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By *oger That OP   Man
over a year ago

essex

Is it acceptable to decline someone due to their Class? And how many of us do it?

I know I do, but not sure its right!

I would only ever meet someone I think was from a similar social background or higher. This maybe wrong but its how it is for me.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Class isn't black and white I don't think. ... mycchoices are more based on the personality of an individual.

Until last week I was unemployed and on benefits. So that might put me in a certain class bracket in the eyes of some. However I'm also a qualified teacher, so where does that put me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I think you are but I kind of understand where you are coming from. I prefer to go by exchanging messages and face picture but I've met all kinds, all the same naked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wouldnt even know what to look for.

have met a couple of lovely posh couples, although they didnt go further than a social meet, but definitely wouldnt let class stop us meeting someone.

as long as they dont think they are better/worse than us

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

How do you know their class, if it is interpreting their written word...

lesson 1 ) don't believe everything you read

lesson 2 ) don't believe all that state they are a particular class.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I tend to find that the people who can't comprehend why I'm not out on 'the lash' every night at the weekend are a place to start in terms of avoidance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thing is i need to be careful who i invite into my home, i judge people by the types i have met already.

the nicest men i have met were profesional types, well mannered, inteligent and clean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We mainly meet in clubs , so class doesn't come into it . If we take a liking to someone and it's reciprocal , we play .

The social side of swinging doesn't really appeal to us , so we really don't care one bit about the 'class' of our playmates .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

class doesnt come into it for me.as long as ppl are nice, polite clean and tidy thats all that matters

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By *oger That OP   Man
over a year ago

essex

When your meeting people on line you have to make a judgement on what you read and the pictures shown. This is a gamble you take.

There are a few I've looked at, think they look a bit dodgy then after receiving a message saying "fanks 4 dat" or similar... I swiftly move on as they look and sound like the next Jeremy kyle candidate.

Im aware all types can use bad language but you have to gone on probabilities. I don't claim to be perfectly written or spoken, but trying to find a similar person both socially, sexually and everything else can prove difficult.

Hence only 1 meet for me I suppose.


"How do you know their class, if it is interpreting their written word...

lesson 1 ) don't believe everything you read

lesson 2 ) don't believe all that state they are a particular class."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it acceptable to decline someone due to their Class? And how many of us do it?

I know I do, but not sure its right!

I would only ever meet someone I think was from a similar social background or higher. This maybe wrong but its how it is for me. "

How you pick your meets is personal to you. You seem like you want a certain standard of communication which could possibly indicate a certain level of education attained.

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By *oger That OP   Man
over a year ago

essex

Correct!! Decent education, half decent job (or a reason for not working), a person with self respect and who takes pride in there selves and their belongings. Ie. their house!

I can see this could be wrong but think we all do it to a certain degree.

Everyone is the same Naked...true, but I wont to be comfortable with who I get naked with.


"Is it acceptable to decline someone due to their Class? And how many of us do it?

I know I do, but not sure its right!

I would only ever meet someone I think was from a similar social background or higher. This maybe wrong but its how it is for me.

How you pick your meets is personal to you. You seem like you want a certain standard of communication which could possibly indicate a certain level of education attained. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When your meeting people on line you have to make a judgement on what you read and the pictures shown. This is a gamble you take.

There are a few I've looked at, think they look a bit dodgy then after receiving a message saying "fanks 4 dat" or similar... I swiftly move on as they look and sound like the next Jeremy kyle candidate.

Im aware all types can use bad language but you have to gone on probabilities. I don't claim to be perfectly written or spoken, but trying to find a similar person both socially, sexually and everything else can prove difficult.

Hence only 1 meet for me I suppose.

How do you know their class, if it is interpreting their written word...

lesson 1 ) don't believe everything you read

lesson 2 ) don't believe all that state they are a particular class."

so its not a class thing, more an educational thing for yourself?

'chav' speak, as it were, can come from all sections of society.

hell, i have heard a guy speaking 'street' as he was trying to buy a brand new 5 series BMW.

then, V has no educational certs after normal school leaving, yet rarely uses text speak, and she is decidedly working class

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Roger - you say you are interested in nsa sex , yet seem obsessed with wanting the kind of people who are equal or higher than yourself !

So my question is this - is it the social interraction or the sex you feel are more important ?

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By *oger That OP   Man
over a year ago

essex

I think Class and education can be linked. Not always but often. As I said you have to go on probabilities rather than exceptions.

If he was speaking "Street" and buying a new BMW he was probably a drug dealer or thief!! only kidding! Probably just a dreamer!


"When your meeting people on line you have to make a judgement on what you read and the pictures shown. This is a gamble you take.

There are a few I've looked at, think they look a bit dodgy then after receiving a message saying "fanks 4 dat" or similar... I swiftly move on as they look and sound like the next Jeremy kyle candidate.

Im aware all types can use bad language but you have to gone on probabilities. I don't claim to be perfectly written or spoken, but trying to find a similar person both socially, sexually and everything else can prove difficult.

Hence only 1 meet for me I suppose.

How do you know their class, if it is interpreting their written word...

lesson 1 ) don't believe everything you read

lesson 2 ) don't believe all that state they are a particular class.

so its not a class thing, more an educational thing for yourself?

'chav' speak, as it were, can come from all sections of society.

hell, i have heard a guy speaking 'street' as he was trying to buy a brand new 5 series BMW.

then, V has no educational certs after normal school leaving, yet rarely uses text speak, and she is decidedly working class"

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

I don't know if "class" is immediately distinguishable but if you bring it down to basics, ie, they write and sound like something that crawled off J. Kyle then no, I'm not going to meet them.

The people we've met have come across as a similar standing to us. This is what we like. Don't care if it's right or wrong.

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By *ob55Man
over a year ago

PE13


"Class isn't black and white I don't think. ... mycchoices are more based on the personality of an individual.

Until last week I was unemployed and on benefits. So that might put me in a certain class bracket in the eyes of some. However I'm also a qualified teacher, so where does that put me?

"

unemployed and on benefits is up the ass

teacher has to be full gfe or was that just my school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Class isn't black and white I don't think. ... mycchoices are more based on the personality of an individual.

Until last week I was unemployed and on benefits. So that might put me in a certain class bracket in the eyes of some. However I'm also a qualified teacher, so where does that put me?

unemployed and on benefits is up the ass

teacher has to be full gfe or was that just my school"

Are you saying you only perform anal on those on benefits?

Gfe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Class isn't black and white I don't think. ... mycchoices are more based on the personality of an individual.

Until last week I was unemployed and on benefits. So that might put me in a certain class bracket in the eyes of some. However I'm also a qualified teacher, so where does that put me?

unemployed and on benefits is up the ass

teacher has to be full gfe or was that just my school

Are you saying you only perform anal on those on benefits?

Gfe "

have NO idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Correct!! Decent education, half decent job (or a reason for not working), a person with self respect and who takes pride in there selves and their belongings. Ie. their house!

I can see this could be wrong but think we all do it to a certain degree.

Everyone is the same Naked...true, but I wont to be comfortable with who I get naked with.

Oh Roger, a good basis is to take a look at how you portray yourself. For me spelling and punctuation seem to indicate you also have a limited knowledge of the language...eg "there selves"?

Personally I like people generally and feel that it's the way a person or persons come across (despite spelling/punctuation) either written or spoken that makes the difference. I'm a freelance worker but not always employed, I do respect everyone's position and would happily meet with anyone who took my/our fancy.

Is it acceptable to decline someone due to their Class? And how many of us do it?

I know I do, but not sure its right!

I would only ever meet someone I think was from a similar social background or higher. This maybe wrong but its how it is for me.

How you pick your meets is personal to you. You seem like you want a certain standard of communication which could possibly indicate a certain level of education attained. "

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By *awkeye and HotlipsCouple
over a year ago

Takeley

Interesting post. Very true, when we are in our birthday suits, we all have the same bits! That said, simplistically swinging is about swapping partners for sex. The fact that swinging is often not simple, that it often involves lot of dynamics, especially as for a lot of people ( us included ), we have to have some connection with the other people on a social level. It has very little to do with class, as in our experience, we do live in a classless society. We do however feel that people tend to migrate towards others with similar social interests, we are social animals. A nice and pleasant personality, a happy nature: now that is class to us.

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By *oger That OP   Man
over a year ago

essex

I think obsessed is a bit strong. But think I im not alone when I say you have to have a social connection aswel as sexual one, even if it is just for nsa sex. Im not at a stage where I need to jump in bed with something/someone I don't find attractive.


"Roger - you say you are interested in nsa sex , yet seem obsessed with wanting the kind of people who are equal or higher than yourself !

So my question is this - is it the social interraction or the sex you feel are more important ?"

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By *oger That OP   Man
over a year ago

essex

This


"I don't know if "class" is immediately distinguishable but if you bring it down to basics, ie, they write and sound like something that crawled off J. Kyle then no, I'm not going to meet them.

The people we've met have come across as a similar standing to us. This is what we like. Don't care if it's right or wrong."

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Class isn't black and white I don't think. ... mycchoices are more based on the personality of an individual.

Until last week I was unemployed and on benefits. So that might put me in a certain class bracket in the eyes of some. However I'm also a qualified teacher, so where does that put me?

unemployed and on benefits is up the ass

teacher has to be full gfe or was that just my school

Are you saying you only perform anal on those on benefits?

Gfe

have NO idea"

So the only thing you'll do with those on benefits is anal? But you like to play nice with teachers

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I can swing both ways (excuse pun!). I love meeting a 'nice young man' from a good background - I seem to stumble across them by accident, but it's a happy accident.

I love meeting a sharp mind - someone like Brian Cox for instance has a strong regional accent but is SO the thinking womans crumpet in my eyes!!

Or sometimes the 'lovable rogue' might beguile me with his wit or his style, or yes, even just his physical looks/attributes, despite coming from entirely the wrong side of the tracks.

We can connect on all kinds of levels - we just need something to trip our trigger I think, and Jeremy Kyle escapees will often only appeal to their own kind I think!

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

I have a good mate who loves cultural holidays and he also loves going to the opera regularly. He also happens to be a fellow swinger and he is a joiner by trade and the first thing you notice when you see him is that he knows how speak to other people and he knows how to treat other people both sexually and socially. That's what I care about when I socialise with fellow swingers Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a good mate who loves cultural holidays and he also loves going to the opera regularly. He also happens to be a fellow swinger and he is a joiner by trade and the first thing you notice when you see him is that he knows how speak to other people and he knows how to treat other people both sexually and socially. That's what I care about when I socialise with fellow swingers Xx"

Send him to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"class doesnt come into it for me.as long as ppl are nice, polite clean and tidy thats all that matters "

totally agree. People should be judged on who they are not on their job or social background.

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"I have a good mate who loves cultural holidays and he also loves going to the opera regularly. He also happens to be a fellow swinger and he is a joiner by trade and the first thing you notice when you see him is that he knows how speak to other people and he knows how to treat other people both sexually and socially. That's what I care about when I socialise with fellow swingers Xx

Send him to me "

**cheeky smile** only if I am allowed to participate

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By *uriouscouple34Couple
over a year ago

sunderland


"I have a good mate who loves cultural holidays and he also loves going to the opera regularly. He also happens to be a fellow swinger and he is a joiner by trade and the first thing you notice when you see him is that he knows how speak to other people and he knows how to treat other people both sexually and socially. That's what I care about when I socialise with fellow swingers Xx"

I totally agree with you on this. I myself am very much working class as is my husband who is by trade a scaffolder. Amongst our closest friends and family we may sound very regional. On the other hand I also have a teaching degree and know how to behave in a professional manner as does my husband. Xxx

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

The fact that the OP states that he will only potentially swing with a similar class or HIGHER says more about him than anything else. How do you judge class, is it money, education, social standing?? Some of our best meets have been with people that are working class, while the ones that were supposedly educated and sophisticated were usually in my opinion not very sophisticated or educated for that matter.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Class doesn't bother me. Although some of the chaps at school in the 2nd set for maths and English were a bit on the wild side.

I am put off by people who feel the need to fill their profile with little factoids, like they drive a Porsche, or have a 5 bedroom house and so on. Not quite class, perhaps snobbery, or simply boasting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only go with people who have a degree, and then it has to be first class honours. No, this a load of crap, its personality that counts every time

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By *oger That OP   Man
over a year ago

essex

I just cant imagine going around a grotty old flat and trying to get naked. My preference would be a nice surroundings with nice people...

I opened this thread as I though it would be interesting to if class sits alongside preferences that are openly requested such as choosing, blacks only, or BBW's only, or thin, or Asian, or well endowed etc... These choices in other areas wouldn't be tolerated but when it comes to sexual preference it is. And I understand why, but wanted to see if class goes in there aswel.

I wonder what the reaction would be if my profile said "Rich People Only, no offense to poor people just personal preference"


"The fact that the OP states that he will only potentially swing with a similar class or HIGHER says more about him than anything else. How do you judge class, is it money, education, social standing?? Some of our best meets have been with people that are working class, while the ones that were supposedly educated and sophisticated were usually in my opinion not very sophisticated or educated for that matter. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a good mate who loves cultural holidays and he also loves going to the opera regularly. He also happens to be a fellow swinger and he is a joiner by trade and the first thing you notice when you see him is that he knows how speak to other people and he knows how to treat other people both sexually and socially. That's what I care about when I socialise with fellow swingers Xx

Send him to me

**cheeky smile** only if I am allowed to participate "

If he takes me to the opera you can have my aria

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"I have a good mate who loves cultural holidays and he also loves going to the opera regularly. He also happens to be a fellow swinger and he is a joiner by trade and the first thing you notice when you see him is that he knows how speak to other people and he knows how to treat other people both sexually and socially. That's what I care about when I socialise with fellow swingers Xx

Send him to me

**cheeky smile** only if I am allowed to participate

If he takes me to the opera you can have my aria"

lol dont joke about it, between him and me you would have a serious high-note shouting orgasm

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

There is classism, but more so I think there are more circles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a good mate who loves cultural holidays and he also loves going to the opera regularly. He also happens to be a fellow swinger and he is a joiner by trade and the first thing you notice when you see him is that he knows how speak to other people and he knows how to treat other people both sexually and socially. That's what I care about when I socialise with fellow swingers Xx

Send him to me

**cheeky smile** only if I am allowed to participate

If he takes me to the opera you can have my aria

lol dont joke about it, between him and me you would have a serious high-note shouting orgasm"

Gets diary out

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

If someone said their fanny had an upper crust I don't think I'd go there to be honest

Wolf

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Why does lower class have to equal grotty? ? I live in a small terraced house which could probably do with a few repairs here and there but it's clean and very comfortable. You seem to be making rather sweeping generalisations about class and the way people live. Just because someone isn't on a high income doesn't make them a dirty, unintelligent, brash moron.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it acceptable to decline someone due to their Class? And how many of us do it?

I know I do, but not sure its right!

I would only ever meet someone I think was from a similar social background or higher. This maybe wrong but its how it is for me. "

This a joke post ???

People are people and not put into class grades . We are not shallow enough to meet people on social class what next back to the work house

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"I have a good mate who loves cultural holidays and he also loves going to the opera regularly. He also happens to be a fellow swinger and he is a joiner by trade and the first thing you notice when you see him is that he knows how speak to other people and he knows how to treat other people both sexually and socially. That's what I care about when I socialise with fellow swingers Xx

Send him to me

**cheeky smile** only if I am allowed to participate

If he takes me to the opera you can have my aria

lol dont joke about it, between him and me you would have a serious high-note shouting orgasm

Gets diary out "

I got quite a few Sundays off

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By *oger That OP   Man
over a year ago

essex

Lower class isn't necessarily Grotty and I did say that it is a sweeping statement and their are exceptions.... And I don't think people on lower incomes are moron etc.. its more about how people present themselves.

Class can mean a lot of things and that's why its interesting to speak about. The reason I posted though was to see if it is deemed acceptable to have a preference on class. It wouldn't normally be acceptable to say black only for example, but on this site it seems readily done. Is Class the same?

My personal preferences are kind of irrelevant but I posted them to start the ball rolling. I like similar minded people who have self respect and make the most of themselves, I also enjoy a bit of cheeky banter. I don't find lay about chavy people attractive, nor would I want to go to a grotty house where it isn't tidy or kept reasonable.


"Why does lower class have to equal grotty? ? I live in a small terraced house which could probably do with a few repairs here and there but it's clean and very comfortable. You seem to be making rather sweeping generalisations about class and the way people live. Just because someone isn't on a high income doesn't make them a dirty, unintelligent, brash moron. "

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"I just cant imagine going around a grotty old flat and trying to get naked. My preference would be a nice surroundings with nice people...

I opened this thread as I though it would be interesting to if class sits alongside preferences that are openly requested such as choosing, blacks only, or BBW's only, or thin, or Asian, or well endowed etc... These choices in other areas wouldn't be tolerated but when it comes to sexual preference it is. And I understand why, but wanted to see if class goes in there aswel.

I wonder what the reaction would be if my profile said "Rich People Only, no offense to poor people just personal preference"

The fact that the OP states that he will only potentially swing with a similar class or HIGHER says more about him than anything else. How do you judge class, is it money, education, social standing?? Some of our best meets have been with people that are working class, while the ones that were supposedly educated and sophisticated were usually in my opinion not very sophisticated or educated for that matter. "
So because someone is of a lower class, in this case to you, it means they have to be grotty? Funny that we can't judge by anything other than your words as you have no pics on your profile to try and judge your "class"

The OP has massive insecurity issues that is very common from people that come from a lower class background and now have a few quid, and I mean a FEW!!!

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By *oger That OP   Man
over a year ago

essex

You say People are People and that you are not shallow, but your profile says

"or women above a size 16 sorry just our preference"

Why is that acceptable yet someone who says they like wealth or high class (for example) isn't?????


"Is it acceptable to decline someone due to their Class? And how many of us do it?

I know I do, but not sure its right!

I would only ever meet someone I think was from a similar social background or higher. This maybe wrong but its how it is for me.

This a joke post ???

People are people and not put into class grades . We are not shallow enough to meet people on social class what next back to the work house "

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By *oger That OP   Man
over a year ago

essex

You say you cant judge me, and then go on to say i'm insecure, come form a lower class and now have a FEW quid. That's a lot of detail considering you cant judge me..

Anyway, im not looking for arguments just wanted to see people opinions. Not sure why your taking it personal!


"I just cant imagine going around a grotty old flat and trying to get naked. My preference would be a nice surroundings with nice people...

I opened this thread as I though it would be interesting to if class sits alongside preferences that are openly requested such as choosing, blacks only, or BBW's only, or thin, or Asian, or well endowed etc... These choices in other areas wouldn't be tolerated but when it comes to sexual preference it is. And I understand why, but wanted to see if class goes in there aswel.

I wonder what the reaction would be if my profile said "Rich People Only, no offense to poor people just personal preference"

The fact that the OP states that he will only potentially swing with a similar class or HIGHER says more about him than anything else. How do you judge class, is it money, education, social standing?? Some of our best meets have been with people that are working class, while the ones that were supposedly educated and sophisticated were usually in my opinion not very sophisticated or educated for that matter. So because someone is of a lower class, in this case to you, it means they have to be grotty? Funny that we can't judge by anything other than your words as you have no pics on your profile to try and judge your "class"

The OP has massive insecurity issues that is very common from people that come from a lower class background and now have a few quid, and I mean a FEW!!!"

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"You say People are People and that you are not shallow, but your profile says

"or women above a size 16 sorry just our preference"

Why is that acceptable yet someone who says they like wealth or high class (for example) isn't?????

Is it acceptable to decline someone due to their Class? And how many of us do it?

I know I do, but not sure its right!

I would only ever meet someone I think was from a similar social background or higher. This maybe wrong but its how it is for me.

This a joke post ???

People are people and not put into class grades . We are not shallow enough to meet people on social class what next back to the work house "
Because sex is about the physical not about the financial or social hierarchy! No one normal likes dirty places or dirty people but to demand that they be of a certain class is very narrow minded and unadventurous in my opinion!

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By *oger That OP   Man
over a year ago

essex

To me its physical and mental attraction. But hey that's why we're all different.

Im going now but have a good weekend!


"You say People are People and that you are not shallow, but your profile says

"or women above a size 16 sorry just our preference"

Why is that acceptable yet someone who says they like wealth or high class (for example) isn't?????

Is it acceptable to decline someone due to their Class? And how many of us do it?

I know I do, but not sure its right!

I would only ever meet someone I think was from a similar social background or higher. This maybe wrong but its how it is for me.

This a joke post ???

People are people and not put into class grades . We are not shallow enough to meet people on social class what next back to the work house Because sex is about the physical not about the financial or social hierarchy! No one normal likes dirty places or dirty people but to demand that they be of a certain class is very narrow minded and unadventurous in my opinion!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a good mate who loves cultural holidays and he also loves going to the opera regularly. He also happens to be a fellow swinger and he is a joiner by trade and the first thing you notice when you see him is that he knows how speak to other people and he knows how to treat other people both sexually and socially. That's what I care about when I socialise with fellow swingers Xx

Send him to me

**cheeky smile** only if I am allowed to participate

If he takes me to the opera you can have my aria

lol dont joke about it, between him and me you would have a serious high-note shouting orgasm

Gets diary out

I got quite a few Sundays off "

Have you sent him yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're not talking marxism are we?

..Class doesn't come in to play for me.

My meets have been with those I have had a sort of attraction with, good conversations, lots of laughter and flirting.

As long as the feeling between us is mutual, then that's what matters. Let's not get all Romeo and Juliet on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people who call themselves upper class are stuck up nobs.far too up themselves and dont know how to have fun.they miss out on a lot cos they think they are too good for the rest of us mere mortals.

as for wanting professonal ppl,does that rule out meets for them with us unemployed ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it acceptable to decline someone due to their Class? And how many of us do it?

I know I do, but not sure its right!

I would only ever meet someone I think was from a similar social background or higher. This maybe wrong but its how it is for me. "

your profile says your a normal person, which class is that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose I understand where you’re coming from. But it’s quite sad that human beings are still obsessed with differences, as opposed to similarities.

The whole concept of social class is stupid. It gives people the impression that they’re somewhat ‘ranked’ as human beings in society.

I get along well with people who I have similarities with. It might be work, education, music, or whatever.

It’s a bit conceited to imply that you wouldn’t want to meet a person due to their ‘class’. It's not a progressive way of thinking at all.

OP, I think I understand what you intended to say, but I can only go on what you wrote.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just cant imagine going around a grotty old flat and trying to get naked. My preference would be a nice surroundings with nice people...

"

i have the answer to all your problems, go onto your setting and click the can accommodate box

no thanks needed

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"I have a good mate who loves cultural holidays and he also loves going to the opera regularly. He also happens to be a fellow swinger and he is a joiner by trade and the first thing you notice when you see him is that he knows how speak to other people and he knows how to treat other people both sexually and socially. That's what I care about when I socialise with fellow swingers Xx

Send him to me

**cheeky smile** only if I am allowed to participate

If he takes me to the opera you can have my aria

lol dont joke about it, between him and me you would have a serious high-note shouting orgasm

Gets diary out

I got quite a few Sundays off

Have you sent him yet? "

I've already texted him but trouble is I'm more available than he is LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay I haven't read the thread, but I have a question. How do you know

What sort of questions do you ask people to establish their backgrounds?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only fuck rich people::::

Poor people smell

Pmsl

Im joking before you all go off on one

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By *omcraftjghMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

My fav class is trailer trash so sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fav class is trailer trash so sexy "
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had a few meets and can honestly say we wouldn't just fuck anything and everything . Every meet has it's merits and whatever class our playmates have been they have all been great !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay I haven't read the thread, but I have a question. How do you know

What sort of questions do you ask people to establish their backgrounds?"

If there pussy smells of cod,poor!

Salmon rich!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay I haven't read the thread, but I have a question. How do you know

What sort of questions do you ask people to establish their backgrounds?

If there pussy smells of cod,poor!

Salmon rich! "

Is this a reply off the back of reading my post in another thread

One would hope people are not so stupid to associate BV with a certain type of class. That's just ignorance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does lower class have to equal grotty? ? I live in a small terraced house which could probably do with a few repairs here and there but it's clean and very comfortable. You seem to be making rather sweeping generalisations about class and the way people live. Just because someone isn't on a high income doesn't make them a dirty, unintelligent, brash moron. "

On a similar note - I know a few gp's and doctors and their houses should be condemned! You can have 'educated' people who are complete slobs!

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Why does lower class have to equal grotty? ? I live in a small terraced house which could probably do with a few repairs here and there but it's clean and very comfortable. You seem to be making rather sweeping generalisations about class and the way people live. Just because someone isn't on a high income doesn't make them a dirty, unintelligent, brash moron.

On a similar note - I know a few gp's and doctors and their houses should be condemned! You can have 'educated' people who are complete slobs!"

Maybe they know something housewives don't????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does lower class have to equal grotty? ? I live in a small terraced house which could probably do with a few repairs here and there but it's clean and very comfortable. You seem to be making rather sweeping generalisations about class and the way people live. Just because someone isn't on a high income doesn't make them a dirty, unintelligent, brash moron.

On a similar note - I know a few gp's and doctors and their houses should be condemned! You can have 'educated' people who are complete slobs!"

I concur, I've seen similar. Makes me go all Kim & Aggy

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"

I get along well with people who I have similarities with. It might be work, education, music, or whatever.

"

Exactly, it can be about any number of things - common ground just makes us feel comfortable as a rule.

Besides, the old definition of class is almost completely divorced from wealth nowadays, and status is something aside from both, though can follow either. Class can be about style and taste too, something you admire, or aspire to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay I haven't read the thread, but I have a question. How do you know

What sort of questions do you ask people to establish their backgrounds?"

You dont have to ask sometimes you can just tell by their pics, profile, messages and what they are like on the phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really think it's down to class but more how classy you are.

If you're on the waiting list for Jeremy Kyle, think missing teeth is acceptable and strut around in track suit bottoms but don't actually do any exercise. Your not the one for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why cant people just be people. If you a friendly, kind, funny, sexy and generally nice then they are the things that count. Social class only serves to divide people. Surely we as a minority group should strive to be above such things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why cant people just be people. If you a friendly, kind, funny, sexy and generally nice then they are the things that count. Social class only serves to divide people. Surely we as a minority group should strive to be above such things. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it acceptable to decline someone due to their Class? And how many of us do it?

I know I do, but not sure its right!

I would only ever meet someone I think was from a similar social background or higher. This maybe wrong but its how it is for me. "

I think it's whatever makes up attraction for you and it can be a mixture of things that turn you on or turn you off. Nothing is right or wrong it's just personal preference X

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"Okay I haven't read the thread, but I have a question. How do you know

What sort of questions do you ask people to establish their backgrounds?

If there pussy smells of cod,poor!

Salmon rich! "

ACE XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think Class and education can be linked. Not always but often. As I said you have to go on probabilities rather than exceptions.

If he was speaking "Street" and buying a new BMW he was probably a drug dealer or thief!! only kidding! Probably just a dreamer!

When your meeting people on line you have to make a judgement on what you read and the pictures shown. This is a gamble you take.

There are a few I've looked at, think they look a bit dodgy then after receiving a message saying "fanks 4 dat" or similar... I swiftly move on as they look and sound like the next Jeremy kyle candidate.

Im aware all types can use bad language but you have to gone on probabilities. I don't claim to be perfectly written or spoken, but trying to find a similar person both socially, sexually and everything else can prove difficult.

Hence only 1 meet for me I suppose.

How do you know their class, if it is interpreting their written word...

lesson 1 ) don't believe everything you read

lesson 2 ) don't believe all that state they are a particular class.

so its not a class thing, more an educational thing for yourself?

'chav' speak, as it were, can come from all sections of society.

hell, i have heard a guy speaking 'street' as he was trying to buy a brand new 5 series BMW.

then, V has no educational certs after normal school leaving, yet rarely uses text speak, and she is decidedly working class "

You seem to forget those who have worked their way up the corporate ladder, I have met someone who started off at the bottom as a labourer and is now the managing director of a company; a job he was head hunted for so he can afford a BMW with two months pay and yet doesn't speak with a silver spoon in his mouth which seem to be the sort you are looking for

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

This thread is supposedly about class. How long it takes you to afford a certain car has nothing to do with class, it's about income.

Class and income are two very different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does lower class have to equal grotty? ? I live in a small terraced house which could probably do with a few repairs here and there but it's clean and very comfortable. You seem to be making rather sweeping generalisations about class and the way people live. Just because someone isn't on a high income doesn't make them a dirty, unintelligent, brash moron. "

Same here and slap bang in the middle of a council estate but the managing director who came round that lives in a house 3 times its value didn't seem to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is supposedly about class. How long it takes you to afford a certain car has nothing to do with class, it's about income.

Class and income are two very different things."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does not bother me what class a person is or what job they do.If I get along with them that is all that matters to me.

You will find decent people from all walks of life not just from the people that have a top notch education. I believe in morals and being polite and to treat people as I would expected to be treated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to find that the people who can't comprehend why I'm not out on 'the lash' every night at the weekend are a place to start in terms of avoidance. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only go with people who have a degree, and then it has to be first class honours. No, this a load of crap, its personality that counts every time "

I have one! ... Oh right well your loss! ;p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay I haven't read the thread, but I have a question. How do you know

What sort of questions do you ask people to establish their backgrounds?

If there pussy smells of cod,poor!

Salmon rich!

ACE XXXX"

Amazing how some people are allowed to get away with being abusive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay I haven't read the thread, but I have a question. How do you know

What sort of questions do you ask people to establish their backgrounds?

If there pussy smells of cod,poor!

Salmon rich!

ACE XXXX

Amazing how some people are allowed to get away with being abusive "

You don't see the humour?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it acceptable to decline someone due to their Class? And how many of us do it?

I know I do, but not sure its right!

I would only ever meet someone I think was from a similar social background or higher. This maybe wrong but its how it is for me. "

Interesting: what class do you class do you you class yourself as? Or has your social identity come from more than subjective opinion? i.e: where you are placed on the census, your occupation, your wealth/capital or lack of it.

Not that we're fab swinging looking for everlasting but historically like has certainly married like.

Can there ever be a 'fairytale romance' where the poor girl is swept off her feet by a wealthy gentleman to live happily ever after?

IMAO out lives are still governed by class divides which have their roots in feudal times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fav class is trailer trash so sexy "

How about the blonde girls who dye their roots just to look cheap?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Can there ever be a 'fairytale romance' where the poor girl is swept off her feet by a wealthy gentleman to live happily ever after? "

One mustn't give up hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a woman on PoF I used to message until she blocked me. She said she only wanted WE tall blokes who had a degree.

Obviously height is established on sight, cock size soon after if happy with height & appearance. Not sure what she did to prove they had a degree though.

I believe asking her this earned me my block. And does the degree count as any sort of indicator of social class?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Can there ever be a 'fairytale romance' where the poor girl is swept off her feet by a wealthy gentleman to live happily ever after?

One mustn't give up hope "

I'll let you know when I get 6 numbers

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Interesting and honest question from the OP.

We look at various things when we decide to meet people, one of the early indicators for us would be the use of text speak. We access the site via smartphones etc, is it really so hard to type "naughty" instead of "norty" ? (Yes we have first hand experience of dyslexia and the autism spectrum)

So whilst its not a class thing per say , we do prefer to mix with people we feel comfortable with.

Oh and Mrs likes big tits too..........................

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting and honest question from the OP.

We look at various things when we decide to meet people, one of the early indicators for us would be the use of text speak. We access the site via smartphones etc, is it really so hard to type "naughty" instead of "norty" ? (Yes we have first hand experience of dyslexia and the autism spectrum)

So whilst its not a class thing per say , we do prefer to mix with people we feel comfortable with.

Oh and Mrs likes big tits too.........................."

But wouldn't getting a message sent from a smartfone reading: 'nawty fun' not 'naughty fun' show that the sender had put more effort in?

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge


"Interesting and honest question from the OP.

We look at various things when we decide to meet people, one of the early indicators for us would be the use of text speak. We access the site via smartphones etc, is it really so hard to type "naughty" instead of "norty" ? (Yes we have first hand experience of dyslexia and the autism spectrum)

So whilst its not a class thing per say , we do prefer to mix with people we feel comfortable with.

Oh and Mrs likes big tits too..........................

But wouldn't getting a message sent from a smartfone reading: 'nawty fun' not 'naughty fun' show that the sender had put more effort in? "

Sorry, I don't understand your post. No offence intended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting and honest question from the OP.

We look at various things when we decide to meet people, one of the early indicators for us would be the use of text speak. We access the site via smartphones etc, is it really so hard to type "naughty" instead of "norty" ? (Yes we have first hand experience of dyslexia and the autism spectrum)

So whilst its not a class thing per say , we do prefer to mix with people we feel comfortable with.

Oh and Mrs likes big tits too..........................

But wouldn't getting a message sent from a smartfone reading: 'nawty fun' not 'naughty fun' show that the sender had put more effort in?

Sorry, I don't understand your post. No offence intended. "

With auto-text or auto-correct one would have to go back to change naughty (a correct spelling) to nawty or nowty (much more phonetically correct spellings actually). Hence more effort than being common and using the correct spelling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay I haven't read the thread, but I have a question. How do you know

What sort of questions do you ask people to establish their backgrounds?

You dont have to ask sometimes you can just tell by their pics, profile, messages and what they are like on the phone."

Meeting face-to-face it's supposed to take 9 seconds.

I presume when we're talking on the fone accent has a lot to do with it. Maybe use of more than two syllable words too. Is there any accounting for classier people (are we talking middle or venturing into upper?) who want down and dirty sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst the occasional scumbag will try and fail miserably at some instant upward mobility is it fair to say that on the whole forum users are the upper Echelons of fab swingers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is supposedly about class. How long it takes you to afford a certain car has nothing to do with class, it's about income.

Class and income are two very different things.

"

The difference (distinction) between cultural and symbolic capital. Good stuff

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge


"Interesting and honest question from the OP.

We look at various things when we decide to meet people, one of the early indicators for us would be the use of text speak. We access the site via smartphones etc, is it really so hard to type "naughty" instead of "norty" ? (Yes we have first hand experience of dyslexia and the autism spectrum)

So whilst its not a class thing per say , we do prefer to mix with people we feel comfortable with.

Oh and Mrs likes big tits too..........................

But wouldn't getting a message sent from a smartfone reading: 'nawty fun' not 'naughty fun' show that the sender had put more effort in?

Sorry, I don't understand your post. No offence intended.

With auto-text or auto-correct one would have to go back to change naughty (a correct spelling) to nawty or nowty (much more phonetically correct spellings actually). Hence more effort than being common and using the correct spelling. "
.

Ah I see. No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst the occasional scumbag will try and fail miserably at some instant upward mobility is it fair to say that on the whole forum users are the upper Echelons of fab swingers? "

In my opinion - not at all. The forum represents all classes of society.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed cant do Jeremy Kyle folk... more kids than teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst the occasional scumbag will try and fail miserably at some instant upward mobility is it fair to say that on the whole forum users are the upper Echelons of fab swingers?

In my opinion - not at all. The forum represents all classes of society. "

Truly egalitarian then? All people one and all that. Soz but can't help but be a little sceptical. Maybe we need Mr Johnson and Cammeron on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst the occasional scumbag will try and fail miserably at some instant upward mobility is it fair to say that on the whole forum users are the upper Echelons of fab swingers?

In my opinion - not at all. The forum represents all classes of society.

Truly egalitarian then? All people one and all that. Soz but can't help but be a little sceptical. Maybe we need Mr Johnson and Cammeron on here? "

I was being diplomatic with my post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting and honest question from the OP.

We look at various things when we decide to meet people, one of the early indicators for us would be the use of text speak. We access the site via smartphones etc, is it really so hard to type "naughty" instead of "norty" ? (Yes we have first hand experience of dyslexia and the autism spectrum)

So whilst its not a class thing per say , we do prefer to mix with people we feel comfortable with.

Oh and Mrs likes big tits too..........................

But wouldn't getting a message sent from a smartfone reading: 'nawty fun' not 'naughty fun' show that the sender had put more effort in?

Sorry, I don't understand your post. No offence intended.

With auto-text or auto-correct one would have to go back to change naughty (a correct spelling) to nawty or nowty (much more phonetically correct spellings actually). Hence more effort than being common and using the correct spelling. .

Ah I see. No. "

Rhetorical question really: so nawty or nowty will always represent the underbelly of society even when it's apparent the sender has put some effort in to go back to change it from naughty. Maybe to sound extra nawty, not plain old naughty?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst the occasional scumbag will try and fail miserably at some instant upward mobility is it fair to say that on the whole forum users are the upper Echelons of fab swingers?

In my opinion - not at all. The forum represents all classes of society.

Truly egalitarian then? All people one and all that. Soz but can't help but be a little sceptical. Maybe we need Mr Johnson and Cammeron on here?

I was being diplomatic with my post "

OK. But the naughty (or nawty, depending on how silver your spoon was) step can be fun sometimes

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Whilst the occasional scumbag will try and fail miserably at some instant upward mobility is it fair to say that on the whole forum users are the upper Echelons of fab swingers? "

Nope! I would if I absolutely had to.put myself down as working class but I don't buy into all that stuff, scumbags exist at all levels of society.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge


"Interesting and honest question from the OP.

We look at various things when we decide to meet people, one of the early indicators for us would be the use of text speak. We access the site via smartphones etc, is it really so hard to type "naughty" instead of "norty" ? (Yes we have first hand experience of dyslexia and the autism spectrum)

So whilst its not a class thing per say , we do prefer to mix with people we feel comfortable with.

Oh and Mrs likes big tits too..........................

But wouldn't getting a message sent from a smartfone reading: 'nawty fun' not 'naughty fun' show that the sender had put more effort in?

Sorry, I don't understand your post. No offence intended.

With auto-text or auto-correct one would have to go back to change naughty (a correct spelling) to nawty or nowty (much more phonetically correct spellings actually). Hence more effort than being common and using the correct spelling. .

Ah I see. No.

Rhetorical question really: so nawty or nowty will always represent the underbelly of society even when it's apparent the sender has put some effort in to go back to change it from naughty. Maybe to sound extra nawty, not plain old naughty? "

Once again, not at all what I said, where do I mention the underbelly? What has the effort you imagine has gone into the deliberate use of the wrong word got to do with anything ? However to pick up on one point , if they go back to change it from the correct spelling then I certainly wouldn't think we had much in common.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst the occasional scumbag will try and fail miserably at some instant upward mobility is it fair to say that on the whole forum users are the upper Echelons of fab swingers?

In my opinion - not at all. The forum represents all classes of society.

Truly egalitarian then? All people one and all that. Soz but can't help but be a little sceptical. Maybe we need Mr Johnson and Cammeron on here?

I was being diplomatic with my post

OK. But the naughty (or nawty, depending on how silver your spoon was) step can be fun sometimes "

well my not so diplomatic response I'm sure would lead to a little trip to that place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting and honest question from the OP.

We look at various things when we decide to meet people, one of the early indicators for us would be the use of text speak. We access the site via smartphones etc, is it really so hard to type "naughty" instead of "norty" ? (Yes we have first hand experience of dyslexia and the autism spectrum)

So whilst its not a class thing per say , we do prefer to mix with people we feel comfortable with.

Oh and Mrs likes big tits too..........................

But wouldn't getting a message sent from a smartfone reading: 'nawty fun' not 'naughty fun' show that the sender had put more effort in?

Sorry, I don't understand your post. No offence intended.

With auto-text or auto-correct one would have to go back to change naughty (a correct spelling) to nawty or nowty (much more phonetically correct spellings actually). Hence more effort than being common and using the correct spelling. .

Ah I see. No.

Rhetorical question really: so nawty or nowty will always represent the underbelly of society even when it's apparent the sender has put some effort in to go back to change it from naughty. Maybe to sound extra nawty, not plain old naughty?

Once again, not at all what I said, where do I mention the underbelly? What has the effort you imagine has gone into the deliberate use of the wrong word got to do with anything ? However to pick up on one point , if they go back to change it from the correct spelling then I certainly wouldn't think we had much in common. "

I will always write smartfone. I think I'm cocking a snoop at people who have then. Hypercritical I know as I have one myself.

I think we need to conclude by establishing what writing nawty or nowty says about people who make a conscious choice to do it even when it's pretty evident it isn't a spelling mistake.

I use underbelly as another generic term for underclass where I'm sort of assuming we're putting people who use text speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst the occasional scumbag will try and fail miserably at some instant upward mobility is it fair to say that on the whole forum users are the upper Echelons of fab swingers?

In my opinion - not at all. The forum represents all classes of society.

Truly egalitarian then? All people one and all that. Soz but can't help but be a little sceptical. Maybe we need Mr Johnson and Cammeron on here?

I was being diplomatic with my post

OK. But the naughty (or nawty, depending on how silver your spoon was) step can be fun sometimes

well my not so diplomatic response I'm sure would lead to a little trip to that place "

Not very democratic, is it?

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

I'm an I.T Analyst and own my own property and car so what do you class me as OP?

I personally never turn my nose up at people as you don't know if they've fallen on bad times ect.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge


"Interesting and honest question from the OP.

We look at various things when we decide to meet people, one of the early indicators for us would be the use of text speak. We access the site via smartphones etc, is it really so hard to type "naughty" instead of "norty" ? (Yes we have first hand experience of dyslexia and the autism spectrum)

So whilst its not a class thing per say , we do prefer to mix with people we feel comfortable with.

Oh and Mrs likes big tits too..........................

But wouldn't getting a message sent from a smartfone reading: 'nawty fun' not 'naughty fun' show that the sender had put more effort in?

Sorry, I don't understand your post. No offence intended.

With auto-text or auto-correct one would have to go back to change naughty (a correct spelling) to nawty or nowty (much more phonetically correct spellings actually). Hence more effort than being common and using the correct spelling. .

Ah I see. No.

Rhetorical question really: so nawty or nowty will always represent the underbelly of society even when it's apparent the sender has put some effort in to go back to change it from naughty. Maybe to sound extra nawty, not plain old naughty?

Once again, not at all what I said, where do I mention the underbelly? What has the effort you imagine has gone into the deliberate use of the wrong word got to do with anything ? However to pick up on one point , if they go back to change it from the correct spelling then I certainly wouldn't think we had much in common.

I will always write smartfone. I think I'm cocking a snoop at people who have then. Hypercritical I know as I have one myself.

I think we need to conclude by establishing what writing nawty or nowty says about people who make a conscious choice to do it even when it's pretty evident it isn't a spelling mistake.

I use underbelly as another generic term for underclass where I'm sort of assuming we're putting people who use text speak "

We appear throughout to be talking about totally different things. Your assumptions seem to bare no relation to the points we made initially, but instead as a springboard for your own points.

Anyway.

Back to tits.

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over a year ago


"Interesting and honest question from the OP.

We look at various things when we decide to meet people, one of the early indicators for us would be the use of text speak. We access the site via smartphones etc, is it really so hard to type "naughty" instead of "norty" ? (Yes we have first hand experience of dyslexia and the autism spectrum)

So whilst its not a class thing per say , we do prefer to mix with people we feel comfortable with.

Oh and Mrs likes big tits too..........................

But wouldn't getting a message sent from a smartfone reading: 'nawty fun' not 'naughty fun' show that the sender had put more effort in?

Sorry, I don't understand your post. No offence intended.

With auto-text or auto-correct one would have to go back to change naughty (a correct spelling) to nawty or nowty (much more phonetically correct spellings actually). Hence more effort than being common and using the correct spelling. .

Ah I see. No.

Rhetorical question really: so nawty or nowty will always represent the underbelly of society even when it's apparent the sender has put some effort in to go back to change it from naughty. Maybe to sound extra nawty, not plain old naughty?

Once again, not at all what I said, where do I mention the underbelly? What has the effort you imagine has gone into the deliberate use of the wrong word got to do with anything ? However to pick up on one point , if they go back to change it from the correct spelling then I certainly wouldn't think we had much in common.

I will always write smartfone. I think I'm cocking a snoop at people who have then. Hypercritical I know as I have one myself.

I think we need to conclude by establishing what writing nawty or nowty says about people who make a conscious choice to do it even when it's pretty evident it isn't a spelling mistake.

I use underbelly as another generic term for underclass where I'm sort of assuming we're putting people who use text speak

We appear throughout to be talking about totally different things. Your assumptions seem to bare no relation to the points we made initially, but instead as a springboard for your own points.

Anyway.

Back to tits. "

Yes in this game I think they have a lot more bearing than if someone has a posh accent in this game or if the choose to write naughty or nawty as well

Another person said they can judge a person's class by their pics on here. Does it matter if they have nice big, firm tits. Big erect nipples too even better.

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over a year ago

Each to their own I guess. We all have the right to pick and choose.

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over a year ago


"I'm an I.T Analyst and own my own property and car so what do you class me as OP?

I personally never turn my nose up at people as you don't know if they've fallen on bad times ect."

Yes many of use have to be more austere there days. I've had to seriously make a couple more notches in my belt in order to buy the kids tablets for Christmas.

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over a year ago


"I'm an I.T Analyst and own my own property and car so what do you class me as OP?

I personally never turn my nose up at people as you don't know if they've fallen on bad times ect.

Yes many of use have to be more austere there days. I've had to seriously make a couple more notches in my belt in order to buy the kids tablets for Christmas. "

You may find it more palatable to buy paracetamol in syrup form than tablets for young children. Yes a few more pennies but worth it . Don't save it just for Christmas though, do store it in the cupboard throughout the year.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

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"I'm an I.T Analyst and own my own property and car so what do you class me as OP?

I personally never turn my nose up at people as you don't know if they've fallen on bad times ect."

This ^ rather neatly shows the challenge of drawing conclusions from observation.

From what we're told, we have no way of knowing whether the poster inherited the house. Maybe the house and car were bought with the proceeds of a Lotto win. We just don't know.

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over a year ago

As we entertain mostly at our home, we have no idea if people are coming from a hovel or a palace.

So long as they turn up clean and are respectful of our home their "class" is of no relevance.

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"I'm an I.T Analyst and own my own property and car so what do you class me as OP?

I personally never turn my nose up at people as you don't know if they've fallen on bad times ect.

Yes many of use have to be more austere there days. I've had to seriously make a couple more notches in my belt in order to buy the kids tablets for Christmas.

You may find it more palatable to buy paracetamol in syrup form than tablets for young children. Yes a few more pennies but worth it . Don't save it just for Christmas though, do store it in the cupboard throughout the year."

Chemical cosh works wonders

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