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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Every single guy knows how difficult it can be to get a meet on fab .

Recently we have found it just as frustrating as a couple !

If we go to a club , no problem , but put up a meet on here and it seems lots of talk but little or no action !

So , is it the time of year or us ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think its a common problem for alot onhere. me included

i browse and its just the same bunch popiing up every time now. a bunch im not interested in

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's often the case that people who want sex with me and vice versa, are often a long way away. A distance issue.

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By *ockster69Man
over a year ago

Leven

Yeah!!

Your pics look like youre mega struggling to get any takers!!!!! I wish I was that unsuccessful on here!!!

Jock X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's often the case that people who want sex with me and vice versa, are often a long way away. A distance issue. "

Agree with that.

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By *angerpointCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

We are having the same problem. It seems to be fine if we go to a club but really struggle with finding meets on here. It would make things easier if we could accomodate but there must be people out there looking to meet with nice couples like us. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes its the norm here, when you search the same ones come up who are not intersted or just way to far, never any closeby lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't really try and get meets of here clubs all the way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah!!

Your pics look like youre mega struggling to get any takers!!!!! I wish I was that unsuccessful on here!!!

Jock X"

We go to clubs for meets as posting on here gets us nowhere . Never a problem at chams or the lodge , just would be nice to not rely on clubs exclusively .

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We only do private meets and the occasional private party. Which does put quite a few off as most people that contact us want to meet at a club.

On the odd occasion that we put up meet it can be very hit and miss. Sometimes we will get a few replies and others none.

Always find December / January to be fairly quiet....

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"It's often the case that people who want sex with me and vice versa, are often a long way away. A distance issue. "

This ^^^^^

Most of the people we would be interested in meeting are miles & miles away.

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

Timewasters n time of year xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it a little frustrating aswell, but our main problem is we can't accommodate xx

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"It's often the case that people who want sex with me and vice versa, are often a long way away. A distance issue. "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly cant complain !

Whenever im free for meets ( not easy as a single father with a presured job )

I usually get what im looking for .

And im ugly ! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are lots of people on here who are just on here for the thrill and the chase, never really looking to meet. Also, gets very clicky, people meeting the same circle of people. It is there perogative to do that, so not a whinge, just opinion..

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By *inkySCouple
over a year ago

Capetown

We knew when we joined that a first meet would always be over at the club but they have always been pre arranged then 2nd meets we are happy to do private.

So far have been lucky that arranged meets have turned up at club including single fem we feel if they were to cancel well we are already on a night out and enjoy ourselves anyway x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of the interesting people are miles away, also it seems harder for us younger lads especially with the couples who want a lot older.. Have found that quite a few people want a meet verification first too and having been on here just over a week haven't got one yet!

Hopefully will get one soon and i'll be up and running haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We knew when we joined that a first meet would always be over at the club but they have always been pre arranged then 2nd meets we are happy to do private.

So far have been lucky that arranged meets have turned up at club including single fem we feel if they were to cancel well we are already on a night out and enjoy ourselves anyway x "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well think it happens to everyone. I have had 2 meets arranged for tonight, 1 cancelled on Tuesday so got back up now he has backed out. So home alone and noone to play with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have EXACTLY the same problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well think it happens to everyone. I have had 2 meets arranged for tonight, 1 cancelled on Tuesday so got back up now he has backed out. So home alone and noone to play with "

Howong will it take me to cycle to inverness ?? Lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I honestly cant complain !

Whenever im free for meets ( not easy as a single father with a presured job )

I usually get what im looking for .

And im ugly ! Lol"

Can we see how ugly you are?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"We are having the same problem. It seems to be fine if we go to a club but really struggle with finding meets on here. It would make things easier if we could accomodate but there must be people out there looking to meet with nice couples like us. xxx"

I think you've identified a possible problem: accommodation. If I met men that didn't accommodate at mine I'd be trampled in the rush but I don't meet men who don't accommodate so slim pickings.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

If you advertise that you are free a week in advance, you run the danger of getting lots of messages from people miles away or who ask if you can do it another time and place. If you advertise on the night you wish to meet, you run the risk that everyone is either doing something else or don't see that you are free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thank goodness for that......thought it was just me with the problem of never getting to meet anyone!!

Feels so relieved now!!...hehehe

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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago

The Dungeon

We start advertising a week in advance, get lots of messages from those who obviously don't read the profile or details of the meet itself, then get absolutely nothing for 1-4 days before the meet then we're snowed under by offers the day before or the day itself.

Like others have mentioned, it always seems to be the same people over and over who respond, even though we've turned them down before. Most people also seem to think because it's at a hotel we're going to charge them or something. We pay for it, you just turn up we tell them.

Oh well, we'll get nothing for the next 5-6 days then we'll see what happens

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Just like the buses, really.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

try living on an island for six months of the year, good job for tourist and sun cream .. but I must say the people we have meet from this site have always been the best..connie xx looking forward to next year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here, clubs are great, plenty of guys, but try and meet a guy or guys on here is hard, married men just aving a laft and wanting pics from you all the time!!!

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Is it as people are staying at home (cold weather) or heading to clubs when they have a sitter or can afford it?

Money's tight, and at a club you've a better chance of meeting someone.

If you're laying out for a babysitter and petrol etc, maybe just going to a club is easier than trying to arrange a house/hotel meet?

I wasn't around for the 'summer season' but I'm not seeing any difference really

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By *eekenderzCouple
over a year ago

London

We hardly ever find anyone in clubs and usually only meet new people at our own private parties. It takes quite a lot of trawling to find some keepers, and I'm really choosy so that doesn't help. Good looking, fit intelligent, fun slim people - form an orderly queue! And oh ...men to be 6ft2+ ideally...get in touch!

MrsW

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