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By *icekat OP   Couple
over a year ago

north east

Its funny how so called friends go online join a swingers site and find out that you swing and feel that it is fine to spread it around in the gossip circle. The people who spread the gossip don't even seem think how did that person get hold of the info on me. My friends husband found the info on me then told his wife who then spread it to the gossip circle

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By *cotslad007Man
over a year ago

armadale

Ive had what i thought a so called best friend spread gossip (not related to fab). I had told him in confidence, it hurts and i feel for the other person involved as she is in a relationship. Its not true what they say "keep your friends close and your enemies closer". Who can you trust these days? Apart from yourself. Onwards and upwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which makes me wonder about why the husband is on here?

Hold your head up,smile and ignore any comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which makes me wonder about why the husband is on here?

Hold your head up,smile and ignore any comments"

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By *icekat OP   Couple
over a year ago

north east

Thank you for your nice comment and don't worry I am holding my head high as theres no lies in my relationship can the gossips can't say the same.

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By *ants2tryWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Them who are gossiping are only jealous that you have a better sex life than them x

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

That's why I never tell anyone im on here, my business, my sex life and some people are that ignorant they'd think the worst

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By *icekat OP   Couple
over a year ago

north east

I never told they found out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well it will be interesting to see how many new profiles pop up around you now they know you're having all this fun

As you say, being a couple you have nothing to hide, what you do is your business.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

How did he find out? Some people are never happy unless they're being unkind to someone else, how narrow minded they are.

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By *icekat OP   Couple
over a year ago

north east

He went on line and found me its the only way as I have told no one.

But I don't care they will stop gossiping after a while and at least we having fun;-)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"He went on line and found me its the only way as I have told no one.

But I don't care they will stop gossiping after a while and at least we having fun;-) "

Very true, a bit hypocritical of him too. He must have recognised your tattoos your pictures are quite discreet otherwise.

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By *9MuppetMan
over a year ago

Bath...ish area

Had someone see my profile and recognised me. They decided that everyone in the local area with the same surname should know by sending them all copies of my profile.

It was a fun conversation with my mother and grandmother... And then the police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had someone see my profile and recognised me. They decided that everyone in the local area with the same surname should know by sending them all copies of my profile.

It was a fun conversation with my mother and grandmother... And then the police. "

God god theres some spiteful people. Did you find out who it was? Must have been very embarrassing.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Had someone see my profile and recognised me. They decided that everyone in the local area with the same surname should know by sending them all copies of my profile.

It was a fun conversation with my mother and grandmother... And then the police. "

God! You just long for karma to bite some people on the bum don't you. What sad, tawdry little lives some people must lead to actually take the time to do this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there...guy at work found my profile when I had face pics in public. I only found out when a colleague who was also on the site told me as she'd had to report it to a manager because of the regular reviews of my profile whilst the lads were on their breaks. There were only two people though that ever actually said anything to me about it...the woman who brought it to my attention and a guy who joined the site and asked for a meet...I refused because I knew his wife and kids.

Seems there are a lot of people though who are happy to bitch and call you names behind your back, but don't have the balls to say anything to your face. From what I've been told there were a lot of people surprised by my complete lack of reaction to it all though...think that won me some points over the childish prick who outed me!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Been there...guy at work found my profile when I had face pics in public. I only found out when a colleague who was also on the site told me as she'd had to report it to a manager because of the regular reviews of my profile whilst the lads were on their breaks. There were only two people though that ever actually said anything to me about it...the woman who brought it to my attention and a guy who joined the site and asked for a meet...I refused because I knew his wife and kids.

Seems there are a lot of people though who are happy to bitch and call you names behind your back, but don't have the balls to say anything to your face. From what I've been told there were a lot of people surprised by my complete lack of reaction to it all though...think that won me some points over the childish prick who outed me!"

The hypocrisy amazes me too, how does everyone think they found your profile in the first place?

I am a bit confused as to why the woman who told you had to report it to a manager, was it to get the men to stop looking in their tea break?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been there...guy at work found my profile when I had face pics in public. I only found out when a colleague who was also on the site told me as she'd had to report it to a manager because of the regular reviews of my profile whilst the lads were on their breaks. There were only two people though that ever actually said anything to me about it...the woman who brought it to my attention and a guy who joined the site and asked for a meet...I refused because I knew his wife and kids.

Seems there are a lot of people though who are happy to bitch and call you names behind your back, but don't have the balls to say anything to your face. From what I've been told there were a lot of people surprised by my complete lack of reaction to it all though...think that won me some points over the childish prick who outed me!

The hypocrisy amazes me too, how does everyone think they found your profile in the first place?

I am a bit confused as to why the woman who told you had to report it to a manager, was it to get the men to stop looking in their tea break?"

Because he is a guy he is allowed to have casual sex...as a woman I was of course a slag!

She had to report it to stop them constantly looking at it and discussing it (& the details of my veris), but I think also because of some of the less favorable things that were being said about me. I think part of her concern was that I would walk into a conversation between them about me. She didn't think it was appropriate that my sex life and sexual preferences were becoming such a hot topic of conversation when I wasn't even aware of it being common knowledge...in her own way she was looking out for me and trying to save me embarrassment

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Been there...guy at work found my profile when I had face pics in public. I only found out when a colleague who was also on the site told me as she'd had to report it to a manager because of the regular reviews of my profile whilst the lads were on their breaks. There were only two people though that ever actually said anything to me about it...the woman who brought it to my attention and a guy who joined the site and asked for a meet...I refused because I knew his wife and kids.

Seems there are a lot of people though who are happy to bitch and call you names behind your back, but don't have the balls to say anything to your face. From what I've been told there were a lot of people surprised by my complete lack of reaction to it all though...think that won me some points over the childish prick who outed me!

The hypocrisy amazes me too, how does everyone think they found your profile in the first place?

I am a bit confused as to why the woman who told you had to report it to a manager, was it to get the men to stop looking in their tea break?

Because he is a guy he is allowed to have casual sex...as a woman I was of course a slag!

She had to report it to stop them constantly looking at it and discussing it (& the details of my veris), but I think also because of some of the less favorable things that were being said about me. I think part of her concern was that I would walk into a conversation between them about me. She didn't think it was appropriate that my sex life and sexual preferences were becoming such a hot topic of conversation when I wasn't even aware of it being common knowledge...in her own way she was looking out for me and trying to save me embarrassment"

Then good for her and I agree your sexual preferences, legal and consensual as they are, are no one elses bloody business especially not a group of infantile guys in the works canteen.....sheesh. I wonder when things will ever change

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