FabSwingers.com forum: Timewasters

By *oadrunner1968 OP Man
over a year ago

wiltshire

Why is it that there are so many timewasters here? You start a conversation they ask for pics then nothing, not even a thanks but no thanks. Manners cost nothing.

I'm sure there are a lot of genuine people on here but yet to find any.

Rant over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they have to ask for pics, when you have non on your profile, why are they wasting "your" time?

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By *atelotmanMan
over a year ago

Chatham

I know just how you feel

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

timewasters have been in this game a long

time even on sites you have to pay to join x

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By *AMES19620Man
over a year ago

newport

keep plodding on maybe they did not like the pics you sent

put some on your profile might stop that in the future

just a suggestion

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is sad but it is part of the game I am afraid to say.

Piss me off no end when they asked for a meet then they ignore you or block after you say yes. WFT you asked me.

Note that i get that many asked me as well. RANT rant rant

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Don't see how that makes them time wasters. If they'd arranged a meet but not showed up then they'd be time wasters. They're clearly not interested so no time wasted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't see how that makes them time wasters. If they'd arranged a meet but not showed up then they'd be time wasters. They're clearly not interested so no time wasted. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that there are so many timewasters here? You start a conversation they ask for pics then nothing, not even a thanks but no thanks. Manners cost nothing.

I'm sure there are a lot of genuine people on here but yet to find any.

Rant over."

your inviting people to ask for pics, its not blind date, and when they see them may decide your not for them, people should be able to see what your offering, without having to ask,

If a shop had a blacked out window, it would have very few enquiries, so maybe its you who is being a time waster, but hey, your life, your profile, your rant, but there are simple ways around it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I swear people leave all their brain cells at the door when they log into this site and lose all common sense or logical reasoning

OP its simple,and its what other people have already said on this thread

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By *eterpan6b1Couple
over a year ago

Hedon

Our definition of a time waster! People who have a profile that is virtually empty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did u send any pics to them?..

If so then maybe your not for them..

We have been in conversations with peeps on here and posted pics only then realised they are not what we are looking for..better luck nxt time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't see how that makes them time wasters. If they'd arranged a meet but not showed up then they'd be time wasters. They're clearly not interested so no time wasted. "

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By *iggamanMan
over a year ago

London

"Sometimes I swear people leave all their brain cells at the door when they log into this site and lose all common sense or logical reasoning

OP its simple,and its what other people have already said on this thread "

wow bit harsh don't you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I swear people leave all their brain cells at the door when they log into this site and lose all common sense or logical reasoning

OP its simple,and its what other people have already said on this thread

wow bit harsh don't you think?

Quite simply......No

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By *iceguy25Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

Im genuine lol

Hate timewasters I dont get it if you just want pics Google it lol

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By *iggamanMan
over a year ago

London

"Sometimes I swear people leave all their brain cells at the door when they log into this site and lose all common sense or logical reasoning

OP its simple,and its what other people have already said on this thread

wow bit harsh don't you think?

Quite simply......No "

lol fair enough i like your style and pics

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Ah here we go, as has been said.

A time waster would be someone who engages you with the prospect of meeting but never does, pulls out of meets at the last minute or never has an intention of meeting.

Asking for a pic, getting said pic and deciding the person/people are not for you is not time wasting, its rude in that they havent replied to tell you this but its not being a time waster.

Its like the go to phrase for all of fabs Ills, "cant get any meets" timewasters its become a catch all and almost meaningless as a result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I swear people leave all their brain cells at the door when they log into this site and lose all common sense or logical reasoning

OP its simple,and its what other people have already said on this thread

wow bit harsh don't you think?

Quite simply......No

lol fair enough i like your style and pics

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Our definition of a time waster! People who have a profile that is virtually empty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah here we go, as has been said.

A time waster would be someone who engages you with the prospect of meeting but never does, pulls out of meets at the last minute or never has an intention of meeting.

Asking for a pic, getting said pic and deciding the person/people are not for you is not time wasting, its rude in that they havent replied to tell you this but its not being a time waster.

Its like the go to phrase for all of fabs Ills, "cant get any meets" timewasters its become a catch all and almost meaningless as a result.

Quite simple, if you don't want people to mail you and then decide they don't fancy you display your pics on your profile

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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I think this shows why it is not a good idea have a name and shame option....so many different definitions of a timewaster.

To the OP...I wouldn't class people who don't answer your mail a timewaster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had people just message me on here saying "pics?" Or "face pic?" Surely a little courtesy of "hello" wouldnt go a miss???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think this shows why it is not a good idea have a name and shame option....so many different definitions of a timewaster.

To the OP...I wouldn't class people who don't answer your mail a timewaster."

Totally agree.

To some people om here, anyone that doesn't agree to meet them is a timewaster.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Why is it that there are so many timewasters here? You start a conversation they ask for pics then nothing, not even a thanks but no thanks. Manners cost nothing.

I'm sure there are a lot of genuine people on here but yet to find any.

Rant over."

The word timewaster gets thrown around far too often on this site.

How is someone wanting to know what you look like, a timewaster?

You were obviously not for them, yes I agree it would have polite to just say no thanks. It doesn't make them a timewaster, people are entitled to change their mind at any time.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Don't see how that makes them time wasters. If they'd arranged a meet but not showed up then they'd be time wasters. They're clearly not interested so no time wasted.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Ah here we go, as has been said.

A time waster would be someone who engages you with the prospect of meeting but never does, pulls out of meets at the last minute or never has an intention of meeting.

Asking for a pic, getting said pic and deciding the person/people are not for you is not time wasting, its rude in that they havent replied to tell you this but its not being a time waster.

Its like the go to phrase for all of fabs Ills, "cant get any meets" timewasters its become a catch all and almost meaningless as a result.

Should have read the whole thread before replying.

This answer is better than mine.....

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