FabSwingers.com forum: Why is it so hard to meet people on here?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm kinda new on here and finding it real difficult to get a meet with someone/ couple!

What am I doing wrong? Help??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your name refers to a cock your pictures all except one show a cock.

Your profile says your looking for a shag and not much else. Lots of people on here want a bit more information to go on before meeting someone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Honestly?

But this is a sex site, right?

So what other info I need to put on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly?

But this is a sex site, right?

So what other info I need to put on?"

Do you have a personality? If so let it shine through and show some humour.

What do you like sexually and what can you offer the people you meet?

Plenty of hung guys on here why should they pick you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh ok, il edit my profile, thanks mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No this isn't just a sex site, it's about the social side of swinging too. A lot of people want a bit more info especially when meeting people off the net.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"I'm kinda new on here and finding it real difficult to get a meet with someone/ couple!

What am I doing wrong? Help??"
Your veri shows your back on the site. So you should know the pitfuls and how for many single men it can be very difficult to get meets. As others have said it's not just about the sex. Get out from behind your keyboard and go to socials

Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Effort in = desired results.

Lack of desired results is often linked to..........

And no - it's not a sex site or any form of 'instashag'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your cock and perception of your cock is causing you the problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Effort in = desired results.

Lack of desired results is often linked to..........

And no - it's not a sex site or any form of 'instashag'

Lol quality

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By *neplusserMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Effort in = desired results.

Lack of desired results is often linked to..........

And no - it's not a sex site or any form of 'instashag'"

Haha class

... although an 'instashag' could catch on, could incorperate bashtags, pokes and what not

. I digress, if you thinks its just a sex site you may be in the wrong place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ratio is 400 men to 1 woman, most women want couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ratio is 400 men to 1 woman, most women want couples."

Apart from those seeking single men, obviously!

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"The ratio is 400 men to 1 woman, most women want couples."
Sydney Uni statistics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ratio is 400 men to 1 woman, most women want couples."

Why do men keep saying this ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ratio is 400 men to 1 woman, most women want couples.

Why do men keep saying this ??

I could hypothesise - but I suspect the answer is the obvious one!

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

"The ratio is 400 men to 1 woman, most women want couples. Sydney Uni statistics

So what are the real statistics / ratios then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 29 you crnt accom.. screams out married or gf.... stick sumit in your profile saying why you crnt

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"Honestly?

But this is a sex site, right?

So what other info I need to put on?"

Hilarious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ratio is 400 men to 1 woman, most women want couples."

I'm a woman

and I don't want couples. No offense to any of the lovely couples on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly?

But this is a sex site, right?

So what other info I need to put on?

Hilarious! "

Parental controls could have stopped all this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly?

But this is a sex site, right?

So what other info I need to put on?"

No -it's a swingers site. The clue is in the title! Your profile needs some more effort and yourpictures just show that you have a cock! Hardly unique

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By *allen MadonnaWoman
over a year ago

In my own little world

That'll be me then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because reality

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Crikey you mean you've been here a whole week and not seen any action yet.... What is the world coming to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly?

But this is a sex site, right?

So what other info I need to put on?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Effort in = desired results.

Lack of desired results is often linked to..........

And no - it's not a sex site or any form of 'instashag'

#this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get 100's of messages each week (due to her not me lol )

From our point of you need to make your first message intresting as for every 100 messages we get 95 get deleted just because they are dull

Good luck and keep trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ratio is 400 men to 1 woman, most women want couples.

I'm a woman

and I don't want couples. No offense to any of the lovely couples on Fab"

It's nothing short of a miricle I've met women on here then...thanks baby Jesus in the manger!! X

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

its a sex site

one of the sayings that make us laugh and think what actually goes through ppls minds, op asking what shoulld already know as been here before .

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"The ratio is 400 men to 1 woman, most women want couples.

Why do men keep saying this ??

because it some way it absolves them of any blame in the process....

its all "other peoples" fault they can't get meets.....

its an easy kop out!

sometimes you have to look at the way you do things if things are not working for you.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd immediately hit the delete button if I got a message off someone with a profile like yours.

Over-inflated opinion of yourself and your 'member'. Who cares?!

Honestly, I don't even know why you need to ask why you haven't had meets in the whole week that you've been here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm kinda new on here and finding it real difficult to get a meet with someone/ couple!

What am I doing wrong? Help??"

*yawn*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're obviously so deluded

if I got a message off you it would be deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile does scream "Look at me, look at my dick, dont you want it!?" which is exactly what nobody would ever want.

We get dozens of messages off people like you a day, usually saying just "ride me bitch yea" or "hi u k" or "hi im in the army and im hung like a horse lets fuck".

It doesn't exactly show much thought, personality or anything... Yes, this is a swinging site for sex, of course it is... But why would anybody want to sleep with somebody they regret? Thats the point you have to remember. You're not looking for a relationship, but you ARE looking for a connection. C xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would be a good first message then. New here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would be a good first message then. New here."

Hmmmmmmm difficult to answer but I guess politeness goes a long way and picking up on things mentioned within the profile of the person you mail. One liners are a 'no no' as is any variation on 'fancy a fuck'.

Try n manage to make your mail extend to a few sentences too

Just my thoughts x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would be a good first message then. New here."

And always read a profile before sending a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would be a good first message then. New here.

Try n manage to make your mail extend to a few sentences too

Just my thoughts x"

Or I guess the other option is turn bisexual n double your choices

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile does scream "Look at me, look at my dick, dont you want it!?" which is exactly what nobody would ever want.

We get dozens of messages off people like you a day, usually saying just "ride me bitch yea" or "hi u k" or "hi im in the army and im hung like a horse lets fuck".

Totally agree. OP. Put some effort in your profile then you may catch a break. Otherwise - happy Perving

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By *iggamanMan
over a year ago

London

"Honestly?

But this is a sex site, right?

So what other info I need to put on?"

NO! it's a swinging site hence the name fabswingers there is a big difference between a swinging site and a sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would be a good first message then. New here."

" I have just won the euro millions lottery and want to spoil you"

always works for me

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By *otterdown blockMan
over a year ago

Bristol, knowle

Try putting a face photo on

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By *randmrsfreakyCouple
over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield

"I'm kinda new on here and finding it real difficult to get a meet with someone/ couple!

What am I doing wrong? Help??"

1 week in and moaning about not getting a meet.

If you have a mirror, go stand in front of it and have a word with yourself mate

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