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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

...What the HELL are you doing on here?

Now, I'm not on about the monsters of Fab, the people you see out the corner of your eye in the dark. No... Those are a totally different question that requires many, many vodkas...

I'm talking about women (And men) that are just mind blowing? The kind of people that are so hot they should be a model? Some of the girls I've looked at... Wow... They blow my mind! I get wet just looking at the pics, never mind actually doing stuff with them!

Sadly sometimes these people are of course fake, with too perfectly staged pictures taken with expensive cameras and just the right lighting etc etc... Thats where good old reverse image search works a treat.

But some of these women I'm simply too scared to even try and message! One because they likely get too many messages as it is and mine will get lost, and two because they wouldn't even touch me with a barge pole, let alone G!!!

So does anybody sometimes look at some profiles on here and think "What the heck do you need help with, just walk outside and people will jump on you!"

C xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but not everyone on the street wants to swing...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes but not everyone on the street wants to swing... "

This is a true fact! :D And a good point! :D C xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some very hot people on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are people no matter what they look like. If you fancy them then tell them. Worst case scenario, they say no.. best case you might get to find out if looking good equals great sex? Now that is a question..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would being drop dead gorgeous preclude you from not wanting a steady relationship?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

They probably aren't just shagging anybody though? Probably getting just as much a kick out of it as you!

Having said that, I did see a young 20's couple, nubile as you like, who were only into 50+ guys, they were well verified, not just 3 or 4 but a good 10+ off guys ranging up to 70, as I remember.

It's what they're after I suppose

(and honestly - thanks for the compliment, no need for such a public post though lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha love this.... Totally agréé with you...

Often makes me more sceptical thinking that they are fake...

There is the common side of they love sex like us all and it's a good way of meeting new people.

Also people can be classed as slags etc sleeping with randomers from clubs bars the street but on here we are all here for the same reason so no judgements x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree about the fakes - I'm a google reverse user too and generally they're easy to spot!

But yes - there are many 'hotties', 'stunners' - or whatever word the general population would tend to use to describe such people.

But look at it this way - the lifestyle is different to the real world. Just because they'd theoretically have no problem attracting sexual attention in civvy street doesn't mean they can satisfy their wants and fantasies this way, or be safe in the knowledge that someone shares certain kinks, fetishes or likes. Or will be open to no strings fun 1-2-1, or threesomes/moresomes or swingers clubs.

People enjoy the lifestyle for what it enables them to do and achieve sexually, with similar minded people that you'd struggle to spot in the real world without psychic powers!

Swinging is for everyone - stunner, average or whoever!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'd be surprised also at how many truly beautiful women doubt their own attractiveness.

My ex, who is on here, was beyond stunning but never felt it herself and found fault in her own looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not something that has ever crossed my mind,

However, having clients who are models and athletes, I can see why they are on a swinging site.

When you are beautiful, wealthy, or well known, getting sex isn't always easy, or I should say getting sex without hassle isn't easy.

A sex swinging site in cyberspace provides contacts and plenty of choice, without commitment or real names.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"People are people no matter what they look like. If you fancy them then tell them. Worst case scenario, they say no.. best case you might get to find out if looking good equals great sex? Now that is a question..lol"

mmm save a few, when it comes to sex, they are like anyones else, either experienced or not

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"...What the HELL are you doing on here?

Now, I'm not on about the monsters of Fab, the people you see out the corner of your eye in the dark. No... Those are a totally different question that requires many, many vodkas...

I'm talking about women (And men) that are just mind blowing? The kind of people that are so hot they should be a model? Some of the girls I've looked at... Wow... They blow my mind! I get wet just looking at the pics, never mind actually doing stuff with them!

Sadly sometimes these people are of course fake, with too perfectly staged pictures taken with expensive cameras and just the right lighting etc etc... Thats where good old reverse image search works a treat.

But some of these women I'm simply too scared to even try and message! One because they likely get too many messages as it is and mine will get lost, and two because they wouldn't even touch me with a barge pole, let alone G!!!

So does anybody sometimes look at some profiles on here and think "What the heck do you need help with, just walk outside and people will jump on you!"

C xx"

after looking at your profile i agree with you

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Haha drop dead gorgeous people like sex too you know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some VERY good points made! I guess some people just don't see it, or yeah, they can't really do this exact same thing out and about because its not really "the norm" so to speak. C xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...that is true. There are many who are stunners and i know i won't be what they are looking for.

But, some of the most beautiful people i've seen when speaking to them are soooo boring!! It turns me off.

So, there's positives and negatives to that.

Ps. On a side note Mrs Telford is stunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...that is true. There are many who are stunners and i know i won't be what they are looking for.

But, some of the most beautiful people i've seen when speaking to them are soooo boring!! It turns me off.

So, there's positives and negatives to that.

Ps. On a side note Mrs Telford is stunning "

Agreed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same with good looking men, the ones i have met werent big headed like you would expect them to be, they were quite down to earth, bit shy.

Good looking men arent always good in bed though.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

There is someone for everyone in swinging, just a case of finding them. What one person will find drop dead gorgeous could well be anothers average. Same as what you see as a 'monster' (which is not a term I would use!) could be someone's perfect partner.

People are often on here for more than just the sex....

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"

But look at it this way - the lifestyle is different to the real world. Just because they'd theoretically have no problem attracting sexual attention in civvy street doesn't mean they can satisfy their wants and fantasies this way, or be safe in the knowledge that someone shares certain kinks, fetishes or likes. Or will be open to no strings fun 1-2-1, or threesomes/moresomes or swingers clubs.

People enjoy the lifestyle for what it enables them to do and achieve sexually, with similar minded people that you'd struggle to spot in the real world without psychic powers!

Swinging is for everyone - stunner, average or whoever!! "

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"...What the HELL are you doing on here?

Now, I'm not on about the monsters of Fab, the people you see out the corner of your eye in the dark. No... Those are a totally different question that requires many, many vodkas...

I'm talking about women (And men) that are just mind blowing? The kind of people that are so hot they should be a model? "

Yes and for all the times I used to say to them 'WTF you doing here your as good looking as me' I never got a reply. Oh well, they might have the looks but they dont have the sence of humour

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By *oeyredbirdCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Personally we'er on here as we like to stay discreet none of our friends and family know what we like to do so it's great finding like minded peeps kxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seen some true stunners,have a few on friends list and their pics are amazing.definate not fakes either as we have spoke to and know people who have met them.

like someone else said google image search is brilliant.you can spot the fake ones a mile off.the mod who let them through must have not been looking at the screen when pressing accept

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is someone for everyone in swinging, just a case of finding them. What one person will find drop dead gorgeous could well be anothers average. Same as what you see as a 'monster' (which is not a term I would use!) could be someone's perfect partner.

People are often on here for more than just the sex...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there is a Tgirl on here called blue ivy.she would put most woman to shame.totally stunning.check her out and tell me you can't tell she was a man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The hot people that are down to Earth and nice I can deal with

Its the big headed egos that think they rule the roost and that everybody should bow down to them just because they won the gene lottery... Those are the ones I HATE with a passion! C xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The hot people that are down to Earth and nice I can deal with

Its the big headed egos that think they rule the roost and that everybody should bow down to them just because they won the gene lottery... Those are the ones I HATE with a passion! C xx"

Can you move this to my rant thread please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone made a good point that good looking can often mean the personality of a pebble I get women soaking wet with my sexy patter then move in for the kill with my laser beam (starsky and Hutch type) stare that makes them go weak at the knees and swoon in my arms…..if that doesnt work i get them d*unk and cry til they give me a pity shag… lol

I get hardly any meets as i work silly times and am not on much but it would be nice to log in one day and find 20 or so women want my body - and they arent affiliated to a medical research project…. prob never happen but I can live with that as long as the ones i do meet turn out to be more than just a quick shag… and can hold a conversation….as for the drop dead gorgeous ones…. time is harsh and eventually you'll have to get a personality because your looks will fade….. for the record - i'm drop dead gorgeous…. and hung like a muskrat…. get typing ladies…….

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A muskrat?! Haha, sign us up!!! :p

But yeah, we can only do evenings and weekends and so don't get anybody asking for a meet really. Well, we DO get single men, but we're not looking for single men. The few times we do email nice looking, attractive ladies they turn out to be fakes as I said before, or, again as said before, with egos so big they feel the need to insult us. Just got another email back in the last hour for a girl local who said quite simply "im not desperate, no.". We get soooooooo many rude messages back, but its ALWAYS from people who think they are gods gift and act a bit too confident.

Likewise, we get messages from couples, women and men, who don't exactly want us (some men do) but are actually really polite, nice, decent people. A few of them have been in this thread. Its those types of people that make you not give up. C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A muskrat?! Haha, sign us up!!! :p

But yeah, we can only do evenings and weekends and so don't get anybody asking for a meet really. Well, we DO get single men, but we're not looking for single men. The few times we do email nice looking, attractive ladies they turn out to be fakes as I said before, or, again as said before, with egos so big they feel the need to insult us. Just got another email back in the last hour for a girl local who said quite simply "im not desperate, no.". We get soooooooo many rude messages back, but its ALWAYS from people who think they are gods gift and act a bit too confident.

Likewise, we get messages from couples, women and men, who don't exactly want us (some men do) but are actually really polite, nice, decent people. A few of them have been in this thread. Its those types of people that make you not give up. C x"

I bet a lot of people think rude things though, just dont say them, not just the good looking ones. iv been insulted by more ugly men than nice looking ones, i wouldnt be rude back though, just makes them more nasty.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

there are some stunners on here I don't have that problem

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Hot people still may enjoy the swinging world, the etiquette of it is so much better and easier than meeting people for more casual relationships outside of this lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good thread, what is reverse search?

We are old..... Not tech geeks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the record - I only need 20 more mail messages from hot ladies or couples looking for an articliate edukatid guy to reach my goal of 20!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good thread, what is reverse search?

We are old..... Not tech geeks! "

classycpllincs, reverse image search is searching using an image rather than searching FOR an imagine. You can do it with Tineye and Google Images too. It searches the internet for the pic you give it, so you can tell if its hosted on any other sites. Great if you suspect somebody is faking their pics and profile, or even to see if your pics were stolen.

P.S. Mrs is VERY sexy, I can't believe she is 48, she has a hotter body than people younger than me!!! C x

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By *ovelybumCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells


"People enjoy the lifestyle for what it enables them to do and achieve sexually, with similar minded people that you'd struggle to spot in the real world without psychic powers!

Swinging is for everyone - stunner, average or whoever!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May change my screen name to whoever…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good thread, what is reverse search?

We are old..... Not tech geeks!

classycpllincs, reverse image search is searching using an image rather than searching FOR an imagine. You can do it with Tineye and Google Images too. It searches the internet for the pic you give it, so you can tell if its hosted on any other sites. Great if you suspect somebody is faking their pics and profile, or even to see if your pics were stolen.

P.S. Mrs is VERY sexy, I can't believe she is 48, she has a hotter body than people younger than me!!! C x"

That answers our question thanks.... is it easy to do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...What the HELL are you doing on here?

Now, I'm not on about the monsters of Fab, the people you see out the corner of your eye in the dark. No... Those are a totally different question that requires many, many vodkas...

I'm talking about women (And men) that are just mind blowing? The kind of people that are so hot they should be a model? Some of the girls I've looked at... Wow... They blow my mind! I get wet just looking at the pics, never mind actually doing stuff with them!

Sadly sometimes these people are of course fake, with too perfectly staged pictures taken with expensive cameras and just the right lighting etc etc... Thats where good old reverse image search works a treat.

But some of these women I'm simply too scared to even try and message! One because they likely get too many messages as it is and mine will get lost, and two because they wouldn't even touch me with a barge pole, let alone G!!!

So does anybody sometimes look at some profiles on here and think "What the heck do you need help with, just walk outside and people will jump on you!"

C xx"

It's the same for some guys. Clearly look after themselves and are decent looking. Maybe it's the ego trip of receiving tonnes of messages!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not at all! For Tineye, go to Tineye.com and upload the pic you want to search. You can install something called a "plugin" which means if you right click on an image in IE or Firefox etc, you can search it directly there and then.

You can also use Google. Just go to Google search, click "images", and then when you usally search for a pic and write in something, theres a little camera button next to the blue search button. Click that instead, and you can pick a picture of your choice to search for. C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all! For Tineye, go to Tineye.com and upload the pic you want to search. You can install something called a "plugin" which means if you right click on an image in IE or Firefox etc, you can search it directly there and then.

You can also use Google. Just go to Google search, click "images", and then when you usally search for a pic and write in something, theres a little camera button next to the blue search button. Click that instead, and you can pick a picture of your choice to search for. C x"

Bugger, so we have to use genuine pics now in case we are caught out. Shit, will need a panoramic lens now to capture her fat ass and some Vaseline to smear on it to smudge our true images, we will never get a meet at this rate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of those that you suggest to be 'hot' or 'gorgeous' also have the following on their profile

'only looking for the beautiful people. those that are the same as us. those that put superficial looks above substance, and can live with being with hot people more than they need to actually be engaged in conversation, afterall, we have never had to develop a personality because our looks have carried us through life. but be quick, because once our looks have gone, we have very little else to offer'

or something like that. tbf thats what we read on their profiles.

would rather go for other 'average' people than think 'hot' people are out of our league, because you know what? they just arent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to think just the same way as the op ... 6 months down the line we have played with some of these hotties , and yes they are real .

We initially thought they were perhaps taking one for the team , but now realise they are just like all us mere average looking folk , and here to have fun .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if everyone is too scared to mail the 'hot people'. They will be sitting there with an empty inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a message out of the blue from a bloke staying nearby.i reverse imaged him.he had a page on a model site,was a pro athlete and been on covers of mags.he had a few veris and arranged a meet.knock knock at the door.it was him and Nik had a good night .they (the super hot) are out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...What the HELL are you doing on here?

Now, I'm not on about the monsters of Fab, the people you see out the corner of your eye in the dark. No... Those are a totally different question that requires many, many vodkas...

I'm talking about women (And men) that are just mind blowing? The kind of people that are so hot they should be a model? Some of the girls I've looked at... Wow... They blow my mind! I get wet just looking at the pics, never mind actually doing stuff with them!

Sadly sometimes these people are of course fake, with too perfectly staged pictures taken with expensive cameras and just the right lighting etc etc... Thats where good old reverse image search works a treat.

But some of these women I'm simply too scared to even try and message! One because they likely get too many messages as it is and mine will get lost, and two because they wouldn't even touch me with a barge pole, let alone G!!!

So does anybody sometimes look at some profiles on here and think "What the heck do you need help with, just walk outside and people will jump on you!"

C xx"

Obviously these so called "mind blowing " people are most likely fed up with the vanilla same old run of the mill sexual experiance's in the real world with people who haven't got the balls to step out of there comfort zone a expand their true sexuality to its very limits !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha love this.... Totally agréé with you...

Often makes me more sceptical thinking that they are fake...

There is the common side of they love sex like us all and it's a good way of meeting new people.

Also people can be classed as slags etc sleeping with randomers from clubs bars the street but on here we are all here for the same reason so no judgements x "

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By *oojCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Surely everyone if real is on here to find the sex they enjoy with like minded people, you might be average like us (well we think average) or stunning but there should be someone for everyone and if a profile tickles your fancy send a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if everyone is too scared to mail the 'hot people'. They will be sitting there with an empty inbox.

"

Pheewwww its ok ive got mail

I may have been a little intimidated by what I thought were the beautiful people when we first started but now I think everyone has their reasons for being on here,what most people look for goes beyond initial attraction of wow they're hot,there has to be some substance too,finding both is possible though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I always think I will just get lost, Im sure those types just bulk delete, but then you dont wanna come over as naggy!

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ya. i do ponder why i am here at times

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"What if everyone is too scared to mail the 'hot people'. They will be sitting there with an empty inbox.

"

Oh that explains why ours is empty...

(Tongue firmly in cheek)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been fortunate enough to chat and even meet some stunning women on here - and by fortunate I mean some way, some how, they were able to find my sole message in amongst their heaving inboxes, checked me out and decided I was worth getting in touch with. That's the absolute biggest obstacle I find on here, simply getting these people to actually notice you among the heaving crowd vying for their attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been fortunate enough to chat and even meet some stunning women on here - and by fortunate I mean some way, some how, they were able to find my sole message in amongst their heaving inboxes, checked me out and decided I was worth getting in touch with. That's the absolute biggest obstacle I find on here, simply getting these people to actually notice you among the heaving crowd vying for their attention."

Maybe they do notice! Just a thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been fortunate enough to chat and even meet some stunning women on here - and by fortunate I mean some way, some how, they were able to find my sole message in amongst their heaving inboxes, checked me out and decided I was worth getting in touch with. That's the absolute biggest obstacle I find on here, simply getting these people to actually notice you among the heaving crowd vying for their attention.

Maybe they do notice! Just a thought! "

Well yeah presumably so, otherwise they wouldn't message

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By *inkySCouple
over a year ago

Capetown

Hi before I finished reading op first post I thought the same about you "hot" xx

can I ask though I was intrigued by the google image thing was going to check on my own pics but as I'm a stickler for reading T&Cs does this mean what I think it does as in google keep your image that you search???!!!!

Google's use of user-submitted images and URLs...

When you search by image, any images that you upload and any URLs that you submit will be stored by Google. Google uses those images and URLs solely to provide and improve our products and services

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some very hot people on here! "

Theres even more clap cold ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to agree and admit to being lucky enough to have had the pleasure of meeting a few who are absolutely drop dead gorgeous. The site has some real gems and as a result I can't see myself leaving fab. Definitely quality over quantity and there's quality on here

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