FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging vs nsa sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We had a lengthy conversation at our local club the other night as to the difference between swinging and seeking nsa sex .

The traditional perception of swinging involves socialising and friendship , and the possibility of partner swapping if it all goes well .

Our way is not always like that - we prefer to bypass the social and enjoy the sex .

This purpose of this post is not to judge one over the other , but to see how others prefer to play ( if at all , as some just like the social alone )

This includes everyone on fab , singles too

By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Depends on the type of meet....

Sometimes just getting straight down to sex can be great fun and very exciting. Have had a few meets where there has been little or no social chatting beforehand or after.

But in general we enjoy the social side and the sex. We like to build friendships and have repeat meets.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we love the social side just as much as the sex but when we go to a club its purley just for the sex

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do just social meets but i prefer to meet in a public place for a drink and a chat first, i do prefer to play on a first meet if we get on, i see no point meeting someone, getting on and going home to arrange a shag on another date, however i will not commit myself to shagging someone i have never met so for me its a drink and a chat then sex all on the same night if possible

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't do just social meets but i prefer to meet in a public place for a drink and a chat first, i do prefer to play on a first meet if we get on, i see no point meeting someone, getting on and going home to arrange a shag on another date, however i will not commit myself to shagging someone i have never met so for me its a drink and a chat then sex all on the same night if possible "

Same here for me

Had a couple of socials where play wasn't possible but have made future plans and have had socials where it quickly ended up in fun.