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"You need to adjust your filters then they can't message you, nice avatar pic though. xx" Thanks for the reply and kind comment. My filters have been adjusted. | |||
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"I'm a straight guy, it says so on my profile so why do I get so much interest from the same sex." Anything you do to make your profile more attractive in general will result in more _iews from single males as there are so many, many more of them here than women, rather than your profile being attractive to males specifically. | |||
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"A better question would be to ask men what attracts your profile to them as that is the problem. " Good point! Well men, what is it that attracts you to my profile? | |||
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"A better question would be to ask men what attracts your profile to them as that is the problem. Good point! Well men, what is it that attracts you to my profile?" Nothing!  BAZINGA!! | |||
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"A better question would be to ask men what attracts your profile to them as that is the problem. Good point! Well men, what is it that attracts you to my profile? Nothing! BAZINGA!! "I'm glad to hear it!  | |||
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"I'm guessing it's the 6 out of 7 cock pics, from surveys done on here (lots and lots of them) it would appear that woman aren't bothered so much by endless cock pics but the men love it. " Just out of curiosity then, lets try eyes for a little while, and see if I get less male _iews than usual. | |||
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"Also, you wouldn't believe how many men say they are straight on their profile and as soon as I say that I'd like 2 men and me to play together, they suddenly admit that they are bi or bi curious. The men looking at your profile are probably wondering if you're one such specimen "Do you specifically ask for bi men? Can two straight men not play with you without playing with each other? You made a good point though! | |||
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"Personally I reckon I'll get less _iews from both males AND females than I do with my cock pics." You'll never get a true reading as lots of people (especially woman) perv in stealth mode. I'm just going by what I've seen on here, when someone asks what's more important looks, personality, face the majority of woman say personality, looks then cock last. Men mostly seem to say cock first. I've seen lots of posts like this one before as well and the bloke always seems to have lots of cock shots, no idea why this makes guys think that the straight guy might not be so straight so they attempt to message but it seems to be the case. | |||
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"I'm guessing it's the 6 out of 7 cock pics, from surveys done on here (lots and lots of them) it would appear that woman aren't bothered so much by endless cock pics but the men love it. " Do you not like my cock? 
So less of the cock pics and more clothed catalogue poses?
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"Also, you wouldn't believe how many men say they are straight on their profile and as soon as I say that I'd like 2 men and me to play together, they suddenly admit that they are bi or bi curious. The men looking at your profile are probably wondering if you're one such specimen
Do you specifically ask for bi men? Can two straight men not play with you without playing with each other?
You made a good point though!"Some prefer a bi mmf as then everyone can play together, not my cup if tea but from previous threads it would appear very popular. | |||
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"I'm guessing it's the 6 out of 7 cock pics, from surveys done on here (lots and lots of them) it would appear that woman aren't bothered so much by endless cock pics but the men love it. " | |||
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"I'm guessing it's the 6 out of 7 cock pics, from surveys done on here (lots and lots of them) it would appear that woman aren't bothered so much by endless cock pics but the men love it. Do you not like my cock?
So less of the cock pics and more clothed catalogue poses?
Thanks for the advice."When you see hundreds and hundreds of cock pics you get a bit un-excited by them tbh, IMHO some of the best pics I've seen on here are clothed shots, semi naked reavealing ones and ones that leave a bit to the imagination. If it were me I'd leave one or two so people know what to expect but endless pics of a guy with his cock in his hand are just boring xx | |||
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"Personally I reckon I'll get less _iews from both males AND females than I do with my cock pics. You'll never get a true reading as lots of people (especially woman) perv in stealth mode. I'm just going by what I've seen on here, when someone asks what's more important looks, personality, face the majority of woman say personality, looks then cock last. Men mostly seem to say cock first." I don't disagree with you on the importance of a good personality, and I think a lot more guys would acknowledge that than are given credit for, but its a far harder quality to demonstrate than good looks or cock size (supposing you have either or both). You can show personality through your profile, messages and forum posts, but these things rarely have the instant attention grabbing appeal of a good cock pic, and whilst I do get plenty of messages from people simply saying 'nice cock', its almost always the ones who actually took the time to read and appreciate my profile that I reply to. | |||
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"A better question would be to ask men what attracts your profile to them as that is the problem. Good point! Well men, what is it that attracts you to my profile? Nothing! BAZINGA!! " | |||
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"I'm a straight guy, it says so on my profile so why do I get so much interest from the same sex. I received messages too, until I started blocking. So come on ladies, what am I doing wrong? "Nothing it's just what bi males do | |||
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"A better question would be to ask men what attracts your profile to them as that is the problem. Good point! Well men, what is it that attracts you to my profile? Nothing! BAZINGA!!
"So it's ok to have pussy pics but not cock? You have cock in your profile pics. | |||
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"I'm a straight guy, it says so on my profile so why do I get so much interest from the same sex. I received messages too, until I started blocking. So come on ladies, what am I doing wrong?
Nothing it's just what bi males do"Thanks Hot! | |||
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"I'm a straight guy, it says so on my profile so why do I get so much interest from the same sex. I received messages too, until I started blocking. So come on ladies, what am I doing wrong? "...the multiple cock pics. | |||
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"I'm guessing it's the 6 out of 7 cock pics, from surveys done on here (lots and lots of them) it would appear that woman aren't bothered so much by endless cock pics but the men love it. " Exactly!!! | |||
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"I'm guessing it's the 6 out of 7 cock pics, from surveys done on here (lots and lots of them) it would appear that woman aren't bothered so much by endless cock pics but the men love it. Do you not like my cock?
So less of the cock pics and more clothed catalogue poses?
Thanks for the advice.
When you see hundreds and hundreds of cock pics you get a bit un-excited by them tbh, IMHO some of the best pics I've seen on here are clothed shots, semi naked reavealing ones and ones that leave a bit to the imagination. If it were me I'd leave one or two so people know what to expect but endless pics of a guy with his cock in his hand are just boring xx "^^^^^This!!! | |||
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"You're male. Simple. Just the same way women get bombarded simply because they are women. Some guys just don't care. When I first joined I had no profile text or pictures for about 20 mins, and I still got about 10 mails in that time. " Your pics are very hot! I bet you're inundated with messages now  | |||
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"Well babes you're hot to trot and got one hell of a nice body bow chikka wow wow lol "Hi Godess. Thanks for your kind comments. Wish I was a bit closer to you, show you how hot and horny I really am.xxx | |||
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"I'm guessing it's the 6 out of 7 cock pics, from surveys done on here (lots and lots of them) it would appear that woman aren't bothered so much by endless cock pics but the men love it. Do you not like my cock?
So less of the cock pics and more clothed catalogue poses?
Thanks for the advice.
When you see hundreds and hundreds of cock pics you get a bit un-excited by them tbh, IMHO some of the best pics I've seen on here are clothed shots, semi naked reavealing ones and ones that leave a bit to the imagination. If it were me I'd leave one or two so people know what to expect but endless pics of a guy with his cock in his hand are just boring xx "Now there's an attitude I like. Good, classy well thought out pics, or at least an attempt are the ones that'll grab my attention. I also agree, things left to the imagination are a good thing. X | |||
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"I'm guessing it's the 6 out of 7 cock pics, from surveys done on here (lots and lots of them) it would appear that woman aren't bothered so much by endless cock pics but the men love it. "
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"I'm guessing it's the 6 out of 7 cock pics, from surveys done on here (lots and lots of them) it would appear that woman aren't bothered so much by endless cock pics but the men love it.
i think men are more attracted to cock pics than women"Disagree, as mentioned further up I tried using my eyes as an avatar for the afternoon, and just as I expected, didn't get so much as a quarter the _iews I normally would - from females OR males. Sorry folks, cock pics are popular - because they're popular. | |||
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"I'm guessing it's the 6 out of 7 cock pics, from surveys done on here (lots and lots of them) it would appear that woman aren't bothered so much by endless cock pics but the men love it. Do you not like my cock?
So less of the cock pics and more clothed catalogue poses?
Thanks for the advice.
When you see hundreds and hundreds of cock pics you get a bit un-excited by them tbh, IMHO some of the best pics I've seen on here are clothed shots, semi naked reavealing ones and ones that leave a bit to the imagination. If it were me I'd leave one or two so people know what to expect but endless pics of a guy with his cock in his hand are just boring xx
Now there's an attitude I like. Good, classy well thought out pics, or at least an attempt are the ones that'll grab my attention.
I also agree, things left to the imagination are a good thing. X"I agree 100%. I'm not saying I don't want cock pics just not everyone of them lol. Yours I must say are very nice! | |||
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"So you wrote this post a day ago. so many people both male and female have told you its because 6 out if 7 of your pictures are just your cock. I just looked at your profile and they are all still there. why even ask the question if you are not going to listen to the advice? If you want more attention from women lose the cock pics... most woman on here see hundreds daily. " I have taken note of all the comments and appreciate the advice, thank you all. But I've had a busy day today and don't have time to try on different clothes for photos. IT WILL BE CHANGED! Just give me a chance please. | |||
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"Personally I reckon I'll get less _iews from both males AND females than I do with my cock pics." Your eyes looked like a photo fit for a wanted poster! | |||
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"So you wrote this post a day ago. so many people both male and female have told you its because 6 out if 7 of your pictures are just your cock. I just looked at your profile and they are all still there. why even ask the question if you are not going to listen to the advice? If you want more attention from women lose the cock pics... most woman on here see hundreds daily. I have taken note of all the comments and appreciate the advice, thank you all. But I've had a busy day today and don't have time to try on different clothes for photos. IT WILL BE CHANGED! Just give me a chance please. "As they say Rome wasn't built in a day | |||
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"So you wrote this post a day ago. so many people both male and female have told you its because 6 out if 7 of your pictures are just your cock. I just looked at your profile and they are all still there. why even ask the question if you are not going to listen to the advice? If you want more attention from women lose the cock pics... most woman on here see hundreds daily. " For women seeing hundreds of cocks daily, I've had some nice messages about mine thanks. But I have taken note. | |||
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"So you wrote this post a day ago. so many people both male and female have told you its because 6 out if 7 of your pictures are just your cock. I just looked at your profile and they are all still there. why even ask the question if you are not going to listen to the advice? If you want more attention from women lose the cock pics... most woman on here see hundreds daily. I have taken note of all the comments and appreciate the advice, thank you all. But I've had a busy day today and don't have time to try on different clothes for photos. IT WILL BE CHANGED! Just give me a chance please.
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"So you wrote this post a day ago. so many people both male and female have told you its because 6 out if 7 of your pictures are just your cock. I just looked at your profile and they are all still there. why even ask the question if you are not going to listen to the advice? If you want more attention from women lose the cock pics... most woman on here see hundreds daily. " And again your profile is great! I love the added bit about your friend. I don't get that many messages but I can sympathize with her x | |||
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"I'm guessing it's the 6 out of 7 cock pics, from surveys done on here (lots and lots of them) it would appear that woman aren't bothered so much by endless cock pics but the men love it.
i think men are more attracted to cock pics than women
Disagree, as mentioned further up I tried using my eyes as an avatar for the afternoon, and just as I expected, didn't get so much as a quarter the _iews I normally would - from females OR males.
Sorry folks, cock pics are popular - because they're popular."Oh c'mon! You surely realise people, male and female, look at your profile because your avatar is a rather large cock. It's not the average cock photo and I reckon most just look out of curiosity..is it really that big, let's have a look at it from another angle etc. Personally I have no desire to see a man's cock unless I'm going to see it in the flesh, than it's handy to be forewarned. | |||
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"i get the same. the gay guys and TV`s try their luck with everyone by looks of it "Haha, I have to agree with that. Nearly all my pics are fabbed by either TV/CD's or bi/gay guys, even though I am straight. Funny that, isn't it? | |||
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"I'm a straight guy, it says so on my profile so why do I get so much interest from the same sex. I received messages too, until I started blocking. So come on ladies, what am I doing wrong? "Try stating that your 100% an Adam and Eve..not into Adam & Steve Worked for me  | |||
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"I'm guessing it's the 6 out of 7 cock pics, from surveys done on here (lots and lots of them) it would appear that woman aren't bothered so much by endless cock pics but the men love it.
i think men are more attracted to cock pics than women
Disagree, as mentioned further up I tried using my eyes as an avatar for the afternoon, and just as I expected, didn't get so much as a quarter the _iews I normally would - from females OR males.
Sorry folks, cock pics are popular - because they're popular."I don't like cock pics, never click on profiles with cock pics as avatars but I couldn't make out the writing on your impressive member so I looked. Didn't read your profile, just looked. Being nosey, you don't have to answer, do people contact you or just look? | |||
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"I'm guessing it's the 6 out of 7 cock pics, from surveys done on here (lots and lots of them) it would appear that woman aren't bothered so much by endless cock pics but the men love it.
i think men are more attracted to cock pics than women
Disagree, as mentioned further up I tried using my eyes as an avatar for the afternoon, and just as I expected, didn't get so much as a quarter the _iews I normally would - from females OR males.
Sorry folks, cock pics are popular - because they're popular.
Oh c'mon! You surely realise people, male and female, look at your profile because your avatar is a rather large cock. It's not the average cock photo and I reckon most just look out of curiosity..is it really that big, let's have a look at it from another angle etc.
Personally I have no desire to see a man's cock unless I'm going to see it in the flesh, than it's handy to be forewarned."Exactly this!!! | |||
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"I'm guessing it's the 6 out of 7 cock pics, from surveys done on here (lots and lots of them) it would appear that woman aren't bothered so much by endless cock pics but the men love it.
i think men are more attracted to cock pics than women
Disagree, as mentioned further up I tried using my eyes as an avatar for the afternoon, and just as I expected, didn't get so much as a quarter the _iews I normally would - from females OR males.
Sorry folks, cock pics are popular - because they're popular.
I don't like cock pics, never click on profiles with cock pics as avatars but I couldn't make out the writing on your impressive member so I looked.
Didn't read your profile, just looked. Being nosey, you don't have to answer, do people contact you or just look?"A lot more _iews than actual contacts, but the way I see it, I wouldn't get those contacts without _iews first, and seriously doubt anyone who decided they liked my profile would then be put off by a cock pic. | |||
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"Just my opinion, but profiles that only show cock pics suggest to me that: A) it's all they have to offer B) they have no imagination C) they believe that those pics are the key to success on Fab If it works for them and they are happy then good luck. I see more negative feedback on them than positive though. " | |||
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"There, I changed it a bit. Any better? Still a couple of cock pics though. "I'm bi and your profile does nothing for me. The cock pics though...phwooaarr!! 
Actually, that was a little self amusement. The whole caboodle does nothing for me. Which is good, yes?!
However, why not hide your cock pics and wait for a lady to ask for a cock pic, something she can ask for....then send it with a flourish and a joke about 3D photos? Your other pics are suggestive and hint at what's on offer, so in that respect you are teasing - which is good. But then you spoil the surprise by saying 'here it is!'.
Hide the cock shots, dude. | |||
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"Are you positive you are straight ? 100% straight! Why do you ask? "A) because your have cock pics on show and they attract gay/bi men* and B) you say you are straight....might be a bluff *but not me. | |||
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"Are you positive you are straight ? 100% straight! Why do you ask?
A) because your have cock pics on show and they attract gay/bi men* and
B) you say you are straight....might be a bluff
*but not me. "It's my first time on a swinging site and I'm still learning the 'fab etiquette'. And I'm sure there are some ladies who like to see cock pics as well as clothed pics. And when I say I'm straight, it's because I am straight. Not gay, not bi, not bi-curious, I'm straight! | |||
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"Hornyhunter: I'm sure you are straight but my answers were in reply to yours following granny crumpets question. People will make (rightly or wrongly) assumptions and yes, I know and agree some ladies like cock shots, but it would be a conversation starter if she had to ask for one. Imagine some guy printing off your cock pic and wanking over it, then showing a photo of that to his mates down the pub. Best not to, eh? " All the cock pics have been removed. Thanks for the advice. I'm already getting more female and couples checking my profile. | |||
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