FabSwingers.com forum: Why?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Someone messaged me a week ago, i told him he wasnt my type, then today he messaged me saying he wouldnt be able to see me on the day i was meeting but could see me another day.

So i messaged him and explained, then he replied saying that i had sent him a wink and message saying i was looking for two men on thursday, why would he say that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe trying his luck thinking you won't notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone messaged me a week ago, i told him he wasnt my type, then today he messaged me saying he wouldnt be able to see me on the day i was meeting but could see me another day.

So i messaged him and explained, then he replied saying that i had sent him a wink and message saying i was looking for two men on thursday, why would he say that?

To confuse you and make you think you had forgotten, its a ploy used by telesales people, especially the ones selling advertising in online directories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply because some men think women are stupid and don't know their arses from their elbows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a guy message us this week and was rude and obnoxious, we sent a reply back and then the abuse started. We blocked him and then got a message from a different user name but it was the same guy, we blocked again! We then had a 3rd message and reported him. Our mistake was sending a polite thanks but no thanks message?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Someone messaged me a week ago, i told him he wasnt my type, then today he messaged me saying he wouldnt be able to see me on the day i was meeting but could see me another day.

So i messaged him and explained, then he replied saying that i had sent him a wink and message saying i was looking for two men on thursday, why would he say that?

To confuse you and make you think you had forgotten, its a ploy used by telesales people, especially the ones selling advertising in online directories"

Thanks for explaining that. It says on our profiles who we have messaged and winked at anyway though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he read your thread about getting confused and not knowing who the guy was that turned up to meet you but as you played anyway he thought he would try his luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe he read your thread about getting confused and not knowing who the guy was that turned up to meet you but as you played anyway he thought he would try his luck. "

Maybe he did, not that many people read the forums though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he is just a bit of a tw*t n maybe he got you mixed up i dunno one of fabs little mysteries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone messaged me a week ago, i told him he wasnt my type, then today he messaged me saying he wouldnt be able to see me on the day i was meeting but could see me another day.

So i messaged him and explained, then he replied saying that i had sent him a wink and message saying i was looking for two men on thursday, why would he say that?

To confuse you and make you think you had forgotten, its a ploy used by telesales people, especially the ones selling advertising in online directories

Thanks for explaining that. It says on our profiles who we have messaged and winked at anyway though."

But thats only if your a paid member, and a lot of none members do not know about it

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

"Maybe he read your thread about getting confused and not knowing who the guy was that turned up to meet you but as you played anyway he thought he would try his luck.

Maybe he did, not that many people read the forums though."

You'll be surprised actually.

Not many post on the forums, A lot of people read them though

When I did the safety text thing I got over 300 messages within the hour and I only recognised 3 maybe 4 of the profiles from the forums

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

We had something similar from a guy we hadn't communicated with..

some just take a chance that you'll say 'yes ok'..

a lot of them aren't site supporters and don't realise that any prior contact can be seen..

hey ho..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We had a guy message us this week and was rude and obnoxious, we sent a reply back and then the abuse started. We blocked him and then got a message from a different user name but it was the same guy, we blocked again! We then had a 3rd message and reported him. Our mistake was sending a polite thanks but no thanks message? "

As if you could be bothered setting up all them different profiles just to rile people, it begets belief

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"Maybe he read your thread about getting confused and not knowing who the guy was that turned up to meet you but as you played anyway he thought he would try his luck. "

I was thinking the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had it a few times where guys have mailed me asking if I'm still on for that meet when i know full well i have mot agreed to meet them

i think some hope you forget who you do and don't talk to and think you will think...oh i beat meet if I've agreed to it

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