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Chicken and egg verification!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been on here for 5 weeks now. I can't get verified because no one I want to meet will meet me 'cos I'm not verified! Help!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have they said its because you're unverified?

Could be any number of other reasons you know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing is to get a webcam and go into the chat rooms and get a few webcam versifications first then that will help.

Spend a bit of time getting to know a few in there in and around your location too.

It will help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on here for 5 weeks now. I can't get verified because no one I want to meet will meet me 'cos I'm not verified! Help!"

Tbh. It could also be due to your profile being erm, well, crap really. Try adding what you bring to a meet, and what your looking for.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I've been on here for 5 weeks now. I can't get verified because no one I want to meet will meet me 'cos I'm not verified! Help!

Tbh. It could also be due to your profile being erm, well, crap really. Try adding what you bring to a meet, and what your looking for."

This ^^^^^^^^^^^

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

7 out of 12 pics are your cock, 7 words on your profile and hnable to accommodate. Got sod all to do with verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep that all right lol

put some effort in

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

have to agree i think it is more likely the profile in general rather than the lack of verifications ! but good luck !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We haven't got any meets, but have done cam, and more soon too, maybe later. If you put a nice profile out, reply and send messages, and just keep an eye out... It will happen. We have only been here a week, and feel a bit bummed theres no meet. But then... WE HAVE ONLY BEEN HERE A WEEK!

Romania wasn't built in a wheelie bin! C x

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

A lot of socials coming up everywhere,

effort in = effort out

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there


"Best thing is to get a webcam and go into the chat rooms and get a few webcam versifications first then that will help.

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According to the sites FAQ's single guys cannot be webcam verified. Seems not to be enforced though as plenty of guys have only cam veri's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not sure if that applies bit unfair to target single guys only with that, Its hard enough on here as it is.

I think to be web cam verity is a good start along with putting some effort into your profile details.

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there

I can see the point though, who is going to pretend to be a single guy? Cam veri's only prove that someone looks like their pics, or that they are actually female, or that there are actually two people on a couples profile. And it's not like they are infallible, it would be fairly easy to take some cam footage from elsewhere online and convince someone that's who they're chatting to, you only need to fool one person and then you're verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree but but I think its still a good start and also chatting for a while to someone on web cam can lead to a meet its worked for me.

Lot more proof than those who want a phone call before they will meet you.

It could be anyone on the end of the phone they could be cheating and taking the phone call elsewere.

I still think a webcam is a good way to get to know people to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree but but I think its still a good start and also chatting for a while to someone on web cam can lead to a meet its worked for me.

Lot more proof than those who want a phone call before they will meet you.

It could be anyone on the end of the phone they could be cheating and taking the phone call elsewere.

I still think a webcam is a good way to get to know people to

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But, not everyone enjoys using cam. And a phne call at least lets you know whether the person your arranging to meet is actually the sex they claim to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it doesn't though does it ive heard were the female is someone else as part of a wind up and or they are cheating and a mobile can be taken anywere away from there real partner is located i.e. take the call in a car friends house etc

I've called two couples recently who turned out to be time wasters but my meets were Ive cammed with people before hand no problems what so ever.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Righto, here is the answer you need....

You have only been on here 5 weeks! You are a mere beginner. If you thought it could be an Instant Fix site, an answer to your wishes, then dream on, as it takes time!

Your Profile is way too short and lacks information. You have to expand on it and say more!

You can't accommodate, but don't state why you can't. That puts people off, so you have to say why!

Ditch the cock pics for Private use; you should really have a facial pic up on your profile as people like to see a face. Think about it, if you go to meet someone you recognise them by their face, not their genitals.

Get into the Forums and to socials and clubs in your region.

It's all about being noticed; you effectively have to "sell" yourself as you are competing against so many other guys.

Overall, it takes time, perseverance, patience, and.... even more patience! Good Luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

time and effort is key

Clubs and GB is also the start of for all newbys a few social events here and ther ....so glad im way past that point u can also av too many so it still can be a hindrence for fun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it doesn't though does it ive heard were the female is someone else as part of a wind up and or they are cheating and a mobile can be taken anywere away from there real partner is located i.e. take the call in a car friends house etc

I've called two couples recently who turned out to be time wasters but my meets were Ive cammed with people before hand no problems what so ever.

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Erm, if was arranging a meet with a lass, and a guy answered the phone, then i wouldn't meet. So how does a phone call not help? And as i said, not everyne has a cam, or even likes them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you have a 7 word profile and are wearing ladies panties in one of your pics!

That may just be why!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it doesn't though does it ive heard were the female is someone else as part of a wind up and or they are cheating and a mobile can be taken anywere away from there real partner is located i.e. take the call in a car friends house etc

I've called two couples recently who turned out to be time wasters but my meets were Ive cammed with people before hand no problems what so ever.

Erm, if was arranging a meet with a lass, and a guy answered the phone, then i wouldn't meet. So how does a phone call not help? And as i said, not everyne has a cam, or even likes them."

cause she did answer and spoke to them and they never turned up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it doesn't though does it ive heard were the female is someone else as part of a wind up and or they are cheating and a mobile can be taken anywere away from there real partner is located i.e. take the call in a car friends house etc

I've called two couples recently who turned out to be time wasters but my meets were Ive cammed with people before hand no problems what so ever.

Erm, if was arranging a meet with a lass, and a guy answered the phone, then i wouldn't meet. So how does a phone call not help? And as i said, not everyne has a cam, or even likes them.

cause she did answer and spoke to them and they never turned up"

And a cam session would solve this in what way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it doesn't though does it ive heard were the female is someone else as part of a wind up and or they are cheating and a mobile can be taken anywere away from there real partner is located i.e. take the call in a car friends house etc

I've called two couples recently who turned out to be time wasters but my meets were Ive cammed with people before hand no problems what so ever.

Erm, if was arranging a meet with a lass, and a guy answered the phone, then i wouldn't meet. So how does a phone call not help? And as i said, not everyne has a cam, or even likes them.

cause she did answer and spoke to them and they never turned up

And a cam session would solve this in what way?"

is that about opinion or you just not giving in like a child grow up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it doesn't though does it ive heard were the female is someone else as part of a wind up and or they are cheating and a mobile can be taken anywere away from there real partner is located i.e. take the call in a car friends house etc

I've called two couples recently who turned out to be time wasters but my meets were Ive cammed with people before hand no problems what so ever.

Erm, if was arranging a meet with a lass, and a guy answered the phone, then i wouldn't meet. So how does a phone call not help? And as i said, not everyne has a cam, or even likes them.

cause she did answer and spoke to them and they never turned up

And a cam session would solve this in what way?

is that about opinion or you just not giving in like a child grow up"

Nope. It's about this being an open forum, where we are entitled to our own opinions. And also about genuine curiousity about how camming can prevent fakes not turning for meets. Which is why i asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well in my experience when I have cammed with a couple they have turned up and had a good meet on two occasions I have chatted to couples and they were time wasters and yes I spoke to the woman on the phone.

I agree nether is full proof but even meeting in person isn't because they might have been to socials but never play on a meet even though they give the impression they have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well in my experience when I have cammed with a couple they have turned up and had a good meet on two occasions I have chatted to couples and they were time wasters and yes I spoke to the woman on the phone.

I agree nether is full proof but even meeting in person isn't because they might have been to socials but never play on a meet even though they give the impression they have

"

And that's all i was asking. Your way works for you, other's ways work for them.

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