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Why does he lock the door?

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By *D40 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

When me & my partner play in the club he always locks the door so nobody else comes in. We struggled to find a room Sunday & I suggested the couples room but he dismissed it & we finally found one. It's not that he's shy cos an hour earlier he'd had a blow job off a woman in the jacuzzi

Any thoughts?

Julie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does he let you play with guys? Perhaps its a sharing issue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps he just wanted some alone time. We sometimes have a public play and go to a private room for some time alone where I can throw her about and reward her for being a good girl. We lock the door as people wandering in can ruin the mood.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Does he let you play with guys? Perhaps its a sharing issue!"

Like a small boy with toys.

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By *D40 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Does he let you play with guys? Perhaps its a sharing issue!"

I have played on meets but never same room, yet to play in club. He wants me too, just not happened yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try a different club or even meet a few select couples or singles for a social first. I get a few guys who like watching me pleasure their partners then join in

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Ask him, it shouldnt be a problem, hope you get the truth

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

The best person to ask would be your partner....

Maybe he just wanted some time with you alone.

Maybe he wasn't comfortable with some of the people that were around.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Have you asked him? Did you think we could read his mind in this thread?

Have you asked him yourself?

Oh did i mention...... "Have you asked him?"

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Have you asked him? Did you think we could read his mind in this thread?

Have you asked him yourself?

Oh did i mention...... "Have you asked him?"

"

Could you repeat that please? I didn't quite get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask him it may be as simple as him having his valuables with him and can't keep an eye on them while playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he gets to play in a club (ie get a bj in the hot tub) but you dont?

strange...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry guys im missing the point...can u make it a little clearer cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prize for the most pointless thread......

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By *D40 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

You misunderstand. I wondered if it was just that he wanted the intimacy we share at home.

Venus, i don't need permission to play it just didn't/hasn't happened for me yet. And in all fairness the thought of him getting a BJ in the jacuzzi has been getting my rocks off since we went.

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By *D40 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Have you asked him? Did you think we could read his mind in this thread?

Have you asked him yourself?

Oh did i mention...... "Have you asked him?"

"

Maybe i should ask him?

I did and he does it with every woman he plays with...not just me! Maybe he's shy pmsl

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By *D40 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Prize for the most pointless thread...... "

Thanks, that's a great encouragement for a newbie who hasn't got much idea apart from the fact that swingers get to fuck a lot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He seems to want his cake and est it he gets bj off another yet wants u to himself. Why not ask him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We often lock a room... just because we want some time just us...

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By *D40 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"He seems to want his cake and est it he gets bj off another yet wants u to himself. Why not ask him?"

No i asked apparently whichever lady he takes in a room he locks the door, he doesn't want others in there.

And i never once said he wanted me not to enjoy myself, just that i hadn't had fun with anyone else that night. The last thing my OH is is selfish either sexually or any other way

Julie

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By *D40 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"We often lock a room... just because we want some time just us...

"

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prize for the most pointless thread......

Thanks, that's a great encouragement for a newbie who hasn't got much idea apart from the fact that swingers get to fuck a lot!"

Well I didn't understand why you don't just ask him....he would know? Not us.....and it was meant in a jokey way.....hence the big grin......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prize for the most pointless thread......

Thanks, that's a great encouragement for a newbie who hasn't got much idea apart from the fact that swingers get to fuck a lot!

Well I didn't understand why you don't just ask him....he would know? Not us.....and it was meant in a jokey way.....hence the big grin...... "

Sounds to me like you shouldn't have let him cum earlier. Sharing your wife with strangers can be less appealing once you've shot your bolt.

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

Oh did anyone forget to say this - ask him!!

Oh yes it has already been said. I don't know about the rest of you but I retired from reading strangers' minds a long time ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You misunderstand. I wondered if it was just that he wanted the intimacy we share at home.

Venus, i don't need permission to play it just didn't/hasn't happened for me yet. And in all fairness the thought of him getting a BJ in the jacuzzi has been getting my rocks off since we went.

"

sorry, yes, misunderstood.

reading your post i got from it that he enjoyed himself, then when it came to you wanting a bit, he locked you both away in a room.

now its a little clearer.

who knows why he does it.

maybe he doesnt want to share whoever he is playing with at that particular time.

we have spoken to a couple on here who meet couples, but the guy doesnt like being naked with other men, so things aret always straight froward lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He seems to want his cake and est it he gets bj off another yet wants u to himself. Why not ask him?

No i asked apparently whichever lady he takes in a room he locks the door, he doesn't want others in there.

And i never once said he wanted me not to enjoy myself, just that i hadn't had fun with anyone else that night. The last thing my OH is is selfish either sexually or any other way

Julie "

Confused now you say you asked him so what was point of original post am i missing something

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