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"As others have said, the bdsm scene so to speak is interpreted so differently by every woman who is sub and yes I am one of them! I have a regular who is in my head and know's what I like, I tried someone new a few weeks ago and I hated his interpretation of what he thought I would like based on his previous experience, so I will not be meeting him again, so yes, you will only find out by speaking or listening to her body language, so stick with it, it will hopefully be a great experience for you both " And as you mention. Interpreted differently by every guy too. There are absolute extremes that is an absolute dichotomy between domination and dominant and submission and submissive. All can be absolutely mixed up and have either great or disaterous results | |||
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"I am a collared Sub.... Every Sub/Do relationship is different and there is never a right or wrong way of doing things. It is up to each individual, their limits and boundaries. I would be happy to have a chat with you, if you want to message me x" no its ok, I'm just about to put the telebbox on | |||
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" but communication is KEY" Discuss likes and dislikes. And if you want to try new kink research it first before you try. Ask advice of others in the scene. And don't rush at anything. Enjoy yourselves | |||
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"I am a collared Sub.... Every Sub/Do relationship is different and there is never a right or wrong way of doing things. It is up to each individual, their limits and boundaries. I would be happy to have a chat with you, if you want to message me x no its ok, I'm just about to put the telebbox on " Haha! Cheeky | |||
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"As others have said, the bdsm scene so to speak is interpreted so differently by every woman who is sub and yes I am one of them! I have a regular who is in my head and know's what I like, I tried someone new a few weeks ago and I hated his interpretation of what he thought I would like based on his previous experience, so I will not be meeting him again, so yes, you will only find out by speaking or listening to her body language, so stick with it, it will hopefully be a great experience for you both And as you mention. Interpreted differently by every guy too. There are absolute extremes that is an absolute dichotomy between domination and dominant and submission and submissive. All can be absolutely mixed up and have either great or disaterous results" Exactly! So, no kinks on here for the formidable future for me! I've learnt the hard way, but only because the interpretation was taken differently by both sexes even though it was 'sort of' discussed before hand! Just obviously not enough! | |||
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" Exactly! So, no kinks on here for the formidable future for me! I've learnt the hard way, but only because the interpretation was taken differently by both sexes even though it was 'sort of' discussed before hand! Just obviously not enough! " If you've got a general idea of what you want I wouldn't let it put you off There's good and bad meets no matter what you do, just get edges sorted before the boots come off | |||
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"I can't agree with ChunkyMan more. Start slow & communicate, exploring the boundaries a little. As the trust grows so the boundaries will come down and then more exploring & discovering can follow. Just remember that a Sub is not a weak person but rather the opposite. She is giving you a gift, cherish it & enjoy it. xx" She's submissive, not a sub. There is no gift as they are just fucking | |||
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"When it comes to play true bdsm followers don't usually bring sex into the dungeon or play areas." True? as in 'the one true way'? Sorry but that is crap, for a hell of a lot of BDSM'ers play is very sexual. And in BDSM circles it's usually spelt 'Twue' | |||
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"When it comes to play true bdsm followers don't usually bring sex into the dungeon or play areas. True? as in 'the one true way'? Sorry but that is crap, for a hell of a lot of BDSM'ers play is very sexual. And in BDSM circles it's usually spelt 'Twue'" No I meant I have met some who don't mix the sex (as in penetration) I didn't say it wasnt a very sexual experience, of course it is, it's one of the most erotic experiences and natural endoephine kicks you get, closest thing to sex. | |||
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"Domination as in D/s isnt a role it isnt a game its a state of mind and a natural state of being. The most important thing to talk to her about is what being submissive is for her. Does she want to please you be controlled and used. Does she want beating does she want tying up, is it a pain thing....talk and learn what her submission means to you then make sure you build a level of trust that will allow her to give it to you and once you have that you are away. but communication is KEY" | |||
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"When it comes to play true bdsm followers don't usually bring sex into the dungeon or play areas. True? as in 'the one true way'? Sorry but that is crap, for a hell of a lot of BDSM'ers play is very sexual. And in BDSM circles it's usually spelt 'Twue' No I meant I have met some who don't mix the sex (as in penetration) I didn't say it wasnt a very sexual experience, of course it is, it's one of the most erotic experiences and natural endoephine kicks you get, closest thing to sex. " But sex isn't just penetration (unless you are Bill Clinton ) | |||
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