FabSwingers.com forum: Should have known better...

By *estlands4 OP Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

Ok I see a new local female profile over the weekend and notice she was kik too - we exchange a few messages get on ok and she wants a meet this morning...

Now it turned out I was going to be fairly local anyway so thought hell why not let's run with it. So she gives me the post code and says message me on kik when you arrive....

So I get there and guess what this female is actually a bloke but I can fuck his gf next time she's in Devon so long as he can wank/suck me off !!

Now not being bi at all I was not interested but was left horny and frustrated

Grrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should of just closed your eyes and accepted his offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always AT LEAST try talk via phone before meeting. Sorts the wheat from the chaffe so to speak. But, i'd report the profile to admin.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Always AT LEAST try talk via phone before meeting. Sorts the wheat from the chaffe so to speak. But, i'd report the profile to admin."

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By *MOOTH AND ROUGHCouple
over a year ago

tamworth

"Should of just closed your eyes and accepted his offer

And not told anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This must happen more often than we hear about. I also heard of this happening to a guy who also thought he was meeting a girl, but after he got over being pissed he said he accepted the BJ, because he drove so far for the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always AT LEAST try talk via phone before meeting. Sorts the wheat from the chaffe so to speak. But, i'd report the profile to admin.

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By *ubkentguyMan
over a year ago

TUNBRIDGE WELLS

"Should of just closed your eyes and accepted his offer

I would of. Good answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many bullshiters on here wish admin would do more to get rid of these sad individuals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the peril of arranging meets with a new profile and no proper contact !

When will people learn that you can't tell the sex/age/location of someone via electronic communication - be that a message on here, an email or a text - regardless of how good the pretty pictures are or how convincing they sound!!

It's why there's a verification system on here - which whilst not foolproof at least gives some reassurance that others can confirm the existence of someone!!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Too many bullshiters on here wish admin would do more to get rid of these sad individuals "

It's up to the individual to take the necessary precautions before a meet though surely?? If the op had insisted on a phone call he wouldn't of been caught out and the profile could of been reported with no harm done!

How is admin to know it was a fake profile? They can't ring everyone to check

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same sort of thing happened to me when i first joined the site and was a bit naive.

I was mailing a lass and we agreed for her to come to mine that afternoon. A couple hours later, my door went. When i opened it, standing there was a guy, dressed in what was obviously his shorter wifes frock!! I was mortified. And my next door neighbour still looks at me funny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many bullshiters on here wish admin would do more to get rid of these sad individuals

How is admin to know it was a fake profile? They can't ring everyone to check"

But u can report fakes to thm and still u c there still on here, totally agree though I would always insist on a fonecall before a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo a problem on this site, too many fakes!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow I would defiantly report him for being a fake. I think it's a small minority that don't respect peoples boundaries mess it up for everyone else

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Too many bullshiters on here wish admin would do more to get rid of these sad individuals

How is admin to know it was a fake profile? They can't ring everyone to check

But u can report fakes to thm and still u c there still on here, totally agree though I would always insist on a fonecall before a meet

Yes but if no one ever messages/arranged meets with the fakes by checking beforehand that it was a single fem (for example) they'd soon get bored. It's only because they reel people in that they carry on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those pesky single men pretending to be women. Those pesky single men pretending to be couples, those pesky single men... Ermmmm actually I like single men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those pesky single men pretending to be women. Those pesky single men pretending to be couples, those pesky single men... Ermmmm actually I like single men

And those pesky 'single' women that only meet with their male fb!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those pesky single men pretending to be women. Those pesky single men pretending to be couples, those pesky single men... Ermmmm actually I like single men

Those pesky little men who don't use common sense and let the little head rule the big head and then wonder why they get suckered by fake profiles...

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By *estlands4 OP Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

Thanks for all telling me what I know lol - I guess I knew when i set out that there was a good chance of it being a waste of time - I was half tempted to take him up on his offer but it really isn't my thing - he bottled it anyway as I was going to confront him

Mind you ladies were it any of you I would definitely have closed my ideas and smiled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

even better cam with them before arranging a meet the female on the end of the phone could be someone else and its a wind up and a phone can be taken anywere so they could be cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many bullshiters on here wish admin would do more to get rid of these sad individuals "

Admin can't do anything unless profiles are reported,and in the case of the OP a phone call would have saved him the trouble if going to the meet,people need to use some common sense when it comes to arranging meets,its not all down to admin

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