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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is winks being lazy ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *j188Couple
over a year ago

aberdeenshire


"No"

we think so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I never look at mine I take it like your profile but not interested in meeting you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I never look at mine I take it like your profile but not interested in meeting you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it as an appreciation of liking my pics but I need a message to start a conversation.... It's nice to be appreciated though.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Is winks being lazy ??"

I just delete them.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Yes I never look at mine I take it like your profile but not interested in meeting you "

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep cuz i have it written on my profile,dont wink im too busy answering messages,and if u winked then shows U havent read my profile,so im not gonna bother replying to ur wink

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"No"

its a subtle way of getting someones attention and showing initial interest. If you get a wink back then i take it they are interested too.

BUT after exchanging winks it should start a convo AND NOT mean an instant shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No

its a subtle way of getting someones attention and showing initial interest. If you get a wink back then i take it they are interested too.

BUT after exchanging winks it should start a convo AND NOT mean an instant shag "

And therein lies the problem

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"No

its a subtle way of getting someones attention and showing initial interest. If you get a wink back then i take it they are interested too.

BUT after exchanging winks it should start a convo AND NOT mean an instant shag

And therein lies the problem "

what problem ?

Oh & *wink wink*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I receive the odd wink and if I like who's winked I send a polite, thanks for your wink I'd love to chat more, this has resulted in me now trying to organise a meet with said cpls.

Cpls and fems receive a lot of messages so can be choosy and say winks are lazy, I see them as a tentative hi, all it takes is a wink back and then you can send a message, not send a message and waste your time with it being deleted, which is an ego knock, but I suppose those ppl don't realise how soul destroying being knocked back all the time is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think its lazy and dont respond even worse when accompanied by random friend requests without introduction

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I quite like winks though I don't check mine that often. But if I like the winker I do wink back.

I also use them as a way of opening a conversation and when I check updates I will wink at those who I like the look of. It's a way of getting someone to take a look at my profile instead of simply replying which single guys often do if you message them as some don't get much mail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We think its lazy and dont respond even worse when accompanied by random friend requests without introduction "

Now I get the friend requests part, takes a while til I'll accept one, but winks I see no harm in testing the water, although I never wink as I know cpls won't respond, saying that, I never send messages either as ppl never respond!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite like winks though I don't check mine that often. But if I like the winker I do wink back.

I also use them as a way of opening a conversation and when I check updates I will wink at those who I like the look of. It's a way of getting someone to take a look at my profile instead of simply replying which single guys often do if you message them as some don't get much mail."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No

its a subtle way of getting someones attention and showing initial interest. If you get a wink back then i take it they are interested too.

BUT after exchanging winks it should start a convo AND NOT mean an instant shag

And therein lies the problem

what problem ?

Oh & *wink wink* "

That if you wink back people automatically see it as a green light for a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I receive the odd wink and if I like who's winked I send a polite, thanks for your wink I'd love to chat more, this has resulted in me now trying to organise a meet with said cpls.

Cpls and fems receive a lot of messages so can be choosy and say winks are lazy, I see them as a tentative hi, all it takes is a wink back and then you can send a message, not send a message and waste your time with it being deleted, which is an ego knock, but I suppose those ppl don't realise how soul destroying being knocked back all the time is!"

You get knocked back all the time? Fools . Fancy moving to the north west?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think they are lazy at all, they are a good ice breaker, I wink a lot and I check my winks and if someone takes my fancy I wink back, that way at least there is a sign you are slightly interested.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"No

its a subtle way of getting someones attention and showing initial interest. If you get a wink back then i take it they are interested too.

BUT after exchanging winks it should start a convo AND NOT mean an instant shag

And therein lies the problem

what problem ?

Oh & *wink wink*

That if you wink back people automatically see it as a green light for a shag "

Yeah that's unfortunate but it's how the winker interprets it & says more about them really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I receive the odd wink and if I like who's winked I send a polite, thanks for your wink I'd love to chat more, this has resulted in me now trying to organise a meet with said cpls.

Cpls and fems receive a lot of messages so can be choosy and say winks are lazy, I see them as a tentative hi, all it takes is a wink back and then you can send a message, not send a message and waste your time with it being deleted, which is an ego knock, but I suppose those ppl don't realise how soul destroying being knocked back all the time is!

You get knocked back all the time? Fools . Fancy moving to the north west?"

Unfortunately I did, hence the stopping contacting ppl. I'm only over the Pennines!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink so that people who don't pay , can see I have viewed their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink to say I enjoyed your profile, as it saves you reading a message then deleting it.

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