FabSwingers.com forum: Wife wants to watch me with a male

By *illy OP Couple
over a year ago

Coventry

Hi all

as the title suggests my wife has a fantasy/request,

she wants to watch me being taken by another male.

Nothing else just me being fucked,

I quite like the idea of it all,but wondered if this is a common fantasy?

If so is something that is done ?

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"Hi all

as the title suggests my wife has a fantasy/request,

she wants to watch me being taken by another male.

Nothing else just me being fucked,

I quite like the idea of it all,but wondered if this is a common fantasy?

If so is something that is done ?"

You obviosuly want to do it so why ask advice?.....don't tell me, you need persuading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different strokes and all that, but doesn't sound that odd to me at all! I'm sure plenty of people have had that fantasy, and acted on it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i have a friend that was asked by a female to fuck her husband as a birthday treat, not me i hasten to add as ive not met him yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all

as the title suggests my wife has a fantasy/request,

she wants to watch me being taken by another male.

Nothing else just me being fucked,

I quite like the idea of it all,but wondered if this is a common fantasy?

If so is something that is done ?"

You say you quite like the idea of being fucked by another male..........yet your profile says your straight!

Bit of a strange thing for a 'straight' guy to fancy doing or even fantasise about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't imagine this is the first time this fantasy has come up surely?!!

If it's something that turns you on go for it: you don't have to ask permission!

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By *illy OP Couple
over a year ago

Coventry

It's the wifes fantasy not mine, and I've asked if this is unusual, bearing in mind it's not something discussed at work

, so I thought I'd ask and see. But rather than just read it and give an opinion you tear into our profile, nice

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"It's the wifes fantasy not mine, and I've asked if this is unusual, bearing in mind it's not something discussed at work

, so I thought I'd ask and see. But rather than just read it and give an opinion you tear into our profile, nice "

Never mind the profile.....some guy is going to be tearing into your ass real soon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't think it is a weird fantasy..well I hope not because I have the same one, unfortunaty Scott cannot be persuaded lol ahh well one can dream x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the wifes fantasy not mine, and I've asked if this is unusual, bearing in mind it's not something discussed at work

, so I thought I'd ask and see. But rather than just read it and give an opinion you tear into our profile, nice "

It may well be your wifes idea but its you who said you quite like the idea.

You asked for opinions and my opinion is "Why,as a 'straight' guy would you even consider it or your wife -knowing your 'straight'- suggest it???".

Many forum users look at the profiles of other posters.

I'd hardly say that pointing out the fact that you say your 'straight' was tearing into your profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've often thought about seeing my swing partner with another guy. I don't think I'd like to see another guy fuck him but to see them kissing and maybe sucking would be a big turn on for me.

He's not bi, or even curious, but I know if the moment was right and it felt good he would do something like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've often thought about seeing my swing partner with another guy. I don't think I'd like to see another guy fuck him but to see them kissing and maybe sucking would be a big turn on for me.

He's not bi, or even curious, but I know if the moment was right and it felt good he would do something like that."

Well surely that would make him at the least......curious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the wifes fantasy not mine, and I've asked if this is unusual, bearing in mind it's not something discussed at work

, so I thought I'd ask and see. But rather than just read it and give an opinion you tear into our profile, nice

Never mind the profile.....some guy is going to be tearing into your ass real soon!"

ouch!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"It's the wifes fantasy not mine, and I've asked if this is unusual, bearing in mind it's not something discussed at work

, so I thought I'd ask and see. But rather than just read it and give an opinion you tear into our profile, nice "

It may be your wifes fantasy, but its your ass thats gonna get reamed.... so dont be surprised when people question whats occuring lol.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

My thoughts are if your wife has this fantasy then that is perfectly normal for her to fantasise about that, I have similar thoughts to. If it appeals to you maybe the idea of it then discuss it more and see where you go from there. There are alot of men who like the idea of that. And many of them dont have bi curious on their profile. Its your decision totally but if it is more an actual thinking about doing it then maybe to put curious on your profile.

Just because I may fantasise about being gang banged I am pretty sure it will never happen and dont think I need to put gang bangs on my list of likes as it is only a fantasy as is dogging. Dont think I would ever actually go tho.

Your choice mate. Just make sure its feeely discussed with your wife xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all

as the title suggests my wife has a fantasy/request,

she wants to watch me being taken by another male.

Nothing else just me being fucked,

I quite like the idea of it all,but wondered if this is a common fantasy?

If so is something that is done ?"

Does it have to be a man, or could it be a woman with a strap on?.

I don't think it's so unusual, I do know some women that like the idea, though my partner would retch at the thought.

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

In our pre-swinging days, our fantasies were literally that, and often totally private - my ex never knew that I was bi in an earlier life, or that, for example, I fantasised about seeing her fuck another guy.

A potential danger with swinging is that there is a mechanism for acting these things out, and if you are not careful, trying to do EVERYTHING that you could imagine in your dreams... we still have a few genuine fantasies that turn us on, but that we will probably never do (some for safety or health reasons).

Most bi men and women were straight at one time, and I believe there IS a transition thru curious to active, and many shades of grey in between. Do it if you want, hey, it wont kill you if you dont like it, but only if you can live with the outcome either way. I would never want either my wife or self to do something they were not keen on, simply to please the other. There are so many, mutually satisfying pleasures and games to play that wont leave any trouble behind afterwards.

My wife expressed a desire to see me with another man (after I'd asked if she ever fancied playing with girls, the answer being a yes) at the time we were coming out to each other, and happily I was able to tell her that, actually dear, I've already done this, and enjoyed it!

For the record, now we've tried it, we both get enormous satisfaction from watching our partner have rutty sex with other people, of either gender.

Look, half the fun of this lifestyle is talking about and planning our adventures, so I see no harm in the OP asking for feedback and opinions, and wish him good luck whatever if decides to do.

Mr 2bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good post TwoBiTwo, have you not seen it's still morning, and a Wednesday at that.

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

"Good post TwoBiTwo, have you not seen it's still morning, and a Wednesday at that.

LOL Wayne... well, I get up very early and work Saturdays, so it's actually 7pm Friday in my head mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all

as the title suggests my wife has a fantasy/request,

she wants to watch me being taken by another male.

Nothing else just me being fucked,

I quite like the idea of it all,but wondered if this is a common fantasy?

If so is something that is done ?"

Good to know some women out there have the MMF fantasy with hubby getting fucked. Makes a change from hubby & the lesbian FFM fantay.

I'm gay & met a gal & str8 lad on here & had a MFM. She liked Bi lads so I don't think its odd women like the idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its common enough fantasy for women.....my ex put it forward to me a while back......not for me but like the others say if you like the idea go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this guy just simply requested advice and for opinions of fellow swingers. most men, as we know, fantasise about the ffm situation, so why not the female fantasising about the male/male situation?

is there is really any need to question what some one has written on their profile?

fantasies, we all know usually stay in our heads and go no further as another poster commented on here,

if you're curious and feel comfortable to try, go for it hun! if you like it, cool, if not then thats fine. my philosophy is to try anything once, if i like it, do it again! i'm sure there are a lot of ladies who have satisfied a curosity to swing with another female, and that's been the end of it, whilst other ladies have discovered they are indeed bisexual.

have fun,enjoy and only do what you're happy to do.xxx

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

I'm bi, my OH is gay, we've met numerous females who like to watch guy on guy action, each to their own, we all have our own fetishes

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By *laything1966Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

go 4 it you only live once and if you don't like it don't do it again

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By *eppoch1970Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

OR. It could split the marriage. In over 25 years experience of having sex/making love to other men, ALL the men, married or bisexual-attached men I meet keep it private/secret.

It only seems to be on these "swinging", sex websites where it is a fantasy which is put into reality and acted out. Whether with the "Mrs permission" or her actually watching.

Is it not a slap in the face to the wife? You don't satisfy me enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the main reason I'm on here. I fulfilled hubby's fantasy and went with another women. It was the most erotic moment of my life. That suprised me totally and I would do it again! Then I told him of my fantasy about him being with a man orally while I watch. His attitude was 'never say never' and suggested we find someone willing. Never expected him to do that as a lot fantasies stay in the head. When we find someone and he doesn't like it, he doesn't do it again. Simple as that. God I hope he likes it when the time comes!!!!LOL

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