FabSwingers.com forum: Perving at guys cocks in gym showers

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is this bad of me I feel bad sometimes. At my local gym the showers are open and as I'm bi I always look at other guys cocks and get turned on is this bad if me I can't help it! There are some really nice ones too!

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By *iceguy25Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

Well as a straight guy I dont think so as long as it stays to judt looking nothing wrong with it

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

They keep throwing me out every time I try it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They keep throwing me out every time I try it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm bi but don't look at men in the gym showers. Don't catch their eye, don't talk to them. The straightest bi ever

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Is this bad of me I feel bad sometimes. At my local gym the showers are open and as I'm bi I always look at other guys cocks and get turned on is this bad if me I can't help it! There are some really nice ones too! "

bit too pervy for me that

(I think this is supposed to be the non offensive reply to such a respectable thread?)

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"They keep throwing me out every time I try it

Bloody hell man! Which gym did you say it was in Bristol again??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even when I used to train at a gym that was never a concern, my flaccid penis is quite unspectacular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi but don't watch other guys in the showers. I wouldn't want other guys staring at me with their tongue out either, there is a time and a place.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Even when I used to train at a gym that was never a concern, my flaccid penis is quite unspectacular."

Fucking hate this kind of public perversity with a passion myself. Its a real intrusion of privacy and yet it's totally ilegal to do anything about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys looking at your cock in the shower?

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By *ea and SugarCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

At the gym I go to there is a main changing area and then two cubicles you can use if you prefer.

Can't say it's ever bothered me if other guys are peeking, I'd just take it as a compliment as long as they didn't try to get a grip of it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think that it would bother me to be honest if some guy was looking at my appendage. Unless he started laughing then I think I would be a bit pissed. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many years ago I got propositioned by a guy in the showers after a squash game. He wasn't my opponent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the gym where I go seems to be full of cock watchers...very offensive imo

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

No different to woman walking around topless on the beach and blokes having a Perv surely??

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I'd only worry a little if you got a full on stiffy watching me shower

I'd worry more if you pointed and laughed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No different to woman walking around topless on the beach and blokes having a Perv surely?? "

well it is unless your boobs are shaped like a cock

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Even when I used to train at a gym that was never a concern, my flaccid penis is quite unspectacular.

Fucking hate this kind of public perversity with a passion myself. Its a real intrusion of privacy and yet it's totally ilegal to do anything about it. "

Welcome to the world of a woman with a cleavage!

Lots of men inappropriately stare, a few know how to perv discreetly (a skill women seem to have cultivated so well that people think we don't perv). But it's a free country and though you can offer words of advice if they don't choose to take them and continue to never make eye contact through a conversation there's not a lot you can do other than loudly shame them about their poor social skills.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"No different to woman walking around topless on the beach and blokes having a Perv surely??

well it is unless your boobs are shaped like a cock"

What I mean is if you choose to be in a state of undress in a public place people are gonna look wether you like it or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you choose to be in a state of undress because its a public changing room ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My gym has cubicles

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"you choose to be in a state of undress because its a public changing room ffs"

Yeah. Public. And like I said you can't stop people looking so I prefer to shower at home.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I see blokes at the gym I go to change into swim shorts to shower.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They keep throwing me out every time I try it

Would be inviting you in not throwing you out xx

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Even when I used to train at a gym that was never a concern, my flaccid penis is quite unspectacular.

Fucking hate this kind of public perversity with a passion myself. Its a real intrusion of privacy and yet it's totally ilegal to do anything about it.

Welcome to the world of a woman with a cleavage!

It's not a free country though as you have paid to be a member there. As a result coming under both public and private legislation. The second difference being - he is talking about the showers, where you are naked, you're not in a position of being able to report them until you have finished. If you were on the gym floor you could move equipment or approach a member of staff. But when all your clothes are in one fixed place and no attendants patroling them, this is an impossibility.

What you are essentially is. I am a window cleaner. I have a set of ladders that I can freely use, I can prop them up against any house window and I'm not causing offence.

You are trying to condone an intrusion of privacy with the addage of 'it happens all the time', yet, it doesnt.

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By *arcia0Man
over a year ago

liverpool

love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you choose to be in a state of undress because its a public changing room ffs

Yeah. Public. And like I said you can't stop people looking so I prefer to shower at home. "
what about those that take their kids in to get changed?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"you choose to be in a state of undress because its a public changing room ffs

Yeah. Public. And like I said you can't stop people looking so I prefer to shower at home. what about those that take their kids in to get changed?"

I take my little boy into the changing cubicle then he comes home to shower with me. You are missing my point tho, I'm not saying people should do it, or that it's right, in fact I think it's pretty pervy myself. What I'm saying is unless you don't use the shower or shower in trunks or something there's gonna be someone who looks. It sucks but it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be flattered lol

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

My problem is, if it moves, I look - who knows it might be a sabre tooth tiger

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't stand and stare lol or make it obvious but if a guy is walking out the showers to get his towel it's impossible to not see his cock whoever you are and I'm saying that some are really attractive and big and turn me on that's not a crime! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even when I used to train at a gym that was never a concern, my flaccid penis is quite unspectacular."

Thats a grower then !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as ur talking abt adults and just looking we can't see the problem ,,,,,its only human nature to be inquisitive to look and compare !

Being naturists we ve got absolutely no hang ups abt nudity or being seen so it wouldn't bother either of us at all

though u can usually easily tell who is shy and would say u should always respect their attempts for privacy and not make them feel uncomfortable with ur nudity !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy who would follow me around the gym and attempt to look at me as I got undressed a few months, whilst I accept that people are going to look and sometimes admire there is a line that goes from harmless to downright creepy.

He would follow me in the changing rooms then stand next to me at the cubical and try to look at my knob ffs, even the fact that I moved lockers countless times when he was staring at me wasn't a big enough hint for him.

I eventually had to confront him then report him to the staff there. I think the most disturbing thing was that he was ALWAYS there when I attended, which was at different times as I had no set routine, so I can only assume he used the gym purely to perve on guys in the changing room (besides by the looks of him he obviously wasn't hitting the freeweights)

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By *ones222Couple
over a year ago

Melbourne

You're basically a creep and posting the question on a forum for reassurance as you are knowingly doing the wrong thing, harassing people making others feel uncomfortable. It's so politically correct these days people are not even comfortable to call it as it is. You're taking advantage of people in a vulnerable situation unless of course ur advances are also welcomed by another strange man who's also hanging around the same shower or bush however it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its wrong I hate it as u feel uncomfortable changing and showering and shouldn have too. Why don't u just go to a gay club or party instead. Sorry but my opinion it makes me un easy and I shouldn have to feel like that after a hard work out I just want shower etc and men like u creep me out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turned on means at least getting semi-erect surely ? If that's the case then it's wrong any kind of voyeurism without consent is wrong.

If it's purely in your mind and you're not staring and making any males feel uncomfortable,then I guess it's not the worst thing I've ever heard.

Everyone is entitled to the same privacy and if you invade someone's privacy,then you're bang out of order.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some guys with awesome cocks that go to my local gym and I look but certainly would never stare. A guy that streaked when the Queen came to visit about 10 years ago used to go to my local gym and his was HUGE

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Turned on means at least getting semi-erect surely ? If that's the case then it's wrong any kind of voyeurism without consent is wrong.

If it's purely in your mind and you're not staring and making any males feel uncomfortable,then I guess it's not the worst thing I've ever heard.

Everyone is entitled to the same privacy and if you invade someone's privacy,then you're bang out of order.

my post was deleted when I called out the size of his member and people noticing..... surely people would!

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