FabSwingers.com forum: first ff encounter

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry if this is a common subject but looking for my first ever female female experience.

Not sure how far I want to go until I get into it.

Not even sure how to go about setting something up.

any advice very much appreciated.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry if this is a common subject but looking for my first ever female female experience.

Not sure how far I want to go until I get into it.

Not even sure how to go about setting something up.

any advice very much appreciated. "

I would guess the same way you would if you were looking to meet a couple or single guy

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP. Be best to change your sexuality to bi-curious first.

Then you need to decide if you want to meet one on or you want your partner there. Personally if this is your first time then probably best to meet socially and have a one on one chat with a lady.

Happy to help more if you PM me. And don't worry that your nervous. There's no rush into anything.

Littlebird x

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I jumped right into my first sexual experience with a woman and it freaked me out. I fled the hotel with an excuse the next morning. Funny really that the female in question ended up being my girlfriend for the next 11 months

My advice is to take it slow. Let the woman who you plan to meet know that you are nervous and are not sure how far you are able to go as yet. Many women will understand completely....us bi women, we've all been there.

It's up to you whether you have your partner there or not, but I do agree that a one-on-one social meet with a girl is the best way to start to pursue this.

I can recommend a really good bi women's support forum if you need somewhere to really talk (pm me if you want details). It's not a dating site, but it is somewhere to talk and ask for advice.