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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

a big deal when single men mail you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as important as a decent profile and pics are, and not just singles, but couples too

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

That they have the green tick indicates they've met...I recently met a guy who doesn't show his veris and had a great time...for me it's purely part of my selection criteria, I've also met a couple of non verified guys too but did a bit more email ping pong before agreeing a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi,

To be honest, personally for me, not really. The content of the mail itself matters however!

I prefer to have a conversation by phone and form my own opinion, as we are all different after all. What may have worked well in one meet, might not be right in another. I have enjoyed meets with non verified people, before I was verified so... it would be hypocritical of me to say otherwise.

The concept of the person having verifications/references/credentials (delete as appropriate) only assures me that the person turns up. Beyond that, I don't take any notice of 'ooooh his cock is divine/she sucks cock like a pro' type feedback.

Just my 2cents!

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Like them to be site verified but what other women write makes no difference to me as I do my own thing anyway. I've met men who didn't have any verifications

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That

they have the green tick indicates they've met...I recently met a guy

who doesn't show his veris and had a great time...for me it's purely

part of my selection criteria, I've also met a couple of non verified

guys too but did a bit more email ping pong before agreeing a meet

"

oh right.. what sort of conversations do you have? interests etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a big deal when single men mail you?

"

No not that important. More a case of checking they're not fake. You never know anyone until you meet. A brilliant novel can be written by a twat of an author

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I have met several men without verifications and had a good time. I've arranged to meet men who had loads of veris and they didn't turn up. They are not the only part of my selection criteria, and I prefer to click via messages these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have verifications but I chose not to display them, I think that just because one person says they had a good time with you, it might not be the same for the next person. Also I think that most of the verifications read the same, I prefer to try get to know the person a little but this can be hard when so many people just don't reply.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"a big deal when single men mail you?

"

It's quite important to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a big deal when single men mail you?

No not that important. More a case of checking they're not fake. You never know anyone until you meet. A brilliant novel can be written by a twat of an author "

I agree, but sometimes they help you spot the fakes if you check the profiles of the people who have verified them, has they lead to a string of fake profiles

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"I have verifications but I chose not to display them, I think that just because one person says they had a good time with you, it might not be the same for the next person. Also I think that most of the verifications read the same, I prefer to try get to know the person a little but this can be hard when so many people just don't reply."
agree about the veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a big deal when single men mail you?

No not that important. More a case of checking they're not fake. You never know anyone until you meet. A brilliant novel can be written by a twat of an author

I agree, but sometimes they help you spot the fakes if you check the profiles of the people who have verified them, has they lead to a string of fake profiles "

Yes I mentioned that bit about making sure they're not fake

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

have met verified and unverified guys ...i like to form my own opinions !

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"That

they have the green tick indicates they've met...I recently met a guy

who doesn't show his veris and had a great time...for me it's purely

part of my selection criteria, I've also met a couple of non verified

guys too but did a bit more email ping pong before agreeing a meet

oh right.. what sort of conversations do you have? interests etc? "

Hard to say exactly, but "proper" convos if you see what I mean where there's an exchange of information rather than "How's you"'..."fine, ta, you?"..."good thanks"

Like I say, it's difficult to explain, but I just get a good feeling over a few messages

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

makes me laugh with the don't pass this one up they only met only once hmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"makes me laugh with the don't pass this one up they only met only once hmmm"

Yes and 'treat her with the respect she deserves' is a classic haha

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"makes me laugh with the don't pass this one up they only met only once hmmm

Yes and 'treat her with the respect she deserves' is a classic haha"

There should be 'verification bingo' on this site. I have both the above on mine somewhere.

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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago

The Dungeon

Single guys have to be at least photo verified to be even able to message us. Too many fakes about asking for pics or sending friends invites etc for our liking.

A verification by meeting isn't important but a willingness to meet at a club (if they have no 'meet' veri) is.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Essential if they want to message me (when filters are off)

Essential if they want me to contact them

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land


"makes me laugh with the don't pass this one up they only met only once hmmm"

I have something along those lines on my veri's.... the repeat veri's I dont always show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications are always a good starting place - you get a flavour of the people you may meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"makes me laugh with the don't pass this one up they only met only once hmmm

Yes and 'treat her with the respect she deserves' is a classic haha

There should be 'verification bingo' on this site. I have both the above on mine somewhere. "

Haha yess! They must just copy paste and add a bit

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By *unkydesignCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We were wondering the same thing. We are new to the site and new to the scene. We assumed photo verification would be enough to prove we are genuine.

We're not keen on the idea of individual verifications like we need marking out of ten or whatever. We like what we do to remain a private moment to be remembered by the parties involved, not shared with strangers on the internet.

Do we have to give up our privacy and have verifications in order for people to be assured we are genuine?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

They are useful in showing that they are genuine, but not fool proof. I had a single woman look at my profile earlier and found that 2-3 of her pics could be found on various websites by using google reverse image search.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just one of the tools we use when making a decision about who we're talking to...not the whole blow by blow account but the turned up, looked like their pictures, weren't shy about playing...also useful is the "filled me with hot spunk" ones when their profile states they play safe...

You have to rely on all the other things too...common sense, not thinking with your little head, etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were wondering the same thing. We are new to the site and new to the scene. We assumed photo verification would be enough to prove we are genuine.

We're not keen on the idea of individual verifications like we need marking out of ten or whatever. We like what we do to remain a private moment to be remembered by the parties involved, not shared with strangers on the internet.

Do we have to give up our privacy and have verifications in order for people to be assured we are genuine? "

We don't even look to see if someone's been photo verified...they're as much use as cam veris to us...they give no indication of whether or not you actually play or not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're a part of the picture but not all of it. I've met a few unverified guys and never had any issues, but sometimes veri's can help tip the scale a little...and that's not necessarily about graphic content from the meet but sometimes you can get a 'feel' for people if there is a common theme to the veri's

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"We were wondering the same thing. We are new to the site and new to the scene. We assumed photo verification would be enough to prove we are genuine.

We're not keen on the idea of individual verifications like we need marking out of ten or whatever. We like what we do to remain a private moment to be remembered by the parties involved, not shared with strangers on the internet.

Do we have to give up our privacy and have verifications in order for people to be assured we are genuine? "

I would guess the way forward for you guys would be to go to a social or a club and display veris that say things like 'Met this charming couple the other night....'. That should not invade privacy??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications are a complex matter.

I've had messages from interested ladies purely because they loved my verifications, I've had repeat meets where the person wasn't verified and didn't want me to verify her either and then I've had someone verify but she asked me not to display to keep people away from her profile.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I do enjoy reading verifications. You can get a feel for a person.

For example if they have lots of - "pity he had to dash off, time was short etc." I am not interested as I like long meets.

Obviously you take them with a pinch if salt. Except those wrote for me of course. Every single word is meant. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We take them serious! We just wish we had some hahaha!!! C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do enjoy reading verifications. You can get a feel for a person.

For example if they have lots of - "pity he had to dash off, time was short etc." I am not interested as I like long meets.

Obviously you take them with a pinch if salt. Except those wrote for me of course. Every single word is meant. Lol. "

I would love a verification from you....I know it would mean something

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By *unkydesignCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Thanks for the advice. Next time we visit a club we will try to get verified by somebody we meet. We only found out about this site after our last visit, everybody mentioned it so I'm sure somebody will say something nice if we ask them politely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were wondering the same thing. We are new to the site and new to the scene. We assumed photo verification would be enough to prove we are genuine.

We're not keen on the idea of individual verifications like we need marking out of ten or whatever. We like what we do to remain a private moment to be remembered by the parties involved, not shared with strangers on the internet.

Do we have to give up our privacy and have verifications in order for people to be assured we are genuine? "

No! It's your life, do what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"makes me laugh with the don't pass this one up they only met only once hmmm

Yes and 'treat her with the respect she deserves' is a classic haha"

have you been looking at my profile???

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Like all things on here, take verifications (or lack of them) with a measured approach, and you'll have a much better time.

It shouldn't be the be all and end all of selection criteria (humans lie, who knew), but at the same time, chances are people with veris are less likely to be fake.

Use your brain, and the site the way you want to. Have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"makes me laugh with the don't pass this one up they only met only once hmmm

Yes and 'treat her with the respect she deserves' is a classic haha

have you been looking at my profile??? "

And the other 1000

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