FabSwingers.com forum: Is there ever a natural end to the Swinging life?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hiya,

Im new to the forum, however not to the site.

I have swung, on and off, for the past 13 years. I just wondered whether any members go through phases where meeting people feels more complex then it should?

Have any of you completely quit meeting people to swing but remain on the site for the cameraderie and titillation?

Random topic, I guess but always interesting to find out what people think and feel about the lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everything has a sell by date, if we don't grow we die.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've been swinging on and off for 15 years. I stopped for two years in 2007 and did not miss it. I also have mini breaks where I hide my profile on here and just use the forums.

If my life changes my priorities change, and swinging is just a (nice) part of my life.

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By *r_Darcy40Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet then don't for long periods . Depends on how busy I am and what moods I'm in. Have not had a regular fun partner or couple in a while so now on the hunt again.

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By *r_Darcy40Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

Okay just want to make another comment about my post just recently. Sorry how it came across if people were offended etc. I took some advice yeah we all have choice on here it was just merely an observation and a thought i had about the topic. I been on here along long time over 4 years so have seen various profiles etc. But i also know alot of fake profiles too

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By *r_Darcy40Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, everything comes to an end.

with this when we stop enjoying it then it will come to an end.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey Mr Darcy,

Stop threadjacking

just kidding! Could see you point however its all just so subjective and individual.

When you swing for that long continuously, things do get irritating quite quickly I guess. Maybe a break is due and then when back it may feel nice and fresh again.

I've had long gaps, then times when meet ups haven't quite worked. Typically with other Bi females, just because we are all picky, demand is high, choice is plentiful, some are actually men, or circumstances have not worked out. Once I feel myself taking it all too seriously, I have a break.

Helps to put it back in its place as a nice addition to my life not my life in totality.

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By *dward and WallisCouple
over a year ago

lincoln

Yes!!When you are 6ft under

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ha Ha, Edward and Wallis - like that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone x

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

everything comes to an end eventually

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

"everything comes to an end eventually"

So true!

Karen gre bored with the scene and wanted a break back in 2011. To date she has shown no inclination of returning. So although we keep in touch via the forums, partying looks out for the foreseeable future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose when we stop enjoying it or if family priorities change then we would probably call an end to it, but so far we're still having fun and enjoying ourselves xx

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

yes... same as anything...

if you dont enjoy it, and it is not something you have to do... don't do it!!!

same thing in swinging as for example in my job, the day I feel like "i don't want to do this anymore" is the day to move on.....

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By *dditional-1Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Hi there,

I have been swinging on and off a few years now and without blowing my own trumpet I have done ok met some nice people and have my regulars.

So I guess it depends on the success you have had !

It's not that easy as we all know.

So some come on here expecting so much then get frustrated then leave.

But if you have had success and still are there's no need to stop lol

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

i was swinging for years with my ex ,took breaks cos of family probs .but he always wanted to go back to it ,he used to say its like an addiction you cant give it up

the bitch he left me for was someone we

met thru swinging and he told me he had told her they would have to give it up .

as for me i gave up when i met a guy last year never told him about my swinging so dipped back in after i dumped him x

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

there lies the problem when one cant give up

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We have been swinging on and off for around 10 years. We will often take time out when it starts to be become frustrating rather than fun.

Imagine there will come a time when we just won't come back...but can't see that happening for quite a while yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think maybe this is where we are at the mo, the hassle of arranging it all with potential let downs doesnt seem worth it, but i still like to chat with sexually open minded, i'll never say never but im certainly not that bothered right now! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a swinger always a swinger .

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By *atelotmanMan
over a year ago

Chatham

For me I think the end of my life as a swinger is here more or less.The age thing seems to be a problem for 99% of the ladies now a days.

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