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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Should you show them ?

Show some ?

Show the summary ?

Keep private ?

Really not sure although showing all looks cheap in my opinion and quite off-putting.

Your thoughts please ?

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Couldnt care less to be honest...

That "cheap" person showing 100 veris... could well be showing all of theirs..

The "not so cheap" person showing 10 could have 500 not displayed...

Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show my summary and my most recent veris. On others, I like to see veri summary or a few veris at least otherwise I tend to think they are fake. Ooops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do the same as everyone else and choose the way you want to present your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm cheap then....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm cheap then.... "

Maybe but youve got a cracking ass ! Lol

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

[Removed by poster at 22/11/13 18:24:00]

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We show ours and think if people want to judge us on who we have met, content of them etc. They are not the sort of people we would be interested in anyway...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Two stunning people Benandroos

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By *ovelybumCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells


"We show ours and think if people want to judge us on who we have met, content of them etc. They are not the sort of people we would be interested in anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind what anyone else does with theirs,I would'nt judge if they had none on show,1 or 1000,im pretty much able to work out for myself who I like and who I think is genuine

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

I show those I want to.

If I come across a profile showing non I'm not likely to make contact.

If I come across posters calling people 'cheap' for showing some well that's what the block buttons for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most important part of a single males profile

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I show those I want to.

If I come across a profile showing non I'm not likely to make contact.

If I come across posters calling people 'cheap' for showing some well that's what the block buttons for "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I show those I want to.

If I come across a profile showing non I'm not likely to make contact.

If I come across posters calling people 'cheap' for showing some well that's what the block buttons for

"

Badum tisch!!

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

Everyone does not verify every meet they have . So the figures are not accurate . Display if you wish and do not judge people who choose to display theirs .

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Everyone does not verify every meet they have . So the figures are not accurate . Display if you wish and do not judge people who choose to display theirs . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should you show them ?

Show some ?

Show the summary ?

Keep private ?

Really not sure although showing all looks cheap in my opinion and quite off-putting.

Your thoughts please ?

"

looking cheap on a sex site? noooo we couldn't have that

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I used to only display my summary, and post up my latest veri for 7 days following a meet.

Now I display all, and find this works well for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to only display my summary, and post up my latest veri for 7 days following a meet.

Now I display all, and find this works well for me "

if I posted all my veri's it would take 3 days to scroll down my profile

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I used to only display my summary, and post up my latest veri for 7 days following a meet.

Now I display all, and find this works well for me

if I posted all my veri's it would take 3 days to scroll down my profile "

It's a double-edged sword, being popular lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The kind of people who are always complaining about too many veris , are invariably the same twats with none , or those with the phrase 'looking for quality over quantity ' emblazoned on their profile .

We get used to the forumites going on about how it's your profile to do what you like with , to defend those who don't meet or play .

But for those of us who are here to play , verifications which show the person genuinely plays , are important .

As are verifications which are all webcam or social , so we can avoid them !

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

A bit bizarre.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A bit bizarre. "

What's bizarre ?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Should you show them ?

Show some ?

Show the summary ?

Keep private ?

Really not sure although showing all looks cheap in my opinion and quite off-putting.

Your thoughts please ?

"

You do not know if someone is showing all, but I will bet a substantial amount of spondoolies that you wouldn't mind being on the receiving end of a veri from someone you deem is cheap

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By *atinaBabeCouple
over a year ago

casa caliente

Many verif are fake anyway

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"A bit bizarre.

What's bizarre ?"

Our posts crossed - I was referring to the girl messaging LaylaKay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't show either veris or summery. I prefer people to get to know me themselves and not by what someone else has said the same as I do.

(I may show my very last one for a little while as it's from a grumpy bear )

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Many verif are fake anyway"
Are they? Fuck me I didn't know that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont show all mine just a mix of what i have and do i give a fuck if men think its to many?? Nope...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We show ours and think if people want to judge us on who we have met, content of them etc. They are not the sort of people we would be interested in anyway...

"

put more politely than I would say...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many verif are fake anywayAre they? Fuck me I didn't know that! "

Nor did we ... hope we don't get any fake veris to add to the real ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always torn whether to or not, so sometimes they're there and sometimes they're not. I just can't make my mind up about them really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we had some i would show but only have one

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Should you show them ?

Show some ?

Show the summary ?

Keep private ?

Really not sure although showing all looks cheap in my opinion and quite off-putting.

Your thoughts please ?

"

I keep my thoughts about how others set out their profiles to myself. I am only interested in profiles of guys I want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show my summary just to show I do meet,luckily I don't get verifyed by everyone I meet or it be huge,don't care whether people judge me,I'm here to have fun like everyone else on this site whether there social or play,I show only party organizers veri 's and may leave recent ones up for a few days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should show them cos otherwise you might have something to hide if the date fuck went wrong lol.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Your profile, your choice.

Do what's best for you and ignore all else (unless you REALLY want to get in their pants, lol)

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Should you show them ?

Show some ?

Show the summary ?

Keep private ?

Really not sure although showing all looks cheap in my opinion and quite off-putting.

Your thoughts please ?

"

It's nobody's damned business if people show them or not. I personally loathe the judgemental attitude of some people on the forums regarding verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

show them if you have good ones more people are likely to take you seriously and so you do actualy meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont show all of mine.. the ones I dont show are normally to graphic..or ones from people that I passed on the stairs or something at a club and have no recollection of ever seeing them.

I rarely actually get verifications for my meets, so its by no means a true indication of who I have met. But if someone were to judge me because I have "X" amount of verifications I wouldnt want to meet them anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I alwais show my veris x.

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"Should you show them ?

Show some ?

Show the summary ?

Keep private ?

Really not sure although showing all looks cheap in my opinion and quite off-putting.

Your thoughts please ?

"

I used to show all mine until someone started contacting people that had verified me saying that I'd told him that they were boring and no good. Luckily a true friend told me what had happened and who did it. So I decided to block him and hide some of my veri's in case it happened again.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"I don't mind what anyone else does with theirs,I would'nt judge if they had none on show,1 or 1000,im pretty much able to work out for myself who I like and who I think is genuine "

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