FabSwingers.com forum: bareback parties and clubs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

could anybody tell us if there are any parties or clubs where bareback is acceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mmm Waiting to find out where NOT to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No clubs I've been to enforce safe sex... And to be honest I often see bare play going on.. we just make sure we play safe..

Parties... There are often parties advertised for bare only

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks little miss,, we will have a look for such parties xx

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By *anyoufeelmeMan
over a year ago

near you

"thanks little miss,, we will have a look for such parties xx"

sorry have to ask ... why oh why !! please think of your wifes well being if not your own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think i know of one Couple who arnt going to have much luck on here once the post is read lol

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

People in clubs who are playing with their partner will play bareback if they usually do.

The bareback issue is one for each individual to consider and if someone only plays in a manner you don't then don't play with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"thanks little miss,, we will have a look for such parties xx"

There are some in the meets section. Each to their own, why anyone believes anyone that says they play safe all the time is beyond me.. just take your own precautions.

On my couples profile id say we have more couples ask to go bare than safe

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By *anyoufeelmeMan
over a year ago

near you

"I think i know of one Couple who arnt going to have much luck on here once the post is read lol

i wouldn't touch anyone with a barge pole if i thought they had played in the bareback games of (my opinion ) of stupidity .. bad bad bad ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

look guys theres no need to be nasty with your comments each to there own and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think i know of one Couple who arnt going to have much luck on here once the post is read lol

i wouldn't touch anyone with a barge pole if i thought they had played in the bareback games of (my opinion ) of stupidity .. bad bad bad .. "

Trust me you already will have. . As most say no bareback but do..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"thanks little miss,, we will have a look for such parties xx

sorry have to ask ... why oh why !! please think of your wifes well being if not your own

Why the assumption it is the male posting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People in clubs who are playing with their partner will play bareback if they usually do.

The bareback issue is one for each individual to consider and if someone only plays in a manner you don't then don't play with them."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't seen anything Nasty in any of the comments, you put it out there for discussion

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

We all have choices, this couple have made theirs. Maybe leave them to get the advice they want rather than turn this into a condemining about bareback.

If you want to discuss baeback and the perils maybe start another thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thankyou we agree about turning it into an argument about barebacking.. wish we hadnt have bothered now ( and yes we also agree about people putting safe sex and then when speaking to them they say they do bareback..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"look guys theres no need to be nasty with your comments each to there own and all that

Unfortunately this type of topic will always attract comment from the safe sex fascists.

Personally I am quite happy to leave adults to decide on these things amongst themselves.

Others however have this compulsion to leave negative comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"thankyou we agree about turning it into an argument about barebacking.. wish we hadnt have bothered now ( and yes we also agree about people putting safe sex and then when speaking to them they say they do bareback.."

Hope you find what your looking for xx

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"look guys theres no need to be nasty with your comments each to there own and all that

Unfortunately this type of topic will always attract comment from the safe sex fascists.

Personally I am quite happy to leave adults to decide on these things amongst themselves.

Others however have this compulsion to leave negative comments."

lets hope the "negative" is in the GUM results

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think i know of one Couple who arnt going to have much luck on here once the post is read lol

Maybe they're going to open a gum clinic within the club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"look guys theres no need to be nasty with your comments each to there own and all that

you get that on here a lot.I wouldn't pay any heed to them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks yeah we wont be taking any notice

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"look guys theres no need to be nasty with your comments each to there own and all that

Unfortunately this type of topic will always attract comment from the safe sex fascists.

Personally I am quite happy to leave adults to decide on these things amongst themselves.

Others however have this compulsion to leave negative comments."

And I don't think calling others who disagree with an opinion "fascists" helps either.... that is only going to inflame a situation

the way I look at it is that in the end how someone decides to protect themselves is akin to someone crossing a road....

there is always a danger.....

you can decide to cross at a zebra crossing.... you can decide to do it on a 6 lane motorway....

one is going to be riskier than the other....

at the end of the day, the only truely safe sex is no sex, just as the only true way of being safe crossing the road is not to do it at all....

everything else is about judging the risks attached to it, and if that is an acceptable to you.....

what will be to some, may not be to other....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The op asked if anybody knew where clubs or parties for bareback fun !

They didnt ask for your thoughts or opinions on something they want to do !

Where do you lot get off pontificating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Think a club Called Funtimes has a few people who do Bareback.

I don't think any clubs or parties strictly enforce the rule of safe sex, just strongly recommend it.

But people are right its up to the individual as to what they agree to.

I think if you do play bareback then you Should regularly get yourself checked out for STD's at your local Sexual Health clinic. I regularly do even though I do exercise safe sex as the norm.

Really on reflection everyone who has dabbled in the lifestyle should accept that as swingers getting tested should be the norm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think the gum Clinic do parties on a Friday evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally if someone asked me to go bareback I would automatically feel a doubt WHY? And how many others have done this? Sorry all to there own but Big NO for me.. good luck both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In 2013 bareback with strangers isn't acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow this couple asked if anyone knew of any clubs or parties...... Not for judgements on the play that they choose to play!!!

It's no wonder the forums don't attract new posters with all the judgement police on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow this couple asked if anyone knew of any clubs or parties...... Not for judgements on the play that they choose to play!!!

It's no wonder the forums don't attract new posters with all the judgement police on here "
very well put !

Its there perogative !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well think of it one way Barebackers keep gum clinics open! so more jobs in the system which in turn creates more money, it will help this countires econimic recovery and help the debt! lets all go bareback

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By *exxifun5Couple
over a year ago

NORWICH

"Wow this couple asked if anyone knew of any clubs or parties...... Not for judgements on the play that they choose to play!!!

It's no wonder the forums don't attract new posters with all the judgement police on here very well put !

Its there perogative !

agree totally .. we are all consenting adults who have the right to make choices

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well think of it one way Barebackers keep gum clinics open! so more jobs in the system which in turn creates more money, it will help this countires econimic recovery and help the debt! lets all go bareback

So are you saying that because you play safe you don't get checked out at the gum clinic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The compulsion to do bareback in the heat of the moment is, I find, at times, almost overewhelming, but I'm always drawn back to safe sex when I think of the possible consequences.

That said, I do like bareback but only with regular circle of trusted friends. Still a risk, after all it only takes one to go off the rails.

For those who actively seek bareback I think understand that feeling of the thrill and of the risk and being on the edge, it's all part of the experience, just try and be carfull out there guys n girls. It's a good job we are all different, just think how boring it would be otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow this couple asked if anyone knew of any clubs or parties...... Not for judgements on the play that they choose to play!!!

It's no wonder the forums don't attract new posters with all the judgement police on here "

some of the posts on this thread are pathetic.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

"Its amazing how many people preach that they only practice safe sex and never get tested. Condoms aren't 100% safe and there are still risks with oral. Hypocrites!!!!"

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By *istress v in yorksCouple
over a year ago

south Yorkshire

I agree! maybe a party at the std clinic or morgue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *istress v in yorksCouple
over a year ago

south Yorkshire

No they're not but it's DAMN better odds than not bothering to use anything. Not a hypercrite at all. Would you cross a busy road without looking first?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Its amazing how many people preach that they only practice safe sex and never get tested. Condoms aren't 100% safe and there are still risks with oral. Hypocrites!!!!

which is why I said that in the end it is all about weighing up the risks involved in any pratice.....

I quite liked my "crossing the road" analogy....

needs tweeking....

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"We all have choices, this couple have made theirs. Maybe leave them to get the advice they want rather than turn this into a condemining about bareback.

If you want to discuss baeback and the perils maybe start another thread.

Obviously thats not going to happen so closing this now

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