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"As the title says, we like to give new people the benefit of doubt you exchange a few messages they have been photo verified then you ask can we have a social meet, then all you get is it's really difficult to arrange childcare but would really like to discuss fantasies and such like is that block time ?" I would just ignore them....now then i have this Fantasy | |||
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"As the title says, we like to give new people the benefit of doubt you exchange a few messages they have been photo verified then you ask can we have a social meet, then all you get is it's really difficult to arrange childcare but would really like to discuss fantasies and such like is that block time ?" I would say that the only way to know people is to meet them.. Yes childcare can be an issue for people and the same goes for work etc.. As for want to discuss fantasy with people you have never laid eyes on, no not for us. I would not block unless they had been rude or agressive.. | |||
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"Go with what your gut tells you. If you like the fantasy then no harm messaging." Agreed, some people do enjoy talking about sex.. If that does it for you then go for it, if not then don't.. | |||
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"We are not really into talking sex much rather do it, we have had some good meets with new people but I'm always suspicious it's some sad little wanker pretending to be a couple, but they are photo verified, I don't know we have up meeting off here some while ago and just met at clubs but we thought we'd give it another go, perhaps blocking is a little sever but it just saves any hassle in the future " You have to do what you feel is right for you... I would say that if you want to meet but they can't seem to arrange a time to do that then ask them to get in touch with you when they have some free time and see what comes back.. Polite but to the point | |||
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"As the title says, we like to give new people the benefit of doubt you exchange a few messages they have been photo verified then you ask can we have a social meet, then all you get is it's really difficult to arrange childcare but would really like to discuss fantasies and such like is that block time ? I would say that the only way to know people is to meet them.. Yes childcare can be an issue for people and the same goes for work etc.. As for want to discuss fantasy with people you have never laid eyes on, no not for us. I would not block unless they had been rude or agressive.." | |||
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"We are not really into talking sex much rather do it, we have had some good meets with new people but I'm always suspicious it's some sad little wanker pretending to be a couple, but they are photo verified, I don't know we have up meeting off here some while ago and just met at clubs but we thought we'd give it another go, perhaps blocking is a little sever but it just saves any hassle in the future You have to do what you feel is right for you... I would say that if you want to meet but they can't seem to arrange a time to do that then ask them to get in touch with you when they have some free time and see what comes back.. Polite but to the point " | |||
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" You have to do what you feel is right for you... I would say that if you want to meet but they can't seem to arrange a time to do that then ask them to get in touch with you when they have some free time and see what comes back.. Polite but to the point " I have done this a few times in the past,I also think that some new people need time to get used to the site and swinging in general,it can be overwhelming at first and a little time to reflect on what you want out of it and take stock can be helpful | |||
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"I have to be honest when someone isn't free to meet they should say so in the initial contact save any confusion. " Agreed.. Honesty is always the best policy | |||
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" You have to do what you feel is right for you... I would say that if you want to meet but they can't seem to arrange a time to do that then ask them to get in touch with you when they have some free time and see what comes back.. Polite but to the point I have done this a few times in the past,I also think that some new people need time to get used to the site and swinging in general,it can be overwhelming at first and a little time to reflect on what you want out of it and take stock can be helpful" This is what I think but i also don't want to waste our time and after all we are here for our own enjoyment we are not here to babysit, I have sent a polite message saying message us if and when you are ready to meet and good luck | |||
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" You have to do what you feel is right for you... I would say that if you want to meet but they can't seem to arrange a time to do that then ask them to get in touch with you when they have some free time and see what comes back.. Polite but to the point I have done this a few times in the past,I also think that some new people need time to get used to the site and swinging in general,it can be overwhelming at first and a little time to reflect on what you want out of it and take stock can be helpful This is what I think but i also don't want to waste our time and after all we are here for our own enjoyment we are not here to babysit, I have sent a polite message saying message us if and when you are ready to meet and good luck " That sounds totally fair to me | |||
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"yeah, if messaging is like pulling teeth then it doesnt last very long anyway. but that goes for established couples too." was just about to say the same thing.... | |||
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"As the title says, we like to give new people the benefit of doubt you exchange a few messages they have been photo verified then you ask can we have a social meet, then all you get is it's really difficult to arrange childcare but would really like to discuss fantasies and such like is that block time ? I would just ignore them....now then i have this Fantasy " Talk about sex? Oh ech, knew I'd forgotten something - Oh hum | |||
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"I set a limit of 50 exchanged messages, and then request a phone call, I have a limit of 10 phone calls, then do my research, usually about 6 months to 12 months, then request a coffee in a busy public place, if all goes to plan they can expect sex within 18 months of first contact. " Well talk about rush into things !! | |||
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"yeah, if messaging is like pulling teeth then it doesnt last very long anyway. but that goes for established couples too. was just about to say the same thing.... " | |||
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"As the title says, we like to give new people the benefit of doubt you exchange a few messages they have been photo verified then you ask can we have a social meet, then all you get is it's really difficult to arrange childcare but would really like to discuss fantasies and such like is that block time ?" YoU tell them to contact you with a time for a meet and not chat till then | |||
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"I set a limit of 50 exchanged messages, and then request a phone call, I have a limit of 10 phone calls, then do my research, usually about 6 months to 12 months, then request a coffee in a busy public place, if all goes to plan they can expect sex within 18 months of first contact. " Woops ditto this, riding side saddle here without prior consent , yeee x | |||
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"I set a limit of 50 exchanged messages, and then request a phone call, I have a limit of 10 phone calls, then do my research, usually about 6 months to 12 months, then request a coffee in a busy public place, if all goes to plan they can expect sex within 18 months of first contact. Woops ditto this, riding side saddle here without prior consent , yeee x" Pillion even | |||
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"As the title says, we like to give new people the benefit of doubt you exchange a few messages they have been photo verified then you ask can we have a social meet, then all you get is it's really difficult to arrange childcare but would really like to discuss fantasies and such like is that block time ?" Yes. People like that are just looking to masturbate while you tell them your fantasies or cyber chat with them. They do it while the wife/partner is out. | |||
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"As the title says, we like to give new people the benefit of doubt you exchange a few messages they have been photo verified then you ask can we have a social meet, then all you get is it's really difficult to arrange childcare but would really like to discuss fantasies and such like is that block time ? Yes. People like that are just looking to masturbate while you tell them your fantasies or cyber chat with them. They do it while the wife/partner is out. " To be honest that's my concern we don't want to be wank fodder | |||
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"We do try an give the benefit of the doubt but at some point you must say this is not working and move on, we are here for our own enjoyment and it must be fun or what's the point " Thats exactly right, get a meet planned or move on it what I would do | |||
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