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By *uy4couples OP   Man
over a year ago

south kent

If you are a couple and you have arranged a meet would you expect the person, or couple your meeting to keep in touch with you, or would you keep in touch with them daily or every other day until the meet.

Or would you organize it on say a Monday for the following Saturday night

and then not make contact till the day or just assume they will remember and turn up.?

Or if you was a single guy, or maybe 2 guys doing a duo, lol,

meeting a couple etc, would you keep in touch with the couple? or would you expect the couple to keep in touch with the guy or guys,?

just to confirm your still interested and arrangements are still ok ?

would love to hear what others think,

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Most of our meets are arranged in advance (2+ weeks) Once the details have been finalised, we won't usually contact them until a few days before to check that things are still on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I only meet people I feel comfortable with we would normally be chatting fairly regularly anyway. I wouldn't meet with someone who doesn't like that regular contact.....I don't mean reams of messages or anything just enough to keep the interest there plus it adds to the build up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to keep in touch as I find the build up to a meet exciting,If I don't hear anything I would assume nothings happening and interest had died off,id send message a couple of days before the meet to see if it was still on,making an arrangment and then not being in contact until the day of the meet does'nt sit comfortably with me

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By *unwithus2.Couple
over a year ago

south kent

If we was meeting a Guy or Guys

We would expect them (the guys) to keep in touch with us to make sure they are interested leading up to the meet.

After all we are the couples inviting a guy or guys into our private life's and if they are really interested in meeting they would keep in touch with the couple

that's our a pinon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i'm not a couple or a single guy but if I arranged a meet I wouldn't want daily contact till the meet, there's really no need, if I arranged a meet on the Monday for Friday I would mail them Thursday night to comfirm it was still on, if I got the odd message off them through the week that would be ok but if they mailed me daily, several times a day that would pee me off to be honest and make me think twice about meeting them

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Most of our meets are arranged in advance (2+ weeks) Once the details have been finalised, we won't usually contact them until a few days before to check that things are still on.

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Should add that we have usually been chatting with them for quite a while before hand.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"well i'm not a couple or a single guy but if I arranged a meet I wouldn't want daily contact till the meet, there's really no need, if I arranged a meet on the Monday for Friday I would mail them Thursday night to comfirm it was still on, if I got the odd message off them through the week that would be ok but if they mailed me daily, several times a day that would pee me off to be honest and make me think twice about meeting them"

This

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land


"well i'm not a couple or a single guy but if I arranged a meet I wouldn't want daily contact till the meet, there's really no need, if I arranged a meet on the Monday for Friday I would mail them Thursday night to comfirm it was still on, if I got the odd message off them through the week that would be ok but if they mailed me daily, several times a day that would pee me off to be honest and make me think twice about meeting them"

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By *ndy_mandyCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

We normally text them a couple of days prior to the actual meet however with some couples we have text each other every day just having a conversation.

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By *unwithus2.Couple
over a year ago

south kent

If you ever come across two guys from folketone doing a duo pass them by as they are both time wasters

Arrangements made and moved things aboutto suit the meet.

Then bosh they decline the meet thats arranged

Undoing pre arranged meets is difficult so how do you explain that to baby sitters etc ?

I would advise keep away from them if you need to know more about them pm me if you want to know more

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