FabSwingers.com forum: what made you get into swinging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Q what made you do this.bored with your sex life.curious.cheating.just wonder what your reply will be.Keisha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Research, for my university course.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Q what made you do this.bored with your sex life.curious.cheating.just wonder what your reply will be.Keisha "

Certainly wasn't because we were bored with our sex life!!

The main reason was to explore our fantasies and try things that needed more than the two of us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ha ha.good answer.so how is your research going

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Sick of dating sites and meeting plonkers...and lets face it...we all have needs!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so far I have found the top 3 answers for women are.

1) Married the wrong man, don't want to make the same mistake again.

2) Unable or not prepared to maintain a loving relationship.

3) Past hurt and abuse in a relationship.

Top answer for men.

1) Free sex when horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Variety. and makes us appreciate one another more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all started 13 years ago after watching a tv drama on itv....lol

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

one of those 'what if' conversations whilst making love..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Variety. and makes us appreciate one another more"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bored and desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so far I have found the top 3 answers for women are.

1) Married the wrong man, don't want to make the same mistake again.

2) Unable or not prepared to maintain a loving relationship.

3) Past hurt and abuse in a relationship.

Top answer for men.

1) Free sex when horny."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was discussing fantasies with a friend and they suggested this site...and some of my fantasies have now been fulfilled

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

boredom mainly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so far I have found the top 3 answers for women are.

1) Married the wrong man, don't want to make the same mistake again.

2) Unable or not prepared to maintain a loving relationship.

3) Past hurt and abuse in a relationshi

Top answer for men.

1) Free sex when horny."

Crikey - I think I must really be a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've always been quite open about sex in our relationship and always talked about our fantasies ...well it just grew from there really

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

Because we are kinky buggers and very curious to fulfil all our fantasies. Most people just talk about them but we say better to actually try them out. Now we want more....lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"bored and desperate."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so far I have found the top 3 answers for women are.

1) Married the wrong man, don't want to make the same mistake again.

2) Unable or not prepared to maintain a loving relationship.

3) Past hurt and abuse in a relationship.

Top answer for men.

1) Free sex when horny."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

threats, tears and being bummed while asleep.

we chatted, and decided we would like to explore tings.

nothing to do with being bored with each other sexually at all, as we only do this every so often.

its definitely not a replacement for anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to buy the whole pig for one sausage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't want to buy the whole pig for one sausage

but with a pig, you get more than just sausage

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a massive pervert

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

I've always had a great sex life before I met the wife, we have had a few 3somes with women ages ago with her.

We went to TG and loved the couples rooms there, felt really passionate, although we were just voyeurs.

Been to abfabs a few times, but have never swung yet.

It does excite us, turn us on.

Waiting for that 1st time though

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I was reading a womens magazine and read the sex spy article which was about people that went to a swinging club lol. Was very curious to go have a look as I'm extremely nosey haha, been every weekend since that first visit haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some nice reply.but we have notice that a few couples have split up due to this lifestyle.does that worry any couples on here

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

"Some nice reply.but we have notice that a few couples have split up due to this lifestyle.does that worry any couples on here "

Not at all. We know where our hearts belong. If either of us don't like something we say straight away and the other will always agree to stop at any point.

Does it worry you? X

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

"Some nice reply.but we have notice that a few couples have split up due to this lifestyle.does that worry any couples on here "

Any couple that isnt strong enough can split up irrespective of any life style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so far I have found the top 3 answers for women are.

1) Married the wrong man, don't want to make the same mistake again.

2) Unable or not prepared to maintain a loving relationship.

3) Past hurt and abuse in a relationship.

Top answer for men.

1) Free sex when horny.

Ideal

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

"so far I have found the top 3 answers for women are.

1) Married the wrong man, don't want to make the same mistake again.

2) Unable or not prepared to maintain a loving relationship.

3) Past hurt and abuse in a relationship.

Top answer for men.

1) Free sex when horny."

How about the couples?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanted to try a verity of deference sexual activities

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

"Q what made you do this.bored with your sex life.curious.cheating.just wonder what your reply will be.Keisha

Certainly wasn't because we were bored with our sex life!!

The main reason was to explore our fantasies and try things that needed more than the two of us.

Same for us.

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By *ustyBrunette35Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

We got started in the "scene" because I really wanted to meet another lady who was as bi curious as me.

I needed to try things with another woman.

Haven't looked back

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Jayne says..

I'm just goddamn horny all the time, I'm sociable and I like to share the love, especially with the girlies lol!

Mart says...

We used to wind each other up with dirty chat and fantasies during sex, and it was only a matter of time before we turned fantasies into realities!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so far I have found the top 3 answers for women are.

1) Married the wrong man, don't want to make the same mistake again.

2) Unable or not prepared to maintain a loving relationship.

3) Past hurt and abuse in a relationship.

Top answer for men.

1) Free sex when horny.

How about the couples?"

Couples are... men... and women...

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By *stmateMan
over a year ago

Notts

NSA fun and to meet folk who share the similar views.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Some nice reply.but we have notice that a few couples have split up due to this lifestyle.does that worry any couples on here

Any couple that isnt strong enough can split up irrespective of any life style"

Swinging will not fix a broken relationship, in fact it will probably break it quicker than if they didnlt swing.

Those that have a strong, committed, loving, mutually respectful relationship will have fun, without any worries.

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By *stmateMan
over a year ago

Notts

"so far I have found the top 3 answers for women are.

1) Married the wrong man, don't want to make the same mistake again.

2) Unable or not prepared to maintain a loving relationship.

3) Past hurt and abuse in a relationship.

Top answer for men.

1) Free sex when horny.

How about the couples?

Couples are... men... and women...

I don't think the sex is free, there are travelling or hotel costs to consider and if you are luck enough to accommodate it's only good practice to ensure your guests have a beverage or two lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't want to buy the whole pig for one sausage

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love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife dying and didn't want to settle down again

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

"so far I have found the top 3 answers for women are.

1) Married the wrong man, don't want to make the same mistake again.

2) Unable or not prepared to maintain a loving relationship.

3) Past hurt and abuse in a relationship.

Top answer for men.

1) Free sex when horny.

How about the couples?

Couples are... men... and women...

Yes but those things listed seem to be more for singles.

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By *appyfuckerMan
over a year ago

in a happy place north wales coast

variety is the spice of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 crap husbands and the realization i love sex not being married..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've always been quite open about sex in our relationship and always talked about our fantasies ...well it just grew from there really

will second that

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By *angbangboysCouple (MM)
over a year ago

near you

After my disable mate at work ask me to have sex with his wife while he watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While playing I told her I fantasised about seeing her with another man or two. Or sharing her.

She admitted the idea of having a cock to suck while I fucked her was a big fantasy for her.

It wasn't til I told her I wanted to suck a cock that we then looked into finding a Bi friendly club & found Chameleons.

Our first swinging night was a Bi night and we had two plays in rooms with a guy joining us fulfilling her suck while fucked fantasy but instead of just sucking him she let him fuck her too.

It wasn't til right at the end of the night that I finally sucked my first...

The rest is history!

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