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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone else have problems from time to time with feelings getting in the way. I like regular meets as it builds up the trust, the knowledge and makes the experience more enjoyable more intense. However sometimes my heart gets in the way and I have to give myself a serious talking to to remind myself where I am, where I met this guy and exactly what we are doing.

Is it just me who gets confused at times or is everyone else very level- headed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to all of us at some point in our lives. Maybe you should talk to him to see if he feels the same.

But it can be difficult separating feelings when involved with someone, even if it is just for sex. Just have to honest with yourself and him.

Silk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We see it all the time with singles in the scene , and couples who prefer regular meets . The friendship and getting to know people with both social and play makes it almost inevitable .

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No, they are lucky if I feel their tits before shooting, let alone touch their heart.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Happens to all of us at some point in our lives. Maybe you should talk to him to see if he feels the same.

But it can be difficult separating feelings when involved with someone, even if it is just for sex. Just have to honest with yourself and him.

Silk"

Yes, thank you X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happens to all of us at some point in our lives. Maybe you should talk to him to see if he feels the same.

But it can be difficult separating feelings when involved with someone, even if it is just for sex. Just have to honest with yourself and him.

Silk

Yes, thank you X"

You're very welcome. Let us know how it goes if you feel up to it.

Silk

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, they are lucky if I feel their tits before shooting, let alone touch their heart. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Happens to all of us at some point in our lives. Maybe you should talk to him to see if he feels the same.

But it can be difficult separating feelings when involved with someone, even if it is just for sex. Just have to honest with yourself and him.

Silk

Yes, thank you X

You're very welcome. Let us know how it goes if you feel up to it.

Silk "

My answer you will have heard before ...."it's complicated" lol but I thank you for your interest XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hadn't seen this when I posted my thread. x

I am totally confused with my situation. I love it and hate it but it works. It ticks all the boxes except one. It's a head fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

go to youtube and play george michaels - i can't make you love me to give yourself a different outlook on it. your only human and its natural to feel that way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"go to youtube and play george michaels - i can't make you love me to give yourself a different outlook on it. your only human and its natural to feel that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this a lot. Hasn't happnd with all my fab meets bit a few in my head I start developing feelings and thinking how would relationship work. Even though I know wouldn't normal like him as A bf and happy with friends with benefits. It's a pain being a woman!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get this a lot. Hasn't happnd with all my fab meets bit a few in my head I start developing feelings and thinking how would relationship work. Even though I know wouldn't normal like him as A bf and happy with friends with benefits. It's a pain being a woman!! "

Blooming is. Need to leave heart out of it but all my body seems to speak lol

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Nope. I'm pretty steadfast in terms of what i want

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

Us women get attached far too easily. Its inbuilt.

My single friend has a 3 shag rule. (Her words)

Never anymore than that or unhealthy feelings begin to develop.

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By *dditional-1Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Can understand where your coming from and it is difficult not to let your emotions get in the way

But its all about the sex and thats where the difference is am afraid

Its easy to go out and find an emotional relationship with all what goes with it arguments about shite !! Bit blunt am afriad and very synicle of me. . .

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