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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK, I love straight men who are filthy enough to suck cock. Now I have this argument all the time with people. Bisexual is defined as being attracted to both sexes, but I like men who are totally straight but enjoy cock, whether in and of itself or whether as part of an mmf only, to please a woman.

What do you think? Can you be straight and just a perverted cock sucker? Or are you a bi man in denial?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi.

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

This should be interesting...go girl...settling back for a read...

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Straight man who sucks cock is not straight.

Have a great day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's finding bulls who don't mind husband sucking them that we find tricky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes them bisexual without question

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I personally believe a straight man would not indulge in any sexual activity with another man.

but many will come on and say it is the environment, the moment, the situation, etc etc and that is cool as that is their opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo not straight lol bi or curious lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But seriously, they do not fancy men, would never kiss etc.

There is a whole porn industry around straight men fucking straight men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a very open minded person, but trying to think that there can be a straight guy so comfortable in himself that he can suck cock, yet NOT refer to himself as bi....is a tad hard to believe, not saying you haven't run across those in denial, just saying this thread should be very very interesting to say the least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy sucking another guys cock is a sexual act is it not?...So a sexual act between 2 men would make them bi or gay would it not?... simples

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"But seriously, they do not fancy men, would never kiss etc.

There is a whole porn industry around straight men fucking straight men."

probably starring bi guys pretending to be straight, or gay for pay

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a very open minded person, but trying to think that there can be a straight guy so comfortable in himself that he can suck cock, yet NOT refer to himself as bi....is a tad hard to believe, not saying you haven't run across those in denial, just saying this thread should be very very interesting to say the least "

That's good right? Interesting is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But seriously, they do not fancy men, would never kiss etc.

There is a whole porn industry around straight men fucking straight men."

they are in denial..they just dont like being labelled!.... most male porn stars are bi...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy fucking a guy is not straight! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But seriously, they do not fancy men, would never kiss etc.

There is a whole porn industry around straight men fucking straight men.

they are in denial..they just dont like being labelled!.... most male porn stars are bi... "

A lot are straight, there is just so much more money involved for guys doing gay/bi porn.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A guy fucking a guy is not straight! X"

Oh no I didn't mention fucking. Just sucking cock and maybe getting fucked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But seriously, they do not fancy men, would never kiss etc.

There is a whole porn industry around straight men fucking straight men.

they are in denial..they just dont like being labelled!.... most male porn stars are bi...

A lot are straight, there is just so much more money involved for guys doing gay/bi porn. "

See this!! I watched a TV programme about porn and the guy was straight, he said the above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are so obsessed with these labels. People are sexual. Everyone has a limit. Stop judging yourselves. If a woman sucks one nipple at an orgy is she bisexual? If a woman held another's breast in a group situation should the straight woman demand an apology?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But seriously, they do not fancy men, would never kiss etc.

There is a whole porn industry around straight men fucking straight men.

they are in denial..they just dont like being labelled!.... most male porn stars are bi...

A lot are straight, there is just so much more money involved for guys doing gay/bi porn. "

In porn they are paid but I gathered we were talking reality are we not? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But seriously, they do not fancy men, would never kiss etc.

There is a whole porn industry around straight men fucking straight men.

they are in denial..they just dont like being labelled!.... most male porn stars are bi...

A lot are straight, there is just so much more money involved for guys doing gay/bi porn. "
haha then refer to my 1st post....they are prepared to turn bi to earn more money....there are no grey areas in this in my opinion.. if you perform sexual acts with the same sex you are not straight.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes reality. Indeed. But that point was that men can do it for porn and for pleasing another person (always a woman obviously).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married and I'm bi I'm not out so nobody knows if your straight you wouldn't suck a guys cock simple as that they just won't admit they are bi

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By *r and mrs bangerboobsCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend


"People are so obsessed with these labels. People are sexual. Everyone has a limit. Stop judging yourselves. If a woman sucks one nipple at an orgy is she bisexual? If a woman held another's breast in a group situation should the straight woman demand an apology?"

Was just about to post something similar - you saved me the effort , thank you lol

Mrs BB x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But seriously, they do not fancy men, would never kiss etc.

There is a whole porn industry around straight men fucking straight men."

Well I don't like to kiss guys (don't like stubble) but I love to suck a cock and take it too.

Apologies to the guys I did snog two weeks ago in chams: I was rather d*unk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes reality. Indeed. But that point was that men can do it for porn and for pleasing another person (always a woman obviously). "

I just think to do it they must have something in them to attract then to do so. Therefore they can't be "straight". I hate labels lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm married and I'm bi I'm not out so nobody knows if your straight you wouldn't suck a guys cock simple as that they just won't admit they are bi "

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By *wingerdelightCouple
over a year ago

eastliegh

I don't fancy men but love to suck Cock so class myself as bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the title doesnt compute. straight guys and sucking cock doesnt happen

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

This reminds me of my vegetarian friend who used to have a bacon sandwich on a Sunday morning.

Not a vegetarian!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't fancy men but love to suck Cock so class myself as bi"

Exactly it's like fucking someone your not attracted to, but you've performed and act that isn't straight lol xx

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By *omerset-filthCouple
over a year ago

Taunton

I have made my guy suck and wank another for my pleasure he hates doing it my I love it so he does as he is told lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This reminds me of my vegetarian friend who used to have a bacon sandwich on a Sunday morning.

Not a vegetarian! "

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

its not that easy to define.ive sucked 100s of cocks as a tranny so im bi..or at least samantha is

as a guy i have no interest in other men at all ...i dont find guys a turn on ..insomuch as them making me hard .i get aroused when im sucking cock and dressed up .not becaues i think theyre sexy

also i recently joined squirt ..the gay sex site ..its full of guys that are convinced theyre straight so im really not sure whats going on there.

most of the guys i meet say there straight a s they think it'll put of the girls ..best not to label people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's not about labels as such, I hate them too tbh. My idea of the perfect world would be the ability to enjoy all experiences without worrying about them. I love the idea that you would share bodies of people you found attractive no matter what sex or orientation. I define myself as pansexul (she says labelling it). I have sex with people I have chemistry with and who I find interesting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have made my guy suck and wank another for my pleasure he hates doing it my I love it so he does as he is told lol"

This!! Yum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not about labels as such, I hate them too tbh. My idea of the perfect world would be the ability to enjoy all experiences without worrying about them. I love the idea that you would share bodies of people you found attractive no matter what sex or orientation. I define myself as pansexul (she says labelling it). I have sex with people I have chemistry with and who I find interesting."

I like that label xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not about labels as such, I hate them too tbh. My idea of the perfect world would be the ability to enjoy all experiences without worrying about them. I love the idea that you would share bodies of people you found attractive no matter what sex or orientation. I define myself as pansexul (she says labelling it). I have sex with people I have chemistry with and who I find interesting.

I like that label xx"

Thank you!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not about labels as such, I hate them too tbh. My idea of the perfect world would be the ability to enjoy all experiences without worrying about them. I love the idea that you would share bodies of people you found attractive no matter what sex or orientation. I define myself as pansexul (she says labelling it). I have sex with people I have chemistry with and who I find interesting.

I like that label xx"

Indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like to think we are all one big curious bunch that enjoy new experiences and people xx

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am very rarely attracted to the guy, it is his big cock I like sucking

I ain't straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 09/11/13 13:48:56]"

Hate when posts are removed lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a very open minded person, but trying to think that there can be a straight guy so comfortable in himself that he can suck cock, yet NOT refer to himself as bi....is a tad hard to believe, not saying you haven't run across those in denial, just saying this thread should be very very interesting to say the least

That's good right? Interesting is good. "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I discussed this very subject with a good friend. He explained that while he considers himself straight, the sensation of a mouth or hand on his cock is the pleasantly the same - whether it's done by a woman or a man. If there's a difference, it's a moral one; social, religious... those are the factors that will add the forbidden, naughtiness, guilt. If you can take it for what it is, just pure pleasure for the moment, and not differentiate between the others you're with - be they men or women, then he nor I have no problem with the 'straight label', if there needs to be one.

If a man seeks the company of another man without a woman present, however, then it's a totally different scenario.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I discussed this very subject with a good friend. He explained that while he considers himself straight, the sensation of a mouth or hand on his cock is the pleasantly the same - whether it's done by a woman or a man. If there's a difference, it's a moral one; social, religious... those are the factors that will add the forbidden, naughtiness, guilt. If you can take it for what it is, just pure pleasure for the moment, and not differentiate between the others you're with - be they men or women, then he nor I have no problem with the 'straight label', if there needs to be one.

If a man seeks the company of another man without a woman present, however, then it's a totally different scenario.

"

Yes yes yes!! This.

Although this was just a fun discussion. My kink is the idea that a straight guy will play with a cock for me. For the pleasure it gives me seeing a macho man submit to pleasure for me. I once watched a film where a group of gay guys forced a gay man to have sex with a woman who was massively into gay men. It was wrong but very hot. I'm twisted I know....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are so obsessed with these labels. People are sexual. Everyone has a limit. Stop judging yourselves. If a woman sucks one nipple at an orgy is she bisexual? If a woman held another's breast in a group situation should the straight woman demand an apology?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK, I love straight men who are filthy enough to suck cock. Now I have this argument all the time with people. Bisexual is defined as being attracted to both sexes, but I like men who are totally straight but enjoy cock, whether in and of itself or whether as part of an mmf only, to please a woman.

What do you think? Can you be straight and just a perverted cock sucker? Or are you a bi man in denial?"

over all I would say if you suck cock your bi

however

I know a male escort from many years ago who claims hes not bi regardless of the fact he has bookings by men

his reason for this is he don't find men attractive, he does not enjoy sex with men, he does not play with men in his own time, he shags men for money pure and simple

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton


"I discussed this very subject with a good friend. He explained that while he considers himself straight, the sensation of a mouth or hand on his cock is the pleasantly the same - whether it's done by a woman or a man. If there's a difference, it's a moral one; social, religious... those are the factors that will add the forbidden, naughtiness, guilt. If you can take it for what it is, just pure pleasure for the moment, and not differentiate between the others you're with - be they men or women, then he nor I have no problem with the 'straight label', if there needs to be one."

I believe that sums up how I am with this. I have met men and enjoy being sucked and touched, but I don't like kissing them or sucking them, although I have done that too. As I have had those experiences, I have labelled myself on here as bi-curious, but deep down I regard myself as straight and would prefer pussy over cock every time.

In my case, any sexual contact is better than none, but that doesn't mean I am bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion. If a guy only has sex with a female, he's hetrosexual. If he has sex with male and female, he's bisexual. If he only has sex with other men, he's homosexual.

There is no such thing as pansexual, asexual or any other ?sexual!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares! As long as the people in question are happy that is all that matters! Why are we so obsessed with labelling people! ! Straight ...bi ... lesbian...bi casual. .god its endless bullshit...... just be youself and enjoy! !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who cares! As long as the people in question are happy that is all that matters! Why are we so obsessed with labelling people! ! Straight ...bi ... lesbian...bi casual. .god its endless bullshit...... just be youself and enjoy! ! "

Oh it was just a fun discussion which spun off from a chat I was having with a friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who cares! As long as the people in question are happy that is all that matters! Why are we so obsessed with labelling people! ! Straight ...bi ... lesbian...bi casual. .god its endless bullshit...... just be youself and enjoy! ! "

I'm guessing because people on a sex site want to know who they are going to be meeting. And if their prospective meet is lying about their sexuality, what else are they lying about?

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By *ancs30Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

If I dont mind who sucks my cock.. but dont suck cocks and I Bi...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who cares! As long as the people in question are happy that is all that matters! Why are we so obsessed with labelling people! ! Straight ...bi ... lesbian...bi casual. .god its endless bullshit...... just be yourself and enjoy! ! "

I agree!..each to their own we are what we are and do whatever we do because we enjoy it...i do not judge people on their sexuality.......if it feels good...Do it!....like the lady says...its just a discussion.

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By *ancs30Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

If I dont mind who sucks my cock.. but dont suck cocks am I Bi...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

straight there not what i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why be labelled or pigeonholed? Labels shouldn't exist as we all have preferences and know our own limitations

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By *ndymanchester1Man
over a year ago

salford

does a bisexual guy have to attracted to guys. I cant say I fancy men, but I do enjoy sucking a guy in a 3sum, not really into meeting guys 121. Still can't see myself as any thing other than bisexual, because my definition is has sex with both sexes not attracted to them. sorry for long answer lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why be labelled or pigeonholed? Labels shouldn't exist as we all have preferences and know our own limitations"

Maybe because labels help us choose what we want? After all, if you wanted a tin of beans, doesn't it help having a label on the tin? That way, we don't get spaghetti instead!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haven't read all the posts on this, but this is exactly how i'd look at myself! Straight guy, no attraction to men but suck cock now and then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have partaken while being turned on by a woman ...couldnt happen without a woman being there and enjoying the frission of the event and i am totally straight

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why be labelled or pigeonholed? Labels shouldn't exist as we all have preferences and know our own limitations

Maybe because labels help us choose what we want? After all, if you wanted a tin of beans, doesn't it help having a label on the tin? That way, we don't get spaghetti instead! "

Fantastic post!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have partaken while being turned on by a woman ...couldnt happen without a woman being there and enjoying the frission of the event and i am totally straight "

Christ that is some cock!!!!

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By *ndymanchester1Man
over a year ago

salford


"Have partaken while being turned on by a woman ...couldnt happen without a woman being there and enjoying the frission of the event and i am totally straight "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does a bisexual guy have to attracted to guys. I cant say I fancy men, but I do enjoy sucking a guy in a 3sum, not really into meeting guys 121. Still can't see myself as any thing other than bisexual, because my definition is has sex with both sexes not attracted to them. sorry for long answer lol "

Well, if we stick with the beans/spaghetti analogy, this poster is straight. To me, a bisexual is physically attracted to both sexes, and will want to have sex with either, even when the opposite gender is not there.

Guess we need a new label, then. 'Straight-without-being-anal'?

Oooops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does a bisexual guy have to attracted to guys. I cant say I fancy men, but I do enjoy sucking a guy in a 3sum, not really into meeting guys 121. Still can't see myself as any thing other than bisexual, because my definition is has sex with both sexes not attracted to them. sorry for long answer lol

Well, if we stick with the beans/spaghetti analogy, this poster is straight. To me, a bisexual is physically attracted to both sexes, and will want to have sex with either, even when the opposite gender is not there.

Guess we need a new label, then. 'Straight-without-being-anal'?

Oooops "

Or, "will only suck the spaghetti if bean can be flicked'!

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


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There is a whole porn industry around straight men fucking straight men."

I hate to break it to you but porn is not real life

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"In my opinion. If a guy only has sex with a female, he's hetrosexual. If he has sex with male and female, he's bisexual. If he only has sex with other men, he's homosexual.

There is no such thing as pansexual, asexual or any other ?sexual!!

"

Hedgerowsexual. Someone who enjoys sex in the countryside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

There is a whole porn industry around straight men fucking straight men.

I hate to break it to you but porn is not real life "

Ssshhhh! They're probably waiting on the 'straight' pizza guy coming with their 'delivery'!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

There is a whole porn industry around straight men fucking straight men.

I hate to break it to you but porn is not real life "

Seriously?! That's going to big time upset a lot of people....

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

Bi but do talk to str8 guys who like the idea of sucking cock x

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By *rBrownnSexyMan
over a year ago

Destination Unknown Munster

No way!! You can suck mine maybe. if you let me fuck your wife. lol

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester


"No way!! You can suck mine maybe. if you let me fuck your wife. lol "
wish i was married looking At urs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy engaging in any form of sexual act with another guy isn't straight.

However it's up to the individual for them to class their sexuality.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clearly makes a guy Bi if he wants to suck cock, if he detests he is obviously in denial about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clearly makes a guy Bi if he wants to suck cock, if he detests he is obviously in denial about it."

Do you mean protests? Cos i would detest suckin cock and i certainly ain't in denial!

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

Straight men do not suck cock. Hence they are straight.

Bi or gay men suck cock. Hence they are bi or gay.

Just our opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An excellent op and some well thought out responses .

I believe 'tags' are worthwhile to establish what we may be getting ourselves into .... however there comes a time when breaking free is tempting .

I have had guys suck my cock ( for my wifes pleasure ) and certainly don't consider myself bi as I have no desire to reciprocate .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are at a stage in your swinging journey as a man and you are willing to suck another mans cock then I'm sorry fella's u ain't straight no more. Don't be embarrassed and just be comfortable with who you are it doesn't mean you're a raging homosexual but I def think you should change your profile to either bi or bi curious...I mean ffs guys you want to suck another mans dick..that's not straight lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have partaken while being turned on by a woman ...couldnt happen without a woman being there and enjoying the frission of the event and i am totally straight "

So, does that mean a guy that DOESN'T suck cock, (no matter what the situation is), is straight'er' than you? Because, speaking as a straight guy, no way would cock get near my mouth in ANY circumstances!!

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.


"Have partaken while being turned on by a woman ...couldnt happen without a woman being there and enjoying the frission of the event and i am totally straight

So, does that mean a guy that DOESN'T suck cock, (no matter what the situation is), is straight'er' than you? Because, speaking as a straight guy, no way would cock get near my mouth in ANY circumstances!! "

If in the heat of any situation a guy made any sexual advances toward me murder would be done.

A.

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over a year ago


"If you are at a stage in your swinging journey as a man and you are willing to suck another mans cock then I'm sorry fella's u ain't straight no more. Don't be embarrassed and just be comfortable with who you are it doesn't mean you're a raging homosexual but I def think you should change your profile to either bi or bi curious...I mean ffs guys you want to suck another mans dick..that's not straight lol "

I do not agree. If, when participating in a three- or moresome (MMF, MMMF, MMFF) situation, a man is happy to include another male in the pleasuring, but does not have this inclination otherwise, then as far as I am concerned he's just a straight man who is not hung up about touching/being touched by another male.

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

if another guy sucks cock and thinks he is straight, well IMO hes as straight as a roundabout. HEs gay or bi, impossible to be straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If labelling is deemed necessary to allow prospective customers an informed choice, how about 'bi-flexible'?

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By *r and mrs bangerboobsCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Y wood ( straight ) men suc cock? I 4 1 wood never suc a cock. No matter the bribe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But seriously, they do not fancy men, would never kiss etc.

There is a whole porn industry around straight men fucking straight men.

they are in denial..they just dont like being labelled!.... most male porn stars are bi... "
So in a mmf night of fun when two men penetrate a pussy is that bi activity?

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By *r and mrs bangerboobsCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend

There are some very narrow minded _iews above - such a shame to see on a site such as this.

Mrs BB x x

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

bi in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are at a stage in your swinging journey as a man and you are willing to suck another mans cock then I'm sorry fella's u ain't straight no more. Don't be embarrassed and just be comfortable with who you are it doesn't mean you're a raging homosexual but I def think you should change your profile to either bi or bi curious...I mean ffs guys you want to suck another mans dick..that's not straight lol

I do not agree. If, when participating in a three- or moresome (MMF, MMMF, MMFF) situation, a man is happy to include another male in the pleasuring, but does not have this inclination otherwise, then as far as I am concerned he's just a straight man who is not hung up about touching/being touched by another male. "

There's a difference between not being hung up about touching/being touched in the heat of the moment, and gagging on a cock that's being thrust down your throat though! I've had a guy place my cock at his wifes pussy. Doesn't mean i'd let him suck it though! Or suck his.

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By *heekyFiferMan
over a year ago

Lochgelly

I would class myself as straight as have no intentions of performing any sexual act with a man....however if I was in a threesome and the lady wanted the other guy to wank or suck me off then I would agree to it.....I would not do that to another man though.....and I would not agree to him going near my ass with his cock but I would let the lady do me with a strap-on.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Debate - Straight men who suck cock.. no such thing... they are bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But seriously, they do not fancy men, would never kiss etc.

There is a whole porn industry around straight men fucking straight men.

they are in denial..they just dont like being labelled!.... most male porn stars are bi... So in a mmf night of fun when two men penetrate a pussy is that bi activity?"

Nope. Because they aren't having sex with each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I like men who are totally straight but enjoy cock, ?"

Not possible, only straight if you don't enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a difference between not being hung up about touching/being touched in the heat of the moment, and gagging on a cock that's being thrust down your throat though!"

You really have no idea what 'pleasuring' means, do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK well I state on here that I'm bi coz bi curious to me means just the same as a lipstick lesbian. In life I'm a strait man but given the rite situation and looks cock an body I love a good fuck session with a man iv had 2 guys at same time been spit roasted licked them out swallowed there cum an taken it up my ass but they must be good lookin no fattys or hairys under 50 and very clean basically I want a woman with a cock It turns me on. But I ain't into kissing them or flirting its just about sex and would never consider myself gay or get into a relationship with a man so am I bi strait or just a pervo then

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Labels, meh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a difference between not being hung up about touching/being touched in the heat of the moment, and gagging on a cock that's being thrust down your throat though!

You really have no idea what 'pleasuring' means, do you? "

Obviously not! Please., by all means, enlighten me as to how 'pleasuring' means someone isn't bi if they suck cock! 'Pleasuring', in my book, means doing something that you find enjoyable, so, if a guy enjoys cock, he's bi.

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By *ubkentguyMan
over a year ago

TUNBRIDGE WELLS


"OK, I love straight men who are filthy enough to suck cock. Now I have this argument all the time with people. Bisexual is defined as being attracted to both sexes, but I like men who are totally straight but enjoy cock, whether in and of itself or whether as part of an mmf only, to please a woman.

What do you think? Can you be straight and just a perverted cock sucker? Or are you a bi man in denial?"

Bi in denial if u suck cock an enjoy it ur bi full stop

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If the guy sucks another guys cock then I think he's got bi tendencies at the least. I can't imagine a straight guy would want to. I never wanted to when I was straight, thought the idea was grim, but hey ho, nothing stays the same for ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if a str8 guy sucks a cock while having a 3some mmf he would do it to please the woman.he would be thinking about the woman as he was doing it and turned on by this.doesnt mean he is bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if a str8 guy sucks a cock while having a 3some mmf he would do it to please the woman.he would be thinking about the woman as he was doing it and turned on by this.doesnt mean he is bi."

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm straight but have been orally curious for several years now. I'm not willing to meet single men as I'm not attracted to men at all,no matter how fit they are.

For this reason I may never get to know if it's for me,or not. I doubt very much I'm alone with my dilemma on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are so obsessed with these labels. People are sexual. Everyone has a limit. Stop judging yourselves. If a woman sucks one nipple at an orgy is she bisexual? If a woman held another's breast in a group situation should the straight woman demand an apology?"

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.


"if a str8 guy sucks a cock while having a 3some mmf he would do it to please the woman.he would be thinking about the woman as he was doing it and turned on by this.doesnt mean he is bi."

Yes it does. If out lass asked me to suck a blokes cock during a threesome it would be the end of the threesome. The thought repulses me.

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.


"OK well I state on here that I'm bi coz bi curious to me means just the same as a lipstick lesbian. In life I'm a strait man but given the rite situation and looks cock an body I love a good fuck session with a man iv had 2 guys at same time been spit roasted licked them out swallowed there cum an taken it up my ass but they must be good lookin no fattys or hairys under 50 and very clean basically I want a woman with a cock It turns me on. But I ain't into kissing them or flirting its just about sex and would never consider myself gay or get into a relationship with a man so am I bi strait or just a pervo then "

So you say you're straight, then go on to list your sexual encounters with men including being spit roasted.

Erm......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First, I'm straight and have had no adult gay relationships. As a young teen I did play with a guys cock wanking him off . . I am not turned on by looking guys but I do wonder what it would be like to have a pulsing cock shoot hot cum down my throat. I would never act on this because of the STD's But if presented with the opportunity don't think I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not believe that a 5 minute sexual act in a swinging club defines and shapes your whole sexuality.

Both myself and my partner have had orally bi experiences. It has happened about twice during our 3 year swinging lifestyle and it's not something we actively seek. However in the jacuzzi where it happened it was fun, felt very filthy and taboo and that was the pull for

us rather than the actual sex act.

But in the same vein if it was absolutely abhorrent to either of us, we wouldn't consider it. But neither of us would want to be doing this regularly, we have never been attracted to a member of the same sex.

Its definitely a spur of the moment impulsive thing and I tend to describe us as sexually adventurous rather than bisexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its definitely a spur of the moment impulsive thing and I tend to describe us as sexually adventurous rather than bisexual. "

Nice expression.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The question is why define one's sexuality at all? And to whom?

IMO, it reflects people's inner 'fears' and need for acceptance, nothing wrong in that, in itself.

Personally, I'm only interested in the female form, but I do love my own (male) body, would that make me bi or gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man is 100% straight. He would never suck a man's cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally, I'm only interested in the female form, but I do love my own (male) body, would that make me bi or gay "

Nope, that's narcissism.

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By *amamanMan
over a year ago

Inverness and around. ...

I beleive that italian men who give analsex are not gay ,but those that take anal sex are !(their culture supposedly).....

Best not to label people an just get on and enjoy what you do an let others do there own thing.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do we by chance have a sexologist on the site? Might help separate the facts from the opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight men do not suck cock onnly gays and bisexuals do what a stupid topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK well I state on here that I'm bi coz bi curious to me means just the same as a lipstick lesbian. In life I'm a strait man but given the rite situation and looks cock an body I love a good fuck session with a man iv had 2 guys at same time been spit roasted licked them out swallowed there cum an taken it up my ass but they must be good lookin no fattys or hairys under 50 and very clean basically I want a woman with a cock It turns me on. But I ain't into kissing them or flirting its just about sex and would never consider myself gay or get into a relationship with a man so am I bi strait or just a pervo then

So you say you're straight, then go on to list your sexual encounters with men including being spit roasted.

Erm......"

Ummmm yeahhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then u ain't straight buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly don't think it's about attraction but the act that puts the "label" on things xx

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there

By definition, a man sucking another mans cock is a homosexual act. Homo meaning "same" ie both men.

Whether that then makes you gay or bi or whatever I don't know, call yourself whatever you like but you can't in all good conscience say you are straight.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I honestly don't think it's about attraction but the act that puts the "label" on things xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally, I'm only interested in the female form, but I do love my own (male) body, would that make me bi or gay

Nope, that's narcissism. "

...another label

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

A straight man wouldn't be sucking another mans cock.

A question....to those men who say they don't fancy a man to be able to suck them, does that mean you are any hole is a goal type person, ie it wouldn't matter who sucked you as long as you got some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 100% straight, I don't mind that label one bit.

It would seem the only people who are against labelling are those that are bi and can't accept the fact.

Guys that have bi sex "to please their woman", nah can't buy into that.

Your woman must know you have a desire to do it.

We love each other to death and because of that there's no way Trace would want me to suck or be sucked by a guy because she knows it would repulse me, even if she loved the idea, which she doesn't.

Heat of the moment, bollocks, I've had hundreds of hot moments (many MMF), not one of them gave me the urge to suck or be sucked by a guy.

And before anyone says "What about DVP in a MMF?.

Trace doesn't want it and I couldn't physically do it, tried once and to me it was too much like being wanked off by another guys cock.

As a genuinely straight guy I don't know how the hell a guy can say he's straight and suck another guys cock, let alone get a hard on while a guy sucks his.

Just the thought of sex with another guy gets my cock doing a nose dive but then again I AM straight!

Like various others have said, if you suck or get sucked by another guy, whether you fancy guys or not, your bi.......admit it and live with it ! R

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally, I'm only interested in the female form, but I do love my own (male) body, would that make me bi or gay

Nope, that's narcissism.

...another label "

Brownie points for your perceptivity

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By *udzKillerSmileMan
over a year ago

Dudley

Lmfao you cant call yourself straight if your sucking cock lol no not at all either bi/gay cant be straight and suck/touch/fuck cock never!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Straight man who sucks cock is not straight.

Have a great day."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Contradiction city....

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Some people on this thread seem to think a guy being bi,is some kind of disease.

Rather than just part of that person's sexuality.

It's a bit strange,that most of the straight guys who have given an opinion on this thread,have also found the need to reassert their straightness.

Maybe they think there's a bi guy,living under their bed,just waiting to pounce,and get their laughing gear round their knob,at the very first sign of non confirmation of their straightness,when giving an opinion,on a guy sucking cock thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people on this thread seem to think a guy being bi,is some kind of disease.

Rather than just part of that person's sexuality.

It's a bit strange,that most of the straight guys who have given an opinion on this thread,have also found the need to reassert their straightness.

Maybe they think there's a bi guy,living under their bed,just waiting to pounce,and get their laughing gear round their knob,at the very first sign of non confirmation of their straightness,when giving an opinion,on a guy sucking cock thread.

"

Not at all, I think what they're asserting is the fact that at no time does a truly straight guy think about sucking another guys cock, let alone doing it. R

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people on this thread seem to think a guy being bi,is some kind of disease.

Rather than just part of that person's sexuality.

It's a bit strange,that most of the straight guys who have given an opinion on this thread,have also found the need to reassert their straightness.

Maybe they think there's a bi guy,living under their bed,just waiting to pounce,and get their laughing gear round their knob,at the very first sign of non confirmation of their straightness,when giving an opinion,on a guy sucking cock thread.

Not at all, I think what they're asserting is the fact that at no time does a truly straight guy think about sucking another guys cock, let alone doing it. R

XX"

This.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Some people on this thread seem to think a guy being bi,is some kind of disease.

Rather than just part of that person's sexuality.

It's a bit strange,that most of the straight guys who have given an opinion on this thread,have also found the need to reassert their straightness.

Maybe they think there's a bi guy,living under their bed,just waiting to pounce,and get their laughing gear round their knob,at the very first sign of non confirmation of their straightness,when giving an opinion,on a guy sucking cock thread.

Not at all, I think what they're asserting is the fact that at no time does a truly straight guy think about sucking another guys cock, let alone doing it. R

XX

This. "

100% straight,is that not reasertion.

The op wasn't asking about your sexuality,only your opinion,on a guy sucking cocks sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people on this thread seem to think a guy being bi,is some kind of disease.

Rather than just part of that person's sexuality.

It's a bit strange,that most of the straight guys who have given an opinion on this thread,have also found the need to reassert their straightness.

Maybe they think there's a bi guy,living under their bed,just waiting to pounce,and get their laughing gear round their knob,at the very first sign of non confirmation of their straightness,when giving an opinion,on a guy sucking cock thread.

Not at all, I think what they're asserting is the fact that at no time does a truly straight guy think about sucking another guys cock, let alone doing it. R

XX

This.

100% straight,is that not reasertion.

The op wasn't asking about your sexuality,only your opinion,on a guy sucking cocks sexuality.

( )"

If you read the O.P again you'll find that what she actually said was that she liked the idea of "straight" guys sucking cocks.

She then went on to ask if guy could be straight and still enjoy sucking cocks.

So you see, the O.P wasn't just asking for opinions on "a guy" sucking a cock, it was about a "straight" guy sucking a cock.

So yes, I make no apologies, nor do I feel I should do, for asserting the fact that no 100% straight male would seriously consider sucking or being sucked by another guy.

I asserted that my opinion was that of a 100% straight male as opposed to a bi male pretending to be straight. R

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been with cuck couples where part of "his" enjoyment is cleaning up her after...and me. In fact many like to put me inside their wives.

I realise that to become part of a couple...i am the hired help. Not the main attraction. Its for them...him and her. She gets the orgasms...he gets the angst that goes with it.

So because I allow a man to clean me up...either mouth or cloths, and allow him to hold my cock as it slides into his wife, does that make me bi?

I dont go out the way to find guys, in fact never been with a guy for sex ever.

Come on guys...when we have a 3some...there is bound to be some contact between the guys...albeit accidental....are we all bi?

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By *inge61Couple
over a year ago

n/wales


" I like men who are totally straight but enjoy cock, ?

Not possible, only straight if you don't enjoy it "
well how do you know you don't enjoy it

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Accidental touching is hardly the same as letting a man suck/wank/lick your cock clean.

I don't really care if bi men want to deny they are bi, it is up to the person themselves, but trying to convince other people is a bit embarrasing.

Be proud of your sexuality, whatever that may be, as it seems to me those denying it are ashamed....being bi is nothing to be ashamed of.

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By *inge61Couple
over a year ago

n/wales


"if a str8 guy sucks a cock while having a 3some mmf he would do it to please the woman.he would be thinking about the woman as he was doing it and turned on by this.doesnt mean he is bi."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been with cuck couples where part of "his" enjoyment is cleaning up her after...and me. In fact many like to put me inside their wives.

I realise that to become part of a couple...i am the hired help. Not the main attraction. Its for them...him and her. She gets the orgasms...he gets the angst that goes with it.

So because I allow a man to clean me up...either mouth or cloths, and allow him to hold my cock as it slides into his wife, does that make me bi?

I dont go out the way to find guys, in fact never been with a guy for sex ever.

Come on guys...when we have a 3some...there is bound to be some contact between the guys...albeit accidental....are we all bi?"

This is what I meant, or a variant of it. A very honest post. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the concept of peoples sexuality falling into the three categories Heterosexual, bisexual and homosexual is a little outdated. With the myriad of kinks, power play and submissive elements and many more out there it means there are far more categories that could be put out there. The real question is why does it matter and what's to be gained by trying to compartmentalise individuals.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Some people on this thread seem to think a guy being bi,is some kind of disease.

Rather than just part of that person's sexuality.

It's a bit strange,that most of the straight guys who have given an opinion on this thread,have also found the need to reassert their straightness.

Maybe they think there's a bi guy,living under their bed,just waiting to pounce,and get their laughing gear round their knob,at the very first sign of non confirmation of their straightness,when giving an opinion,on a guy sucking cock thread.

Not at all, I think what they're asserting is the fact that at no time does a truly straight guy think about sucking another guys cock, let alone doing it. R

XX

This.

100% straight,is that not reasertion.

The op wasn't asking about your sexuality,only your opinion,on a guy sucking cocks sexuality.

( )

If you read the O.P again you'll find that what she actually said was that she liked the idea of "straight" guys sucking cocks.

She then went on to ask if guy could be straight and still enjoy sucking cocks.

So you see, the O.P wasn't just asking for opinions on "a guy" sucking a cock, it was about a "straight" guy sucking a cock.

So yes, I make no apologies, nor do I feel I should do, for asserting the fact that no 100% straight male would seriously consider sucking or being sucked by another guy.

I asserted that my opinion was that of a 100% straight male as opposed to a bi male pretending to be straight. R

XX"

100% straight,is just to much assertion of straightness.

I'm only 90% straight,and that barely leaves enough room to have a wank.

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By *inge61Couple
over a year ago

n/wales

Well any threesum if the wife just had this fantasy to see this and for a couple of seconds or however long this happened and never happens again does this make the guy bi the rest of his life or is it something we are on this site to try like women on women hubbys like to see does that make you a lesbian the rest of your life too veggies ate meat before they went that way so I don't think if you try something once to please a partner of years your bi etc here to have fun not be labled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people on this thread seem to think a guy being bi,is some kind of disease.

Rather than just part of that person's sexuality.

It's a bit strange,that most of the straight guys who have given an opinion on this thread,have also found the need to reassert their straightness.

Maybe they think there's a bi guy,living under their bed,just waiting to pounce,and get their laughing gear round their knob,at the very first sign of non confirmation of their straightness,when giving an opinion,on a guy sucking cock thread.

"

I don't think anyone is judging but just having a good debate on labels lol and how to classify for your label lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy playing with guys in a sexual situation where everyone is horny and turned on. I would class myself as a straight guy but there are so many levels to sexuality that theres more to it than that. I would never date a guy as im not attracted to guys in the same way as I am women. However on the basis of this sex site id clads myself as sexually bi.

I havent been able to play with some couples I have met on a social because I told them I played with guys. Even though the female half has been attracted to me and we would have played if I had just told them I was straight her partner wouldn't have meet with a 'bi' guy. It goes without saying that if a guy wasnt happy for bi fun it wouldnt have happened but everyone to their own.

I feel that there are too many labels put on sexuality. Communication is the key and if e everyone is happy with what happens with yes and no's followed correctly then why can't we all hae fun.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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"I enjoy playing with guys in a sexual situation where everyone is horny and turned on. I would class myself as a straight guy but there are so many levels to sexuality that theres more to it than that. I would never date a guy as im not attracted to guys in the same way as I am women. However on the basis of this sex site id clads myself as sexually bi.

I havent been able to play with some couples I have met on a social because I told them I played with guys. Even though the female half has been attracted to me and we would have played if I had just told them I was straight her partner wouldn't have meet with a 'bi' guy. It goes without saying that if a guy wasnt happy for bi fun it wouldnt have happened but everyone to their own.

I feel that there are too many labels put on sexuality. Communication is the key and if e everyone is happy with what happens with yes and no's followed correctly then why can't we all hae fun."

Good attitude... Bi playful maybe if it has to have a lable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy playing with guys in a sexual situation where everyone is horny and turned on. I would class myself as a straight guy but there are so many levels to sexuality that theres more to it than that. I would never date a guy as im not attracted to guys in the same way as I am women. However on the basis of this sex site id clads myself as sexually bi.

I havent been able to play with some couples I have met on a social because I told them I played with guys. Even though the female half has been attracted to me and we would have played if I had just told them I was straight her partner wouldn't have meet with a 'bi' guy. It goes without saying that if a guy wasnt happy for bi fun it wouldnt have happened but everyone to their own.

I feel that there are too many labels put on sexuality. Communication is the key and if e everyone is happy with what happens with yes and no's followed correctly then why can't we all hae fun.

Good attitude... Bi playful maybe if it has to have a lable."

Yeah I would completely agree with you there. Now to contact admin and change my sexualitu to bi playful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was at a club one night when two women came up to me and asked if they could lick me. I agreed. Am I bisexual?

I would say I'm not, I'm obviously not repulsed by women but I'd be uncomfortable giving, I'm ok with receiving. I'm not aroused by women. I agreed to this play because most of

the club were in that public room (it was a small club) and they were watching me lying there whilst these two women touched me, I like being watched and looked at, I'm an exhibitionist. The pull for me in this scenario were the watchers, not the two women.

There are many facets of sexuality, it rarely falls into clear cut lines of black and white.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say this is a very emotive subject. As a very open minded guy, I do class myself as bi and enjoy sex with both sexes. Hey I enjoy it either way. Live and let live and enjoy

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Some people on this thread seem to think a guy being bi,is some kind of disease.

Rather than just part of that person's sexuality.

It's a bit strange,that most of the straight guys who have given an opinion on this thread,have also found the need to reassert their straightness.

Maybe they think there's a bi guy,living under their bed,just waiting to pounce,and get their laughing gear round their knob,at the very first sign of non confirmation of their straightness,when giving an opinion,on a guy sucking cock thread.

I don't think anyone is judging but just having a good debate on labels lol and how to classify for your label lol x"

Lol

I don't think it's people judging,more some seem to be competing,for the most straight guy award.

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

I confess to not reading through all the replies to the OP, so this may have already been mentioned by someone else.

We call ourselves a bi couple.

Mrs is attracted to, and enjoys fucking women.

Mr is NOT attracted to men but worships cock and loves being fucked by men.

Under some definitions we cannot call ourselves bi as I (Mr) am no physically attracted to men.

However, for the sake of simplicity... we're bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people on this thread seem to think a guy being bi,is some kind of disease.

Rather than just part of that person's sexuality.

It's a bit strange,that most of the straight guys who have given an opinion on this thread,have also found the need to reassert their straightness.

Maybe they think there's a bi guy,living under their bed,just waiting to pounce,and get their laughing gear round their knob,at the very first sign of non confirmation of their straightness,when giving an opinion,on a guy sucking cock thread.

Not at all, I think what they're asserting is the fact that at no time does a truly straight guy think about sucking another guys cock, let alone doing it. R

XX

This. "

What they said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man on man is bi, but what about a guy who sucks his own cock ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe sexuality is a continuum with homophobia at one end and liberal pan sexuality at the other. Where individuals sit on that line is determined by nature, nurture and their past experiences, and will vary slightly at each encounter. For instance I consider myself straight and have never touched another cock, but enjoy watching guys cumming as I can directly empathise with what they're feeling at that moment and it turns me on. I can imagine a mmf threesome scenario where with the right chemistry I let another guy suck my cock and perhaps I even reciprocate. That might make me bi-curious for that encounter but overall I'd still consider myself straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe sexuality is a continuum with homophobia at one end and liberal pan sexuality at the other. Where individuals sit on that line is determined by nature, nurture and their past experiences, and will vary slightly at each encounter. For instance I consider myself straight and have never touched another cock, but enjoy watching guys cumming as I can directly empathise with what they're feeling at that moment and it turns me on. I can imagine a mmf threesome scenario where with the right chemistry I let another guy suck my cock and perhaps I even reciprocate. That might make me bi-curious for that encounter but overall I'd still consider myself straight. "

At this point in time I'd say you were spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why be labelled or pigeonholed? Labels shouldn't exist as we all have preferences and know our own limitations

Maybe because labels help us choose what we want? After all, if you wanted a tin of beans, doesn't it help having a label on the tin? That way, we don't get spaghetti instead! "

I love this quote and this is my problem when we get messages from "straight" guys. They can find us because we are labeled correctly, but we could never find them which is unfair.

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By *eterpotedMan
over a year ago

Warrington


"It's not about labels as such, I hate them too tbh. My idea of the perfect world would be the ability to enjoy all experiences without worrying about them. I love the idea that you would share bodies of people you found attractive no matter what sex or orientation. I define myself as pansexul (she says labelling it). I have sex with people I have chemistry with and who I find interesting."

Here her

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

Noting in life is as simple as it appears. I do not ever look at a man and think about his cock or what sex with him would be like. It has not happened yet but I wounder if in the heat of the moment in a mmf or moresome if a hand or mouth might stray. If that makes me bi then all those profiles that say 'no black or asian ' are racist despite their protestations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Combining two very contraversial subjects in one thread lol. Nice one

I think we should change our profile to straight and just hunt for honest bi guys because all these "fakers" are dishonest , deluded and a complete waste of time if they can't be honest with themselves there is NO hope for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If in the heat of the moment something turns you on, just bloody well enjoy it.

Fuck labels, just enjoy whatever you are doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not read through every reply but as I've read in one or 2 posts.....I'm not attracted to guys but am to cock! After being on here for a while I think it's easier to call myself bi rather than straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people on this thread seem to think a guy being bi,is some kind of disease.

Rather than just part of that person's sexuality.

It's a bit strange,that most of the straight guys who have given an opinion on this thread,have also found the need to reassert their straightness.

Maybe they think there's a bi guy,living under their bed,just waiting to pounce,and get their laughing gear round their knob,at the very first sign of non confirmation of their straightness,when giving an opinion,on a guy sucking cock thread.

I don't think anyone is judging but just having a good debate on labels lol and how to classify for your label lol x

Lol

I don't think it's people judging,more some seem to be competing,for the most straight guy award. "

And they award goes too..... No one lol because I bet at some point we've all thought about what it's like to go with the other sex because sexuality is a curious thing! X

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

Its the same with the motorist v cyclist debate. I walk, ride a push bike, drive a car, ride a motor bike and drive lorries for a living, what does that make me! I enjoy vegatarian meals but also eat meat. I like rock music but also clasical. I like a drink but due to my job seldom have one, am I a part time tea totaler or part time drinker? Labels are far too simplistic and mean very little. As for guys puffing out their chests and declaring themselves 100% straight you just have to smile at their insecurity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its the same with the motorist v cyclist debate. I walk, ride a push bike, drive a car, ride a motor bike and drive lorries for a living, what does that make me! I enjoy vegatarian meals but also eat meat. I like rock music but also clasical. I like a drink but due to my job seldom have one, am I a part time tea totaler or part time drinker? Labels are far too simplistic and mean very little. As for guys puffing out their chests and declaring themselves 100% straight you just have to smile at their insecurity. "

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

A man that sucks another mans cock ain't straight - end of! Lol

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I think this argument will continue as long as long as there is more stigma attached to being bi than there is to lying about your sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its the same with the motorist v cyclist debate. I walk, ride a push bike, drive a car, ride a motor bike and drive lorries for a living, what does that make me! I enjoy vegatarian meals but also eat meat. I like rock music but also clasical. I like a drink but due to my job seldom have one, am I a part time tea totaler or part time drinker? Labels are far too simplistic and mean very little. As for guys puffing out their chests and declaring themselves 100% straight you just have to smile at their insecurity. "

So you're a cyclist a motorist a pedestrian etc

If you play with women and with men you're bi unless of course you're insecure and can't admit it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man that sucks another mans cock ain't straight - end of! Lol "

I concur.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I personally believe a straight man would not indulge in any sexual activity with another man.

but many will come on and say it is the environment, the moment, the situation, etc etc and that is cool as that is their opinion."

^^^^^This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight men suck no man's cock ( simple ).

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Man on man is bi, but what about a guy who sucks his own cock ?"

Lonely

and lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Man on man is bi, but what about a guy who sucks his own cock ?

Lonely

and lucky "

Contortionist, LMAO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But seriously, they do not fancy men, would never kiss etc.

There is a whole porn industry around straight men fucking straight men.

Well I don't like to kiss guys (don't like stubble) but I love to suck a cock and take it too.

Apologies to the guys I did snog two weeks ago in chams: I was rather d*unk!"

Lol

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

so if all sexual contact with another guy makes u bi what about glory.hole or blind fold bj? if u don't know who face u the bj how do u know if your bi gay or straight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are at a stage in your swinging journey as a man and you are willing to suck another mans cock then I'm sorry fella's u ain't straight no more. Don't be embarrassed and just be comfortable with who you are it doesn't mean you're a raging homosexual but I def think you should change your profile to either bi or bi curious...I mean ffs guys you want to suck another mans dick..that's not straight lol

I do not agree. If, when participating in a three- or moresome (MMF, MMMF, MMFF) situation, a man is happy to include another male in the pleasuring, but does not have this inclination otherwise, then as far as I am concerned he's just a straight man who is not hung up about touching/being touched by another male. "

you suck a cock...you aint straight no matter what the situation...how hard is that to grasp?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK, I love straight men who are filthy enough to suck cock. Now I have this argument all the time with people. Bisexual is defined as being attracted to both sexes, but I like men who are totally straight but enjoy cock, whether in and of itself or whether as part of an mmf only, to please a woman.

What do you think? Can you be straight and just a perverted cock sucker? Or are you a bi man in denial?"

Couldn't be arsed to read the 173 posts - sorry - working and limited time so apologies if I repeat anyone!!

I'm listed as bi-curious. Why? Because every now and then I'll indulge in oral bi fun, either with Fox and other guys or with another couple.

Anyone who's met me will probably agree I'm as non 'camp' as they get, that people who meet me for the first time wouldn't know I'm anything but straight unless they asked - and that I don't pounce on the nearest cock at clubs, parties or straight meets.

It's a 'situationally dependant' thing with me - right people, right time, right environment. I'm happy to use the 'curious' label and it's never affected my interactions on here. Am I attracted to guys? Nope. Will ever be? Nope. Would I ever consider myself bisexual? Not really. But as I've often said - labels mean sod all to me and if people feel the need to use them - go for it.

So long as you're clear and honest with others and happy in yourself and your choices - who really gives a shit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe sexuality is a continuum with homophobia at one end and liberal pan sexuality at the other. Where individuals sit on that line is determined by nature, nurture and their past experiences, and will vary slightly at each encounter. For instance I consider myself straight and have never touched another cock, but enjoy watching guys cumming as I can directly empathise with what they're

feeling at that moment and it turns me on. I can imagine a mmf threesome scenario where with the right chemistry I let another guy suck my cock and perhaps I even reciprocate. That might make me bi-curious for that encounter but overall I'd still consider myself

straight. "

I totally agree with this. As I said before there are no clear cut answers, some people fully have relationships with both men and women, some don't.

We, as a couple, play at it. We've had a little go, seen what it's like, both of us only let others lick us, we didn't feel we could indulge any further. I guess we've got a bit of the 'bi' in us but not enough to seek a fuller experience with a member of the same sex.

In swinging I think the 'bi guy' is quite a popular concept. If a thread went up about womens fantasies, then playing with 2 bi guys is well up there as a very popular fantasy.

I myself like men who have had a bit of 'man on man' action rather than those alpha male types who think wearing a pink shirt is gay. These guys are very comfortable around other naked men and that's important when having a threesome. A guy who doesn't jump a mile if my partners hand or legs happen to brush against him is a good thing.

It's a great subject and I've pondered it myself at times. I feel to label ourselves as bisexual is not entirely accurate, but we're a bit wavy rather than completely straight.

Whatever we are, it's all good fun isnt it.

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