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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wonder why all people wonder what they are and are determined to put a 'name' in they're sexuality. Straight, bi, bi curious, gay? Who cares! As long as your having fun them why does it matter? Just enjoy yourself people!

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

Guess it saves time, gives people information about them selves. If they said mothing they would be very boring profiles. Do you tjing they should tag themselves as male or female or should the whole site be like a lucky dip?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get what you mean, but I'm talking about the people who are unsure and are desperate to know what they are! Just go with it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would say it helps define who we are. We are on here looking for a very specific flavor. ( individual or couple.) So we use that little tag in our screening process. If you're unsure about your sexuality, then Bi Curious might work for you. ( You only said " For me to say I'm bi would be wrong but I am willing to try new things to a certain limit!" in your profile.) You never really went into much more detail than that. Here in the US there is another term called Bi Comfortable. That also may fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think to be straight you really do have to put it out there and let people know.

the rest, i would rather it be left to being 'open minded' rather than any form of specific box or title

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By *unkydesignCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"i think to be straight you really do have to put it out there and let people know.

the rest, i would rather it be left to being 'open minded' rather than any form of specific box or title"

To be straight? Or to be gay or bi?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I wonder why all people wonder what they are and are determined to put a 'name' in they're sexuality. Straight, bi, bi curious, gay? Who cares! As long as your having fun them why does it matter? Just enjoy yourself people! "

I dont want to waste time messaging gay men. I'm pretty sure I won't convince them to meet me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder why all people wonder what they are and are determined to put a 'name' in they're sexuality. Straight, bi, bi curious, gay? Who cares! As long as your having fun them why does it matter? Just enjoy yourself people! "

Guess the same reason supermarkets put labels on beans, peas and sweetcorn...I like all three but some might not like sweetcorn and so may not want to take it home!

Some on here get hung up on labels, others get hung up on hating them. I think they help us all find what we're looking for and help prevent confusion...With sexuality being so fluid and varied on here, it can be nice to know what someone is looking for before getting naked as not everyone likes surprises!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder why all people wonder what they are and are determined to put a 'name' in they're sexuality. Straight, bi, bi curious, gay? Who cares! As long as your having fun them why does it matter? Just enjoy yourself people!

Guess the same reason supermarkets put labels on beans, peas and sweetcorn...I like all three but some might not like sweetcorn and so may not want to take it home!

Some on here get hung up on labels, others get hung up on hating them. I think they help us all find what we're looking for and help prevent confusion...With sexuality being so fluid and varied on here, it can be nice to know what someone is looking for before getting naked as not everyone likes surprises! "

Well Said.

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