kiss anyone other than their partners.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"Sexual act without kissing is just incomplete for both of us.

If I may quote something from another thread:

Especially that last short sentence. So true.

I like this.

My thoughts are those who don't like to kiss merely see the person they're not kissing as a tool for their own gratification and are not looking for a 'shared' sexual experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps it’s a psychological thing. You know, some couples may think that maybe if they make kissing sacred their bond may remain indestructible.

Playing football back in school, my best mate and I had a celebration we’d do when either of us would score. When others tried the celebration with us, we’d be like, “Nuh uh, that’s our thing only. It's sacred”.

I haven’t spoken to this mate for years, but it’s sort of similar, no?

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"Perhaps it’s a psychological thing. You know, some couples may think that maybe if they make kissing sacred their bond may remain indestructible.

I haven’t spoken to this mate for years, but it’s sort of similar, no?"

No . . . . . . . . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"really Tina. So if you have a long time partner its ok for them to go out and do all sorts of sexual stuff as long as they dont kiss the person. Really

The lack of respect in this post is shocking. It's people's preferences. If they don't match yours then pass them by."

Ditto x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps it’s a psychological thing. You know, some couples may think that maybe if they make kissing sacred their bond may remain indestructible.

I haven’t spoken to this mate for years, but it’s sort of similar, no?

No . . . . . . . . .

LOL. Thought I was onto something there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sexual act without kissing is just incomplete for both of us.

If I may quote something from another thread:

Especially that last short sentence. So true.

I like this.

My thoughts are those who don't like to kiss merely see the person they're not kissing as a tool for their own gratification and are not looking for a 'shared' sexual experience."

That's rubbish. There's other things that people won't do on meets, anal, BJ's etc. so by your logic, they are not looking fora shared experience either?? Just because people are in to different things does not mean that. It is merely their preference. If it is not yours, move on and find someone that shares yours. Don't vilify someone because of their right to choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you can only wonder and laugh when fems are willing to suck your cock, do anal, do alot of dirty wilde things but then tell you they dont kiss strangers. Just her partner. Some help me understand this mentality please"

I wouldn't worry too much about it, I doubt any couple who do this will want anything to do with you anyway. Stating someone's preferences are laughable is rude.

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys

I totally understand the kissing thing but personally couldn't not kiss!... I have also been put off from the start if someone is a bad kisser.. And have actually said to someone if u kiss me like a fish again it ends now.. Mind you people have their own views of what's a good kisser or not!

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Vilify? Where have I vilified anyone? I'm expressing an opinion is all. One you appear to strongly disagree with.

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys

Although... In my experience I have found many good at oral but shite at kissing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vilify? Where have I vilified anyone? I'm expressing an opinion is all. One you appear to strongly disagree with. "

I'd be interested to know where the basis for your opinion about the 'shared experience' comes from?

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Vilify? Where have I vilified anyone? I'm expressing an opinion is all. One you appear to strongly disagree with.

I'd be interested to know where the basis for your opinion about the 'shared experience' comes from? "

I suspect the no kissing rule is probably only when meeting a couple as they will see it as an intimacy they only want to share with each other. A bit like when a prostitute will do anything but kiss. No intimacy.

I think kissing is an important part of foreplay and also important during play. Makes, for me at least, a more enjoyable experience, less clinical.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Sexual act without kissing is just incomplete for both of us.

If I may quote something from another thread:

Especially that last short sentence. So true.

I like and kinda agree with that. Mrs x

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I am very disappointed and uncomfortable finding out while on a meet that they won't kiss me but neglected to tell me.

Kissing for me is the most important thing. No kissing equals nothing else x

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

Ok...Would you suck cock?

If yes....then that is your preference and we would respect it and not write a thread about men who suck cock.

If no....then that is your preference and we would respect it and not write a thread about men who suck cock.

Now do you get it?

We have always been surrounded with non judgemental like minded people and believed in this lifestyle...each to their own.

By not wanting to kiss doesn't seem to have had any effect on having people wanting to meet us. We have lots of horny fun on a regular basis with suitors that are respectful to our wants and vice versa....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I may quote something from another thread:

Especially that last short sentence. So true.

To amplify that, there's this (from the same author):

"Let [hair] loose is better. Then they can wrap your hair around their hand from the base of your neck. If your hair is held tightly in that position, they have control of your head. You can also do it to others, nothing more teasing than grabbing hold and bringing someone close to your face, lips almost touching then you turn their head away and whisper "not yet", it seems to heighten all sensations." "

I truly envy Yohoho.

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By *ocial_AnimalsCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Hmmm, OP- I'm not bothered by the question as such. Yeh, it might seem a bit strange that some of us rate intimacy with mouths over intimacy with genitals, but we're all different, and have different boundaries. What I am bothered by is that you're not really asking for an explanation, you've already made your decision that 'no kissing is laughable', and that's pretty disrespectful.

If you meant it in a derogatory way, you're an asshole. If you didn't, you're still an asshole, but a stupid one and need to think of your wording before you post.

As a side note, why do you exclusively target girls for this? We've met many guys who go by these same rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm, OP- I'm not bothered by the question as such. Yeh, it might seem a bit strange that some of us rate intimacy with mouths over intimacy with genitals, but we're all different, and have different boundaries. What I am bothered by is that you're not really asking for an explanation, you've already made your decision that 'no kissing is laughable', and that's pretty disrespectful.

If you meant it in a derogatory way, you're an asshole. If you didn't, you're still an asshole, but a stupid one and need to think of your wording before you post.

As a side note, why do you exclusively target girls for this? We've met many guys who go by these same rules. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sexual act without kissing is just incomplete for both of us."

Totally agree

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By *y93Man
over a year ago

London

for me, kissing is very intimate, and when i am involved with a MF couple, I even do guy on guy kissing which is a huge turn on, and in all mmf so far, , the gf/wife encouraged this. I guess I have met some very liberal peeps so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing to me is a start of foreplay, good snog, then get to the birth gritty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cannot see a problem . If you like kissing and they don't . Just don't meet . I am sure they will get plenty that are ok with it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nitty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't kiss others and I only do anal with my hubby. We only meet couples that have the same preference.

We think kissing is very sacred and intimate and keep it to ourselves.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

these threads saying that people can't understand why other people do or don't do a certain thing are always popping up. They serve quite a useful purpose to my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you meant it in a derogatory way, you're an asshole. If you didn't, you're still an asshole, but a stupid one and need to think of your wording before you post.

As a side note, why do you exclusively target girls for this? We've met many guys who go by these same rules. "

I love the irony of bemoaning that the op was disrespectful and then calling him an asshole...

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

"We don't kiss others and I only do anal with my hubby. We only meet couples that have the same preference.

We think kissing is very sacred and intimate and keep it to ourselves.

We are exactly the same. Or people that are fine with our preferences. Works for us!

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