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By *d_dee OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

Don't know if its just me but have met about 5 fellas off here(2 twice or more) and all been lovely. Have been taken about 6 times (all safe) but OMG it hurts to start Then its a bit better but then I struggle to take it.

I love giving oral and was thinking about giving up anal. Got some desensitising cream, so going to give it another go.

Anyone else find it painful or is it just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It hurts until you relax and get past the 'pop' x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's important to take it slow at first. Make sure there's lots of foreplay and that you're really turned on - it does help.

Start with a finger, then two, then three - it just doesn't happen the way they do it in porn. Most importantly; lube, and lots of it, and as already mentioned, if you're not relaxed, you won't enjoy it.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

You can't just ram it in without it smarting a little bit. Maybe 'train up' on butt plugs, or use as much lube as possible. Bearing down at the moment of entry also helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy a buttplug, I have the smallest one, it's black and a rubber material, perfect for preparing the anal to relax. Put it in before foreplay and don't forget a lot of lube;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might be getting chafing from the condoms. I had that from one man who was frugal with lube. I've always wondered if anal feels different to men than women as we have another cavity next to the rectum and sensitive tissue in between

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lube, lube and more lube. Even after a dozen times, still lube. Lube is a gurls best friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You might be getting chafing from the condoms. I had that from one man who was frugal with lube. I've always wondered if anal feels different to men than women as we have another cavity next to the rectum and sensitive tissue in between"

Yes thats what I been thinking to

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Don't know if its just me but have met about 5 fellas off here(2 twice or more) and all been lovely. Have been taken about 6 times (all safe) but OMG it hurts to start Then its a bit better but then I struggle to take it.

I love giving oral and was thinking about giving up anal. Got some desensitising cream, so going to give it another go.

Anyone else find it painful or is it just me "

if it hurts and you struggle to take it with a bit in the middle that is a bit better I think going with the oral option is best, if you are thinking about desentisising cream for something you're supposed to be enjoying is it really worth it? I sort of understand that it is the idea that's exciting but you've given it a good go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely need to be turned on and nicely relaxed, lots of lube too. If you are tense (and possible expecting it to be painful?) it will never be a good experience.

Plenty of other fun to be had so don't stress it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You might be getting chafing from the condoms. I had that from one man who was frugal with lube. I've always wondered if anal feels different to men than women as we have another cavity next to the rectum and sensitive tissue in between

Yes thats what I been thinking to"

will we ever know?

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By *d_dee OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

Thanks all, thinking it maybe different for the ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It hurts until you relax and get past the 'pop' x"

Reminded me of the pringle advert!

Once you pop, you can't stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all, thinking it maybe different for the ladies. "

it does differ at different times and with different size, shape cocks. Some slip in with no hint of pain. Maybe its the angle of the cock? Where exactly is the pain? It can hurt in different places for me

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"It hurts until you relax and get past the 'pop' x

Reminded me of the pringle advert!

Once you pop, you can't stop "

It is true though. Once you're past the helmet, the rest is easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just relax . It hurts at first but when you relax and accept it then it doesnt hurt .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It hurts until you relax and get past the 'pop' x

Reminded me of the pringle advert!

Once you pop, you can't stop

It is true though. Once you're past the helmet, the rest is easy. "

Didn't realise we were talking headwear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just relax . It hurts at first but when you relax and accept it then it doesnt hurt . "

Unless you have piles

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By *d_dee OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire


"Thanks all, thinking it maybe different for the ladies.

it does differ at different times and with different size, shape cocks. Some slip in with no hint of pain. Maybe its the angle of the cock? Where exactly is the pain? It can hurt in different places for me "

If someone knows what they are doing they don't try and push it straight in they do it in little strokes. It only hurts my in the entrance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a bit of an expert at recieving. the best advice i can give you is to practise alone. a lot! also some lubes are a lot better than others. i find ky to thin for prolonged anal (i like to be fisted and plugged wide-call me a size queen!) and ky also feels like its burning a little (which can be nice). look for anal specific lubes. gay sites have great tips and recomendations.

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