FabSwingers.com forum: Opinions please: the scar

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey would anyone mind telling me what they think to the large scar on my chest, it seems to divide opinion a bit in messages an would just like to know peoples thoughts a bit.

love it, hate it, don't mind/care?

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Can't imagine it would make any difference fella. But at least you'll get some more looks at your profile now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey would anyone mind telling me what they think to the large scar on my chest, it seems to divide opinion a bit in messages an would just like to know peoples thoughts a bit.

love it, hate it, don't mind/care?"

Why would it matter to anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More confused as to why it's there in one pic and not in the other.....is it a magic disappearing scar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The scar would make no difference to us, I (Mrs) have quite a few too & if someone doesn't like it then they can look elsewhere as these sars are what made me the person I am today.

If you/I didn't have the scars we probably wouldn't be here today.

I have never had anyone mention them whilst on a swing meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"More confused as to why it's there in one pic and not in the other.....is it a magic disappearing scar?"

No I only got it a short while ago the other pic is from just before the crash where I got the scar.

I had one guy on a meet who said he was fine with it, but then on the meet cause it's kinda rasied an night than he thought he said could I keep my shirt on as it weired him out. Politely made excuses an left.

The nhs have offered special make up so that it would look skin toned for the few years till it actually does that naturally, dunno if I can be arsed doing that, so just wondered what people thought.

It will always be raised out though

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

That will have probably knocked your confidence now, but I can't see everyone getting freaked our by a scar, most of us have one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally wouldn't bother with the make up as it makes the scars look worse.

I have grown up with mine & had some comments but it just goes over my head now lol

Hubby just jokes the docs removed my heart & put a brick in its place haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd end up stroking it

Dated a guy with a scar down his stomach from a bike accident, he was in a comer for 2 months but was baffled by me stroking it, as I said to him, it told a story and amazed me that he survived x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What scar? with a cock like yours, my eyes would be else where,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd end up stroking it

Dated a guy with a scar down his stomach from a bike accident, he was in a comer for 2 months but was baffled by me stroking it, as I said to him, it told a story and amazed me that he survived x"

It's true every scar tells a story of survival

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"What scar? with a cock like yours, my eyes would be else where,

I agree. Took me 5 minutes to find the scar lol.

My man has one down his abdomen,as I do & we never notice.

Julie x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What scar? with a cock like yours, my eyes would be else where,

I agree. Took me 5 minutes to find the scar lol.

My man has one down his abdomen,as I do & we never notice.

Julie x"

Heh it's got a matching one down my right side running parallel they're the bits of the front if the bike that hold the wing mirrors an the screen in, as I went over the front of the bike.

They also go on my.groin just above my cock, if if have been a few inches over I wouldn't have one any more :o

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any disfigurements I think it's best to show openly as you have to avoid the "omg" what is that on the night.

It certainly wouldn't bother me.

What drew me to your profile was your age after seeing your posts ...

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

It's in your pics so people should be aware before meeting you. I'd also mention it in one of your early messages just to be sure.

I have a far more dramatic scar which has a much bigger effect on my appearance and apart from a couple of people who politely said no thanks I haven't had any problems. I know people will say it's different for women but if they were just saying it was ok to get a shag then they wouldn't be able to behave as they do when we get naked - I'd see their true opinion in their eyes.

Move on from the numpty and as long as your meets know about it early enough to let you know if they have any problems with it I wouldn't let it worry you.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Any disfigurements I think it's best to show openly as you have to avoid the "omg" what is that on the night.

It certainly wouldn't bother me.

What drew me to your profile was your age after seeing your posts ...

Heh yeah I can be a little immature on forums

But then again if you offer me sweets I'll probably get in the back of your van so maybe not that mature off forums either :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it adds to how sexy u r !! Wouldnt bother me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What scar? with a cock like yours, my eyes would be else where,

I thought the same!

Have you tried bio oil? Rub it in for 15 minutes twice a day for 3 months. Rub hard as you have to break down the scar tissue.

It will bother you more than other people. xx

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Doesnt bother me.

Does bother me how you have the "3" missing from your username, though!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha, I never liked the 3, didn't roll off the tongue right, I am tempted to change the username to something a little easier for people to read/remember though.

I don't think bio oil will work besides maybe help with the colour cause it's gone into keloid scaring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it recent because it's not on your other photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone is bothered by any scars then dont meet them! Man up!

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"Haha, I never liked the 3, didn't roll off the tongue right, I am tempted to change the username to something a little easier for people to read/remember though.

I don't think bio oil will work besides maybe help with the colour cause it's gone into keloid scaring "

Keep it. Having a username so specific speaks volumes about you and might even attract the kind of person you get on with. Don't be another "wifeluver" or "loves2lick" idiot.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

You can get plasters to reduce keloid scars. I believe it takes a long time to get results but that they do work.

You can buy them from boots and amazon but I think in some cases they can also be prescribed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it recent because it's not on your other photos "

Got it in June, and all the pics bar the back one and the mirror I've are from.since I've had it :p

The back and mirror ones are from march iirc the picture with the scar was taken in the last 3 Weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A scar is part of you, if people don't like it then fuck em, meet and enjoy the company of those who aren't so superficial!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Haha, I never liked the 3, didn't roll off the tongue right, I am tempted to change the username to something a little easier for people to read/remember though.

I don't think bio oil will work besides maybe help with the colour cause it's gone into keloid scaring

Keep it. Having a username so specific speaks volumes about you and might even attract the kind of person you get on with. Don't be another "wifeluver" or "loves2lick" idiot."

Heh I think you're the only one to notice where it's from, think the name "Mal Reynolds" would be building up too much expecting though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The monkey has lots...a sign of life lived at 100 miles an hour...nobody has ever mentioned them...but they are quite old...

They're the marks that life leaves on our bodies...never be ashamed of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem for me, I am sure there is an interesting story behind it as well.

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By *aisy100Woman
over a year ago

wakefield

Thats a corker of a scar!!

It wouldnt bother me, I once met a woman who had both breasts reconstructed and obviously there was scaring but it didnt bother me but bothered her. I have scars from a breast uplift and it doesnt bother others but it bothers me

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

"Can't imagine it would make any difference fella. But at least you'll get some more looks at your profile now

Haha, and so would you. Oh, I see I already had. Lovely pics but a shame I'm not for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No problem for me, I am sure there is an interesting story behind it as well. "

Sadly it's the same story as a lot of bikers, senile old person not looking where they're going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey would anyone mind telling me what they think to the large scar on my chest, it seems to divide opinion a bit in messages an would just like to know peoples thoughts a bit.

love it, hate it, don't mind/care?"
i have a few from operations. I can't change it an I have to live with them.

. It's all down to the people ur with if they are ok with it then fine but I don't judge the people if they wouldn't wanna meet because of it. Their choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a number of scars and birth marks. But that what makes me me !!

Highly recommend bio oil. Xxx

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

I have a scar on my stomach from a badly performed operation to remove my appendix when I was 10. Happy to show any nice lady or couple in person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'll take the plunge on the bio oil am see if it helps thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its a fully healed scar, no weeping no crusty bits or open tears I don't see a problem it just makes you a little different that's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll take the plunge on the bio oil am see if it helps thanks x"

I have a keloid scar on my neck and I was recommended bio oil to use on it. As by massaging it daily, it breaks down the scar. If that doesn't work you can try steroid injections but I have been told they can be very painful.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Wouldn't bother me. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any disfigurements I think it's best to show openly as you have to avoid the "omg" what is that on the night.

It certainly wouldn't bother me.

What drew me to your profile was your age after seeing your posts ...

Heh yeah I can be a little immature on forums

But then again if you offer me sweets I'll probably get in the back of your van so maybe not that mature off forums either :p

I have an unopened bag of Haribo in my van

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't take notice of it, I would ask how you got it because I'm interested (or nosey). Then I'd get down to business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars are sexy

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Scars are sexy"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Can't see why your asking really. It's the mental scars some have that'd concern me not the physical ones.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Any disfigurements I think it's best to show openly as you have to avoid the "omg" what is that on the night.

It certainly wouldn't bother me.

What drew me to your profile was your age after seeing your posts ...

Heh yeah I can be a little immature on forums

But then again if you offer me sweets I'll probably get in the back of your van so maybe not that mature off forums either :p

I have an unopened bag of Haribo in my van

Haribo!? *jumps in the van*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't see why your asking really. It's the mental scars some have that'd concern me not the physical ones. "

I agree. I had a man break down minutes after meeting him. He cried for ages and told me about his terrible childhood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any disfigurements I think it's best to show openly as you have to avoid the "omg" what is that on the night.

It certainly wouldn't bother me.

What drew me to your profile was your age after seeing your posts ...

Heh yeah I can be a little immature on forums

But then again if you offer me sweets I'll probably get in the back of your van so maybe not that mature off forums either :p

I have an unopened bag of Haribo in my van

Haribo!? *jumps in the van*

Pffft I match your haribo and up it with a yorkie bar - a real mans chocolate

You're younger than I thought OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't see why your asking really. It's the mental scars some have that'd concern me not the physical ones.

I agree. I had a man break down minutes after meeting him. He cried for ages and told me about his terrible childhood "

And at that point I would be out of the door and running!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hehe, my meet for this weekend has stocked up on sweets for my arrival lol :p

Thanks, I didn't know I came across as a grown up lol. Was it anything in particular?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can't see why your asking really. It's the mental scars some have that'd concern me not the physical ones.

I agree. I had a man break down minutes after meeting him. He cried for ages and told me about his terrible childhood "

If it helps I had a wonderful childhood :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't see why your asking really. It's the mental scars some have that'd concern me not the physical ones.

I agree. I had a man break down minutes after meeting him. He cried for ages and told me about his terrible childhood

If it helps I had a wonderful childhood :p"

I will still bring tissues, you may cry with happiness

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hehehe yeah that's what the tissues will be for -_-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is only a light switch away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would be more worried about how angry your cock looks than the scar on your chest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

He's actually very friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hehehe yeah that's what the tissues will be for -_-"

oh, do you have a cold?

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By *wingerdelightCouple
over a year ago

eastliegh

I the m have some bad scars and apart from beeing self conscious. Have never had a problem on a meet. I do tend to try and cover them tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's actually very friendly

It looks good to me

just needs a wet cuddle lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Can't see why your asking really. It's the mental scars some have that'd concern me not the physical ones.

I agree. I had a man break down minutes after meeting him. He cried for ages and told me about his terrible childhood "

I've had that too but the tears were mine!

He looked like Daniel Craig, sounded like Joe Pasquale and spent the time talking about his overbearing adoptive mother!

We were by the Thames, I almost jumped in to escape him!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm curious if an angry penis is a good or bad thing now :p

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Nope It wouldnt bother me.. I imagine most people would pretty much take you as you are. they would be curious as to how it happenend.Not an ugly scar..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have a problem with your scar at all, it's part of who you are and you have no reason to cover it up...because I'm a nosey bint I'd ask what happened though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't see why your asking really. It's the mental scars some have that'd concern me not the physical ones.

I agree. I had a man break down minutes after meeting him. He cried for ages and told me about his terrible childhood

I've had that too but the tears were mine!

He looked like Daniel Craig, sounded like Joe Pasquale and spent the time talking about his overbearing adoptive mother!

We were by the Thames, I almost jumped in to escape him!

sorry for laughing but the Pasquale voice is just too funny. The Thames is cleaner now you might not catch anything too nasty if you did jump in. What did you do instead? I ended seeing my man for about a year after and became very fond of him. We never really got the sex off the ground but he was the first man to shackle me to a.bed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't have a problem with your scar at all, it's part of who you are and you have no reason to cover it up...because I'm a nosey bint I'd ask what happened though

Old lady not paying attention side swiped me on my motorbike.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scar...what scar?

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By *ayandess1Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater

I have a large scar on my stomach, its about 13 inches. I go to clubs and have had several meets - so far no one has ever had an issue with it.

I think women just aren't that bothered.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Scars aren't off putting to me. I'd stoke it whilst I was busy doing something else...

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

The only time I would be bothered by a scar is if it was very fresh and I would worry about hurting you. Apart from that I don't see why anyone would be put off by one.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Scar shows you survived something and goes towards making you the person you are today... I have a recent 12" scar from where I got part of my hip removed, and if I seen the slightest bit of revulsion at it, then they would be out the door!!!

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By *inkySCouple
over a year ago

Capetown

I (f) was worried about my scars 3 from transplant and dialysis but all our meets have been amazing and although I do not show them on my pics - as I dont feel they are sexy I am becoming more confident when they are on show in clubs and at hotels my hubby also has two scars on his back from lung ops. If people have any issues with a scar then its their problem there are plenty of people who know that life isnt perfect and they are signs of a fighter and a survivor.

Don't let an ignorant few spoil your fun xx

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Blimey, its a good one! It looks like Zorro had a go at you but missed the top and bottom lines in the Z

It wouldn't bother me at all, I have a beaut from my hip replacement and I don't even think about it...as its quite apparent in your pics, I'd think anyone that's phased by scars would probably notice it, hopefully then not bother messaging you, plus if you also mention it in an early message too then you should get a feel for how someone might react - sounds like you were unlucky with the meet you mentioned. Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the kind words folks, you're right just letting people get to me :p

Suppose its cause it's new and I'm getting used to the idea it's going to be there forever though that I'm a bit sensitive about it.

maybe i should get a better back story for it though, what do you think to a fight with a very annoyed samurai, or a slightly lazy Zorro wanna be :p? :p

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I had one guy on a meet who said he was fine with it, but then on the meet cause it's kinda rasied an night than he thought he said could I keep my shirt on as it weired him out. Politely made excuses an left.

It will always be raised out though"

Thats terrible, how rude! No it doesnt bother me at all, we all have our lumps, bumps and scars they are what make us

I had surgery last year and it left a keloid, if you are concerned you could try using Dermatix. Dermatix comes in a silicone gel and a plaster that form a seal and flatten/reduce the scars. Mine has actually flattened and shrunk to half its size. But if they dont bother you then i wouldnt bother

. Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was born at 1lb 3oz (I have proof if people don't believe me) I have 2 scars on my arm, one on my thigh and one just above my left boob. My skin ripped open. People never bother commenting on them. They just ask where I got them from

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

heh maybe i should start a thread "any scar fetishists in the Chester area" ? :p

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Wouldn't bother me in the slightest either, would make for a good conversation piece

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By *iz78Woman
over a year ago

wirral

you look sexy to me

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"I wouldn't have a problem with your scar at all, it's part of who you are and you have no reason to cover it up...because I'm a nosey bint I'd ask what happened though

Old lady not paying attention side swiped me on my motorbike. "

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I am really glad you didnt say that to my post. It is extremely patronising..even more so to a girl of 34. !!

Would have been a bit annoyed. As this lady just said she would ask what happened if she met you.. Not that she had not read the thread... and saw what had happened.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think scars are pretty cool anyway. I have a very faint one on my face which was a real live dueling scar.

So yours is even cooler! Wouldn't bother me. I quite like scars actually. They tell a story and give a person character. On ladies, I'd kiss their scars. On men, I'd say 'how did you get that?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take no notice of the scars there you.. You can't change it i also suffered scars after an accident then operation... I have a lived in body, the scars will settle to become flat and lose the redness over about 2 years they then become more silvery and blend into your body colour better, Seriously if someone don't like it, there loss we all have war scars lol ! Let your personality shine through and let it be there problem !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't have a problem with your scar at all, it's part of who you are and you have no reason to cover it up...because I'm a nosey bint I'd ask what happened though

Old lady not paying attention side swiped me on my motorbike.

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I am really glad you didnt say that to my post. It is extremely patronising..even more so to a girl of 34. !!

Would have been a bit annoyed. As this lady just said she would ask what happened if she met you.. Not that she had not read the thread... and saw what had happened.

Sorry how is saying what happened patronising?

If not actually said the specifics of what had happened before that post beyond it was an elderly.driver who knocked me off.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Ok apologise read it wrong.. text is sometimes not eas to read.

sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the kind words folks, you're right just letting people get to me :p

Suppose its cause it's new and I'm getting used to the idea it's going to be there forever though that I'm a bit sensitive about it.

maybe i should get a better back story for it though, what do you think to a fight with a very annoyed samurai, or a slightly lazy Zorro wanna be :p? :p"

light sabre!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't have a problem with your scar at all, it's part of who you are and you have no reason to cover it up...because I'm a nosey bint I'd ask what happened though

Old lady not paying attention side swiped me on my motorbike.

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I am really glad you didnt say that to my post. It is extremely patronising..even more so to a girl of 34. !!

Would have been a bit annoyed. As this lady just said she would ask what happened if she met you.. Not that she had not read the thread... and saw what had happened.

Sorry how is saying what happened patronising?

If not actually said the specifics of what had happened before that post beyond it was an elderly.driver who knocked me off.

Absolutely no offence taken

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops

i have quite a large scar on my back where i had a lipoma removed its very noticable but if it gets mentioned i just joke and say its a slot where you put the coins to make me move.....

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

nasty scar it looks exactly like a cock mind you i didnt look long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a scar from the middle of breast bone to my boxerline 27 steel stitches , like mine yours will fade and blend in , you could keep hairy chest to help hide it , but im never worried about it,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars are probably more of an issue for a woman if she has any.

As for scars on a guy though, that's just added character!

XXXX

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Can't see why your asking really. It's the mental scars some have that'd concern me not the physical ones.

I agree. I had a man break down minutes after meeting him. He cried for ages and told me about his terrible childhood

I've had that too but the tears were mine!

He looked like Daniel Craig, sounded like Joe Pasquale and spent the time talking about his overbearing adoptive mother!

We were by the Thames, I almost jumped in to escape him!

After twenty minutes of his high pitched whine and the potted history of his mother's indifference, interspersed with her calling to say he'd not got her newspaper/lunch before setting off to London to meet some floozey...I'd have not cared if the Thames was teaming with piranhas as I was losing the will to live and his voice was really grating on my last nerve.

I downed the rioja in unlady like haste and told him to go home to his mum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars don't bother me...and I'll often ask about them and share war wound stories (although mine are never as interesting!). It's just a tiny part of the person, but the pic you have to show it is a good idea as those who would be put off can clearly see it so no reason for it to ever really become an issue

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok apologise read it wrong.. text is sometimes not eas to read.

sorry

haha no worries i read it back, and i just see how you could have read it .

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

"More confused as to why it's there in one pic and not in the other.....is it a magic disappearing scar?

No I only got it a short while ago the other pic is from just before the crash where I got the scar.

The nhs have offered special make up so that it would look skin toned for the few years till it actually does that naturally, dunno if I can be arsed doing that, so just wondered what people thought.

It will always be raised out though"

No it'll slowly calm down over time so it won't be so noticeable. Use plenty of bio oil or coco butter on it daily that will help. Don't worry scars look hot on a guy! Makes them look like they've seen some action!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

don't worry about your scar .. your still here .. that's all that matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"don't worry about your scar .. your still here .. that's all that matters "

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"don't worry about your scar .. your still here .. that's all that matters

and you can tell people that you got it from battling The Kurgan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore scars! Shows a persons lived and has the proof be it from crashes, old war wounds, health problems or babies! Met several people with scars in various places and all prewarned me about them as they had the same problem about people being weirded out. Take pride in your scar and ignore people that put you down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldnt put me off anyone.

I have scars on my face and i cover them to make them less visible.

But i also have stretch marks which could be classed as scars i guess but if someones put off by them they arnt worth meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It looks fucking awesome. You gotta tell people it was done with a samouri sword. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have a problem with it. Scars usually tell a story. I've got 2 on my forehead. One from a car accident and the other from an over-zealous, newly qualified GP.

It's a distinguishing feature and in a sexual context it's another feature to play with (if that didn't freak the owner out).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Btw, your picture showing the scar is fucking hot too.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

wouldn't bother me my fb kept coming back to me as I kissed his scar on his shoulder when we first met and he was really conscious of it now 4 yrs later its a case of what scar

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"wouldn't bother me my fb kept coming back to me as I kissed his scar on his shoulder when we first met and he was really conscious of it now 4 yrs later its a case of what scar"

Heh, funnily the people I tend to go back to are the ones who kissed or stroked it without thinking,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scar? I was too busy looking at the rest of you

but having gone back for another look, it really wouldn't bother me. Scars tell a story and part of who you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use the scar as a bad boy thing, many a woman like a bad boy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one that magically disappeared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't bother me at all, infact we could compare battle wounds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The one that magically disappeared "

Try reading posts 3 and 5

It's been a few months it would be interesting to see how it's improving and if the op feels different about it now

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

A scar like that is great.... as long as you have a Ninja story to go with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chics dig a man with a scar

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I've a long scar from my navel down to just above my groin after having tumours removed. It's faded quite a bit but it's still obviously a scar. Never had a single person ever comment on it.

So, I should imagine your scar probably bothers fewer people than you imagine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your scar is part of you your past your future.you should never be ashamed or made to feel unattractive or let others knock your confidence!..I for one would not be put off by it!..xx(fem)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it.. would beeline and lick it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Love it.. would beeline and lick it

See my post from 29 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The one that magically disappeared

Try reading posts 3 and 5

It's been a few months it would be interesting to see how it's improving and if the op feels different about it now

Hehe yeah the no scar pictures come from before I got it obviously lol.

These days it's flatter and wider at the top half the bottom half is still very raised though still red too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Although I have to ask why the 30 week bump?

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Scars are just medical artwork!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I have two massive scars, one old one on my right leg and another recent one on my torso. If I met anyone that were freaked out by them, I would do just as you did; leave. I can understand if they were open wounds but they're not, they are part of us.

I'm very, very glad you have come out of that accident as well as you have.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Your scar is part of you. Adds character I think.

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By *ocioSexualsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I like it

Mrs SS x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me in the slightest

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By *inkyKimblesWoman
over a year ago

Northants

"I'd end up stroking it

Dated a guy with a scar down his stomach from a bike accident, he was in a comer for 2 months but was baffled by me stroking it, as I said to him, it told a story and amazed me that he survived x"

I would be exactly the same,, im a very touchy feely person and love to run my fingers over their body I would end up stroking it too and probably chatting about what happened but it wouldnt bother me or weird me out xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're hot with or without it. I wouldnt be worried about scars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like they said, don't worry about it. My goddaughter was badly scarred down her neck and chest when she was a toddler. Thanks to great Hospital and parent care they have never caused her problems, she is now 27 and unless you knew her. you would hardly notice them. I wouldn't cover it with makeup just keep it and the skin well moisturised. She had special cream for hers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its kinda hot actually. Looks like a battle wound xD

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By *iss Chievous1Woman
over a year ago

my world

I think there is something very sexy about scars ! I have a friend who has a few large ones and I love stroking them when we cuddle,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the kind words. It bothers me a lot less these days

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By *hrissie1961Woman
over a year ago

dumfries and galloway

That's a hefty battle scar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear it with pride

Always a reminder or things you've done in life

Have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars are cool

I've recently squired a rather big one and I love showing it off and coming up with random stories to explain it.

It inspires my imagination and I love it wen people stroke it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Scars are cool

I've recently squired a rather big one and I love showing it off and coming up with random stories to explain it.

It inspires my imagination and I love it wen people stroke it.

Haha awesome what's stories have you come up with?

I'm tempted to go a pirate themed tale :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey would anyone mind telling me what they think to the large scar on my chest, it seems to divide opinion a bit in messages an would just like to know peoples thoughts a bit.

love it, hate it, don't mind/care?"

Hon. It's your battle wound. It's part of your story Be proud of it. If I met you I certainly wouldnt be focusing on that

I have scars too. But mine arent as obvious as yours. The metal plates in my leg makes people squirm though. Rather than be upset I think it's hilarious xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a scar that goes from one side of my chest to the other, its not as noticeable as I am hairy but it's part of me and I don't care what others think.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

If it bothers you, the plasters / tape you can get do work. You will notice some difference after a few weeks.

I used them for a bit but just got fed up and had a tattoo to go with it instead

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